Tuesday, January 28, 2020
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Nothing ,walk away !
ReplyDeleteEnd of situationship.
DeleteEnd of the relationship! No time for nonsense... mtchewwwww
DeleteI will get him arrested for assault and end that situationship there and then.
DeleteStella, end of relationship. Take your ring, bye bye.
ReplyDeleteDefinitely end of relationship. But I can't hate a man so much and return his diamonds, will sell the ring 😀
DeleteI would end the relationship the next day. I wont even give him a hint that i am angry that day he slapped me.
ReplyDeletePls explain how you won't give a hint. Would you smile or what?
DeleteI won't do anything, just walk away. But that's the end of our relationship, I hate to argue.
ReplyDeletegbam
DeleteI will break up with him but if he buy me a car, I will forgive and take him back cos forgiveness is divine.
ReplyDeleteChai fan oooo🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteMe I will run four forty. Relationship is over.
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Delete🤣🤣🤣
Delete😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Fan you're not a serious somebody ah swear😂
Delete😂😂😂 aku(wealth) n'esi obi ike.
DeleteHahahahahahahahahaha. You no well
DeleteFirst time, Na mistake
ReplyDeleteSecond time, I'll likely walk away...
You should walk away the first time. Every women motto should be once beaten twice shy.
DeleteThere are some mistakes which should never be categorised as one.You would never MISTAKENLY slap your lecturer, parent and even your boss at work, or would you?
@gates no second chances in your dictionary?
Delete@gates I've reflexively slapped an authority figure in my life. I no plan am o! As I receive slap na e my hand move by e self return am. Lol. Point is, mistakes happen and anything can happen when you're in a disturbed and highly emotional state of mind.
DeleteI personally believe when you are brought up in a loving home there is no way you would entertain such humiliating gesture for it would be naturally unacceptable to you. Your whole system would recoil at being around someone who could hurt you like that. Even something as stupid as "oh shut up woman", or a man pointing his fingers at you or raising his voice would trigger an alarm that might never go off, not out of anger but the huge shock you felt simply because you aren't used to such a nasty treatment. You know even your Dad who raised you never spoke to your mum or you in such a demeaning way.
DeleteThe moment he slaps you and you let it slide, trust me, he has lost the little respect he has left for you. And men don't love women they don't respect.
Second chances after a slap?Okay
Delete19:45 You got slapped and you returned the favour without having enough time to process what happened. You did so in retaliation and in a dazed state. It's different from when you threw the first punch due to your inability to regulate your anger. So I still insist you can't hit your parent or boss and come forth with an excuse as flimsy as "anger" except you have made up your mind to be disowned or fired. Such thoughts won't even cross your subconscious and if you were tipsy enough to consider it, the mere thought of it would make you feel nauseous and hate yourself. Why? You know there is a limit to how you mete out your anger or frustration when it comes to these people. There are exceptions and there is a boundary that can never be crossed for your mind is already programmed that way. This is due to the fact that you hold your parent in high esteem and you literally worship them.
DeleteCorrect explanation!
DeleteThere will be no fiance anymore. 😊
ReplyDeleteEven though I know my DH won't ever have done that.
Anyway, let me say that for SOME of my "friends" if the man is loaded or lives abroad, them go tell am "thanks sir" and apologize to him. Even if he cuts off them hands, them go stay o.
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Ndi uta, hope una see SOME?
Okwa ajuju o
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Hahahahahaha...Daz all.
ReplyDeleteSlap him back shake my bum bum while strutting away and leave the Cunt! Ikwakwakwakwakwa
ReplyDeleteKelvin Dat Edo Boi (Stellz Cousin)
dry
DeleteKo ju ma ribi
ReplyDeleteGbogbo body l'ogun e.
DeleteLemme grab a chair & watch most of them lie to themselves on how they'd call off the engagement.... even after announcing & preparations for the wedding is already on.
ReplyDeleteYou got it right.
DeleteWhy don't you tell us how you would stay because preparations for the wedding are in top gear rather than brand people liar?
Delete@macbeth, your head dey there. Same thing I said to myself after I read the first set of comments.
DeleteKiks, 👍
DeleteI'm walking awayyy, from the troubles in my life... I 🚶♀️🚶♀️🚶♀️🚶♀️
ReplyDeleteI would apologize to him first and then explain to him who it was that called me and mind my business. Give him the silent treatment for a while, that will bring him to his knees.
ReplyDeleteLol desperate much??
DeleteSluttyChic you can pretend ehn forming good girl on blog.
DeleteAre you searching for a husband here?
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DeleteSlutty the way you want to present yourself as a perfect wife to be or girlfriend to be shock me oh. He slapped you without not asking whether it was an emergency call, and you're talking about apology MSHEWWWWWWWWW
DeleteHmmmmmmmm.... Really?. Wonderful
DeleteYouve taken over from Iphie dearie abi? Miss goody 2 shoes
DeleteThis made me laugh. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteSluttychick this your miss two goody shoes I pray you see you're looking for.
DeleteAnon 18:47, it’s a free world.
DeleteIf you have a problem with the way I present myself, next time, do not read my comments. I am in my own world and I deal with situations however I deem fit.
Anon 19:01, me, miss goody 2 shoes? You are silly.
Y’all expect me to walk away from a man I love just cos he slapped me one time? If this happened in marriage, would you walk away?
So many of you are being dealt serious blows from your men, they use you, take your money, infact, they treat you like slaves, yet you remain.
Some of you do not even have boyfriends in their lives. Some of you are begging men to fuck you for free 🤷🏿♀️
I don’t pretend and I have no reason to present myself as perfect to anyone of you....who cares about you and what you think of my ways?
Sometimes, we go through stress, we have our moments. We tend to take it out on our partners. If it happens like all the time, then I can take a walk. Besides I am not the type of woman that can be oppressed. I know when to react and when to be humble....apologizing don’t mean I am weak.
Bitter anonymous bunch up there.. Is it your slap? Or your goody two shoes? Must everyone think like you??? Abeg leave our slutty for us abeg.
DeleteMost people here shouting 'I will walk away' are being physically and mentally bastardized in their relationship yet they remain stuck in their holding onto a particular flimsy reason.
DeleteWhile it is wrong to raise your hand on your partner but the reality is that it is easier said than done to walk away.
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DeleteI love honest people
DeleteSo it's better to have a boyfriend who slaps you than non at all? Wow!!!
DeleteThings we read on the internet.
Lmao, It is actually ok for you to choose not to walk away but to say you will apologise?? Wow!!!
DeleteAnons 18:29 and 18:45, is it your desperation and pretense? Why are you both pained? Am I expected to react a certain way....your way?
DeleteLooking for a husband here 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Oh well, that we comment on the same blog don’t mean we are from same world.
I will apologize to him!!!! You silly fools can go to hell.
Abroadian BV, you can’t tell me how to react when it comes to my man 🤷🏿♀️ I have my ways and i am good.
DeleteHow come y’all are in Anon mode 😂😂😂😂😂 cowards.
Slutty your comments made me puck... It shows your level of self esteem... Jeez! There is more to life than MAN
Deleted spirit will direct wat i will do next.lol
ReplyDeleteI must sue him for assault! Hmmmmm...God abeg o. Let idiots be in their lane
ReplyDeletewhere madam tenth oya o come and tell us how u will respond o..madam perfect hubby.A bv was writing abt her life after she lost her hubby u told her she married a wrong man.
DeleteI go stay I enjoy being beaten. And choked. And brutal sex . My clit now becomes an entity of its own . It’s a sight to behold. God help me
ReplyDelete😥😥😥😥
DeleteYou need love,not pains!
May God help you dear.🙏
Werey!
DeleteOh gawsh. You need a Gray in your life.
DeleteMay God help you. It's a soul that's living that can think of a brutal sex.
DeleteYou need help. Seek help before it gets too late.
DeleteI am ashamed I can relate to this comment. Mine is just crazy: I like the choke, rough sex, spit on me. I like how when we argue, my partner grabs my neck, throws me on the floor and brutally have his way with me.
DeleteBut you see, I like all of that pain and assault only during sex. Once I am out of that zone, I won't even tolerate the slightest verbal abuse, let alone physical.
Knowing that I enjoy sex that way makes me feel like I am disrespecting woman who have had to deal with sexual abuse for real; Apologies and healings to you all.
It is well with una
DeleteHaaaaaaaaaa this one weak me gannnnnnn 😵😵😵😵
DeleteAnon 19.14,don't be ashamed.You are who you are. People like all sorts of things and so long as it is always consensual,then no biggie. I hope you are with a partner that understands you and is able to satisfy you.Just be safe,always.
DeleteI will walk..more like run, right after i slap him back.
ReplyDelete😐
Welcome back Perx.
Delete😘😘😘 Essa Baibay
DeleteI no dey use nonsense day play,case close ni oo
ReplyDeleteI'll take a walk...
ReplyDeleteRelationship has ended o.
ReplyDeleteIf the man is a billionaire?
DeleteAnd sends a million dollar credit alert to say I am sorry?
DeleteShebi he sha cannot reverse the money back? No problem now. That will serves as compensation for the assault. Shikena
DeleteWith all these stories of 'the first slap was just before the wedding' into marriage full blown WWE smack down, mba!!! I jump and pass.
ReplyDeleteWhen ever there's any conflict that's not my fault, I always go mute till I'm ready to come out. My silence and absence will do the talking...It will be so so loud..
ReplyDeleteI'll turn d oda cheek so he can slap that side.ill now lie down flat and apologise..Papa Biko gbaharam o,bikozienu Papa.ill now run into d kitchen to prepare his favorite soup egusi and pounded yam.ill serve him while kneeling down until he finish eating.abeg make una no blame me o cos my first world I no see husband marry o... mtcheeew
DeleteLMAO anon 18:54.
DeleteLol.. you sound like bv shakara..
DeleteHahahahahahahah @anonymous 18:54 ma kpa mi nahhh
Delete😂😂😂😂😂@anon18:54
DeleteI will kneel down and beg him. I won't blame him if he beats me again. Why would I delay his call, who could be more important than the man who ENGAGED me? Ha! Abeg o. 🚶🚶🚶
ReplyDeleteDon, I just want to put a smile on your face.
LMAO😂😂
Delete😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
DeleteBye Felicia !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Bye 😂😂😂😂
Castle, I will pull you up from that kneeling position.
DeleteThat’s how much l care about you.
😂😂😂. Castle ooh. Ocho Okwu, dikwa ike ogwu. Lol. I almost wanted to say did you really type that till I got to the end
DeleteAwwwwwww anon, thank you. May the Good Lord care for you just like you care about me 😘😍
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DeleteYou are crazy!😂😂😂😂
DeleteHahahahahahahaha. Castle you be case study.
DeleteThe End of our story.
ReplyDeleteTake a walk
ReplyDeleteStella please thank you for the data giveaway,I'm more than grateful honestly.. This days I hardly read during the days more of nights, that's why this is coming late..may God Almighty richly bless you..thanks dear PA, I'm grateful to you too for picking me
ReplyDeleteI will smile. No words needed. Safe to say that's the end of that relationship but he will be slapped by someone who's exactly his mate. After that, I'll sue.
ReplyDeleteI will tell him thank you, apologize so that I can escape at that moment before he kills me. Once I am able to escape from him, I will share goodness in fellowship.
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DeleteHahahaha
DeleteHahahahahahahaha
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Delete😂😂😂😂Me too
DeleteNa so e dey start. Better to end the relationship
ReplyDeleteI'd walk away
ReplyDeleteThat's how it starts ........
the best option is to walk away...most single ladies will not understand the need to end a relationship because of a slap. if he slaps you or abuse you subtlt before marriage, he'll graduate to even worse in marriage..I'm married and I overlooked all my fiance( now hubby) used to do to me, he was and is domineering and controlling, i used to think he was looking out for me by making decisions for so I wont make a mistake, not knowing he has a controlling nature, most times he hit me, because love was sweeting me , I would think I caused him to react, I was blind to his flaws..my fiance then hit me once, I thought I provoked him to do that and I even begged , now he hits me without thinking twice...I've borrowed my self sense, I agree with everything he agrees and I dont give him the opportunity to hit him, I'm not available for suffer, I dodge him like bullet..when quarel is coming I run to my kids and stay with them,,,my mum has warned me never to talk back because I'm all she has
ReplyDeleteAre you going to live in fear of your spouse forever? He is supposed to be your boyfriend, your padi and your gossip partner. I am sure he married you because you were soft. They see tough ladies out there and avoid them like a plague.
DeleteWhat a life!
DeleteYour voice, individuality and right to self expression is gone!
Ndo!
How sad!
Deleteand you want to live like that forever? you are not in a marriage, you are in hell. you are there because of lack, probably your family is poor but hey you can make it and elevate you and your family. get out, get something doing, I know its tough in Nigeria but please find something doing, Are you even educated? if you are, please start asking around for a job, you can send your CV to Stella and let me know on this blog or Stella will announce it here and i will send a personal email to Stella and get it from her directly. please send it if you have a BA or BSC, a detailed CV even if no vast work experience, I will help but you must start being assertive and have self worth because it is obvious and you sound defeated..
DeleteOh dear!
Delete@18:50, you are so right. Most abusive men prey on soft-hearted women and pick me's. Thats where they flex muscle. I love when they meet their match. It's good to be gentle as a dove but be equally wise as a serpent so you don't become prey of such men.
DeleteSo sorry about what you are going through.
DeleteBut the sad reality is a man who hits you once will continue to hit you.
He hit you while you are dating then is it when you live under the same roof when you are married he won't hit you??
Women should stop tolerating domestic violence, it is a No No, totally unacceptable( men inclusive).
When you hit your partner that means you do not have self control and that is a red flag.
Just negodu!!! Singing... I'm walking away from the troubles in my life..
ReplyDeleteThat's the end of rubbish.
ReplyDeleteIt's very easy for all of us to open our mouths and shout "leave him", "walk away", "call the engagement off" but let's think about this objectively. Imagine a man you truly love, the one you are looking forward to spending your whole life with, one that you've been with for a while. Wedding plans are in motion, your family and his are working hard to make sure everything is in place. Something happens and he snaps and hits you, he apologizes, he cries and begs. It's the first time and he swears it'd be the last. He calls your family to report himself and swears never to hurt you again. And you truly love this man. Would it be so easy to leave?
ReplyDeleteOkwa ajuju n'ese okwu.
Anyways me I'll sha slap my own back.
DeleteYes because i will have my family's blessing, money wasted and all.
DeleteAlso, it's imperative that the abused first reaction is to LEAVE even if she/he ends up not leaving.
DeleteAbuse should never be taken lightly.
Thank you very much snarKer!!!
DeleteThen you must have been the only one doing all the loving. Why haven't you slapped him? You don't experience stress or you have never snapped before So did you slap anyone? If yes then you need anger management classes.
DeleteFor a reason as flimsy as call waiting?Ah!
Deleteohh yess and very easily too.. I would have given my name here for verification but this is an online platform and i must respect his own privacy. i was engaged to be married in 2006 to my university boyfriend and first love, we were living in the UK, he had every thing i ever wanted in a man, an excellent pedigree, fantastic home upbringing, and he had a fantastic job in London, very kind, loving, extremely generous, good looking, very very slim and very tall because i don't like men with flesh in anyway, I am equally very beautiful and excellent upbringing too, middle class home, but good home, we were both devout Catholics, we came back two weeks to the wedding traditional and all our siblings came back too, my childhood friends whom I had not seen in years came by to visit me and one of them her dad was having his retirement ceremony in their village Abiriba and i went with them, I called my fiance's cousin who had the phone then and told her and she said she would let him know, I went with my friend and her family and our other friends, I got back the next day and went straight to his family home in umuahia to tell him I'm back, i was shocked when he started yelling and screaming at me from the gate, I was so ashamed but i still went in to their house and he continued. I just sat down confused and when i felt it was not easing off because his mum had come to hold me to take me in to her room, as soon i got up, he slapped me three times and I slumped to the chair with stars flashing in my eyes and me being temporarily in a trance because i have never ever had such experience my entire life, his mum was now hysteric and begging him to stop. he barged towards me, i had never ever seen him like that before, my gorgeous kind good natured gentleman was in a rage, to make matters worse, so many people were there, my mum's driver hearing the commotion ran inside and started shouting and with his mum and sisters took me away in to our car still dazed, I got home and all hell was let loose but my mum asked all of us to calm down and let it go, after an hour he came to the house and my family told him i was tired to come out and in fact the marriage is over and they will be returning all the items they have bought and the money given to us for preparations, he thought it was a joke, he pleaded, pleaded, pleaded, begged, cried, wept, his whole family whom i loved so much pleaded, our friends who had all come for the wedding were confused and kept begging, but it was over, I WALKED AWAY, i wept for days and years but i healed, he is still not married but has 2 baby mamas, I was 31yrs then and would turn 45 yrs this year, he was the love of my life but I needed to be alive to see the world and impact lives and do good and i thank GOD, my family is not poor and i Did not need to run in to their family to have some form of financial upgrade, we were contented in my family and refused that i go back, my uncles from Ebem Ohafia where we are from all agreed in unison that i am better alive because we even lost my dad when i was young and my mum did well as head of schools and my uncle got blessed in government appointments, we were not lacking and were contented, he still calls me and compliments me on how well i have done in life and i take his calls because he was my first love. women stay in abusive relationships most times because of finances and not knowing how to come out and fend for themselves
DeleteMy family would even be the one to remove me from such situations.
DeleteI hate beatings, I hate pain, even in secondary school I try to avoid anything that would get me in trouble. I just hate it
That was a shocking turn for such a gentleman. He may be bipolar. Or maybe just plain abusive and was hiding it all the while in the abroad.
DeleteIt's much easier to leave an engagement (even if it's a day to the wedding) than a marriage, so why won't you leave, when physical violence is involved? With any form of violence, your life is in danger. With everything I've seen and heard, my dear I will leave o. Usually such things happening is God and life's way of warning us but we don't listen.
DeleteMy sister, you dodged a bullet.That mad man would have beaten you to stupor. You would have been miserable and subdued in the so called marriage.
DeleteImagine beating you in the presence of people even his mom? He will stab you if you guys are alone.
He won't even dareare to slap me, I'm asset to him,so he would think twice before raising that hand😎😎😎😎😎
ReplyDelete..... just go with the flow and answer.
DeleteDont tell us how mch of a price you are
😂😂😂😂 anon!
DeleteWalk away peacefully
ReplyDeleteHe will definitely end up in the hospital!
ReplyDeleteHahahahahahahaha una no go kill me here o.
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DeleteJust rub my chin and walk away. Then quietly go to Zanga, get his size, instruct them to flog the daylight out of him and pay them. Everybody answer him father name afterwards.
ReplyDeleteIn the first place I won't even get engaged to such a man. I would have seen the signs.
ReplyDeleteIf it happens, I will walk away gently. I no fit shout.
ReplyDeleteNothing....but we have finished "fiancing"
ReplyDeletereturn the slap and throw his ring at him, hes a bastard for acting in such manner
ReplyDeleteI will cry
ReplyDeleteAm walking away
ReplyDeleteFrom the troubles in my life.
Oh Craig... darling Craig
DeleteI will slap 👋 him back . Even my Papa 👴 never slap me . Nonsense and ingredient . Mtcheww.
ReplyDeletei will slap him right back what rubbish
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