When he has healed he will go back if he didnt leave willingly....they always go back!!!
Sunday, February 16, 2020
Twitter User Narrates How His Friend Was Abused By His Wife Until He Ran...
Men are also victims of Domestic Violence!!!
When he has healed he will go back if he didnt leave willingly....they always go back!!!
When he has healed he will go back if he didnt leave willingly....they always go back!!!
63 comments:
Disclaimer: Comments And Opinions On Any Part Of This Website Are Opinions Of The Blog Commenters Or Anonymous Persons And They Do Not Represent The Opinion Of StellaDimokoKorkus.com
Pictures and culled stories posted on this site are given credit and if a story is yours but credited to the wrong source,Please contact Stelladimokokorkus.com and corrections will be made..
If you have a complaint or a story,Please Contact StellaDimokoKorkus.com Via
Sdimokokorkus@gmail.com
Mobile Phone +4915210724141
Subscribe to:
Post Comments (Atom)
How terrible!
ReplyDeleteAnother damaged person in this world filled with too many broken people.
Thank God for good friends. I sure hope they didn't have children.
This is same story line with my elder brother but unfortunately he didn't make it. Before we knew what was going on, he was gone. Wife ranaway didn't even come for his burial. He just turned 40 and doing great. It's 5years but still hurts. No closure.😞😞
DeleteSorry for your loss @sucre. She'll pay dearly for what she did. Evil woman.
DeleteSluttychic.
This reminds of the victims of "surviving Rkelly"..i always blamed them for staying until i watched it myself.
DeleteManipulative people are mostly narcissistic,avoid them at all cost, plus they avoid out spoken people .
Reminds me of my Brother too,his wife ran away barely a year after the wedding and left him almost dying,well he did die a year later and he was still begging us before he die to go beg and bring her back,such a long sad story filled with bad memories as he was in his forties too,May he continue to rest in peace.When women are the abusers and manipulators they do it to the extreme and leave no stone unturned in turning their victims to egg shells
DeleteSucre and Wealthy Methuselah ,
DeleteSorry for your loss
This is so crazy .
Ahhhh mogbe!!!
ReplyDeleteThis one na jazz
DeleteAnon 13:01, everything cannot be jazz.
DeleteThe wife was super manipulative and was violent too,bad combination.
I pray he doesn't go back.
A lot of men are going through one form of DV ,
ReplyDeleteSome left their partner while others are still there making excuses as to why they cannot leave .
No one deserves this , one of my family friend is currently in this situation but doesn't want to leave because of his kid.
I'm hoping he would find courage to do the right thing before it's too late .
It's sad!! May God help them.
DeleteSluttychic.
This is so 😔.
DeleteYeah I really pray God gives him courage it's a terrible situation and the wife is using the kid as a tool.
DeleteThat guy will still go back to his wife because he still love her. You guys dragged him out of his home by force and not by his will. He didn't have a gf reason he kept taking shit till the extend of sleeping on the ground.
ReplyDeleteHe didn't have a gf?
DeleteWhat's a married man doing with a girlfriend?
Stop encouraging nonsense abeg.
Good he's left the union joor. Crazy people everywhere looking for whose son or daughter to kill. Let them just marry their kind and leave sane people alone.
My only younger brother is going through this and I have vowed never to help him again in life.
ReplyDeleteIf the wife like he can kill him, I'm not his father. .
This is so cold ,
DeleteI don't know what the situation is but you shouldn't fold your hands.
Now I understand where the hatred and bitterness towards women stems from. Don't write your brother off. DV is physical as well as psychological.
DeleteFor real?
DeletePlease don't say that Don. He is your blood and you can't even change that.
DeleteKeep doing all you can for him, and also pray to God for strength for him to leave that abusive marriage.
Sluttychic.
He is your blood ,pls help him 😟😕💔
DeleteDON. If you have any feelings at all when you think of your brother, that means you still care.
DeletePlease don't leave him like that,some women are the devils incarnate,do something, anything.
Reminds me of a distant relative, he refused all forms of help till he passed on, d wife buried him in a cemetery n informed d family 4 months after his demise n secret burial, no one had any idea, the family stormed d house, took d kids n sent her out, she went to court but alas, it wasnt in her favour, the kids live with d family now in their late father's house, she visits alongside her new husband, hopefully this one will match her violence for violence.
DeleteDon I know how you feel. My elder sister is going through same but won't let us do anything about it. I've given up.
DeleteBlackberry 😲 some women just over do things. I pity her new husband.
DeleteSluttychic.
Don, l appeal to you as one who has seen a lot. Please, don’t give up on him. He is your only Brother. Please try and get him out of there. Please.
DeleteMarriage na scam
ReplyDeleteI’m so fvukn scared really..
DeleteThese days I watch movies and observe the characters and I’m scared of marriage.. the label itself changes the dynamics even if both were “friends” before getting married.
And it ain’t even infidelity/DV I’m scared of.. that one na deal breaker.. it’s the potential emotional and psychological abuse/manipulation that could happen in it.. the heartache from lack of communication, the pain from seeing someone you know morph into something else for whatever reason, the numbness that come with accepting its for better for worse and the realization that humans never really change..
Imagine throwing kids in this mix.. This story messed my mood for days when I read it as I couldn’t even begin to fathom the trauma and Ptsd that would plague that young fella..
12:36 Marriage is NOT a scam. That's a lie from the devil.
DeleteMarriage is a good and beautiful gift of God to mankind for love, companionship and procreation.
It is the selfishness and wickedness in the heart of unregenerated human beings that cause all the evil in marriage, families and society.
God is love and those who live to please Him, LOVE THEIR NEIGHBOURS AS THEMSELVES.
Folks should surrender their hearts to Christ, yield to the leading of the Holy Spirit so they could love as one another truly.
No wonder Don hates women...
DeletePlease don't give up on your brother. Those sort of people are manipulative and its a major tragedy for one to fall in love with them. They will break the person spirit and they are really good at it. Please help your brother
Wow!...just speechless.
ReplyDeleteNa real waah
ReplyDeleteWhat did i just read? Like a woman did that to a man? She sounds even worse than male abusers. Its sounds like she jazzed him.
ReplyDeleteHmmm, Prayer Point/ prophetic declaration: that in the name of Jesus, that is above every other name. My sons, brothers, uncle etc, will not meet/marry any Jezebel nor Delilah.
ReplyDeleteAmen ooo!
DeleteMy neighbour is going through same. Infact today he’s been called stupid and told to shut up his mouth severally. Just in my room and minding my business. He drives and she always sits at the owners corner.He fetches water, empty bin , on gen one million times for her royal majesty. I wonder how they fuck .The compound is watching.I pity the boy . He can’t even say hi to anybody because madam is looking through window when he comes downstairs . Handsome cute boy like this suffering like he doesn’t have sisters. It’s really a pity.
ReplyDelete💔😕😟😢
DeleteOh God!! People are really suffering 😔
DeleteSluttychic.
🤣 🤣
DeleteSorry i dint mean to laugh but they fuck very well, most people in that situation dont even see it as a problem until its too late.
Ehmm Anon 12:50 hubby does all these for us except the generator & driving part and I don't call him names plus he greets everyone but naturally on the quiet side like me.
DeleteHe majorly fetches water, disposes the bin if I can't or not around and does other stuff around the house since there's no house help.
We communicate like friends rather than oga and madam so a few times statements like 'Are you okay?' have slipped out of my mouth but I've been working on my tongue.
Do all these make him a victim of DV?
Hey God ohh. Where did he jam that jezebel ke?
DeleteI hope sense returns to him asap and he runs very far away.
Your husband is a victim of verbal abuse, you see him as a weakling, i'm sure you wont snap at your boss "are u ok?" Your type normally are very humble n meek outside but a tigresse inside d house.
Delete@ 14.41, saying is he okay is rude. Try not to discuss an issue or react if you are upset till you are calmer.
DeleteThen again "respect" is very important in marriage. It doesn't matter who earns more, be polite with your words.
Some words hurt deeper than physical assault, they damage the person or deflate the ego.
I see nothing wrong with him helping with the chores as long as you don't command, insult or nag him to do them. The words, please, kindly, thank you will go a long way, cheers.
Tnx for the Advice Abroadian and like I said, I'm working on taming my tongue.
DeleteAs for Blackberry, are you better off than me with this nonsense talk? Is my boss my friend? Pls look for somewhere else to take out your singlehood frustrations on abeg.
Lol @ singlehood frustrations.
DeleteIts well
DeleteWas he living with a tiger? 😮😮😮
ReplyDeleteI don't believe this story. A Nigerian man
beaten up, locked up and tormented by the wife?
Speak in English let me understand.
Men are abused too only that they don't come out to say anything because people will laugh at them and say,I thought you're a man and a woman is domestically abusive to you?
DeleteHmm, you haven't met a violent woman, have u? D shame wont allow d man speak up.
DeleteYou can’t classify this one as a Nigerian man. This is more like what we used to call then ‘London goat’ more like all butter and bread kinda guy. If na home grown Naija man, forget it mehn. He would not even find himself in this situation to the point of having scabies. Sey wetin happen naa.
DeleteTrust me
DeleteA lot of men are going through one form of abuse.
That they women are speaking up doesn't mean it's not happening to the men.
For them its shameful to talk about this in public .
This isn't love. The poor guy is under the influence of Jazz. Jazz is a weapon use by women like this to manipulate.
ReplyDeleteIf you check, it's mostly ugly women that do this! I wonder what they are feeling like.
ReplyDeleteAnyone doubting this has not encountered a nassisist ! it's no JAZZ!
ReplyDelete👍👍👍
ReplyDeleteYes Men speak up please. Your lives are valuable .
ReplyDeleteTake away shame and disgrace.
Some women are Jezebel. That was how ome was treating her husband, always beating the man. Even when the man fell sick, she refused to take the man to the hospital and he died 2018 after so many months of being sick😕
ReplyDeleteJazz is involved
ReplyDeleteThis is very sad. Thank God for good friends that helped him out
ReplyDeleteStella pls can you do a post on how to help people going through this cause my sister is going through same and hers is even worse cause the said guy is married with kids but the guy lives in the house my sister rented with her money...does absolutely nothing to help my sister...we have talked and talked but she refused to leave him,my mum told the good for nothing idiot to leave her alone he refused,i have spoken to him too he refused,my brother did same he refused..we have come to the conclusion that he has jazzed my sister..so all we are doing now is prayer and fasting..
ReplyDeleteStella pls can you do a post on how to help people going through this cause my sister is going through same and hers is even worse cause the said guy is married with kids but the guy lives in the house my sister rented with her money...does absolutely nothing to help my sister...we have talked and talked but she refused to leave him,my mum told the good for nothing idiot to leave her alone he refused,i have spoken to him too he refused,my brother did same he refused..we have come to the conclusion that he has jazzed my sister..so all we are doing now is prayer and fasting..
ReplyDeleteThe edward scissorhands wife, is she married to bearded initials G.A?
ReplyDeleteMy case is the reverse. He's the abuser and I'm a nursing mom. He's threatened my life (I had to report to Police) and does not provide even though he earns well.
ReplyDeleteI have had enough and I will be taking steps to quit him soon, in Jesus name, amen.