A lot of people endure and die from DV because Pastor says Divorce is not God's way.....
Monday, February 10, 2020
Actress Victoria Inyama Reveals A Pastor's Influence Made Her Endure An Abusive Marriage
UK based Nigerian Actress Victoria Inyama has revealed how a pastor's psychological influence over her made her a 'people pleaser' and filled her with guilt.
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Childhood induction or indoctrination?
ReplyDeleteVictoria, you are out of the abusive marriage. No point looking back constantly, there is a time to move forward.
Please allow her tell her story how she deems it fit, she might be saving a life from constantly talking about it who knows
DeleteI don’t understand why this woman is being forced down our throat. We don’t want to know every single thing that has gone on in your life. Can’t she get a friend or family member to talk to?
DeletePls stop.not everyone finds it easy to move on...whether induction or indoctrination, at least you got the massage(hope you autofill this one with message)
DeleteDivorce has so much stigma attached to it because of abusive christianity.
ReplyDeletei agree ..But Victoria love social media sha... i see her comments everywhere ...hope she reported her ex to police ....but as she has unburdened herself time to move on
DeleteI feel say na only me dey see her ooo shuuu I swear down she's everywhere her itk is too much.
DeletePastors that is not all rosy in their marriages,giving advice they cant take or impliment in their homes
ReplyDeleteSad to read this.
ReplyDeleteBut one thing I know is that once they offload husbands, they will be looking for scapegoats to hang the blame on. Today it is the pastor. Yesterday it was; "I did not want to kill another woman's child..."
Really?😮😮
So what will be the excuse tomorrow?
When a marriage breaks down, none of the parties ever accept responsibility that they had anything to do with it's breakdown. But when a marriage succeeds, each will be on their own lane claiming responsibility for the successes. It takes two to tango, doesn't it?
Please seek God people and not "pastors". Read your Scriptures and learn how to nurture this beautiful institution of marriage that God created and said he hates to have it messed up. 😘😘
Oh please just shut it 🤫
DeleteShe married a total stranger, hence all these episodes. Churches are public arena where good and bad people converge. Auntie, pele.
Delete@12:48
DeleteWhy not converse intelligently? Counter my points or scroll pass instead of trading in insults and shutting me up.
It is only people who are bereft of an iota of intelligence that try to shut others up.
Now everyone who wants to leave her marriage will say abusive. That can mean anything.
ReplyDeleteThese days when u don't meet up to peoples demand and requests they also term it abusive, just because they are not happy their requests don't go through.
It is incomplete to say someone is abusive without saying what is it, example, he hits me, he talks down on me and so on.
If you don't want to explain what transpired as u feel it is nobody's business or u want to protect the father of ur kids. Then better keep it to yourself and leave quietly without disturbing existing peace.
People must learn to make THEIR OWN peace with God and hear from Him THEMSELVES.
ReplyDeleteThank you
Deleterubbish. no pastor will ever tell you to divorce a man because he knows what the bible says about divorce. a pastor can only tell you the right thing to do. alot of you who go to church are not even believers, you dont read the word and get to know God for your self. Gods ways are not mans ways and so far you are married you must stay married. if you are being abused physically you must stay out of the same vicinity with the abuser but God expects you to still show love. stop blaming the pastor for your foolishness and ignorance. God is not a fool for that verse and if you dont walk in love then you disobey him. you people go and marry for stupid reasons and then dont even follow Gods principles for relating with your spouse then you turn around to blame pastors.
ReplyDeleteyes Divorce is not Gods way and he hates it. no pastor will tell you to divorce. if you are being abused then move out and stay on your own then pray for your spouse from there. stop blaming the pastors for alot of death from DV. na here we dey wey women no dey gree leave abusers cos of love abi they dont want the tag of separated or divorcees. stop vilifying pastors
ReplyDeleteIf u don't have head to think for urself then why are u an adult??? Are u a child that u will let people control what u do?
ReplyDeleteThis woman needs to shut up and face her dead career.... can you tell us what caused domestic violence for you .you wanted a flamboyant lifestyle, go to party and come back anytime to want to. You were not saint did you commit adulterous yes or no
ReplyDeleteLet us rest please, we have heard you repeat this several times.
ReplyDeleteOkay you are a victim of DV we have heard.
It's 2020, Victoria Inyama move on and stop shoving yourself down our throats just because you have nothing else to offer.
Minions, come and carry your role model
My dear, tell your story, it is yours to tell. We see more women dying daily at the hands of men who supposedly love them under the name of husband than ever before. Women are killed by men globally more than diseases or accidents combined. Your story may give a woman the courage to move on and save her life. Don't worry about the naysayers, they will always be there. Freedom and peace of mind are holy gifts from the divine, never let anyone steal them from you. I am happy that you are out of that life and can use your experience to help others. Many pastors live very dirty and sordid lives behind closed doors, we should always be mindful of which ones we allow to touch us, pray for us, or give guidance to us.
ReplyDeleteShe needs to share her story now that she is alive. It is this same pastor said that made my friend marry the wrong person and at the same time led her to early grave.
ReplyDeleteProblem with most religious people is that life is either black or white, extremism to the core. But no... life is neither black or white, there are shades in between. Religious people are too narrow-minded and judgemental, like the pharisees of old. How I hate religion!
ReplyDeleteI thought she was Catholic, I used to see her then I Tuesday adoration at Fr Osigwe, she looked stunning then, I would low key pray that God grants her heart desires.
ReplyDelete