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SHOCKING NEWS
Madam Stella, good day. I'm writing this with a heavy bitterness in my heart. I traveled for Christmas and got the most shocking news of my life. I'm sorry it would be a long read, kindly forgive my errors.



This is it: some years back, my elder sister got pregnant out of wedlock and was told to abort it by her boyfriend. When she told me, I was mad at her for getting pregnant but still advised her to keep the baby and she did. Though I told her not to travel and stay with my parents cos I imagined the kind of humiliation she would get from them especially my mum. Fast forward to when she told my aunt (my dad's younger sister) cos they were kinda close. She told my sister to come stay with her so that she can take care of her as she needs a motherly care in that condition. 



I never liked the idea but I couldn't object cos then I was just a secondary school leaver, had no money and still struggling with life(I came from a poor background and I saw myself through school). After some weeks of staying with my aunt, she started pressuring my sister to get married. And the people she was introducing to my sister are elderly men, handicapped men, aged married men without children and even married women without children. She told my sis that those are the only people that can marry her in that condition and that if she miss that opportunity, she won't get married ever again.


 My sister accepted and then told me about it and who she had chosen. But I told her that even if she wants to marry any of them, she should just wait till she give birth and then make decisions by herself cos I could understand she was frustrated. She told my aunt that she wanted to wait till she put to bed but my aunt got angry and threatened to throw her out of the house if she fails to get married immediately. 


In that anger my aunt called my mum and intimated her about my sisters pregnancy and all hell let loose. My mum called my sister and placed several curses I can't mention on her and then went on to tell my aunt to throw her out of the house. So my sis had no other place to go than coming to the village, she was already 7 months gone. My mom rejected her but after pleading from few family members she was accepted but the punishment that was metted on her; it would have been better she didn't come back at all.



In her 8th month, a young guy started coming for her hand in marriage and I still insisted she should wait until after delivery but my family wouldn't have it and herself too. She told me that I said that the other people are old now there's a young guy(about 30 years then)but I'm still insisting. That may be I'm the one who is bad after all, may be I want her to spend the rest of her life in our house(my only reason was for her to make decisions herself and not under pressure to avoid regrets later). Because of her and how I advised her not to abort the baby, I didn't go on with my admission, I started working and sending her money for upkeep and baby things as my parents hardly ask her if she needs anything. I felt bad and I threatened to have nothing to do with her if she went ahead with the marriage. 



She said that I'm not her God that she would even help me forget her by deleting my number after that call, that I'm never happy for her and that she wouldn't have listened to me from the onset. 
I backed off and they finally got married. I don't want to go into details of how I've been the one taking care of she and her 3 children (they were 4 but she lost one) since after she gave birth to that first one, paying house rent and all.
Then fast forward to this Christmas that just passed, I traveled to go see them as it's been a while I saw them last. The news I got had kept me shocked, bitter and unkept since the day I heard it. 



My sis used to be chubby and bursty and i thought she became extremely skinny due to suffering but I was in for a shocker. Back when they just got married, she always noticed the man take some drugs and when she quizzed him, he said it's cos of strain he sustained in his back because of the load he carries(note that he told my sis that he's into spare parts business but it turned out that he does nothing for a living other than help buyers carry load in the market which he stopped few months after they got married and depended solely on my sis who on the other hand depends on me and the petty kiosk she had. And he also doesn't live in a house as he told my sis but sleeps in front of the shops when the market is closed till I rented one for them). My sis only found out when she married him. And then, when my sister got pregnant for the 4th child, she was always unusually sick. She visited the hospital and was told that her immune system was down and needs to be boosted, she started taking medication but was advised to go for HIV/AIDS test.


Lo and behold! My sis fainted on getting the news. She was tested positive, she didn't regain herself till after about a week. She had to go to another hospital and it was still same. They advised her to start taking medication immediately if she wants to live at least for her children. She went home and asked the evil man, his response was that he was waiting for the right time to tell her. He didn't feel sorry nor apologized. Right now I feel like killing that man. I'm bitter. If I have a gun, I will shoot him and go to jail.



* I dont get it it at all,how can someone have this kind of illness and hide it from their partner and go on spreading it?so now you have to start making sure your sis gets her medication.
No need to shoot him.he is already down.