According to Maame Dokono, any man who does this is cursed and would be faced with bad luck forever.She used the bible to back her point.
She stated that the good book of Christians has made it clear that the man is the head of the family and hence shouldn’t have to stoop low by washing panties no matter the situation.
Maame Dokono who shared her view in an interview on Vibes in Five said “No, No, it will be hard luck on the man if he washes his wife’s underpants and everything of the man will go bad.
“It will have spiritual implications and everything of the man will not go on well for him”.
She threatened that she will slap and beat the hell out her son if he should she ever see him washing the panties of his wife because that is not his duty as the man of the house.
"I will take the things from my son and slap him with it. I will ask him if he’s a fool to be washing his wife’s panties, I will ask him that Kwabena are you a fool?” she said.
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*What about men that give head?use their tongue to lick a womans private inside out?I dont see anything wrong with a man washing his womans panties if he wants to....
Just when we thought we have gotten a break from Papa Pete Edochie, Mama dokono showed up😬
ReplyDeleteI am telling you! Na God hand we dey.😌
DeleteNa her type go get son wey go do.pass washing of "paents" for woman o
DeleteThese ancient people should leave the new generation alone na.
DeleteTouch with your Hands and soap = cursed.
ReplyDeleteTaste with your tongue & swallow = Romantic.
One week, One advice from an elder. Lemme wait for nxt week.
Why should a man wash a woman's panties.. Abeg me I don't like the sound of it not to talk of even seeing the act.
ReplyDeleteLike I don't get it!
Delete1. When she's Ill.
Delete2. If she is overwhelmed (especially during pregnancy)
3. If they use a machine or not hand wash and he wants to do the laundry. (P.S not everyone wash their undies daily)
4. He just wants to do it as a show of love and it's HIS WIFE! His BETTER HALF!
I saw my aunt struggle with her last pregnancy, thank God she married a sane man who was there to help her,and wash up after her till her mum arrived.
People will just wake up and say nonsense, go to their homes, you will wonder why you ever listened to them.
You have no idea what men do when they're in love.
DeleteNothing wrong with a man washing his wife panties.
Its just like putting the panties in the washing machine and then spread them out to dry.
Anonymous 13:08 it's like it's me who typed that. My hubby washes my panties when I am sick and pregnant.sometimes being late for something I will forget to wash and he does it.i was his undies most of the time.
DeleteAnonymous 13:08 it's like it's me who typed that. My hubby washes my panties when I am sick and pregnant.sometimes being late for something I will forget to wash and he does it.i was his undies most of the time.
DeleteHmmmmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteHmm they have come again
ReplyDeleteI am so fucking tired. I'm just too tired.
ReplyDeleteLast weekend, we had a Couple's program in the church and I invited my husband with better begging oh cos he doesn't like Nigerian churches at all.
If course, it was a fun program but they ruined it for me with one particular advice.
So they were talking about how to make ur marriages last and one elderly igbo man (of course it has to be an igbo man) said something about two things that men like, food and sex and that the woman should be ready to provide these anytime the man wants it and people cheered and clapped.
To counter it, a younger lady said something about the man being considerate sometimes like when she's tired or not in the mood, the younger crowd agreed but it was the response of an older woman, not too old but not young either, that put me off.
She took the microphone and said, well, there's no excuse to refuse your husband sex or he will go outside to get it. She said when u are not in the mood or tired, pray to the Holy spirit to give u strength.
My jaw dropped.
My husband just turned to me and said, 'look at the church u are going'
Now I'm glad he doesn't attend the church.
I hope our churches isn't even a contributing factor to marriage problems
You and your husband even be like the same thing. Anything from us is inferior and anything from outside is supreme. Which country you dey again sef? Poland? Or Bulgaria? Czech? Slovakia?
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DeleteSo, the story that Eka told you got nothing from it apart from that yen yen yen hogwash you wrote here eeeeeeh anon 12:11.
DeleteYou guys always looking for an opportunity to criticize someone.
do some of you even think before commenting or you simply want to attack Eka? i am born again, spirit filled, tongue talking but i dont accept everything i hear in church.that woman is totally wrong. sex is not food and God has given men the ability for self control. why must women be threatened with affairs for every thing? so you wife is tired one night and she must sanctioned?it is a known fact home and abroad that women do 80 percent of house chores. it is a different thing if she is always GIVING EXCUSES CAN THE MAN NOT look for a way to resolve the matter? women should tolerate their husband,s shortcoming but men must quickly run out and cheat...
Deleteanonymous 12:11 what are you even saying. how is this about superiority or inferiority smh. i years back refused to be a member of my friends church in london because of all the naija stuff i saw them doing. it was filled with a particular tribe and they were just too extra. hubby and i settled for another church that was very mixed nationalities in Golders Green. when you truly love your spouse in the light of Gods word there will be freedom in expressing that love without inhibitions. if your spouse is tired to make love and you know its not a habitual thing a cuddle wont kill you and God is not a wicked God that will insist you make love by fire by force. so called Christians infusing marriage with their African mentality and prejudices. how all these funny advice align with love in 1st Corinthians 13 beats me
DeleteEka Joy, you better be careful the church you take your husband to in this obodo oyinbo, you better be careful the people you mingle with and be more careful of what you hear and digest as the truth.
DeletePut one leg for ground first before you put two legs stand gidigba.
😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂....very funny story
DeleteI am telling you, I expected anon 12:11 to have said something sensible. Kudos to eka for even answering her about her location. I don't even know what to say about the older woman's comment, I am truly weak...
DeleteI had an ex who used to wash my clothes and undies with his whenever he did laundry. I didn't ask, he just did. Same way we took turns cooking just because... There was an unspoken way of us doing things and it worked fine. Everyone has an opinion of how someone else's life or marriage should be but can not apply said opinions to oneself. Whatever works for you in your relationship, that's all that matters...
Na wah oh! Is it war against women? Don't kneel to propose to your woman, don't wash her undies but he can go down low on her huh?
ReplyDeleteLet people do what makes them happy mbok, I have dated a guy who washed my undies in d past and nothing went bad for him! I honestly dunno why some people get this notion from
My sister, it truly is tiring
DeleteKpakam!
ReplyDeleteThey've finally started facing the men. Nobody should complain ooo. Afterall we've been reading all sorts about woman and nobody died.
You do realise that indirectly, this is still against women????
DeleteMaybe for those women that allow men wash their panties. I can NEVER allow anyone wash my panties, not even my mum so it doesnt affect me.
Deletedo they think before commenting? na to dey read start to type gba gba gba. no time to even do meeting with the brain sef..
DeletePlease read again...
Delete@ miss Aboki of course i can never allow my mum or any other person not even my maid to wash my panties but my hubby can do it for me because i wash his nickers too.
DeleteWhy will it be a crime if my hubby wash what i used to cover the place he always find comfort and satisfaction?
My mum is the only person that washes my clothes to ny satisfaction that's why I mentioned her. I cant allow any person wash my panties cos i feel theu wont wash it well.
Delete@dollargoddess thank you.
DeleteHe can lick, finger and even put his D there but it's a taboo to help wash "sometimes" what covers it.
Hian!
That must be according to Ghana traditions
ReplyDeleteLWKM @ "Kwabena are you a fool?"
ReplyDeleteBut Kwabena is allowed to use his tongue to eat the cookie ooo. Ikwakwakwkawkakwa
No comment.... But women should try to do their undings themselves to avoid all these unnecessary talk
ReplyDeleteOh look, pete edochie's twin
ReplyDeleteTwin or wife? She needs some beating too!!! Old nanny goat!!
DeleteYou Mean Physically Beating Her @Tinalexy?
DeleteGosh, you are not only a terrible person, you are evil!
Talk of women no liking each other. What???🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
ReplyDeleteThis people who come and give all kinds of silly advices to couples should just stop.
ReplyDeleteFirst of all they don't understand the woman's place as it is in the Bible talk more of telling us what to do.
The woman is not less than a man in any way. To make this post more controversial for those who have the time. The woman is an improved version of the man. God did not make the woman to be less or to be subservient to him.
God made them to both dominate and rule the earth.
However, what if the woman is sick and can't help herself, who washes for her?
The woman is good to be slept with,to cook nice meals, bear children, take care of them. Make sure the husband is well taken care of.
But to wash ordinary pant for his wife makes him cursed?
This woman doesn't know it. She is using her culture and tradition to say this.
She should say what she wants without using the Bible.
The Bible says the man should love the wife as Christ loved the church. And we know Jesus died on the cross for the church. So how is the man loving the woman like Christ if even the minutest things he can do for her is a big problem?
Common
alot of them just punctuate every sentence with God and bible without truly knowing even knowing what God or his word says. because the devil has distorted everything the burden to love in marriage has been placed on the woman instead of the man who was commanded to. we have to do the respect, loving and take the burden of building the home alone. a whole generation of men have been taught wrong and we should begin to do better
DeleteAnd women washing men's briefs aren't cursed? I wonder why she looks like that then☻
ReplyDeleteKami
Delete😂😂😂 I'd start dodging your comments before you burst my laughing organ
What if na your Son in law dey wash ur daughter pant? Awon oniyeye
ReplyDeleteYes of course, he's cursed.
ReplyDeleteNo rational thinking and lucid man will be washing pants.
Lucid kwa. Ode. I must speak like Ceasar disease.
DeleteWhat I don't like is when a person tries so hard to bring God and his Word inside her personal opinion.
ReplyDeletePlenty talks. Abeggi!
ReplyDeleteoh pls...my man isn't cursed.
ReplyDeleteThese are the kinda elders that have ruined the marriages of thier kids and lots of youngens with thier foolish advice.
ReplyDelete😂😂😂😂😂 I must agree with you
DeleteOh my dear Eesah, you be man, abeg.
DeleteTo be honest i don't like the idea of my man washing my panties, or even anybody for that matter. i just find it too personal. Even ppl that give maids their panties too wash,i don't like it. Every form of undergarment i own must be washed by me personally because dats how i like it.
ReplyDeleteDo you use washing machine in your house?
DeleteI get irritated easily.I can never allow a man wash my panties neither can i wash his boxers. Abeg make everyone wash their undies jare.
DeleteWe don't use washing machine for my underwear. For the boys boxers yes.
DeleteBesides I wash my underwear everyday, don't like idea of storing them. Can't use the washer daily just for one pant and one bra. Plus my bras are fragile.
Thank you mama, we haff hear.
ReplyDeleteWhat if the wife is sick or after delivery, will it still be a curse on the man to wash wife's pant?
ReplyDeleteShe dey do jazz na why she dey for her pikin
Delete*afraid
Deleterubbish talk. if i can wash my husbands boxers why cant he wash my pant. any single lady that marries your son is in trouble. when the bible commands men to love their wives they think its only to bring chop money.i wash my undies myself but if am not able to for some serious reasons then i expect my husband to help me. i thank God formy hubby who evens cooks sometimes too when am very tired or not feeling well.
ReplyDeleteThere is nothing wrong about washing undies. Let us stop making life complicated. What matters is mutual respect and love for each other.
ReplyDeleteNa wa....o
ReplyDeleteSo if your woman is seriously sick at the point she cannot do anything, is this woman saying her husband shouldn't assist to wash her underwears?
ReplyDeleteWhat if your woman is heavy on bed rest, so the man shouldn't assist her to wash her pants?
Ooin........
But the woman can wash the man’s undies abi? By the way, is it with washing machine or hand? I wonder the kind of husband this woman married and the kind of things she’s teaching her children.
ReplyDeleteOn this one, I follow Eka Joy to be “tired”. Do whatever works for you abeg
I never have dirty undies because I wash them when I take my shower, so this will likely not be an issue for my future husband. But for those ppl who throw them in the wash to be done on laundry day there is no abomination in a man washing a woman's underwear. In marriage you become one unit so there is no shame in doing these things.
ReplyDeleteAre you sure you ain’t my sister? Some people find it really weird that I wash my underwear first before taking my bath.
DeleteThe thought of dying and someone having to go through a bucket of dirty underwear just icks me. In my culture this is how girls and boys too are raised to just wash their dirty underwear when they shower. I don't plan on doing otherwise.
DeleteI can never store dirty underwear. Most wash daily during shower.
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