This is an example of what he meant with further explanations....
Thursday, January 23, 2020
Man Seeks For Advice After His Mum Confessed To Him That His Father Is Not His Real Father...
Some day back,Comedian Alibaba replied to a comment on a post saying that,women are not allowed to cheat because a woman will bring home a child and force it on a man but a man cannot do same....
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ReplyDeleteHe should better drink water and face front. What has DNA got to do with fatherhood? His real father is the man who raised him, and taught him to be a man. The other man is a sperm donor. And why again did his mum choose this stage in life for such ugly confession? To clear her conscienceat the expense of sanity, peace and tranquillity? She is very selfish. Out of love, she should have gone to her grave with this secret. She isn't the first woman and never would be last to do so.
DeleteYou are a devil incarnate. God forbid I come across your type. Just look at the way you reasoned, for me I must do DNA on all my children to avoid story that touch.
DeleteI advise the poster not to tell his father because the man is already old. Besides, he IS his father. He loved and raised him. The other man is just a sperm donor. Imagine! The donor is a close friend to the father.
ReplyDeleteDear men, DNA test is a MUST!!!! It is wickedness to make a man unknowingly invest physically and emotionally on a child that is not his.
If you are a polygamist, forget it, you will raise other peoples children. I mean how do you want to keep track? If you are in a monogamous relationship, it's very to keep track
DeleteAnonymous 14:56, nothing stops a woman from being a polygamist, but she doesn't have to bring a child to her and her husband's home and deceive the husband for a life time that he is the father of that child(ren). That is evil!
DeleteFear Naija women o
ReplyDelete😮😮😮😮
When is that DNA for school enrollment going to be law oo
DNA for school enrollment??? Plenty table go shatter I swear but it will not be a bad idea
DeleteHmmmmmmm..... Things they happen oooo
ReplyDeleteHow can you possibly force a child on someone without your conscience judging you? I cant keep such secrete abeg....
She didn't "force" the child on her husband!
DeleteHer husband is not even aware that the child is not his.
NOBODY SHOULD CHEAT SIMPLE...A MAN WILL CHEAT AND HAVE A KID AND FORCE THE WIFE ACCEPT THE KIDS...
ReplyDeleteAnonymous 15:07, I am a man and what you've written up there is unacceptable. No woman should be forced to accept the kids of a man she didn't know of or agreed to raise prior to marriage! I'd support a woman to divorce a man who fathers a child outside of marriage and forces her to accept it; it is also the same way I would support a man to divorce a woman who brings another man's child into a marriage. No one should be forced to accept this rubbish!
DeleteExactly. If married men and women stay faithful, issues like these won't arise.
DeleteThere should be no exceptions or excuses for a particular sex.
Stop the lies, men do not force their wives to accept kids from outside. They beg them and it is the wife choice to either accept the kids or not.
DeleteSame can never be said of a woman who brings home another man's pregnancy without her husband's consent.
Learn to call a spade a spade and stop screaming.
Ms. A, the men beg their wives to accept their child(ren) outside of wedlock and they accept? Well, if they do, then that's on the wife. She is not compelled to accept especially if she knows that if the tables were turned around the man won't do same.
DeleteMy only prayers is that all men who have rejected thier pregnancy, who pushed a girl to abort, who denied their kids, who never took care of their offsprings, who passed on the hatred for thier wives unto the children etc. May they ever train other men's kids, may all their children be from another man. Amen. I was married and he left when I was pregnant, took all I had, never asked of his kid. Nna, u will forever train other men's kids. His new wife baby is from her ex, he found out and wants out. Guess what dear, there's more in stock for u out there.
ReplyDeletemove on and stop stalking him . You have a life to live , don't allow the past overwhelm you.
DeleteAlexander
Madam, your are still very angry about what happened. You need to forgive and let go. That's the only way you can really feel free. Karma is not a part of God's word. If it is, where does it end? Who does it end with if everyone who was offended wishes karma on the offender where does the cycle end? Forgiveness and grace, that's what the cross is for!
DeleteI totally agree. As men abandon their kids,let them train other ppl kids. Tot for tat.
DeleteStalking him? Don’t they have a child together ?
DeleteShe has every right to be bitter nu, imagine leaving her and taking all she had.
DeleteMoving on is easier said than done, people heal differently
DeleteIs the mother he described, not a witch? She's eaten her 🍰, had it and put some in the fridge cos the young man (who is actually one of her victims) is protecting her and her lies. Now, he's passing on a name that doesn't actually belong to him, to his children. Until people end up sleeping with or marrying siblings they didn't know they had, some folk will not hear that lies should not be covered.
ReplyDeleteI said it the other day; many of these wicked souls are the type that will abandon a 15yo that got pregnant. SMH.
Until people end up sleeping with or marrying siblings they didn't know they had, some folk will not hear that lies should not be covered.
DeleteDEEP...
That is the deep concern
DeleteBefore marriage let DNA be conducted so spouses don't marry their siblings!
You see this post right here, you see how many comment's on it🤔🤔🤔🤔
ReplyDeleteThe guilty ones did not come to leave comments
The enablers and sympathisers didn't come to leave comments either, because they are all guilt.
Two people of different gender might do the same thing, but, it will produce different results and those results will either cause confusion or destruction.
A woman who knowingly give another man's pregnancy to her husband, did not only commit adultery, but, have also destroyed the lives of two people.
Adultery is wrong on both sides
Stop giving a pass to adulterers.
On this blog, more than 90% of women advice mothers to take the secret to their grave. in over 8 years l read here that woman should never tell their spouse and children the truth about situations like this. This their own feminism
DeleteAlexander
16:27, if attacking feminism has been itching you, do so boldly and stop looking for where to attach it.
DeleteEvery little thing *feminism*
How did it drag into this case now?
Who told y'all that feminism is pro dishonesty?
Please go and rest if you have nothing intelligent to add.
As for Ms A and her constant coded advert for man on this space, continue ma; it's until you land yourself that fultime patriarchal man that will turn you to househelp your eyes will clear. ALWAYS attacking women! To what end? Better chill o...
Alexander, thank you very much. That's what we witness here on this blog. They analyse each chronicle in isolation with a bias depending on the gender of the sender. Rather than have a general moral compass to analyse issues. Seriously, that the problem we have in Naija. When a politician benefits us we praise and support them irrespective of what they do, but when the elected official is not from our camp everything they do is not right.
DeleteVery correct analysis @anon 18:09
DeleteMs A just said the truth.
DeleteWait to get married before having unprotected sex, no matter how sweet and in love you both are or use protection.
Well said Anon 17:10
DeleteSome women get mind hmmmm
ReplyDeleteI know a man that is investing his all in training kids that arent for him and neglecting the legitimate one he has outside wedlock. Those kids dont look a bit like him but the other child looks a 100% like him. Fetish woman, your time will soon be up cos he will find out one way or the other
ReplyDeleteI oneday overheard my late aunt's friend telling her that her 4 kids were fathered by her dad. My aunt screamed ehn! She said she wasn't getting pregnant that was y. When i see her and her family, truly dey look nothing like their dad and he is really giving them ivy education and the boogie lekki life. Poor man
ReplyDeleteMk them go holiday for US. That secret go leak
DeleteHow
DeleteThere's a popular saying that ,only a woman knows d real father of her child..I know of a 14 yrs old girl that gave my former neighbor a baby boy that wasn't his
ReplyDeleteAn old man once side,after God,fear women
Its now so bad some women are not even sure who the father is
DeletePepper I have argued that notion over and over. Let me give u just one example
DeleteAssuming u have 2/3 bfs, on ur ovulation day u met one in d morning one in d Evening, wld u confidently point the owner of that baby? Let me mk it 2 , 3 men rapes a girl during her ovulation, can she say who has d child?
Infact 3, u meet a husband or bf wen u tot u r ovulating , den meet another the nxt day, knowing how women cycle changes, do u think u can say d baby is for hussy?
Try 4, u deliver in d hospital and ur baby was swapped 40yrs down d line u r still training a swapped baby unknowingly, wld u still confidently say u know d dad?
A lot of pple always think am crazy wen I talk, but I guess I think deeper b4 I agree to a general notion
Tell the men to be ready for his wife instead. He cannot marry a lady abandon her emotional, mentally and physically what did he expect to have those kids as his. Someone must deceive the lady one way or the other because she cried on someone’s shoulders when she needed her husband and it lead to something disastrous. Most of the men today or home have trained people’s children unknown to them. Please when you get married it was an agreement pls be there for her so that another mans being there for her the result it’s you that will carry the load. Stella pls post Biko we are not fighting .
ReplyDeletewomen who want to cheat will always look for excuses to do so regardless of how faithful the man is. The rate @ which the so called modern educated women fuck around is on geomentric increase. using your husband as your excuse is silly, if you can't cope why not move out , instead of degrading yourself in the name of revenge sex. It is sickening
DeleteAlexander
In 2020 and beyond, only the most foolish of men will not conduct a paternity test for children claimed to be theirs. The level of infidelity amongst women is on another level. It is a given at this point.
ReplyDeleteAnd before you Bitterleaf FC come and attack me, ask yourselves if you’d not want your brothers or even your sons to be sure they aren’t raising other men’s seed.
I am a woman and i support you. t's absolutely dishonest to deliberately make a man train children that are not his without his knowledge. This is NOT the same as when a man has a child outside. It's either the wife is unaware of the child's existence or she's aware and chooses to acknowledge or not acknowledge the child.
DeleteEvery man should conduct a paternity test. Funny enough, it's the women you never imagine would do such a thing that may do it.
Also, pregnancy should not be a reason a man marries a woman. Many firstborn children end up not being the man's child because the mother selects the most eligible amongst all the men she's sleeping him and foists the child on him. Men should insist on a DNA test before marrying the woman.
That is for men that want to marry na. I’m my humble opinion, the current marriage model is outdated and I believe that in the near future, 10-15 years, there will be more co-parenting than outright marriages. I lived opposite a hotel till mid last year and I saw terrible things.
DeleteI really pity men that stress themselves providing for women in the name of love and marriage. If only they knew
Don't say only foolish men won't conduct DNA test on their kids, you think everyone can afford it? I hope people can stop committing adultery
Delete@Hurpe, the test costs between 80-150k depending on where it’s done. By the time the child is 2 years old the man would have spent more than that. It is wise to know quick and plan your life accordingly.
DeleteNo be when you done siddon for Lagos traffic for 22 years you go hear say pikin wey you dey hustle for, dey struggle bus and conductor for say no be your own. Me I go kill person o
Seriously, this is sad..... No one should be made to go through such a situation as complicated as this in life. Women should learn to come out clean as soon as possible so every one can heal on time. Only God knows how the father will feel if he finds out that the boy is not his. My sympathy goes out to all men out there who might be in such a situation.
ReplyDeleteNigerian women should come with warning labels. A married woman is on my case bc I refuse to sleep with her. I can't bc the husband is who I hold in high esteem--a successful entrepreneur at that. What would make a married lady pester me to come and knack her raw? I fear o!
ReplyDeleteI already told my wife i'd do DNA on our children. I know she's chaste and God fearing; but then, humans can be funny.
ReplyDeleteNo need to tell her. Do it behind her back. There are home kits available.
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