Hmmmmm cant think of any,unless i have to cook up one...lol
Thursday, March 26, 2020
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I don't have any regret in life. I keep my past behind me face the future squarely and keep it moving.
ReplyDeleteEven when you were dumped? 😜
DeleteI had this Muslim guy that wanted to marry me while I was younger, but I refused thinking he was gonna marry more wives after me and all those other stereotype.
DeleteBut see my life now, the Christian guy I married, smokes, drinks, womanizer and keeps late night, hardly goes to church, disrespects me at will, see us after 5 years still in studio room, while the malo guy I ditched treats his wife like egg, she had all her kids abroad and she's still his only wife till date, has a shopping plaza here in abj town, while we live inside village.. I messed up for real!
Not putting myself first.
DeleteJust the post I need right now
DeleteMy chest has been hurting since morning. I stalked my ex and I've not been the same ever since.
We had very beautiful dreams together, we were so compatible but my village people never wanted me to be happy in life.
I left him for a joker (Jazz is real my people) My eyes cleared immediately after the exchange of vows and I was wondering what I was doing with someone I never wanted to have anything to do with.
I cried throughout my supposed honeymoon
Now,I'm depressed and bitter
God bless you B for all the beautiful memories you gave me, keep doing great things
I wonder when this hurt and pain will go away
Anon 18:52 were you the Dumper ? 😏
DeleteRead through all the comments and jeez may God heal women's hearts.
DeleteWhat is happening, na women full this post ooooo. Men una wickedt ooooo. Please let go and forgive biko.
Kaaaiiiiiii 🤔😳😒😱
I wonder how guys with battery sized dicks feel when they read how you girls feel about having sex with them
DeleteAnon 20.03 why didn't you walk away
DeleteNone! I was their biggest regret. 😎
ReplyDeleteYinmu 😏, we know una type 😎🙄😜
Delete@22:14
DeleteWho are the "we?" Winch?
Hmmm...time turned hands itself 😊😊😊
ReplyDeleteI regret meeting E****. Tall, rich, handsome dude with battery sized dick. Scream for me mama, yeah, say my name. Wasn't even feeling the thing inside me he was just busy bruising me as he was pounding hard for nothing. Mtcheeew.
ReplyDeleteF******. Very cute guy, though not rich. This guy could fuck and kiss, you must cum. Unfortunately, the guy left me for an ugly babe. I cried ehn. Womanizer Oshi. World's biggest cheat.
Anon o 😁 😁
DeleteForgive me, I know I'm not supposed to laugh, but girl! What? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteYou see your life??? He has battery size dick which you couldn’t feel yet you cried over same battery sized dick. The ugly girl he left you for worshipped him like that.
DeleteAnon 18:50, I think she is talking of 2 different guys.
DeleteMumu anon 18:50, read and digest. Abi are you E****? Buzu.
DeleteAnonymous 18:50, please go back and read what anonymous 18:08 posted👆👆👆
Delete18.50, calm down and read her narrative again. Slowly.
DeleteAnon 18.08, - I had same experience with an Emeka. Wonder if same guy? Battery size sumps it well. Was shocking cos he is so tall, slender and well built. Really a disappointment!
Delete😂, somborri has a battery sized D
DeleteAnonymous 18:08, thank you for making my day. I don laff taya 😂😂😂😂😂
DeleteI try not to regret about things i have done.... rather i learn from it and move on
ReplyDeleteWe are together.
DeleteI dey tell you
Deleteadding my hard earn money (my savings) to his own to achieve his dream, I was tricked and got dumped.
ReplyDeleteit's all in the past now.
that must have hurt, just see it as giving back to society
DeleteWe plenty for that group. It is well with us. That’s why till date, some girls never do that but l will always offer help to the one l love if l can and when l can. They leave, they leave. It’s all good. I will not offer help for them to be stuck on me like glue. I help so they can stand on their feet and make something of themself.
Delete20:05 you are doing well 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Delete@anon 20:05.. you’re an angel
DeletePlenty regrets don't know where to start from
ReplyDeleteThey were d raw materials to my next level
ReplyDeleteI hope you are also raw material for someone's next level.
DeleteLet me go Anonymous..
ReplyDeleteHe was so caring and respected me because I said no when he asked we start dating... He still was caring and genuinely wanted to assist me in achieving some things... The care was so much I couldn't help but fall in Love.. like I literally fell for this man.. But I couldn't bring myself to sleep with him because he's married.. Along the line, he was already into me too but my constant NO to his advances was frustrating him.. How can you be so close to someone you like yet nothing was happening.. The attraction was mad but I couldn't bring myself to sleep with someone's husband..
Eventually, the relationship went south, I lost a friend, the love was lost too but he still assisted in something major..
My regret: i shouldn't have allowed the feelings get in the way of the friendship we had.. He respected me more when I said No and honestly having him as a friend would ve helped me in several ways.. Emotions ruined everything..
You know you don't have to announce that you're going anonymous, makes me jump and pass such gist..
DeleteYou are a stupid lady. You had an emotional affair with a married man and you think you are virtuous because you did not fuck??? Hmm
DeleteHand Sanitizer, but you still read it 😷
DeleteAnon 20:08...Stop being rude.. She shared her experience stop showing your low life by being insultive..Cant you people do constructive comments without showing your gheto lifestyles here. Tuueehhh
DeleteHa ha ha, we don get hand sanitizer for this blog 😂😂😂😂
DeleteHaving an abortion for him. Wished i was bold then to keep the pregnancy.
ReplyDeleteDon't have none...
ReplyDeleteSometimes I regret not being open to dating in the past, I always shied away from the opposite sex... now I feel like if God doesn't drop someone for me in my bedroom, I might never get married. Oh well.
This feels so familiar.
DeleteFor me though,the hard part is how do I start this dating thing🤗.
You should get down on your knees and thank GOD!!! He saved from fornication, STIs, heartbreak, abuse and all manner of emotional and maybe physical torture. Pray for the right person and God will make a way when he is ready.
DeleteLiving my life with no regrets...I get past my mistakes,errors and keep it moving sharply! No time to dwell on what's not
ReplyDeleteShoulda let her keep the baby then...he/she woulda been 19 now...probably in 300 level together with my nephew
ReplyDeleteYou be agbaya in a boys body smh.
DeleteOniraanu, igbayi laaro 😏😏😏
DeleteAsk GOD for forgiveness and keep it moving
DeleteAs you were not ready to be a father , you have been a crappy one a and maybe brought up a resentful and angry adult that may be hiving headache today
Looking back
ReplyDeleteI don't have any regrets ,cos everything happens for a reason and sometimes what might seem painful or regretful is actually a blessing in disguise.
I experienced a shocking breakup sometime ago it felt like my world was crumbling right before my eyes ,
I ran into that same person recently and wow I was grateful to God that I dodged a weapon of destruction, dude was telling me about his sexcapades and stuff he's done and doing in the name of adventure .
So well I've no regret.
Ehya!!! A whole manipulative gaslighter like you? It is well.
DeleteYou are stupid for calling her a gaslighter without even knowing her.
DeleteKisses to you darling anon
DeleteWishing you quick recovery 😘😘😘😘
Gods speed
🔦 What is going on here? 😷
DeleteNigerians are the most insensitive people on earth. Someone going through a hard time shares their story in a post on a blog without going Anonymous and you still deem fit to insult that person.
DeleteWhat has happened to our youths, when did the human race become uncaring and manipulative?
Wishing you all the best Chocolate Noir, keep you head high, be focused and it shall be well with you 😘🤗.
I will read comments.
ReplyDeleteNot double dating/ putting all my egg in one basket. I guess I wouldn't be in so much pain right now.
ReplyDeleteMy first boyfriend in university. I wish I had never met him. I wish I had not gone 'behind flat' that night. I wish I had done better to shrug off his advances.
ReplyDeleteI can't even begin to talk about what that relationship cost me. That's the one relationship I will regret for the rest of my life.
it must have been really bad, may such regrets be far from us
DeleteAwwww
DeletePlenty demons dey that 'behind flat'.
Delete@Eka Joy ,UNN?
DeleteNo regrets only lessons. For me every part of the past, good or bad is necessary for the future.
ReplyDeleteShouldn't have given him my body at such a young age. Thought I was in love. Stupid me! But oh well, I take solace whenever I see my baby boy. He's quite cute and very intelligent. I see him, and I smile.
ReplyDeleteyou have a child?? Don't I just love you more? It is well with you and yours
Delete🤗🤗🤗
Deleteaww it's all good thank God you kept it
DeleteThank you 💕💕💕
Delete🤗🤗🤗 life happens sometimes.
Delete🤗🤗😘😘 I greatly respect your decision to keep your baby...
DeleteYou just earned my respect for keeping the baby at a young age. But erm, he gave you his body too. It takes two to tango.
DeleteI loved him,i loved the idea that he fancied me, he wasn't what I wanted spiritually
ReplyDeleteHe feels going to church doesn't matter, he doesn't see anything wrong with premarital sex. it's not Fornication,its just having fun. When I didn't agree, he began to force himself on me, he'll continue rubbing his private on mine till he cums and he felt it was OK.
We would talk about it, initially he would be sorry along the line it became a norm. he didn't even see it as rape,or maybe it's not I guess.
I would struggle, cry, beg, insult, yet it didn't matter.He must just have his way. according to him, I owed him my body.
I know I needed to leave, I didn't know how, one day he did it again, and he said I'm different, looser than before, am sleeping around.
I told him I don't know when it happened,it was him, besides I no longer see myself as a virgin with all this happening. But he insisted I was sleeping with men for money. if I wasn't sleeping with you my boyfriend would it be someone else?
I cried my eyes out, when I wanted to leave,as it was getting late, he grabbed me again and had his way, I died and woke up, he was just there.. don't know what was going through his mind.
Guess what, I was still willing to go on. I couldn't pray anymore read my Bible but I was worried about him. well,he ended things with me, I feel so useless.Not because he dumped me, maybe but also for everything I lost.
If I could go back in time, we would be friends first before dating properly,or not date him at all.
I would walk out, the very first time he forced himself on me. And I would strengthen my relationship with God. I hate myself.
He is a manipulative narcissist and you were really naive. Nobody fit play that manipulation card for me again I don wise up!
DeleteYou are all you've got, while you are busy hating yourself, he has moved on. If you are a Christian and have sincerely confessed to God, he has forgiven you long time. Don't do this to yourself, don't rape yourself by yourself all over again. It will be hard, but if you do not forgive and love yourself, who will? Cheers!!
DeleteDo not hate yourself dear. God's love for you is unconditional. He loves you no matter what. He cares deeply for you. You have not lost it all because He will still turn things around for you. He will make a message from your mess.
DeleteYou will still fufil that great calling he has placed on you. God loves you sister ❤❤.
Draw strength from His presence. Go to God. I will also mention you in my prayers tonight. Hugs to you.
Thank you all, I'm trying to stay strong. I know I can, I should and I will by God's grace
DeleteI agree with Leo and Foodie.
DeleteI will only add that you make sure you learn your lesson, so as not to repeat your mistake. Also work on your self esteem which has taken a hit and see yourself through God's eyes.
I married early. Should have dated more and never worry about body counts. Well, in all of it, I give God praise
ReplyDeleteThat i ever dated my best friend,i never do this right from time,then i made the mistake when i was suppose to be wiser...above all,i overly compromised my self for my past relationships,plus i lost my virginity in my mid 20z after i had held on for soooo long(not like I rememeber or planned to though)...and i wasn’t even sure if it was all for love.
ReplyDeleteI am in a good place now.#Healing to all the people that are broken hearted at the moment#Stay safe#Pertake in all measures against corona virus,cept the stupid ones#cheers.
H to the L=H.L
I should never have married my husband,world biggest liar,cheater,pretender,manipulative and I feeling was charmed into marrying him.When I look at him I wonder how I agreed to marry such a person amongst all the suitors I had.
ReplyDeleteFunny how most of the comments are about guys they dated.
ReplyDeleteSame thng with me. I wish I just focused on my books and left him as a friend. My results would have been better and I would have been at a better place professionally by now.
I'm thankful to God that we never slept together though. Would have had more regrets.
Honestly I regret not leaving my current work training to follow the very first man that wanted to marry me, I never refused but only asked him to wait for me to finish training cause I didn't want to miss out on the job, I honestly regret it. The guy refused to wait Sha. Honestly I regret marrying my current husband who seems like he won't rest until he kills himself. I am tired of fighting for a man that don't care about his family but keeps fighting diabolical people for property that he can let go. Putting my life and my kids lives in danger. I know what my eyes has seen in this family. I have told him I will leave him if he doesn't get his act together. He has faced about two almost death experiences. Yet keeps falling headlong into property issues with people that are ready to kill. I have told him, I will leave!!! I can't be praying all my life for battles that can be avoided.i keep asking myself why I didn't abandon this job and marry the very first man who knows I would have known peace. I just marry this one that doesn't want to give himself peace, he has his own properties which is enough. Which kind thing.
ReplyDeleteIs your name Tina, if it is u never sabi the wahala una enter. Your husband has done wicked, he has made innocent people cry, put sorrow in hearts, broken 2 of his paternal brothers homes. Goes around putting heads together and has destroyed the family.
DeleteYou know all the pain your husband has afflicted on people so don't be tired because you will reap all uve sowed by Gods grace.
How sure are you it would have been all roses with the other guy?
DeleteMy marriage!!!
ReplyDeleteI married the wrong guy just looking for my way out after 2kids @27...
So worried abt my kids.
Had a relationship with someone . He was my live in lover. I had a more comfirtable life. And used to give him money every time for his transport. Along the line I got pregnant for him. He was so excited and even named the unborn child. But I saw his 000 financial state and aborted the pregnancy before telling him.
ReplyDeleteHe was devastated. He packed his things and moved out of my house. Several years later he became a big boy.
He is presently a Minister with Nigerian govt. We hardly talk though, but anytime we run into each other, he will say I killed his son. I am not doing badly in life though but no child of my own. It hurts me when I remember the abortion.
Auuch this hurts...
DeleteI felt it in my chest..
It is well babe..
Chizzy J.
It us well with you. I am also on this table. Had three. Wish l never did.
DeleteThis life sha. Some people are destiny hoarders I bet if he was still with you he wouldn't have gone that far please don't get me wrong I'm not saying you are badluck.
DeleteNo regrets though, life it's all about lessons
ReplyDeleteAt first I didn't like him then I fell madly in love with him worst still,he is a Crack addict no domestic violence but boy! The emotional torture. Not to mention how he chats a lot of girls on fb, he'd edit my messages and send to one Anu girl mstchewww.
ReplyDeleteAll the exes I went out with due to low self esteem. Thank God for celibacy. 17 years and counting.
ReplyDelete17yrs of no sex? 😲
DeleteMadam this one no good o
I pirry* people around you😢
Don't you know sex relaxes you?
17kini? 🚀🚀🚀
Please ignore the blatant ignorance of anon 22:45
DeleteI have made mistakes in the past that I regret but I have made peace with it but this one is too recent.
ReplyDeleteI didn't want to comment on this post but I regret dropping my guard down for someone I thought loved me. He didn't even touch me and yet he broke my heart in a million pieces. For a long time I was facing my battles alone and he came and I told him my pain, my deepest fears as he told me his. I truly thought he was the one and then he left ....without a word.
I have never felt so disrespected and ashamed that me of all people fell so hard...the one with the heart of stone melted into clay all because of him.
I wish I could wipe away the memories of our deep talks and laughs. I no longer have his pics but I still see him in my head...I still miss him so much and I still love him.
My one regret was not ever seeing him...cos I would have kicked his ass.
Anyways ...J*******, I forgive you.
Big hug
DeleteIm nt realy d dating tyge bt wished my love life was great.
ReplyDeleteNot the dating type? Meaning you meet guys, you bang each other and you move on?
DeleteI regret meeting my ex.He's d reason am still single today.Dated him blindly for years.It ws as if i ws stuck to him.welll i thank God for everything.Am free now
ReplyDeleteI met T 2017,fell in love with him and was trying to honest to the point of me being open about everything, including finances and all with him, and then boom he started using them against me oooooo. Every time my rich baby 🙄 to the point that I will help him out with my money, getting them back would become an issue. I have learned but never regret all the help and assistance that turned against me.😚
ReplyDeleteLife is a teacher. I take wrong turns as learning roads/curves, never to run into such hurdles again.
ReplyDeleteNo regrets, none atall.
ReplyDeleteHmmmm,fell inlove with this guy,gave him myself,biggest mistake,got pregnant,now on my way to be a single mum,kai,this guy broke me into pieces
ReplyDeleteGod will restore you and cause you to rejoice in Jesus name.
DeleteSending you lots of love n strength
DeleteMarrying the man I call husband,no affection,no care,he even said he's waiting for his obituary not mine,God please forgive me for this mistake and show me you are God,cause he mocks me that therest no proof of my service to you, please remember me Lord.
ReplyDeleteTeee
May God remember you,show you mercy and cause you to celebrate in Jesus name. If leaving is required please do.
DeleteReading comments.
ReplyDeleteDid not assume pregnancy that I still regret till tomorrow
ReplyDeleteI don't believe you guys.
ReplyDeleteMy first real love. Let me call him D. I loved him with every fiber in me. Unfortunately he was from Cross River while I'm Yoruba and my parents refused. This eventually broke us up. We still talk almost everyday, we're in relationship with other people but we tell eachoeach our actions before anyother person. He's more or less like my best friend though I miss our mind blowing sex. D....if only....
ReplyDeleteI'd fight for our love if I were you. If the only reason my parents will not let me be with the man that makes me happy is because of tribalism, I'd marry him without their blessings.
DeleteCan you please explain?
ReplyDeleteI regret dating an army officer. Though the situationship opened my eyes to certain things. He was the first guy I would genuinely love cos I find it hard to fall in love. I met him during NYSC. I was naive though 24years. Omo after NYSC, this guy asked me to come visit him in the North. I was staying with my parents in Abeokuta, I planned my lies for two days and I lied to my whole family members,risked my life and traveled to the North! I have never done this and whenever I think about it, I cry and thank God. I went only for him to wanna sleep with me. I suffered but he didn't have his way. I came back home and he immediately broke up with me. I know most army officers are fuck boys but he seemed different. Thank God I didn't lose my virginity to him cos two days later, his real gf went to him and gave him. OK I know u are curious to know how I doscoverd his gf but its another long story. I got played mehn!
ReplyDeleteWhen you were leaving abeokuta for north what was on your mind? Prayer sessions? Joncers!
DeleteAnon 5:40, biko help me ask her.
DeleteI shouldn't have dated my ex, that's my regret.
ReplyDeleteI dated a colleague of mine,when I was 26years,he loved me wholeheartedly but I was stubborn I had so many guys on case,so submitting to him was an issue. This guy is tall,handsome,engineer,first son of one Oba in one of the Yoruba states. Did I mentioned that I left him him along the line,when I realized my stupidity he was living with a lady and he eventually married her. I am still single at 41.i have cried my eyes out of the socket but,it is well.
ReplyDeleteSeems every women made mistake with their men. The grass is always greener out there. My advice! Pick up your man, pray for him and polish him to what you want. Or just leave him and move on rather than living a life of regrets
ReplyDeleteI wish I utilised so many lost opportunities, i'd have been a multi millionaire. But it's not late. I'll be 30 in a few and I plan to make the rest of my life, the best of my life.
ReplyDeleteI give it you Castle Windsor👌🏾😘, it's like every woman on this blog has attached their success to men. What is happening in the world? The only thing ladies have had to talk about on this post is heartbreak.
DeleteFeels good to read something different and find a determined and sensible person.
No disrespect to all bv's but don't make men dictate your life or happiness, do something good with your lives, build a career and stay positive.
Love you Castle Windsor 👌🏾
Anon 9:31, everything must not be a gender war. Stop fanning unnecessary gender sentiments here. Don't you people get tired?
DeleteStella asked people to share their regrets and that's exactly what they are doing.
Allow people to express themselves freely, without bringing this gender prejudice
I regret not having a threesome before getting married.
ReplyDeleteI told my hubby lets try, he had a good laf, so i have let go.
Its crap rubbish decorated by the devil to seem exotic
DeleteI regret breaking up with my girl she was the best i've ever had.I miss her every single day and pray she comes back.Guys don't take true love for granted
ReplyDelete3 years down the line with hubby,he is just telling me he has a daughter he never mentioned to me ,i thought we were honest and open with each other ,because she will be getting married soon that was why it had to come up,he apologised ,didn't fuss about the news wish i did because he went a step to further disrespect me and didn't bother to inform me she will be visiting with her fiance,until few hours before they showed up he claimed he was just told a day before the visit (lied) i saw the message she sent ,he had like 4 days,i just waited to see how long it will take him to let me know so i stayed calm,i fixed up stuff entertained them ,gave her a gift ,hubby was shocked beyond words ,they want label me wicked step mum abi ,well i will serve him a juicy and spicy one in future ,i will marry my former boo,always fantasize about it why cant a woman have 2 husbands??
ReplyDeleteGather yourself
DeleteGive him a piece of your mind
Never make threats/promises you will not see through
Lay down the law
Men push boundaries with women by trying their luck
Give him Federal warning
I wish i never got pregnant at 20, i wish i never married him, me and this man is what is God world apart, is it him being comfortable in poverty, I wish i further my education, I wish i learnt a tread, I just wished I closed my legs, how can i get my life together at almost 26, I plan to go away with my kids but I have no money,the thought of taking my life is becoming too much this days because I can't see the future anymore, people say it will get better but i don't see it, will God accept my soul? look at what i did to myself, God have mercy on me, am just worried about my kids, who will take care of them two, God, pls take me out of this turmoil because i can't take it anymore, i just wish i can just write my WAEC then get something doing then maybe my life will have little light ahead,pls if you are still single close your legs and achieve your dreams and wait on God to bless you with a good man to avoid regretting your life just like I've been regretting for the pass 6yrs, I don't know how long i can go on, there is no light at the end my tunnel again, my future is black, my once brilliant and bright self has given up on life.
ReplyDelete