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CONFUSING SITUATION

Good day
Let me start with a brief description of my self so your BVs will know how to help. I am an introvert with phleg- choleric temperament and some people say I have avoidance personality disorder and a very hardworking, intelligent and a very religious person. So from my description you all already know I am extremist. 

The problem now 'I was in a relationship and people at my work place knew when I started learning the foreign language but after I discovered something about the guys family. I had to give him space. So recently , a senior colleague at work came for posting in our dispensing unit and started asking me out twice and I told him I was busy twice.He was also told that I was taken. 

One day he came to where I was with his friend and told the friend I was very intelligent and a wife material that if I wasn't taken he would have come for me.I smiled. The friend told him that any girl that isn't in something is not normal. That his wife was taken but he came and broke the man hand.Later that day he was telling me if he gets money we will go out to buy icecream or during Christmas would go from my friend's house to my house and then his house. Later we would go for outing. I didn't say anything because I thought he liked my friend for mentioning her 

2.He stays more with my friend. 

3.Prefers her teaching to mine because I didn't give him face.


He asked me indirectly ,you don't want to give me your number. When he was trying to enter my friend's number. After that day,he stopped hugging me as form of greeting but hand shake. I was also angry about that but wasn't saying anything. My friends Birthday ,I wanted to dispense drugs to all patient myself because it was her day. So he heard of it and came to where I was with a drink and was praising me. He offered to give me drink . I rejected. He said he was going to force me but I didn't give in .He left.

My present predicament is that I was able to call him one day for a patient after that day I think he saved my number. He views my status but never comments.So one day I saw his birthday wishes to his younger Brother. I think from the environment he wasn't in Nigeria. So I said ''HBD to him ,wllnp.I hope you give him a nice treat''. He replied with ''thanks. I will try''.

Previously I was passing their department he was with his colleague he saw me and hugged me. I didn't hug him back because he no longer does that. He asked me something but I said I don't make use of that and didn't know. So few minutes I sent him a message to inform him about my enquiries. He said he got it solved already and thanked me. I was having one issue with a superintendent pharmacist I purposely called him. He told me what to say though it didn't solve the matter.


I recently finished from that department to another . I uploaded my status, he replied and was speaking the foreign language I told you about. So I was surprised. We continued.He felt our communication was flowing and he started calling me on WhatsApp voice call but network was not allowing it at all. I sent message that my network was bad and I was sorry about that .He said no wahala. He called my line immediately. Then we were talking about how he learnt the language. 

He told me how of a professional he was .I said I needed tutorial. He was telling me about apps to use to enhance my learning but I said I wasn't learning again. He was asking me my reasons but I told him to forget about that. He told me I should celebrate my completion of that part I was done with. I told him reasons I should not celebrate. He said I should not go the next day but extend it .I said no I was going.Almost immediately, he said that they just warned him and I said thanks for calling.I didn't know he was indirectly asking me out to celebrate but I didn't get the message hence his reaction. 

Since then he has stopped calling, though he wasn't calling per say because he felt I was taken. I sent him new year message but he wrote back and said my Dearest with some stuff. NB: He wrote something in his picture with my name inscribed on it a month and sent it through my male colleague,he came the next day and was super excited but I was indifferent. He went back a bit angry that day. He said later that I know marriage and having kids wasn't a sin.

My Male colleague didn't tell me he did that I know the person that sent it to me wouldn't do such because the guy in question occasionally writes in small letter and picture had same format. My problem now is how I will communicate to him that 

I am not taken and how to ensure I don't sound desperate. He also asked if I would invite him for my wedding. The boy is stingy to the core because my said friend asked him to buy ice cream for her and he was delaying it. They told me about it,my response was you should buy it at least to show appreciation to your teacher.Maybe he said to show me that the ice cream he is begging me to take that some is begging for it. 

I will respond to all your comments and insults would be taken with good heart lol Pardon my gbagun and typo

*From what i read up there,it seems you are the one playing ''Village people'' to yourself......