Good Morning!!!
Who is going to work today?who is getting married or attending a wedding today?
Saturday's are always very busy and a good time to go out and make new friends or meet new people that may impact your lives...Instead of sitting at home doing nothing but rant and complain,attend events....Take this advice seriously.
In this life,if you look at it eh,there is so much to worry about but does worrying provide solutions?
There are some kinds of worries that you cannot do anything about so,why worry?Why worry about tomorrow when it is promised to no one?Some of you have high blood pressure already because of too much thinking and worrying...
Take it easy and have a great day and don't kill yourself worrying!.
The First Monday in March will be the face of in house news competition and i will not be accepting old photos used before for birthday posts or face of in house new...If you wanna be part of it,please start getting moves for new photos ready....
My darling Blog PA ;please remind me OK?
I need someone that can deliver a well baked cake to somewhere in Ikeja GRA next week.....I said well baked cake so if you are contacting me,i need to see photos of the insides of the cakes you have baked before
E go be...!!!✌✌✌
Rhapsody Today!!
ReplyDeleteTaught Of Him!!
1 John 2:20.
Excerpts!!
"As a Christian, if you've received the Holy Spirit, His grace is on your Life; there's an unction on you. That word unction is the same as the annointing"
"This means whatever problem you're faced with as a child of God, be it financial or in your job, health, family - whatever it may be - the Holy Spirit can teach you what to do"
"You should never be at crossroads or make the wrong choices and investments in life, because you have a teacher inside you, who has sanctified your mind to think excellently so you can make quality and intelligent decisions"
"Always be conscious that you're not an ordinary person"
Today's Confession!!
Dear Lord, I thank you for the impact of your Word in my life. I'm fruitful and productive, conscious of your wisdom at work in me, granting me insights into the secrets and mysteries of the kingdom, in Jesus' Name. Amen.
"Any young man who gets down on his knees to propose to a girl is not just an idiot, he's a compound buffoon.
ReplyDeleteHere's why I'm saying it, we try to copy white people, right? I believe in the essence and core of our culture." Ebubedike
Thank you Ebubedike, you've spoken well.
Kneeling to propose to a woman is a very stupid thing to do. No real man does that. It is an abomination. It is an action that should evoke moral revulsion. The white man decided a long time ago to lose his masculinity. That is why he is where he is today - a slave to his woman. Some injudicious black men have also chosen to tread the same dumb path. We wish them well. We will never succumb to that. We love our women, and will provide and protect them. But they must be under us. That was how Chukwu Okike made it. That was how mother nature made it.
You ask me why I use a phone built by the white man or why I speak his language if I say it's a white-man thing? I'll answer that. He also speaks my language and eats my food too, but whenever he wants to marry, he marries in his own tradition. He doesn't do Igbankwu. He picks what he can from me, and I do the same. For example, I subscribe to the use of engagement/wedding rings because it tells the world the person is taken. I cannot adopt everything he does and relegate mine.
To add to what Ebubedike said, it is also very ludicrous and stupid of any African man to have a church wedding after he must have married his girl traditionally. That's the white man's traditional wedding. Some even believe they aren't 'fully' married after having married traditionally, until they've had a church (white man's traditional) wedding! Complex. Can you see how ridiculous we can be?
Some contributors even had the impertinence to call Ebubedike an illiterate! Wow! So, adopting every shit from the white man makes you literate and 'woke'? Incredible!
That Tinalexy is just one rude and uncouth B*@&^.... no home training, even if hes wrong about that, if u respect your father & elders, you wouldnt have the guts to insult him & call him a fool, not even online... and she dsnt even knw the meaning of illetracy.
DeleteThank you Pete and Ceaser.
DeleteI thought of kneeling and proposing this year, but my knee wouldnt smell the ground again, if she wont accept, make she go
Ode8:30..
DeleteWho go lose? Dey follo follo..
Mtswwwwwwest..
What makes a man a man is not because he didn't kneel down to propose to his gf nope that is not what makes you a man, because you kneel down to ask your gf to marry you is not the reason why your wife will or cannot respect you.what makes you a man is the authority, the strength your words carries, we should not copy from other people's culture, tradition yes I agree but do what makes you both happy, understand the woman you are with, know what she likes, if kneeling to ask her to marry you makes her happy why not do it just because you love her and you have her interest at heart and not because someone is doing it. Do what works for you and not what is trending, I do not judge people when they do things in their own ways, we all have our life to live. Do it the best way it makes you happy, submissive and respect is a two way things, is an agreement between man and woman, no one will come to force you both but because of you both have common interest in that relationship or union that is why you both will work hand in hand to achieve it by submitting to the man and the man loving you in return. Weather you kneel down or not if a woman don't want to respect you she will not, kneeling down to propose to me does not take your authority as a man, a man is a man as God has created him. What he add to his relationship to make it sweet and to make his woman happy is not your business, if you cannot kneel down for a woman allow others that can do it to enjoy it as is giving them joy. I have not seen anyone at gun point kneeling down to propose so if that is not happening why discouraging them.
DeleteSoon some people will come and preach how husband/wife should me making love, do what makes you happy and free others. My two cents.
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Delete@0830, l put it to you that you made this up. You don’t even have someone to propose to.
Delete@Caesar, Please, make you point without saying that “women must be under us” Caesar, you need to let go of this bitterness you have for women. Did your girlfriend hurt you that bad?? Don’t worry, l will give my girl Castle to you. Hopefully, she will make you very happy and less resentful of women.
Ceaser, You have spoken well.
DeleteWomen are under men!!! They must be under men in marriage!!! Like it or not.... go and drink hypo. It has always been like that and continue
DeleteThe girl @Castle, will you accept to check @Ceaser out as your girlfriend wan give you out...
Delete@Ceaser will you accept to bracket your reservations and open up to @Castle?
M-K
8.14 👌👌
DeleteGod forbid Caesar be inflicted on any woman, even my worst enemy. Until he lets go of his bitterness, he will get exactly what his low expectations of women are. Whether a man kneels or not is not the point. It's his character, spirit and behaviour. You can be manly and masculine without being emasculated just because you knelt down to propose.
DeleteITS TIME TO LEAD
ReplyDelete“Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you” Deuteronomy 31:6, NIV.
Just as Joshua was called to lead, we are called to lead. God has placed a portion of His flock under our care and calls us to disciple them and lead them to His Kingdom. Jesus is our guide, our forever help and comfort. Just as He called Joshua to be strong and courageous; you are being called to be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid! Do not fear this world, do not fear your circumstances! Have faith and trust Him. Your God is with you! Just as He was with Moses and Joshua, He is with you now!
Be strong and courageous!
Lead your family. Lead your friends. Lead your co-worker and your neighbor. It is time to push those fears aside and be the leader God has called you to be! If you don’t lead them, who will? As God leads you, you must tend to those He has entrusted to you. The time is now, not tomorrow or next week—it’s time to lead today!
Daughters of the King Devo
I always get job interview in Lagos but I don't have where to stay Lord I really need a job this year is going oo
DeleteI am so sad and drained😢😢 I cried myself to sleep yesterday and i just don't know what to do with my life anymore. I saw my ex whom we dated for 6yrs yesterday with his new gf, he is doing so well with his life but here i am at 26 no boyfriend let alone saying fiancee and my parents has been on my neck😭😭. Where did it go wrong in my life? My ex is doing so well and the least i can do for myself is to get a better man so i will mot be shamed
ReplyDeleteYou're feeling used & trashed cus youve been supplying fuck, it wouldnt have been this painful, Ladies close leg una no gree
DeleteSo because of his new girlfriend and maybe some packaging, you concluded that he is doing so well? So a boyfriend or fiancee will make your life have a meaning?
DeleteWhat about you build yourself, your career, get additional source of income, get rich and successful, instead of looking for a boyfriend to pepper your ex
Some of you have shallow brains
So that is the problem you have. To get a man is now making you crying sleepless. Why did you not carry a signboard and write I need a handsome rich man, and stand close r to the market square.
DeleteYou better behave yourself and tell yourself I am better than yesterday
You better look for ways to make yourself happy and stop focusing on how people who packaged themselves look outside. His new girlfriend, his new girlfriend,everything must not be about a man or relationship.
DeleteHave fun,live life and see how your happiness will attract someone better to you.
E go be ✌✌
Receive sense before you wound yourself because of ex matter..
DeleteTake it easy..
Anonymous must always blame someone even when the person is down, what's the need for comment, if you want to advice ladies to abstain is that how to go about it? Dear don't feel bad pray for your own blessings and remove your mind from your ex, you are just 26 still young your own man will come at the right time
Delete08:16 you are a compound fool.
DeleteSo it is sex alone that makes one feel bad after a break up? What about the time wasted? The deceit, the emotional attachment, the feeling of rejection? Must one have sex before one feels all of the above? Even if you were celibate, wasting 6yrs of your life with someone is enough to make you feel sad. Oponu radarada
See what Stella wrote up there, take life jeje
DeleteThe least you can do for yourself is be happy. You are not in a competition with your ex
DeleteBecause of that mentality of getting a good man so that you will not be ashamed is what is holding you down, girl is time for you to stop sounding the way you are sounding. Your ex is with a new gf and you think he is doing well, happy with his life? If you go closer he may not be happy as it seems but he is just acting up to pepper you since he knows you still like your vomit. Why don't you channel all your tears, complain s, the time you use to watch him into developing yourself, working hard to make sure you improve from the issues that made you both to part ways or put the whole effort in loving yourself more. Take care of your self, change your dressing, your hair style and see how you wil attract a better man than complaining. Stella said it up there complaining can never solve any problem rather it will increase it, since you have been crying have you seen any man to marry? Then stop crying please. 26 years is not an end of road, what of those 30,40,50 no job or bf not to talk of marriage, they should die because you 26 is complaining like this.
DeleteThis is one of the reasons I love Stella's blog. You will learn how to live a sweet life if you read this blog's contents and comments with an open mind. When I was a single lady, I learned a lot from people's comments which helped to build my personal life, career and my relationship. Today I'm in a better place and I'm grateful to God and this blog for it.
DeleteBabe, please, take time to build your life, get busy with building your career, pay a blind eye and deaf ear to negativities around you and above all, keep telling God what you want and see how things will turn out for your own good.
Never compare yourself with anyone. You and not in any competition with anybody. Stay focus dear and tell anyone who brings up the "when are you getting married talk" to hold on, your time will come.
My mum was always encouraging me that I shouldn't worry cos my time to get married and have kids will come and that so far she got married and gave birth to us, I too will. All these plus God and SDK's blog encouraged me. Today, I'm happy to the glory of God Almighty.
When David in the Bible was down and discouraged, he drew strength from the Lord his God, please, always tell God your desires and forget about it, watch Him do what only Him can do.
Be encouraged dear, it is well with you.
Well said Cy.
DeleteGoodmorning bvs
ReplyDeleteThrough out yesterday I could not access the blog, I dont know what happened to mtn.
We've not had light since Wednesday and the heat is something else.
Hello @Madam B,Kindly download "PUFFIN" Browser next time..
DeleteOr you download "Touch VPN,open the app and switch to another country;then use any browser of your choice with any Network in Nigeria..
Hope this helps..
@MARTINS
MTN network is so bad nowadays, I wonder what happened to them. Even calls , you won't hear clearly
DeleteThanks Martins
DeleteMummy J, honestly something is wrong with mtn network
Job 22:28
ReplyDeleteThou shalt also decree a thing, and it shall be established unto thee: and the light shall shine upon thy ways.
I MADE ON THE AUTHORITY OF THE WORD OF GOD;
👉 Today, the wind shall blow goodness upon your life in Jesus name.
👉 From the north, notable testimonies shall locate you in Jesus Name.
👉 From the west, wonders of God shall manifest in your life in Jesus name.
👉 From the east, everlasting success shall come to you
👉 from the south, supernatural flow of blessings of God shall find its way into your life in Jesus name.
👉 By your right shall be comforted. By your left shall be satisfaction, In your front shall progress and behind you, shall be prosperity in Jesus name.
👉 Do have a productive and rewarding weekend in the name of JESUS.
SURELY YOUR VICTORY IS SETTLED.
Amen
DeleteAmen, good morning cutest pat
DeleteAmen
DeleteIn Jesus Christ Holy Name, Amen
DeleteGood morning bvs, Thank God for a new day, I'm grateful to you Lord for keeping me alive... Have a great weekend bvs
ReplyDeleteHappy weekend everyone
ReplyDeleteUp and thankful to my Maker
He has done great things for me ..wherefore I'm glad
It's laundry time
Have a good day y'all
Good morning Lovelies
A friend of mine asked me to help booked a flight for him, have never done it before but i was able to book it for him, and he's telling me he's sending in money today for me to pay. I told my sis and she said that's what people pay 3k and 5k for. It was quite easy to book, but why do people pay for it, will i lose anything in return for booking for him. And I'm using my main bank and there so much money inside, can i use the bank for the payment of the flight or is it risky? Abeg make una help answer me, before i put my self in something i will regret
ReplyDeleteYou are not losing anything, you must not be like others by collecting 3 to 5k what will that add to your life? If you are doing it because the person is your friend no need to collect additional money but if that is your business you should collect since that is what you do to earn a living. You use your bank mobile app or internet banking to pay, I do that alot for my siblings and friends. Some times I joke with them that you all know that I am not working in any airline but yet you people prefer I book tickets for you, is not bad please do it for the person you can also use quick teller to pay all you need to pay on the quick teller is to register with them by obtaining a password and username name them you can deal. I prefer using my bank mobile app but when the app is not going through I fall back at quick teller, all the beat as you help.
DeleteRemember if that friend of yours is a good person he can as well add more money when he is transferring the cash to you but if the person is not kind enough to do so no wahala. All the best as you help people in your own little way, is not everything that must be money money.
Nothing will happen to your account. My brother do book ours and nothing has ever happened to his account
DeletePlease bvs i do have itchy vagina before each period, it will vanish as soon as my period arrives. Doctor said its my hormones flunctuating thereby causing inbalance in the PH level of my vagina..he said its no life threatening.. I'm still worried, has anyone been in my position?
ReplyDeleteI thought I was the only one who experienced it then. After every period then, the itching would start. It stopped when I got pregnant and it didn't return after my baby. Praise God! I don't know what caused it. I didn't go to the hospital and google didn't help much. I can't help you but my comment is just to comfort you. I pray it stops soon.
DeleteVisit another doctor all I am saying go and see a gynecologist in a general hospital to be sure you are not at risk or you don't have anything that will affect you in future.
DeleteHope is not the sign of your monthly period, like myself I usually don't have strength to eat, things irritate me alot, I don't like being around male ones is time, hope yours is not like that.
I used to experience these itchy vagina last day of period Asked doctor he said it's normal, something about my hormones.. My sisters, I had to study my body and its reactions. Found out,, since I use just one pad, I used to try to manage it for the five days period. At day five when it's finally drying up with little or no stains I alternate with tissue cos by then the one pad is finished...i realised its at that 5th day the itching starts. Cause? the tissue paper. I decided to stop alternating and now buy 2 pads which I use till it dries up up completely. No more itching at all.
DeleteJust saying, Study your body and the things you use, something triggers it and until you stop you what exactly you will keep assuming it's a medical condition. I hope this helps.
Good morning my people.
ReplyDeleteI love weekends eeh! Make I rest biko.
Enjoy your day everyone.
Rest well and enjoy your weekend too.
DeleteI took moin moin on Monday, and since that day my life has been a mess, have been purging, there's nothing have not taken, even if water enters my mouth, straight to toilet and it making me weak all the time. Please what can i do to make this stop. There no drugs have not taken
ReplyDeleteStop the drugs, keep taking fruits till it clears
DeleteDid you cook it yourself?
DeleteIf not, it may be food poisoning. Some people do not know how to prepare it well. Go to the hospital pls
Eat bread. Just bread. Have enough of it, the take 2 capsules of tetracycline. Repeat it like 3 times. Sorry love
DeleteEayah sorry maybe it is diarrhea. You can buy 50 naira or one hundred naira ogi (white) put in a bowl, pour water and drink. Don't make it watery. Drink with room temperature water.
DeleteSorry dear
Go to hospital!
DeleteDRINK COKE OR SPRITE IT WILL STOP WITHIN ONE HOUR
DeleteI would have said chew garri but because of lassa fever I am afriad to tell you to chew garri. Eat bread without drinking water, hope you have taken tetracycline as you have been going to the toilet front and back. Take oral drip to add to your strength and you will be fine. Pele stop buying moi moo outside your house, if you must eat moi moi prepare it yourself, take it with pap, custard or rice.
DeleteI see the confidence in which XP writes Jehovah is Rapha! And I like it, I like the flow. So this morning as I was praying and talking about my health, I remembered her words and said it out with confidence. JEHOVAH IS RAPHA!
ReplyDeleteQuestion: I once heard that some Asian countries inject African drug peddlers with some type of chemical that makes them go mad. How true is that because I can't seem to get any information about it online.
ReplyDeleteI have heard it too, that sometimes they give the person two options either to inject you or sentence you to death. I have a cousin that lived abroad for years and we heard that he was into drugs. Then we heard that he was caught and jailed but after some years he came back to Nigeria behaving like a mentally sick and unstable person. It was then being whispered that he was injected before they released him.
DeleteYou don't get such information online. Its a coded secret. Anyone that dares put it online would be punished
DeleteAdvise from a Medical Doctor to women in 2020: Men share with the Ladies in your lives
ReplyDeleteA medical doctor decided to share some words of advice to ladies via WhatsApp. The advice are simple and straightforward. Please share to every woman out there so they can get healthier and better in 2020.
1. You can not finish all the house chores in one day. Those who did are stressly sick and some are buried already.
2. Please create time to rest, it is not a sin to sit down , put up your legs on the table and pick popcorn while watching TV.
3. Please sleep if need be that headache will go. Those who refuse to take vacation, or leave, or time out or rest time, their families are missing them because they have gone untimely to their maker.
4. Stop taking sedatives to sleep, you are destroying your brain and organs. At a point you will begin to forget things. Relax the brain , worry less, think less, laugh more , smile more. Everything will pass with time.
5. Sometimes go and sit outside quietly on your own, do nothing say nothing , just admire Gods handiwork, breath in fresh air calmly. Hurry not.
6. Stand by your mirror smile to yourself, laugh , dance sing, that turns on positive aura around you so you can glow.
7. Go buy yourself a snack or two or drink fruit wine if you so chose. Just do something for yourself even if hubby does that for you so you off load the things in your head.
8. Get necessary home gadgets to ease your work in order to avoid stress. Stress is the highest silent killer of women.
9. If you are not feeling well say it , do something about it, go to health centre, hospital or call a nearby nurse, do not sit around waiting for hubby to buy drugs. He may come back late , your life matters .
10. Check your blood pressure and sugar level occasionally, whether you are sick or not. It has saved a lot of women in the past. Trust me on this.
11. Do not do self medication, and after treating malaria for 3months , please do extensive test . A lot of sickness mask like malaria eg liver issues, be warned
Remember to share with all the women you know. We all will enjoy 2020 in good health and abundance.
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I do all of the above plus more sef.
DeleteThis my one life I came to live is to be enjoyed not endured!!
Wow. I love this 👏. Interesting
DeleteGood morning everyone... Have a lovely weekend... It's not easy to gatecrash an event these days to save oneself from embarrassing situation...
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ReplyDeleteGood morning wonderful people of this blog.
ReplyDeleteHappy weekend to us all.
I hardly have time for myself these days, this morning I looked at my hair, the way that hair have scattered ehn, it looked like that of a mad woman, chai. I must make it tomorrow by all means.
Up and grateful to God for life..
ReplyDeleteBeautiful money. God bless over of us Amen.
ReplyDeleteEnjoy this beautiful weekend.
Becareful who dash you money or gift. Some people give you money to put in your business before you know it, you won't see anything. It is well.
Becareful who comes to buy products from you. Too many ugly stories.
May God open our eyes to the spiritual Amen
Saturdays are for house chores, my phone is really messing me up. Lord I need a new phone as a birthday gift coming month, let the gift land before my birthday with that it will increase my mood of celebration. Weather a phone comes or not you still remain my God, I will still be great. A Samsung A series phone is just an added advantage to my celebration. So be it lord 🙏🙏🙏🏼🙏🙏🙏🙏
ReplyDeleteWishing those getting married today happy married life, those celebrating birthdays happy birthday and to everyone celebrating one thing or the other I celebrate with you all.
Have a great resting Saturday but if you are working today, Enjoy yourself at work. Peace.
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ReplyDeleteI bought pressure pot since the beginning of last month but is so afriad to use it because I am a JJC when it comes to pressure pot. I want to start using it on my camp gas so that it will reduce my gas consumption since I was told that with pressure pot you can cook beans for 5 to 10 mins, Cowley, cowtail, other food that stay long. Mothers and sisters who are use to it please educate your sister as I am a new person with pressure pot,no also want to become a guru when it comes to pressure pot issues. Tell me how to handle that heat that can remove my eyes that one has been my fear with the pot, I was told that if you open the pot you will hear boom na to blow your face commot. Help me biko
ReplyDeleteIt didn't come with instructions I guess. Anyways, let it release steam and cool a bit before you open it. That's the major thing.
DeleteCheck YouTube videos on how to use a pressure pot.
DeleteIt's simple, put your food with just enough water and once its cooked, allow the pressure dissipate by placing it under running water or leave it to depressurize itself. most pressure pots wont even open until the pressure has reduced significantly
DeleteFor you to blow the heat away there is one small thing on top of the cover you will hold and draw it up a lil bit that's how you will be letting all the heat out after which you open the pot. No mind me I'm not good at explaining
DeleteRule of thumb for me, when the pressure pot don whistle reach 5 or 6 times, the thing wey youdey cook don done unless na stone
Deleteallow water to be at the same level with what you're cooking o
M-K
I need a wife.
ReplyDeleteAnd I need a husband
DeleteWomen are everywhere buh a wife is a work in progress in God's hand... So are you a husband yourself??
DeleteBe truthful
DeleteWhat do you need one for?
Cook food-get caterer
Wash cloth- get drycleaner
Clean house- get cleaner
Marry for companionship, love,care and commitment
If you can not give any of the above
Stay on your own!
Don't make another person miserable
Good morning and happy weekend everyone...
ReplyDeleteNoted Boss
ReplyDeleteYaaaaayyy another face of IHN competition loading...😁
Happy weekend!!
People please, how do you know you've forgiven someone? Because like seriously I believe I've forgiven him but whenever his thought cross my mind I do have the feeling that I've not forgiven him that's why he do cross my mind.
ReplyDeleteWhen you remember him and the incident that happened without bitterness....then you know you have forgiven him. To forget is not easy but it is possible..the matter becomes distant in your heart. Time heals all wounds.
DeleteSaturdays are for chores and Owanbe.
ReplyDeleteGood morning everyone😘😘😘weekends are for resting and also attending events jus like Mami Stella said... So if you ain't gonna be going out biko REST... Meaning eat sleep open SDK blog comment watch a movie waka round your house press phone... You can still repeat the process you know😏😏😏😏 everything is allowed...
ReplyDeleteHmmmm it is well
ReplyDeleteTTC is just a bitch! Been trying to raise money for IVF, just promises and nothing yet. God needs to come thru for me before promo expires. Society with nasty comment makes it hard
ReplyDeleteThe lord will do it for you.
DeleteEc
DeleteAmen
I have told myself I gonna take things easy. So I can't be stressing myself anymore. I rest well and worry less. After all, worry doesn't even bring solution.
ReplyDeleteThis heat is too much to ehh.
Good morning lovelies 😘😘
ReplyDeletePlease who knows where I can get really nice, unique abayas in Abuja? Please direct me.
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