I had this male church member / friend that was a Chris Brown lookalike and his hazel eyes were a huge complement to his looks. He knew it and had a bevy of girlfriends who were pining away for him.
I really liked him but I knew that nothing would come out of it because while he was dashing and outgoing, he usually teased me that I was reserved and naive.
We maintained our "hello/hi, how's school/how's work?" till I was ready to serve the motherland.
Orientation camp was barely two weeks away from Valentine and I was bored silly. I had no friends, no books and practically stayed indoors all day.
Only God knows what made him call me to ask about my plans for Feb. 14th, and when I mentioned I had none, he promised he would take me out.
I was elated and looked forward to spending time outdoors. I bought a nice outfit and started counting down.
The D-day came and I called him several times, he didn't pick up nor call back.
I really liked him but I knew that nothing would come out of it because while he was dashing and outgoing, he usually teased me that I was reserved and naive.
We maintained our "hello/hi, how's school/how's work?" till I was ready to serve the motherland.
Orientation camp was barely two weeks away from Valentine and I was bored silly. I had no friends, no books and practically stayed indoors all day.
Only God knows what made him call me to ask about my plans for Feb. 14th, and when I mentioned I had none, he promised he would take me out.
I was elated and looked forward to spending time outdoors. I bought a nice outfit and started counting down.
The D-day came and I called him several times, he didn't pick up nor call back.
In order not to look desperate, I just stopped calling and zeroed my mind that he wouldn't show up.
He later called back by 10.00pm reeling off on how he spent his evening with friends and how he had such a swell time without a word of apology for standing me up.
I jejely respected myself and let it slide.
Las las, he didn't even marry anyone here, he met a US born Nigerian on Facebook, she came down to Nigeria and they had their court wedding. She travelled back and processed his papers.
He's now in the states and doing well for himself.
He later called back by 10.00pm reeling off on how he spent his evening with friends and how he had such a swell time without a word of apology for standing me up.
I jejely respected myself and let it slide.
Las las, he didn't even marry anyone here, he met a US born Nigerian on Facebook, she came down to Nigeria and they had their court wedding. She travelled back and processed his papers.
He's now in the states and doing well for himself.
*You Respected yourself and let it slide?Nonsense!....You should have told him off for standing you up!
I feel like helping you do it....You sound Miss goody two shoe-ish...WTF!!!
Stella see as you come dey vex for her matter.
ReplyDeleteI think she doesn't want to sound off so he wont take advantage of her,its better like that to avoid stories that touches the heart.
I wonder why people pressure themselves with valentine ๐๐๐
ReplyDeleteAnyway Valentine comes with loads of drama n its entertaining.
No be small drama o
DeleteBefore i got married eh, every 14 feb, i just carry myself to my fathers house because i did not put my eggs in one basket.
From there i answer them bobo's calls, i no want drama as i no kuku get strength to explain and start doing hide n seek.
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DeleteThe updates I've gotten today is quite hilarious.
The ones that have gotten busted in the gift shops
The ones that their supposed boo has gone mia
It's just hilarious.
Very hilarious, the craze is something I cant fathom๐๐.
DeleteSeriously valentine's day is soo hilarious ๐๐๐๐๐๐ I hav just been laughing out today.
DeleteI don't kno y people are crazy abt this day, to me, it's just a normal day. Most times I even forget d day n get reminding wen I see post on social media.
๐๐๐๐๐ Na real audio Valentine. This will be my first val as a married woman๐๐ hubby called and said this our first val as a couple is gonna be ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฅ and I replied him which kind ๐ฅ when morning sickness and gbogbo tigbogbo will not allow me to see road. I told him as my body dey do me now there's nothing like val in my dictionary except he wants me to use my incisors to design his back๐๐and he laughed and said no problem we shall see in the oza room tonight. Tonight I will jejely go and sleep in the visitors room. No time for any action tonight.
ReplyDeleteLoooooool
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Deleteyou must do action oh, you have sign it already so enjoy it.
Deletelol
First Valentine's Day as a married woman as well, I no go office and my husband no go as well, we just dey look ourselves for eyes, although he cooked moimoi for me this morning, what he has never done for me since we married, if I'm too tired to cook, straight to fast food ni o, maybe he don do Val for me by cooking moimoi sha
Delete*Larry was here*
Lol,Stella don vex
ReplyDeleteThese pained me on your behalf, I am sure you were tripping for him too and the guy knew. You were also happy he talks to you and kinda does you a favor by being your friend considering his looks and all so you didn’t want to usurp the friendship. Anyway let’s just believe you were naive then that’s why you didn’t confront him for standing you up.
ReplyDeleteKia! The guy must really feel like a blessing to women and the best thing after slice bread.
* This
DeleteWow people are just so different, I respect you for handling the issue nicely, what is yours 'll forever be. As bad as he treated you he still had the mouth to share how he enjoyed his evening , that guy get mind o. Happy val to you all, my own na real o and no be audio Lol!
ReplyDeleteThese also reminds me of the very fine guy in my sister’s class in Unilag. Most of her class girls are tripping for him and if he talks to any of them, they will carry it on their heads including my sis o. He even chatted with one girl and she posted a screenshot of their conversation on their class group chat, imagine!
ReplyDeleteThe truth is very fine people be it male or female gets privileges.
*This, ๐คฆ♀️ I don’t know what I was thinking! I just saw the mistake.
DeleteStella the thing pain you o, i can feel your annoyance from my house.
ReplyDeleteNa fine boy dey worry the guy, like he said she was naive,
The valentine craze sef I don't understand. I'm going out tonight sha. A friend just opened a restaurant and invited us over.
ReplyDeleteend time audio valentine.
ReplyDeleteAbroad, USA
ReplyDeleteThose words can wake up a dead Naija dude/sisi
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