Aplang fled the God’s Glory Ministry, Jos, venue of the wedding, when it was time to take the wedding vow on Saturday.
According to NAN, his action threw family members, friends, colleagues and associates into wild confusion.
Aplang, was quoted allegedly to have said before walking out of the Church that he had planned 10 years ago to disgrace his supposed bride on their wedding day.
An eyewitness, Miss Julian Dogo, told the News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) on Sunday in Jos, that the fleeing groom gave shocking answers to the pastor while he was taking his marital vows.
“Aplang was asked on the altar by the pastor, do you take Judith as your wife for batter for worse? Then he replied with a No.
“The pastor put the same question to him, and he replied, ‘Pastor, I heard you clearly, and understand English very well and my answer is still No’
“Then the pastor said to him, but you are well dressed and came ready for this wedding, and he replied, ‘sorry, I made up my mind 10 years ago to disgrace her on our wedding day’
“As soon as he said that, he walked out of the church, and was followed by his best man and his friends who drove out of the church premises,”Dogo told NAN
However Judith, the supposed bride, collapsed inside the church and was taken to an disclosed hospital around Plateau State Polytechnic in Jos
Speaking to NAN, Mr. Peter Sani, best man to Aplang, described it as very “embarrassing”.
He attributed his friend’s behaviour to some sort of diabolism, adding that the action was not ordinary.
“Aplang is my childhood friend, Judith has been a friend and sister too, and he dated her for over 12 years.
“I was in the church to serve as a best man, and also as a fulfilled man to witness their wedding, but I was shocked and highly disappointed with what happened in the church today,” he said.
“This is not ordinary; Aplang will always confide in me on any issue, if he had the plan to walk out on the altar he would have told me.
“What happened today is unimaginable, I came out of the church weeping profusely,” he added.
from dailypost.
this man is a devils incarnate....so he planned this for ten years?let me read it again to see if i missed anything!!!
Heartless man in human form.
ReplyDeleteTufia kwa!
In a sane society, she can sue. If she talks to a good lawyer, they will guide her well.
DeleteHe should be arrested
Delete@Saphire
DeleteSue him for exercising his freedom of association?
No @13:00,sir him for constructive damage
DeleteSue*
Delete13:00, he can be sued for breach of promise to marry
DeleteWhat this man did can be likened to what some bvs here have confessed to doing,secretly.Wasnt it on this blog that a woman confessed to using her menstrual blood to cook for her hubby, wasn't it here dat a girl used the water she used in washing her vagina to cook for her boyfriend???...are these things not witchcraft???..believe me,what this guy did is NOTHING compared to the things I've read on the anonymous post on this blog This lady won't have fallen for this trick if she had been in tuned with the Holy Spirit.There's no way dat she won't have known dat the guy wasn't serious with her.This lady should console herself with the fact that the guy didn't use juju on her,like most ladies would.
DeleteStella,post.
a ni so ri bu ooooooo
ReplyDeletethis is not ordinary
No one can force him to marry her though. The most that would happen is he will be asked to refund her expenses.
DeleteStella he must have been hypnotized. It's not ordinary. Just as his best man said.
ReplyDeleteI am not going to condemn this man until I hear from him and also hear from her.
ReplyDeleteNone of us was with them in this relationship. Not everybody forgives which is a very
bad trait. The fact that this wedding took place inside a church tells me that they should
have forgiven each other of whatever grouse they had against each other. Sad still.
I was reading to see if somebody thought differently. Shouting crucify the man, without hearing from him and this lady is not the solution to this unfortunate event. Did the man do well? No
DeleteIs shouting kill him, wicked man the answer? No too.
He didn't have to wait this long ,
DeleteImagine people that risked their lives to be in that gathering.
10 whole years !!!!
Wow
@Anon 12:21 how can you not condemn him? Was he coerced to schedule the wedding? Could he not have told her straight that he could not go on with the marriage instead of leading her on with wedding preparation?
DeleteHis act of wickedness should be condemned by ALL since he planned it for 10 years. He is evil personified. It does not matter what this lady did, for the fact that all along, for TEN solid years, he planned to disgrace her at the altar on their wedding day, HE IS WICKED AND EVIL.
For TEN Years? Are you for real?
DeleteWhat did she do to deserve it? Cheat on him? Abuse him when he lost his job at that time? Turn him down when he first asked her out? Even if she did all of these, it doesn't justify him wasting ten years of her life.
Her mates have for the past ten years gotten married and had families of their own. TuFace and wife got married AFTER these people started dating and the Idibias are celebrating 7 years of marriage.
Nothing she did warrants this abeg.
If the lady/her family goes diabolical on him, you all will call them bad people. Let's be guided in our revenge seeking abeg.
@Madam E
DeleteIf I condemn him, do I have the keys of hell or of Kirikiri prison?
Okay you that has condemned him as evil, without hearing from him, what next?
Wicked unforgiving spirit.
ReplyDeleteI can't in good conscience condemn him till l hear from the lady and the guy. I acknowledge the fact that some humans find it extremely difficult to forgive. In the early 90s l read about a guy who came from New York to kill a g
Deleteman in Accra after 40 years. Be humane , do not go out of your way to slight anybody , be honest in all you do and treat others with respect regardless of who/what you think you are. If you cannot be loyal , take a walk please. Above all, be in control of and your tongue and be disciplined yourself.
ALEXANDER
This is a very heartless unforgiving human. I think the woman may have hurt him in the past but to do this ehn, u have to be evil
ReplyDeleteWhat a wicked man!
ReplyDeleteWhat😱😱😱 this is wickedness at it's peak...he planned it 10 yrs ago and carried it out still
ReplyDeleteDevilish time waster,why not leave the girl since? God forbids people like this
Wow ,
ReplyDeleteSome people are evil ,
Why do such a thing ,
10 whole years !!!
Lucifer got nothing on this man !!!
Imagine wasting everyone's time.
What a waste of life!
ReplyDeleteShe will be better off. Regardless..
What a man child. For 10 yrs, u carried all this in your heart. He must think she will be a laughing stock right now, but right back at him, cos he is a clown. This is clownish behaviour. As for his family and friends, be very careful. This kind of person will never forgive a wrong and he will never forget! To the bride, this too will pass. Better this than be yoked in holy matrimony with a man demon.
ReplyDeleteNa wa oh. I wonder what his next 10year plan is. Wicked man.
ReplyDeleteThis Corona virus issue is beginning to affect his brain... He should be isolated, tested and given overdose of chloroquine🚶🚶
ReplyDeleteThis is very unfair, but how was he able to hide his feelings and conceal his evil plan all these years? Omashe oo!!
ReplyDeleteThis one is revenge served cold for whatever stupid reason. These type of people should be avoided cos they never forgive wrongs. I know a last whose fiance called off wedding plans two weeks to. He said she was diabolical and he couldn't marry a diabolical woman. Funny thing is he knew she dabbled in stuff like that for years but he dated her for ten years.
ReplyDeleteAnd how is his life now? I sincerely pity the lady he marries and the children he brings to this world. The other lady will deal with him diabolically.
DeleteWasted someone's life for ten years and you think it will go well with you?
It's one thing to feel hurt about something, it's another to carry it around, plotting and scheming for a whole decade! What sort of human is this? Lord have mercy.
ReplyDeleteThis was totally uncalled for and unnecessary...he should have broken up with her if she did whatever he perceived as unforgivable. Shame!
ReplyDeleteThe lady will meet someone who will make her forget this pain. Amen.
ReplyDeleteWhat a wicked man. It will not go well with him. TEN FREAKING YEARS!!!!
Women in relationships lasting more than a year when the man is ok for marriage but he isn't saying anything, be guided. A man knows if he wants to marry a woman within 6 months of meeting her, sometimes in less. I don't understand how a lady will date a man for 12 years.
ReplyDeleteHow will you date for 12 years? Anything more than 5 years is too much abeg..
ReplyDeleteLadies should please wise up, why date a guy for that number of years, the least I can do is 2 years after which I move on. What do we want to achieve in 10/12 years in dating that we can't achieve all and more in marriage.
ReplyDeleteThe best man is just a spectator in their lives. You guys always rely on a one sided story to condemn others. Untill l hear from the lady and the man l can't in good consc
Delete@anon14:08, nothing justifies this abeg
DeleteThis is unfair
ReplyDeleteNa wa...o This man get mind
ReplyDeleteThe young woman dodge a bullet. Imagine spending the rest of her life with such a vindictive human.
ReplyDeleteThe young woman dodge a bullet. Imagine spending the rest of her life with such a vindictive human.
ReplyDeleteNothing,i mean nothing justifies this no matter what the girl must have done to him.
ReplyDeleteThis man is a complete devil incarnate,how can someone carry a grudge for whoòping 10years,omg.He just wasted the girls damn time but God will give her the best.This man can kill, he is evil to have practically planned out a wedding without letting go.
Let's wait and see the woman that will marry agree to marry this evil .
The groom can marry another woman next week sef. Is it not Nigeria?
Deleteheartless man.
ReplyDeleteWe should hear from him first. She must have been a bad girlfriend
ReplyDeleteAfterall thats what women always say if this was the other way round
He was so angry he didn’t realize he wasted his time and her time. That is 10yrs he cannot get back either. It would have paid the both of them to breakup and move on with new people. She is not the only loser here. Typical case of cutting your nose to spite your own face. He’s a fool and most likely suffering from a mental illness. Revenge affects all parties involved.
ReplyDeleteMy point exactly
DeleteHe wasted everyone's time ,
Well does he even value time? Cos if he did , he wouldn't waste his precious time .
And they said we should not say he is wicked.
DeleteHe is VERY wicked. His type can kill. I pray the lady recovers because God actually saved her from marrying a snake. 🐍
The lady just dodged a deadly bullet. She would have lived the rest of her life with a vindictive and heartless man.
ReplyDeleteIf we could only read each other's mind. Imagine him planning this for a decade. So nobody at all felt the fakeness and his pretense all this time? How could he hide his hatred if her for so long. Let us women pray for the spirit of discernment.
ReplyDeleteThere are certain cases where the oppressed or the person wronged takes certain steps to satisfy his or her lust for revenge but it, unfortunately, tips the balance and he or she now becomes the oppressor or the accused. It's my considered view that this man has erased the privilege of the benefit of the doubt. For equity sake, his side of the story can be heard but I doubt he can come up with any justifiable reason to embarrass the lady, the church and indeed, himself in such a melodramatic manner.
ReplyDeleteIf he doesn't suffer any form of mental illness and if it can be established that there was no spiritual influence or interference, then this speaks volumes of the character of this man. It's one thing to nurse a grudge for 10 years, but to nurse a grudge while plotting your revenge for 10?! How toxic can that be? Saying he is unforgiving is being euphemistic. A man with such a degenerate mindset has no business getting married in the first place.
This move completely trivialises whatever offense the lady is guilty of. When your partner misbehaves or betrays your trust in a monumental manner, most mature minds will end the relationship immediately if trust is completely gone. The more dramatic ones may plot the breakup for a couple of years, 3 at most, then execute it in a dramatic way with some machiavellian flavour. You have to be in a class of your own, to disregard all those who would be hurt by your need to serve revenge completely frozen, a decade later. Both families will be devastated by this stone cold and callous move. All the money, time and energy involved, down the drain because a scorned man wants to make a point?
This is like shooting a person and getting injured by the blowback from the gun. He, too, just became one of the most ineligible bachelors. Who in their right senses would marry a man like this? It means you are utterly stuffed if you annoy him. An offence you committed before the birth of your first child will be paid for after your last child has his or her first child. This is psychotic, evil or both.
Well said my dear.
DeleteLet us say she slept with his father then killed his mother. It is his own ten years he used to waste hers. It is his own reputation as an unforgiving shape- shifting reptilian that has been exposed. He may get married next week but at least the new woman knows exactly the kind of guy she is getting with. A man who would commit suicide just to ensure you have a bad day. His in-laws know the capacity of hate of the man they are giving their poor child to. His co-workers and customers know they would have a better chance with the devil and his family and church members know who never to let their guard down near.
ReplyDeleteIn attempting to expose this lady, he has shown all the wedding guests that this lady's disappointment may just be a blessing. This kind of man!! That won't embarrass you on Facebook and walk away but would waste his own life to destabilise yours. I dear who no fear o.
Ten good solid years down the drain just like that??
ReplyDeleteHis unforgiving spirit is more than witchcraft..
This man can kill... A very dangerous being.
Truth/reality is really sometimes stranger than fiction...all of the things we see in movies, are coming to stare us right in the face. If it is possible, I would like to hear from the man and the woman, what went down 10 years ago. However, nothing he would say exonerates this brazen behaviour, ...I don't know why I am reminded of the book "the best laid plans",... the groom deserves a place in the book of world records. Any person with such unforgiving tendencies, should not marry. Marriage is one union where the other person will from time to time annoy the hell out of you. We do not want more spousal murders. If you hold a grudge like this man, please work on yourself first, do not get married yet.
ReplyDeleteI know that this lady is pained right now, but I dare to say this is good riddance to bad rubbish. Just imagine, after dating someone for 12 years, you Carried this evil in mind for 10 of those 12years.Evil indeed!!!
ReplyDelete10 solid years....d man n is wicked. The lady should wipe her tears and be thankful. His type can kill
ReplyDeleteGo to good churches una no go hear. This is a pure case of Incubus & Succubus. He has spirit wife, ask him later he wont know what he did. Dont be an ignorant generation.
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