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THE LIES

I'm just confused, I lost a relationship of 3 years because of lies I was told and I believed the lies.

This is what happened,Nov last year a lady chatted me up claiming she is dating my boyfriend and that they are both church members.I was shocked and I actually continued the chat and I told her i needed to hear more from her.she told me how she is always visiting his family blah blah,I was shocked cos his family knows we are dating.I felt betrayed .For like a week,I didn't communicate with him even though he calls and chats me up,I just read his msgs and ignore his calls.He came to visit after my silent treatment and I had to tell him with tears ,what i did to him to deserve his cheating.


He was shocked and surprised and told me nothing like that,that he has never cheated on me.I broke up with him that instant,he cried and begged,I refused to listen. Then he asked for the lady's name and number that chatted me up,I told him and he was shocked again.He said they are just church members and that the girl has been disturbing him,telling him that she likes him.He told her,he wasn't interested and that he has someone he loves and wants to marry.He said she made up all what she told me.I asked How she got my number,he said he doesn't know.


I was not convinced,I told him ,that cheating is a deal breaker for me.Bvs ,this lady knows so much about me ooo.All what i did when i went to visit his family,the food i cooked and places we visited.She told me how he is deceiving girls up and down, how he is always going to clubs with friends,she even said some stuff about his family etc.It was so disheartening, my yoruba angel can't be a demon over night(we communicate and discuss about almost everything and we are practically almost together). 

How come?

I ended the relationship, he begged and begged , I refused.I blocked him everywhere.I blocked the lady too cos the information was just too much.


Fast forward to yesterday,a number called but I couldn't pick up. I wanted to call back,then a msg from whatsapp just came in with that number.

I just opened it and the first words I saw was I'm sorry.

I was curious and i read through,bvs,hot tears started falling my eyes,chai,I was just shaking.It was that lady that sent the message. She said she lied about everything, all what she said about him and his family were false and that she said all those stuffs so that I can dislike him and his family. She wanted him but the feeling was not mutual,that whenever she was talking about her feelings, he was always talking about his feelings for me and she became jealous.


I asked her all told her stuff about me(not bad stuff tho),she said it was the girl that stays with my bf's family.she said she asked her,if my boyfriend has a gf and she said yes and the girl told her,that I'm nice to her,and that her problem with me is because I'm not yoruba.see devil. 

This is a girl that was driven out by whoever she was staying with(her family abandoned) and she came to school with her baggage crying.My bf's mom(a teacher in the sch) saw her and asked what happened,she narrated her ordeal and that moment,she said she will take her home without even informing anyone about it at home.she has been with them for over 5 years.They take care of her and they don't hide anything from her,any family discussions,she is there,no secrets and she still betrayed them like this and I'm still shocked.

I believe she must have been telling others about their family secrets too.

She said she has confessed and asked for his forgiveness because he left the church after he confronted her.

I have not been myself since yesterday,I don't know how to apologize to him,he begged me,his family begged too,he told me to trust him😭😭😭.

*Madam leave him and move on,you didnt trust him well enough and if he marries you now,when you go and listen to lies,that is how you will walk out without trusting or believing in him...

If the same lady comes to you and says he asked her to lie to you that she lied,who would you believe?

The best thing you can do for him is to save his family from that inside rat that went to inform that lady....tell him about her role in the brouhaha.

If cheating is a deal breaker for you,for some lack of trust is a deal breaker as well.....

Dont go and beg him oh,please move on......