ATTENTION EVERYONE : Ena Ofugara wrote:
"Clearing The Air: As A Family Wishes To Mourn In Peace
The close friends of the family of Sir Agboegbulem are speaking up for their late friend and dispelling a few wicked untruths that have emerged.
The chief untruth is that the police released the video to stop the family from prosecuting the girl for murder. Sir Barr. Agboegbulem’s wife is a seasoned, well brought up lady from Uburu, Oru LGA of Imo state and a SENIOR DIRECTOR IN CENTRAL BANK OF NIGERIA. Her family is well known in their town. She lives in Abuja while the husband practiced and lived in Benin, and hails from Agbor Delta State, often joining her for weekends. The family are making it clear that at no time have they met or confronted the female in question. They simply took their husband, son, brother, and father home and laid him to rest just last week. So when did they have the time to chase after a girl and or to prosecute her?
I have come to find that Sir Agboegbulem was in law faculty Uniben part time program same time I was in same faculty. I have spoken with juniors and classmates who know him and who describe him as a quiet man who even took hypertensive medicines while in class back then at Ugbowo, We shall return to this
The truth is that the wife is a VICTIM OF BLACKMAIL BY SOME UNSCRPULOUS MEMBERS OF THE POLICE who have gone on to carry out their threat to release the video when the family refused to pay a ransom to get it deleted.
I am refraining from saying the entire police force did the blackmailing. However, the policemen who rushed to say why they released the video and talking about blackmail are themselves the blackmailer.
The family knows the health condition of their son. They know he has had hypertension from a young age. However, the girl i. question never stated that the man drank any of the pills before having sex. Like many people with chronic ailments, who travel a lot, they carry all their medications in a bag. The police, in their unprofessional and or malicious conduct opened his bag and showed all his medications as if he consumed all of them at once. Pseudo-doctors and all of us are giving medical advise “you shld not take more than 100 mg of so and so” as if we know the grams he took. The pills were i. his bags and the police have no right to have invaded his privacy thus and to reveal his health atatus
Sir, Barr, Eric Agboegbulem is JUST A KNIGHT, He did not say he was a SAINT. Traveling to various areas and for cases and away from the wife afford 80 percent of men a chance to cheat. While not justifying the action, it is at least understandable to know a lot of men will have sex while away from their wife, especially after a few drinks. But this is not the point and I will delete responses related to his conduct. Popes have slept with little boys. Leave a Knight alone to be judged by his God and forgiven by his wife.
In conclusion, the family of Sir, Barr. Eeic Agboegbulem wish to be allowed to mourn Eric in peace without the police trying to blackmail them and failing, trying to make blackmailers and bully off them. We hear they say they bear no ill-feeling towards the girl and have never reached out to her and that they wish her luck in all she does going forward. All they ask is to be left alone to mourn in peace".
*Of course, this is not a perfect post depending on your biases. However, the facts on the post does corresponds with what i have been told by a friend who is also a close relative of the deceased. I will delist any direct insult at the man or to his family*
The girl for just run, instead of calling for help, see the mess shes in now
ReplyDeleteIt's good that she didn't. Because if they found her later, they'll say she killed him and ran. It's obvious she had nothing to do with his death
DeleteLol
DeleteAll these men sef, that is how they will be sharing HIV to their poor wives. Some don't even use protection with prostitutes; causing wahala for their poor family that know nothing.
DeleteIf you watch the video, you will hear the girl say "he wanted to do without" but she insisted on condoms. Smh
DeleteEven ashawo is more careful than someone's husband/father... may God have mercy on us!
I wish the family can be left to mourn in peace. They already have a lot to deal with without all the malicious comments from people.
ReplyDeleteJust imagine the audacity of the Nigerian police. These people are mad o.
DeleteHow can you be blackmailing the family who are mourning their dead? This country enh, don taya me.
Push up, i join you to tire for this country.
DeleteIn order to make a point, he had to include that popes slept with young boys. Sir, how true is that statement of yours? In your bid to write off the police force and make your friend look innocent for cheating, MAY YOUR WORDS COME BACK TO HAUNT YOU.
ReplyDeleteDid he lie? Why so pressed?
DeleteThank you @ the white enchantress, I was shocked too at the wicked comment the illetrate lowlife writer made about popes sleeping with little boys. Truly may his words come back to haunt him..
Delete@ eka, he could have continued with his write up without citing anyone. Is he innocent? Is it because his sins are still in the closet, yet to be exposed? Please read and assimilate what my point is! Being able to comprehend something isn’t so difficult. Don’t be so quick to respond. Vous comprendre? Merci 🙏🏼.
DeleteHe even trivialzed and justified male infidelity as an accepted norm. If it were a woman lagoon for catch fire.
DeleteSo why comparing him to popes na. Which pope have been known to sleep with boys that justifies him cheating on his wife? So because he travels often, meaning he has license to cheat, but i am sure the wife would hve been skinned were she seen to do same.
ReplyDeletethis is the sad thing about our patriarchal society.... Rubbish write-up!
The writer tried to justify his actions. Yes no man is a saint but its better to let things be than try to justify it. Let the dead man rest...and let people move on from this story
DeleteTraveling to various areas and for cases and away from the wife afford 80 percent of men a chance to cheat.
DeleteThis line is really baffling! Weldone Nigerian Male Species
Imagine this rubbish this person is writing.Thats why the world Is in a mess.so because this people do this rubbish so no big deal in what he has done.That why you men will keep dying like Fowls.so sleeping with a ashewo is not a big deal.pope sleeping with underage is not a big deal.why did he collect the knight title when he knew he could not keep his thing for his wife.Failed generation.making everything abnormal normal.
DeleteMay we finish well. This man tarnished his legacy and family name with his actions. May he rest in peace and may god comfort his family and friends. We should all take note.
ReplyDeletewhen they choose to think with their third member, all they do is bring disgrace and shame to the same family that would have warned them. I wont be surprised if this man was known for such even in his church and community! The wife should just ignore, mourn if she feels like and move on. At least they can say she killed him biko!
DeleteI feel bad for the family .
ReplyDeleteHopefully they'd find the strength to move on.
He who lived by the 'sword' most definitely died by the 'sword'.
ReplyDeleteRIP SIR.
Epitaph written by...well...Viagra
Naughty gal😅
DeleteKami will you marry me?
DeleteKami no make me laff this cold and windy morning o. So that medication with a picture of a horse was prescribed by a doctor eh? I leave judgement to God but this family una wowo for mind sha.
DeleteYou will not make heaven🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteKami why😂😂😂
DeleteYou "eat" sarcasms like food. 👍
DeleteThis kami must be a Taurus
DeleteWhen people mess up, they start generalizing. The man messed up, at his age and with his medical condition, ashewo should not have been in his bucket list
ReplyDeleteThank you o. He messed up big time and he died int he act. His friend is trying to justify and take attention away from what his late friend did by citing examples that had nothing to do. Well from his write up, it’s obvious he is into the act also hence his blind justification.
DeleteWriter indeed!!
Hmmmmm,men will never cease to disgrace their family in the name of side chic,just imagine the disgrace
ReplyDeleteEnter your reply...no be side chick, na ashawo
DeleteAnon, any difference?
DeleteMay we not die a shameful death... Amen
ReplyDeleteThis response reeks of stupidity in this instance silence is truly golden.
ReplyDeleteVery unnecessary and awful response.
DeleteBP is a silent killer but if it is properly managed, the person will live long. My grandmother died at 95 and she had BP, just use your medication and adopt a healthy lifestyle.
A man with this level of education and exposure should know better than combining It with other medicines that wasn't prescribed by his doctor, probably even added alcohol to the mix.
OgaWhy??
He is dead and gone, whether his legacy is ruined or not, It is his wife, adult children and family that will suffer this humiliation he brought upon them.
Some of these deaths are avoidable, Nigerian police weldone. You won't get a penny, nothing is new under the sun.
They will always find a way to justify evil, why the comparison with pope, shameless people.
ReplyDeleteSir , knight, barrister, if u like join ’ almighty’ to his name, fact remains he died a very shameful death. God Himself exposed your ‘knight’. Console yourself by saying 80% of men cheat on their wives, you carried out a survey abi? Eleribu somebody ! I must not look for this comment o!
ReplyDeleteThank u. Na who dem catch be thief!!! Be u a knight, sir, lawyer etc. Once dem catch u, u be thief!!
DeleteEleribu person join write d epistle hahaha😂😂😝😝
DeleteDon't mind the isonu writer, justifying nonsense.
DeleteI have noticed Stella doesn't like posting my comments, very soon I will become a silent BV since my contribution isn't wanted
Meinnah drugs shown in that video are for treatment of high blood pressure? Foolish write up.
ReplyDeleteProverbs 16:25,my people,please change your ways now before it is too late.
ReplyDeleteevil nigerian police wanted to profit from both sides of a conflict as usual
ReplyDeleteam sure the girl paid with her body too, before they let her go. she must have slept with at least 3 of the officers involved in that case for free...now they felt entitled to get money from the man's family too.
So true!!!
DeleteEeeeeeeyaaaa
ReplyDeleteYou are hypertensive and you went to sleep with a young girl with high sex drive. Oga writer, you got nothing to write just rest
ReplyDelete‘‘Travelling to various areas and for cases and away from the wife, afford 80percent of men a chance to cheat’’ thank u for the statistics. How well written. SMH. I feel so sorry for that wife.
ReplyDeleteAll I know is that an innocent girl should not be put in a jail.for a murder she didn't commit just because she's a prostitute
ReplyDeleteI wish we can let this matter rest. Only hurt and pain will come from dragging the matter. My condolence to the family, they dont deserve this.
ReplyDeleteIt will pass, this one have covered the actress and senators nudes released sometime ago. Another story on or before Valentine and this one becomes stale except for the stigma on the family that will arise occasionally. It is well with their souls.
ReplyDeleteMen, get closer I wanna ask you something...what exactly do u guys want from a woman? This man had a very educated and high profiled woman as a wife yet went for a very very low class prostitute. A lot of you men are foolish really.
ReplyDeleteI tell u. When their wife is slim they go for obese outside, when she’s educated they go for illiterate, when she’s mature they go for kids. I just don’t get it!!!
Delete@10:00
DeleteThere is nothing like high and low class prostitutes.
All of them are prostitutes. Sleeping with them is called
prostitution. It has gone beyond fornication or adultery.
If you are one repent. 😏😏😏
Na ojukokoro we dey call am
Deletemay God console the family he left behind.
ReplyDeleteNigerian police force are the worst set of animals. The man's family should have just written,"he who is without sin should cast the first stone". I don't have anything to say about the dead but that lady should thank her stars because she might not be lucky if such incident repeats again.
ReplyDelete"it is at least understandable to know a lot of men will have sex while away from their wife, especially after a few drinks"
ReplyDeleteSee how they normalized cheating! whoever wrote this piece up there is a big disgrace in an attempt to cover the deceased shameful behavior you ended up making matters worse. smh.
"it is at least understandable to know a lot of men will have sex while away from their wife, especially after a few drinks"
ReplyDeleteSee how they normalized cheating! whoever wrote this piece up there is a big disgrace in an attempt to cover the deceased shameful behavior you ended up making matters worse. smh.
_Did he kill himself or murdered by another?
ReplyDeleteThe storyline started with "The man was with his friends at the Chemist side" and ended with a question from a purported IPO "which drug" and boom someone open the very partition of the bag where the the drugs were.
My concern after a critical review of the leaked video of a man died as a result of allegedly marathon sex with precious:
1. What if the man never died of overdose sex pile.
2. It may not necessarily be precious that killed the man
3.what if precious never had sex with the man
4. What if Precious was only brought into the scene to divert the attention of the real security agency and the family from the actual cause of death.
Go back and watch the video with a very critical mindset
-Watch the video again and again.
- watch the demeanor of the Girl(Precious)
- listen carefully to the conversation of the "police"
- watch their action carefully.
Their script had it that te man was at a chemist and from entered the hotel with the girl just to portray that he bought the drugs from the chemist. On getting to the hotel he ordered for food and eat before going to bed and the remaining food with the plate was on the table but the "police" never suspected food poisoning first rather they requested For the drugs and went straight up to the very partition of the bag of where the drugs were.
I also wonder why a man who went to have fun in a hotel will keep a girl all night beside him till 5am before touching her. Hmmm(a man's body).
What if that man was MURDERED and the whole thing was staged to look like what was shown to you? How convenient he had a bag full of the drugs waiting to be discovered.
What if his killers were the ones talking to you in that video? How convenient at the beginning they all claim to "know him". Who are the "they in that video"? How have you just concluded they were really the police?
What was the autopsy report that said he died of drug overdose?
Nigerians are the most gullible and simpleminded people on earth. See everyone rushing to conderm the man and mock the family.
A new crime method may have emerged in Nigeria: kill someone and make it look like suicide or drug overdose, blackmail him/her with immoral issues and post it all over social media. Boom! You're forever covered in the barrage of comments, jokes and posts that will follow.
I have been thinking.
May we not be blackmailed with immoral issues to cover up the wrong doings against us_
All this long explanation would not have been necessary had the man not gotten involved with extramarital sex. End of discussion.
DeleteAnother angle hmmm
DeleteAnon 10:39, Aren't you foolish for concluding that Nigerians are gullible?
DeleteIf the family are that concerned, they should ask for their own autopsy and conduct a private investigation.
Nigeria is not good, Nigeria is bad, Nigerians are gullible but after writing your whole epistle, you did not proffer any solution. Odenson
@anon10.39 you sound incoherent just take your meds ull be fine
DeleteYes baby or grand ma, you and that anon 12:36 are the gullible Nigerians. No be same Nigeria police killed a mechanic during torture at E-crack,dumped the rest in a prison yard and labelled them criminals. Abi is it not the same Nigeria that any young man with dreadlocks is a yahoo boy and must be harassed by SARS. Like the anon said, may we not be blackmailed with immoral issues to cover up the wrong doings against us....both of you should say amen.
DeleteSee them, if police arrest una now and label una olosho......na then eye go clear baby and anon 12:36
DeleteThat girl is innocent ,please release her.
ReplyDeleteAll yeye grammar.
You left her to rot in cell whilst you are burying your dead who used his hands to bring his death.
Why is she been held back,is that not against the law.
You are just oppressing her.
You knew who your husband was.
All these pretentious marriage
what you just wrote here is the problem with a lot of you Nigerians who dont read well but rush to comment. go back read again then comment again...smh
DeleteThis man's family should cover their faces in shame.
ReplyDeleteThey are here justifying infidelity like it is a fashion.
Tufiakwa.😮😮😮😮
Don’t know why but I believe the write up. I too wondered why the police released the video. Now it makes sense. Release it o jare. It makes no diff. The guy is already gone. All this will blow over and the family will move on. I like the fact that they didn’t try to cover up what he did. But pls remove all that pope and little boy. It’s insulting.
ReplyDeleteDon’t know why but I believe the write up. I too wondered why the police released the video. Now it makes sense. Release it o jare. It makes no diff. The guy is already gone. All this will blow over and the family will move on. I like the fact that they didn’t try to cover up what he did. But pls remove all that pope and little boy. It’s insulting.
ReplyDeleteA girl u know sleeps with anything with cash is begging u, a married man to use condom? Please Lord, let these men who behave like dogs keep dying like this. Men are actually heartless! Even if this man didn't die dis way Hiv or someoda deadly disease would have killed him and maybe he would have infected d wife by then. Mrs Eric pls do Thanksgiving instead. God just saved u. That's if he hasn't infected you already. I don't have any RIP to waste
ReplyDeleteIn all of this, it is surprising that no one has noticed that this idiotic writer just brought into full light the poor innocent wife's Bio!!! Who asked him/her for that? I hope she sues!!! WTH!!!!!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteStella, in future, please try to censor information like this or you can be mentioned in a suit if one is filed!