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  1. Epique3 January 2020 at 18:00

    Divorce, but it's not the end of the world.

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    1. busybee3 January 2020 at 19:41

      Not really fear but regret. I wish I had known from a young age that it's not for me. Have kids and face my life.

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    2. Sweetest Honey3 January 2020 at 20:46

      First, the wedding night; how i will appear naked before him for the first time being a virgin @42!

      Secondly, i do not have a firm Olympus cos of my kind of physique; i am a chubby fellow right from childhood and didnt get to wear start waering bra quickly when i started growing breast, hence, the semi fallen olynpus!

      Thirdly, the kind of feeling living with him for the rests of my life; waking up everyday seeing the same person! Also, the fear of getting tired of each other as time goes by!

      Also, sex. I hate the word sex eventhough i have never had any experience of sex all my 42 years of life till now! His demands of it and my responsibility of giving him when he demands it!

      I hate cooking and laundry though i do them perfectly as a single person living alobe even when i was living with my late parents.

      And many more of marital responsibilities, inlaws wahala nko? Infact ehn... let God help me cos this year, by God's grace, trusting God for marital settlement cos enough is enough!

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    3. Bella D Chemist3 January 2020 at 21:23

      Just take each day as it comes

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    4. Anonymous3 January 2020 at 22:10

      @Sweetest Honey you might just be your own stumbling block.

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    5. Xhlrted P™ (Charcuterie ‰)3 January 2020 at 22:13

      Sweetest Honey...you need counseling sessions and hours with a good love therapist.
      They will put you together.
      Your fears are valid.
      What!

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    6. Nmasinachi4 January 2020 at 04:59

      It is not fear for me, but a “what if” !!! What if I stop loving him???

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    7. Anonymous4 January 2020 at 05:37

      SEX

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    8. Anonymous4 January 2020 at 11:02

      Getting bored and tired of the marriage

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  2. Fan Emmanuel 3 January 2020 at 18:01

    Wife beater

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    1. SEXY HIPS3 January 2020 at 19:44

      Getting married to the wrong guy

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    2. Anonymous3 January 2020 at 22:20

      @Fan
      But your husband measured you one hot slap the other day you said your mouth was running like an old typewriter?

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  3. Blackberry3 January 2020 at 18:02

    Dishonesty and domestic violence.

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  4. Aproko Queen3 January 2020 at 18:02

    That we will get tired of sex at one point

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    1. Anonymous3 January 2020 at 18:32

      That's when you have been having sex before marriage🐮

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    2. Anonymous3 January 2020 at 20:03

      Anon 18:32, haven't you heard of cases when you hit it once and you get tired? Lol

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    3. Anonymous3 January 2020 at 20:12

      Anon, I humbly disagree with you.

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    4. TWE (Thé White Enchantress)3 January 2020 at 22:18

      Yeah. Same here 😔

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  5. Mrs. A.E, God's Own🌸🌺🌻3 January 2020 at 18:04

    Haven't been a part of a failed marriage once; i would love the second to be my last ( but, I have to let someone in first, just to be sure if I want to thread that path again) my fear is failing the second time.

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    1. TEEJAY~ {BIG TEE EZEGE}3 January 2020 at 18:10

      *Having *

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    2. Anonymous3 January 2020 at 18:22

      You won't, doll. If anything, you will soar because you have experienced and know better. Rooting for you ❤❤

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    3. Mrs. A.E, God's Own🌸🌺🌻3 January 2020 at 18:38

      Get off my comment Teejay... Read your correction again!

      Thanks darling @Perxian 💕💕

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    4. TEEJAY~ {BIG TEE EZEGE}3 January 2020 at 18:43

      Such bitterness in you over a correction... Smh.

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    5. Anonymous3 January 2020 at 19:01

      Hmm Ms A. Why so pissed @Teejay? Na wa o

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    6. Mrs. A.E, God's Own🌸🌺🌻3 January 2020 at 19:09

      Keep shaking your head!
      Telling you to get off my comment for making an incorrect "correction" is now bitterness.

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    7. Aproko Queen3 January 2020 at 19:12

      Ms A 😂😂😂😂 abeg leave me o

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    8. Anonymous3 January 2020 at 19:35

      Teejay,who taught you English? Na wah

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    9. Anonymous3 January 2020 at 19:41

      Teejay should know who likes him and who doesnt.... keep away! Na wao... this is 2020.
      Even if she made a mistake, e no concern u.... u of all ppl correcting some1

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    10. Cynthia Iyede3 January 2020 at 19:43

      Don't worry Ms. A, all will be well by God's grace. Amen.

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    11. Anonymous3 January 2020 at 19:52

      Ms A, TJ is actually correct. Did you yourself read your comment? I like you but you gbagaun sometimes. It's the truth. No offence. TJ, sorry.

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    12. TEEJAY~ {BIG TEE EZEGE}3 January 2020 at 20:02

      The last time I checked, haven't means have not. Now lets put it this way according to you "Have not been a part of a failed marriage. . . " How does that sound? I forgive you for the arrogance response though.

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    13. Aproko Queen3 January 2020 at 20:04

      Anon 19:52 it's a case of over sabi! That is why he was told to swerve. The OP knows what she typed

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    14. Anonymous3 January 2020 at 20:06

      Oh my days!!! Teejay got it right!!! Wow!!!!!!!!!! Nice one bruv, keep it going consistently now aii. Mrs A, you were wrong and do try being polite and take correction calmly.

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    15. Anonymous3 January 2020 at 20:29

      TeeJay you are correct but realise next time she doesn't want to be corrected and avoid her when it comes to corrections.

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    16. Mrs. A.E, God's Own🌸🌺🌻3 January 2020 at 21:17

      Teejay, get off my comment... Forgive me for my arrogant response 😂😂😂
      Who do you think you are?
      SDK?

      Next time, scroll pass my comment oga Teejay.

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    17. Anonymous3 January 2020 at 21:27

      @Ms. A, Teejay is actually correct. What you wrote is wrong. Haven't = Have Not

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    18. Anonymous3 January 2020 at 21:31

      Ms A gbagaun na bread and butter na

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    19. Anonymous3 January 2020 at 21:44

      Why are you angry that teejay corrected you na.And you claim to be a Christian.its new year make una change.

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    20. Anonymous3 January 2020 at 22:00

      Ms.A. it's "*tread* that path again", not *thread* which is used to sew a dress. I am not deejay btw.

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    21. Anonymous3 January 2020 at 22:16

      Does he have to be SDK before you show him respect as a human being?

      You don't have to like him but you might as well ignore or better still, accept the correction with feminine grace and move on, even if you feel he was wrong(sadly he wasn't).
      I still don't understand why people get triggered when corrected on here. It's simply human to make random errors when writing the English language. Why expect perfection from yourself?

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    22. Xhlrted P™ (Charcuterie ‰)3 January 2020 at 22:17

      Ms A...hahaha.
      Please I don't like Teejay but he was 100% right.
      Some people don't like me too.


      Having been.
      In reference to.
      With cognizance to.

      Having been means you were part of a failed marriage.

      Probably you had a bad day.
      Come drink chilled tombo.

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    23. Anonymous3 January 2020 at 22:30

      ItMrs A, you are just too bitter. Trying to make mockery of Teejay while you killed the English. Take correction and move on.

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    24. Anonymous3 January 2020 at 23:58

      Ms A, drop this your nonsense bitterness and stupidity! The year is still young..

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    25. Anonymous4 January 2020 at 00:06

      TJ was correct in his correction and he was not rude. So I don't understand the savage response from Ms A. Na wa ooo. This is a fresh year fa.......

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    26. Erika Ebony4 January 2020 at 09:43

      Take it easy everyone, Ms.A was maybe having a bad day, it can happen to anyone, people can't be perfect all the time. Teejay thank you for the correction,but please, if you're not accepted in a zone, ignore and move on.

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  6. Anonymous3 January 2020 at 18:05

    My biggest fear in marriage is Falling out of love with my husband.

    Sluttychic.

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    1. Push up3 January 2020 at 20:40

      This too, cus I hate unhappiness

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  7. Anonymous3 January 2020 at 18:09

    Regretting it🤦🏾‍♀️

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  8. Anonymous3 January 2020 at 18:10

    Marrying the wrong one ...

    LOL. A fear i conquered. 😁😁

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    1. Cynthia Iyede3 January 2020 at 19:44

      Me too o Perxian. It scared me so much but thank God for helping me so much.👌😁

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    2. Flourish 3 January 2020 at 20:28

      @perxian, my fears too but God showed up for me...

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    3. TWE (Thé White Enchantress)3 January 2020 at 22:19

      Same here

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  9. Anonymous3 January 2020 at 18:10

    TTC

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  10. Rhapsody 3 January 2020 at 18:10

    I don't want to fight over petty things.. Loosing the friendship we share for anything scares me.. I'm going to marry my best friend.

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  11. STARRY LARRY3 January 2020 at 18:11

    Emotional and psychological abuse




    *Larry was here*

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  12. BigBanty3 January 2020 at 18:12

    My biggest fear is not making her happy.

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  13. TEEJAY~ {BIG TEE EZEGE}3 January 2020 at 18:13

    Most things we see in people before marriage might not really be what we will get to see after some time inside the marriage.

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    1. Anonymous3 January 2020 at 19:43

      Oh wow, thanks for telling us.

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    2. Flourish 3 January 2020 at 20:23

      True @Teejay, you don marry before?...

      Most times that happens when the couple aren't true to themselves.

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  14. bro julius3 January 2020 at 18:15

    marriage no easy o

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    1. Xhlrted P™ (Charcuterie ‰)3 January 2020 at 22:23

      All of you don't have the real fears sef.

      My greatest fear was marrying into a family that has FAMILY ALTAR or getting married to a man whose Dad has a sparkling skeleton cast in a transparent big cupboard somewhere in their palatial home or in his wardrobe.
      You know those families that have a particular room only their Daddy enters. Aarrgghhhhh! Una go fight scatter.

      You and your hubby will move from battle to battle, you will know what you are doing o but YOU WONT KNOW WHAT IS DOING YOU.

      I just thank God I'm safe.
      That's the scariest ish in Igboland.

      I wanted a blossoming marriage, didn't wish to be vigored.

      *I no call anybody name o*
      Ehen!

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    2. Anonymous4 January 2020 at 00:08

      Or wish to be red.......I didn't call anybody's name ooo

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    3. Erika Ebony4 January 2020 at 09:45

      😂😂😂😂

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  15. pinklady Aka Veteran Side Chick3 January 2020 at 18:16

    violence.
    I pray it never happens because I can never forgive and forget.
    🙏🙏🙏🙏

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    1. Anonymous3 January 2020 at 20:09

      I pray you don't end up with a copy of yourself make una no dey find unaself with gun for house.

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  16. Tenth.3 January 2020 at 18:17

    Lack of sex drive after birthing from both parties

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    1. ****Bbjac****3 January 2020 at 18:50

      My libido dropped drastically after child birth

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  17. ms tee3 January 2020 at 18:20

    Domestic violence, cheating

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  18. Anonymous3 January 2020 at 18:22

    That i'll find out he's actually a lying, cheating, lazy, morally and mentally bankrupt man.

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  19. Macbeth.3 January 2020 at 18:23

    Finding Romeo and Juliet kinda love and ending in tragedy...
    Its best to remain single.
    You cant miss what you never had.

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    1. Lady Macbeth3 January 2020 at 19:04

      My Lord,I am here to stay. You and I will grow old together.

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    2. Anonymous3 January 2020 at 20:13

      Free Romeo and Juliet. Go with Lady Macbeth, that one be like say e legit pass.

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    3. Anonymous4 January 2020 at 00:10

      MacB are you Yaba left? I am feeling some vibes........


      Your sister from another mother.

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  20. Cyclone 🌀 3 January 2020 at 18:24

    Death! After making someone your all, intertwined your lives and then the person goes and dies...

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    1. pinklady Aka Veteran Side Chick3 January 2020 at 18:46

      Death is inevitable and we'll all experience it someday but pray not to die unfulfilled.
      😊

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    2. Dainty T3 January 2020 at 20:45

      Me too!!!

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  21. Anonymous3 January 2020 at 18:25

    Experiencing it now. I want out for no reason at all! May be I just need space. I have had the kids I want but now I just want to be free. Free from being questioned about my movement, free from worrying my head about his breakfast and dinner (my kids eat whatever I give them), free from f...king inlaws but I can't just leave because I have no reason to. If he was cheating or beating me, it would have being so easy but my hubby does his best for us and stands up for me when those beasts (inlaws) come for me.

    I guess it's just a phase. Hoping it will pass very quickly.

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    1. Anonymous3 January 2020 at 18:55

      Yes,it will pass. Sometimes, I feel like this but try and read some devotional, they help you to always see the best in your man. Try and do some other things you love too. Then you wont feel choked. About, the in laws, ignore them, .Please ignore them and enjoy your husband. Wishing you all the best.

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    2. Tenth.3 January 2020 at 19:21

      U need a vacation.
      Tell Ur hubby u feel choked u need time to unwind the reason u both said 'i do'

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    3. Kiks3 January 2020 at 19:36

      God this is my greatest fear. Fear of not being free to do what I want, when I want and how I want. I don't ever want to feel caged. I love my space and I think the longer one stays single the greater the fears. Mehn!

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    4. Dainty T3 January 2020 at 20:45

      Funny i was chatting with my friend about 3 hrs ago and this is her greatest fear too.

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    5. Gifty3 January 2020 at 21:07

      Oh dear, i am so sorry you feel that way, i understand how you feel. Is there anyone you can trust with your kids so you can travel? Or go visit your folks with your kids only, have your mum fuss over them, so you can relax and clear your head.

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    6. Foodie3 January 2020 at 21:13

      It will pass mama, may the Lord strengthen and guide you, give you peace on every side and grant you unending joy.
      Please try to pursue happiness intentionally such as hobbies etc. Try to pick up new projects that will help you find fufilment. Hugs to you.

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    7. Anonymous4 January 2020 at 00:19

      Are you sure you still love your husband? Maybe you do, but you are no longer in love with him. A vacation with him to rekindle the romance might help. Also remember that many wish for a fraction of what you now have. Try not to take it for granted. Find something that will consistently bring you joy and engage in it frequently. Also carve your me time when you will be at peace, pamper and indulge yourself. All the best.

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  22. Chy3 January 2020 at 18:26

    A man who doesn't know the value of family.

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  23. jelly3 January 2020 at 18:35

    Cheating

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  24. ayaoba3 January 2020 at 18:36

    In as much as I have always been a good lover, I can't and I don't want to be the one loving foolishly.
    I don't want a one sided love, I don't want to experience another verbal, emotional and physical abuse.
    I need a responsible man who doesn't just talk the talk but do as he claims.
    And yes,I'm not just saying this,I'm also working on myself to be a better person too for the man deserving of me

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  25. Emerald3 January 2020 at 18:36

    nothing worse than marrying someone who's emotionally u stable...Emotionally instability gives rise to other negative issue...
    Now its advisable for intending couples to go for psychological test

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  26. Akuanyanugbo13 January 2020 at 18:41

    We falling out of love
    Me not been his number 1 no more
    Him not been my friend and playmate
    ...just afraid...

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  27. Jojo mayana3 January 2020 at 18:43

    Domestic violence, womanizing n falling out of love in years to come

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  28. ChyAdaJesus3 January 2020 at 18:45

    Death!

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  29. excited courtesy3 January 2020 at 18:49

    Lack of freedom to do as I please. Having oto take instructions from a man,you cannot do things or take decision without talking to your husband.

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  30. awesomefabchic3 January 2020 at 18:50

    Marrying the wrong person is my fear because everything will go wrong even the littlest things will seem like a big deal

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  31. ****Bbjac****3 January 2020 at 18:53

    Cheating and death.

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  32. Anonymous3 January 2020 at 18:55

    Death of a child, cheating, domestic abuse, being shunned and being shamed and all came true. 20 years later I am very grateful to God for my lucky escape and for turning my life around.

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  33. Omah3 January 2020 at 19:09

    Not having peace in my home due to unending quarrels, domestic violence, nagging, cheating and so on.
    But I give God all the glory, He gave me my own. My husband is my best friend and everything I ever prayed for.
    Father Lord, I pray this sweet love we share continues forever.

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  34. Tblack3 January 2020 at 19:11

    domestic violence and divorce

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  35. City Chocolate3 January 2020 at 19:12

    Infidelity

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  36. Anonymous3 January 2020 at 19:13

    That I will tired of it.

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  37. Stella Maris baby3 January 2020 at 19:15

    Domestic violence and cheating

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  38. TheLagosShopper(Everything sold in lagos markets/popular UK brands!3 January 2020 at 19:26

    Lack of communication....

    If you talk about EVERYTHING, you can counquer ANYTHING!!

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  39. Dietitian Nezz!!!3 January 2020 at 19:31

    Losing my partner but I reject that fear in Jesus name, Amen.

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  40. Goodvibesonly3 January 2020 at 19:36

    Dishonesty and domestic violence

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  41. Anonymous Chielo3 January 2020 at 19:45

    Scared of a cheating husband,especially when one mofo of a married man insulted me by saying after all this holy, holy, you'll end up with a cheat.

    Scared of a man who can't provide for me, or one who is stingy. Scared of waking up one day and not having any feelings.

    Scared of him telling me to stop being ambitious and take care of the family.

    Scared of a whole lot of things.

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    1. Gifty3 January 2020 at 20:58

      That man is a goat, please don't mind him.

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    2. Anonymous4 January 2020 at 00:26

      I hope you gave him a piece of your mind.

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  42. TWE (Thé White Enchantress)3 January 2020 at 19:49

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  43. Bini3 January 2020 at 20:08

    That I will fail at it.

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  44. Paris Savannah🗼3 January 2020 at 20:11

    The fear of marrying d wrong man,divorce domestic violence, emotionally unstable man,falling out of love

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  45. miss Aboki the beloved😁3 January 2020 at 20:16

    Domestic violence ooo. Bcos this my mouth can be very sharp atimes😂😂

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    1. Anonymous4 January 2020 at 01:08

      I see why you like Ceecee.. Iruboru... Birds of a feather🙄

      My 2cent

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  46. cherrychroni3 January 2020 at 20:37

    fear of marrying the wrong person

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  47. Dainty T3 January 2020 at 20:42

    Losing my partner to death!. My mum lost my dad barely 5 years into her marriage and never remarried so I know what it's like first hand.
    I am praying fervently to God almighty, I SHALL NOT BE A WIDOW IN MY PRIME.

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    1. Yori Yori Princess3 January 2020 at 21:39

      AMEN. It is not your portion. Both of you will grow old. Because it happened to your mother does not mean it will happen to you. You and mama destinies are not the same.

      Free your mind

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  48. Gifty3 January 2020 at 20:56

    Divorce

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  49. Anonymous3 January 2020 at 21:31

    I am 49 years old never married , single mother & single grandmother.
    My biggest fear & allergy to marriage & reason why I've never married & choose to remain happily single are:
    1. Poverty or to live a desperate life with a man or so called husband.
    2. Domestic violence & all forms of abuse & bad treatment.
    3. Hatred for lies, sabotage, deception & cheating.
    4. Lack of trust or faith in man.

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  50. Bibire3 January 2020 at 21:35

    Death of a partner,I pray against untimely death every day.May we not loose our loved ones in their prime

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  51. Yori Yori Princess3 January 2020 at 21:40

    Falling out of love and cooking all the time

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    1. Xhlrted P™ (Charcuterie ‰)3 January 2020 at 22:27

      Hahaha. Yori you no kuku get power.
      Pray seriously not to marry a man who loves home made delicacies.
      Nke gi ekpome!

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  52. Gbogbo bigz girlz4 January 2020 at 00:14

    All my fears have come to pass.
    Don't care again.
    When I make money, I move on.

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  53. Anonymous4 January 2020 at 06:27

    My biggest fear is marrying a slay queen.

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