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SMALL THING
Please I need advice. So, I started dating this guy six months ago, and I didnt give up the cookie.
He proposed on Sunday and I said yes.
I dont know what prompted me to test the engine, he is small, very small down there. This is someone that is as tall as Tristan Thompson 🙄🙄🙄,i thought you people said that tall slim guys have big something?
My problem now is, how do I go about enjoying him when we are married? Does size really matter? I love him but I dont know if love Is enough. He is everything I want in a man except the small kini.
Please nobody should abuse me, I am in the office and I cant concentrate.
*Honestly?If you really really love him,you will get used to his size and it will not matter....A good gbenshing is not what keeps a marriage going at alll.....
Please do not in any way discuss with him that he is too small down there cos you will kill what is left of his male ego.
Since you have tasted,if you feel you cannot cope please move on but if you want to give love a chance,then dont complain........
When did we tell you that😎
ReplyDeleteDid the do sweet you? Take it from there
You saw the Engine abi you tested the Engine. Madam be specific so we can know how to help you
DeleteI once dated a man that was small down there, first time we had sex i didn't enjoy it, i almost didn't feel anything when he entered. Maybe because i was used to my ex who was big and a machine at sex. My ex even till the next day your leg will still be weak.
DeleteBut As time went on by the 3rd time we had sex i started enjoying the sex, maybe because i had started falling in love.
I ended up marrying this man because he is everything i want in a man. Very good looking, good character, quiet, doing extremely well in his career, rich and focused.
i wont say sex is as good as with my ex, but that ex showed me pepper with cheating. I would take a good man over bomb sex.
If he has MONEY and uses it to take care of you/ your relatives, my friend MARRY HIM.
DeleteSo many naija wives have opened up about never reaching orgasm when gbenshing, so you too can bear it. Its when he is broke or stingy,over macho type with odour (body&mouth) in addition to small peepee, that u should run and be single so that your guy will locate you.
Women una dey try for ze oda room matters
I remembered fam u asually did🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteFirst of us, was it small as normal non erect penis or small as an erect penis?
ReplyDeleteCome and answer o. Let's know how to advice you.
DeleteFirst of us 😂🤣
Deleteanon 15:33 you dey craze😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
DeleteOr small as cover of biro
Delete😂😂😂😂😂😂15:33
DeleteBabe if u no want abeg send me e number. Who gbonla epp
DeleteIf it's a problem for you kindly bounce. Before you start cheating in your marriage with an endowed guy who has nothing than his member to offer you.
ReplyDeletePoster I don't know why you are bothered about it. Isn't it here we read that most women don'feel anything during penetration🤔? Except clitoral stimulation with the hand or tongue, so what do you need a penis for when you still wouldn't feel anything during the drilling process irrespective of the size🤨?
DeleteAnon 16.17,she OBVIOUSLY isn't one of those women
DeleteHmmm true! But why are you shouting?
DeleteSo all you needed was a ring to spread it like butter. Anyway, how are you sure he didn’t propose to you just to come some? Apart from the size of his penis, there’s nothing else you line about him or this one is just the main thing that is important to you in a relationship?
ReplyDeletePlease if you know you can’t cope and would use it against him, give him back his ring and do not bruise his ego. He didn’t create himself, if a man comes here to say a lady is wide now we know how we will finish him with insults. Think about it, are you sure the problem isn’t you?
She didn't mention anything else aside penis because that is the only problem she has with him.
DeleteIt matter o. Gbola matter is a serious matter o. Better leave him alone before you end up cheating...😆😆😆
ReplyDeleteHas he asked you to marry him?
ReplyDeleteOkwa ajuju o 😮😮
You Naija girls will always think marriage while the dudes are thinking sex. Nne, he has had sex and will keep demanding for it without any commitment.
Any little thing you spread legs like mat. Now, you have given up your cookie, it has been eaten and probably the end. I don't know any kid that eats cookie and it is still in the packet.
If you want to marry a husband that will respect you, close those legs and learn/study him characterwise. If not, you are headed to the dumpster.
Ndi uta can shoot all they like, I have told you the truth. 😘😘😘
Yea, he has proposed, you said yes, but having given away the cookies he may never marry you.
Deletepremarital sex does not foster a good marriage because the lessons of courtship is compromised..
That's what I have always told my friends here. Okwa maka ndi uta o. 😊😊
Did you read before commenting? She said the guy proposed and she said "yes". Abi is the meaning of propose not asking for marriage?
DeleteANG go back and read ooo HE HAS PROPOSED
Delete@Fan and 15:36
DeleteYes you (Naija) girls have rushed with your uta -bow and arrows 🏹🏹🏹
Let me ask you my ajuju,
That he proposed does it make that drilling of this sisi not to be fornication?
Zaa m ajuju o.
Proposal is not marriage. Fornication is any sex before marriage; i.e. before bride price is paid.
The dude may never marry her and that's PROBABLY another chronicle.
Ndi uta note PROBABLY. 😊
The girl started on a left foot and has just thrashed that relationship.
DeleteIf a marriage is going to work, it will work. Whether you have sex before marriage or after. Or are we saying people that enter marriage being virgins never divorce ?
DeleteAnd many guys have sex before marriage, even on first date and they still marry the lady. This thing is not one size fits all. It doesn't mean the Posters man wont marry her.
@16:11
DeleteWe are saying that sex before marriage is fornication and an effrontery to God's laws.
Do you have any problem with that?
Flee fornication is what he says. Do you know more than your creator?
proposal is not marriage, you can call it off... that's why its good to test b4 buying
ReplyDeleteToh! Get a vibrator 😂. But on a more serious note, since he's all you want in a man, I'd advice you stick to him atleast, you'll be rest assured he won't cheat. Or you prefer a big deal that'll give you pains? #okbye
ReplyDeleteHavent you heard a penis has no conscience? Small Average or Big penis doesnt discriminate holes.. its the individuals restraint
DeleteTell them Macbeth
Deleteproposal is not marriage, you can call it off... that's why its good to test b4 buying
ReplyDelete��������
ReplyDeleteNext time, let him work with his fingers and tongue. Penetration is not the only thing that can make you reach cloud 9. If that takes you close to cloud 6 then stay, if not, RUN!!¡¡!
It s bn more than 2years i commented😌
Honestly , penetration doesn't work for me. Fingers , tongue and co send me over the edge.
DeleteSo, it's a matter of you. If you like penetration and love sex, please , leave
Has he proposed to you?
ReplyDeleteRead the story again.
Delete@Olive
Deleteand so? it is still fornication, isn't it?
But hope, he won't start saying you are wide there after child birth.
ReplyDeleteShes already wide.
DeleteThe key hole is bigger than the key. This is why i always advice ladies to restrict access till marriage, how many locksmiths will attempt entry before you find the right one?.. some ladies are lucky enough to return to the original setting from the factory.
Nice one,Macbeth!That switch was smoothly done.
DeleteHe isn't small.She is wide....
The ease with which girls succumb to premarital sex these days is frightening.
ReplyDeleteThis guy may never propose to you.
The dwindling economy plays a huge role, pussy is easily used for a bargaining chip, what else can they offer?
DeleteThat bargaining chip is foolishness. When the man dumps her not if.
DeleteThe ease with which people comment without first reading and understanding these days is frightening.
DeleteLiteracy may never fall on you.
@16:36
DeleteIlliteracy won't take a soul to hell. Fornication will😰😰
Poster please do not deceive your self!if you know for a fact that that MINISTRY is very crucial to you then gently backoff.Biko do not tell him your actual reason for letting go.There is absolutely nothing to be ashamed of ok?
ReplyDeleteIt is better you break up with him now than cheating on him when married and let someone that crave for that small kini locate him.
ReplyDeleteHave you thought about if he too really enjoy what you offer on the bed?
Start doing kegels to fit into his size,but a Godly and good heart matters more,good men are rare to come by
DeleteDon't start what you can't finish.
ReplyDeleteDrop his digits her for any interested lady to start from where you stopped
This is the reason why Jehovah God and His law forbade us from testing the cookie before marriage
ReplyDeleteThe problem today and the reason why many women say their husband's rod cannot satisfy them is because, for many years before marriage, the cookie has tasted multiple rod sizes: from the big, to the enlarged to the medium, etc.
Some even go to the extent of using monster size dildos which destroys the elasticity of the cookie and before you know it, a man has to be hung like a horse for her to feel anything.
Assuming this poster was disvirgined by this man who she claims has a small manhood..,.she would have been satisfied and even crying that it is so big....
Women, stop premarital sex ooooo...wait for your husband to be the one to break the door. That way, you won't ever have reason to feel dissatisfied.
However, poster, like Stella said, if you cannot cope with the man's size, kindly walk away.
Because for you to have started complaining about the size upfront, you are probably going to cheat or have an unfulfilled sex life.
Unless you convince yourself that you love him irrespective of sexual dissatisfaction or unfulfillment
That’s a lie as we have read chronicles here about virgins marrying men with small sick and they cane here for advice
Delete#True.
DeleteYou saved me from typing.
The benefits of staying a virgin till marriage cannot be overemphasized...
Abegi leave plenty story.
DeleteIf the thing small, e small be that, leave Jehovah out of this talk.
Macbeth are a virgin too? ?
DeleteY'all should stop calling my name up and down ooh😭😭😭
DeleteAnonymous 15:32, a virgin who has never had sex before will not come here and say her husband has a small rod that cannot satisfy her. Her cookie is still sealed
DeleteThe only virgin that can do that is a virgin who spent her singlehood watching porn and fantasizing about the penises there
Thanks @macbeth. We have a way of always trying to rationalize crap.
Nothing wrong in experiencing sex first time on the marriage bed....in fact, it's the next experience.
Unless in the case of rape, you have no reason not to wait
You are right.Both men and women should stay virgins so they enjoy whatever they end up with.
DeleteMust also be the reason why divorce is abhorrent to God. That way everyone just sticks to one vagina and penis for life.
Alleluia!
@cookie 🤭
DeleteMacbeth! You mean men and women must be a virgin right? Are you one yourself?
DeleteMen and women should abstain from premarital sex. I really wonder why it’s only the women they talk to about it.
DeleteI'm sure he means women only. Let the men remain virgins too so they don't complain their wives are too wide. Lol
DeleteI don't want to think he is that dumb to expect women alone to be virgins. If he means only women then men automatically becomes virgins too because they won't get any woman to sleep with if when obey his rule. Except he is recommending the gay act. Only then can women be virgins and men non virgins since they now have an alternative.
DeleteIf he knows how to use it and his mouth well, i dont see the problem. 🤷🏻♀️
ReplyDeleteSome ladies only orgasm when their Gspot is hit a few times, some are located at the far end of the cervix, a biro cover wouldnt scratch the surface.
DeleteUnlike those that'd squirt by mere fiddling with their clit in a clockwise motion.
mouth is more important to me than dick tbh.
DeleteThanks for saving my strength. Hope today turned out well for you
DeleteHey, Miliki. Thank you and yours as well.
DeleteMacbeth, keyword there is "use". It doesn't matter the girth..the one that will hit different, will hit different.
DeletePerx oh, Biko, how person wan USE smallest finger touch the inside bottom of coke bottle? Na magic?
DeleteMen don't get that sex for women is not all about what can be touched and reached. It is about doing it right and how you can make a woman feel, that alone can switch on the gspot so you don't have to actually touch it before it erupts. Many men have very poor bedroom skills, and the worse is they think differently. If you try to tell them their fragile egos will be broken.
DeletePoster I know Stella might be right that gbenshing is not what keeps a marriage but let me also tell you that, gbenshing can equally break a marriage if it's not being done properly and one is not satisfied. If you think you can manage and you might get used to him then certainly go ahead but if you can't, then don't.
ReplyDeleteI dated my husband for 2mths without testing.
ReplyDeleteJust like you, when we finally did the deed, i couldn't imagine how i'ld live the rest of my life with "small kini", thinking of the fact that i left a man with jumbo kini, just to be with him (my husband).
Today, my "body" has totally adjusted to his size, and if we have any problems today, small bura is the least of it...
It depends on what's more important to you; love, respect and peace of mind Vs Big bura. I chose the latter, but i can't choose for you. Goodluck on whatever choice you make
You choose Big bura? Na wa
DeleteWhy not tell us you left a man with small bank account for your husband?
DeleteYou chose the former. I am glad you are happy in your marriage.
Delete@Anon 15:50
Delete@Kamikaze
I chose the former.
Anon 15:55
I left an abusive man for a good man.
If you know you like big thing, please leave uncle with small kini for those who like it like that 😔.
ReplyDelete"i thought you people said that tall slim guys have big something?".
ReplyDeletehahahahhahhaha. i no fit laugh abeg.
I don't believe all those speculations. You can't be sure till you do the do. Big something without him knowing how to use it is a waste. Small kini and he doesn't still know what to do is the worst. He will just be like your brother because you will not even feel like gbenshing even though you like his person.
DeleteHow about you admit your pussy has been expanded to its elastic limit?This same thing has happened to me before.Girl refused to give the cookie so I thought she was just being a good girl not knowing that it was cos she knew her pussy was too wide from excessive nacking and didn’t want to disappoint herself.when you people write the chronicles pls say the truth and nobody should tell me there’s nothing like pussy is wide,too much fuck,childbirth etc can cause it.
ReplyDeleteHello smallie. How are you today?
DeleteYou refuse to accept that her man's penis is small.Instead you want her to 'admit' you are knowledgeable about these things.
DeleteOkay o!
Aww! poor lil Tink Tink. 15:24 🤣
DeleteHello smallie kilt me🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣..Kamikaze I see yah, love you boo!!!😙😙😙
DeleteMr small kini nor vex nau. Just learn how to do am
DeleteOh, it is the one that when you are doing the DO will touch your liver and Kidney you want yeah? decide on which attributes you can and cannot handle. You can't have it all. Figure it out
ReplyDeleteI tells you choi! Chai chai chai!!
DeleteHahahaha una dey try ooo. It is good you have adjusted
ReplyDeleteEayah it is well with you. No need managing if you won't enjoy your marriage because you will definitely cheat.
ReplyDeleteIt is well
Is his name Chris?
ReplyDeleteBig dick doesn't do it all. Give this guy a chance o, good men are not out there o.
ReplyDeleteSex is not food neither is it the only ingredient that makes a good and happy marriage.
Na food ooo, lol. I guess it depends on the level of your libido........
DeleteWith all the complain From chronicles and those have heard outside the blog now I know why God said flee from Premarital sex because if we all flee and get married as virgins all this complain no go dey! Not judging you poster, just sharing my thoughts.
ReplyDeleteThere may not be complaints in sex and there might be. I have read a chronicle here that the husband was tired of his virgin wife and wanted out. Apart from sex many other issues can kill a marriage.
Delete18:41 your comment only butressed what CFV said. If only that same man had been a virgin and not tasted everything in skirt before he got married he would have been satisfied with his virgin wife and appreciated her instead of comparing her with every women he had been with.
DeleteYou are talking about that man who said by the shape of a woman's lips he can tell how good in bed she is right? His fornicating ways before marriage caught up with him.
MAJORITY men that agree to no sex before marriage have things they are hiding
ReplyDeleteIt still doesn't make it right
DeleteSeriously!I am starting to think so too.
DeleteTheyre just keeping Gods commandment, he'd have mercy & heal them for not defying the bed before marriage.
DeleteMy ex used to be like that. Tall, six pack, handsome, such a sweet guy but his prick is as tiny as an office pin. He told me one day that he wish his prick was big. Eeeya I pitied him. He really good in bed though, he licked my place really well and sucked my breasts real good. Well, we didn't go our separate ways because of tiny kiniko, distance separated us. Now he's married and married.
ReplyDeleteThere is this tall guy I have been crushing on. Should I forget it?
DeleteA good gbenshing is need in marriage Stella.
ReplyDeleteA home can break cos of no enjoyment in gbenshing.
Or maybe your kini wide..👀
ReplyDeleteAbi. There’s no way you can make small kini become big. None whatsoever. So, return his ring and lose his contact if you know you can’t cope and let another have him. Pls don’t marry him and cheat on him oh
ReplyDeleteThere is vaginoplasty
DeleteDear poster if you really love him pls I will advice you stop having sex with him now that you have checked the engine. Cus now we don’t know if the proposal is a genuine one or not. The only way to find out that he is really serious is when things go further like introduction discussing about meeting each other’s family. If you love him you will later get to enjoy him . But I will advice that you pause on the sex for now cus Guys lately are strange. Some are too desperate for the pants while some want to just wife you and have their peace. Good luck
ReplyDeleteSize is a problem and not a problem depending on the man (How he uses it) and the woman ( if she's one who likes it big. In all these, find a common ground, talk to each other, explore more ways to enjoy sex and importantly, the woman's body will get used to it with time.
ReplyDeleteSince you love him, everything on your list has been checked you will get use to it and enjoy him. You can never have it all Rosey, sometimes not everything seems perfect. Some tall huge guys are usually small down there, some have small something but can use it well while others have big something but cannot use it, understand if he is all buy can use. You will get use to him if you are not cheating, never you tell him his something is too small else the love is dead.
ReplyDeleteif you like the man....ps give love a chance.
ReplyDeleteThough a big stick is good....the man will know what do to as he gets used to your body.
From experience it is easier to make my wife climax by stimulating her clit...even though I have a big stick and a lot of energy.
I did not have sex with my wife before marriage..looking back I am not sure this was not too much of a gamble...some things should be known before getting married.
Besides Stella, he may be a grower not a shower. I've met a couple of guys like that. Don't be deceived.
ReplyDeleteMy hubby has a small pimpim. I still enjoy gbanshing with him very well especially when I'm ontop.
ReplyDeleteThis on-top thing works for small kini, i just realised cant come n kill my sef
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