Gumsu Abacha (daughter of Nigeria's former head of state Sani Abacha) and her Cameroonian husband Bayero Fadil Mohamadou have parted ways after 20 years together as Husband and wife.....
The couple who tied the knot in May 1999 divorced in December 2019 citing irreconcilable differences as reason for the break up...
Gumsu's ex husband Bayero broke the News a few days ago when he updated his Wikipaedia profile and stated that they parted ways due to Irreconcilable differences.
The former couple have 5 Beautiful Children and will co-parent peacefully.
Hian.....
ReplyDeleteEyaaaah. And I like them together as a couple. What could have happened? Nawaaah ooh.
DeleteHer bread is already buttered so no wahala, life continues......
DeleteNa real wa
DeleteOh, this is news to me. Didn't know anything about her life or marriage. She's quite a beauty and he's a handsome chap.
DeleteWish them both well.
Hmm, na real wa after 20 long years together. I remember their loved up pictures in ovation back then. It is well with marriages these days.
DeleteIt's well with them. It's really sad hearing stuff like this.
ReplyDeleteGumsu is one beautiful woman.
Sluttychic.
quel dommage
DeleteSometimes I cannot help but wonder how a couple can still divorce after being married for decades, it beats me .
Oh dear!
DeleteThey really looked so happy and loved, Chaaai! Marriage abi married life, there's no indeed no manual for it.
Odi egwu oh!
So many marriages here in Nigeria is management. Some try to manage it for years, I mean many years, at the end is either you continue or you part ways. My marriage is 16years. My husband and I were friends for two years, trouble started and I was managing it, we became enemies, and it went on for like 12yrs before we finally separated. We are back again. And guess what I AM STILL MANAGING it. I pay all my bills, my children's bill, although he has calmed down for now. I am building my house, if he tries any shit, I may still back out.
DeleteI can't tell all my stories here
Anon 9:51. It’s because a lot are unhappy but wait until the kids are grown
DeleteEayah. It is well with them. Marriages can be tricky.
ReplyDeleteIt is well and all the same beautifu
After spending 20years together, oh well i don't know what happened between them, wish them well.
ReplyDeleteAfter 20 years wetin remaining abeg.
ReplyDeleteThat is why I will choose a Nigerian spouse over and over again.
So a Nigerian spouse won’t leave you after 20 years?
DeleteSo Tonto, Tiwa, Stephanie Linus, Ini Edo, Dabota Lawson who all married Nigerians had longer marriage than Gumsu who married a non Nigerian for 20 years right? Some comments and ways of thinking just don’t make sense.
Delete☻ I know Nigerian couples who got divorced after 30+ years together.
DeleteAbeg talk true,which one is Nigeria Men,You re part of the reason insecure minds stay in miserable situationship*Unloving environment* There is no yard stick to measure individual commitments to Friendship, You just have to be open to discuss& resolve.
DeleteMy dear it is countable with Nigerian than a foreigner
DeleteAaaaaaaaaah!
DeleteThough we are all entitled to our opinions, but this your comment no make sense at all at all!
Nigerian men are the worse you ignorant mumu
DeleteAnon 9:13 Abeg why is Stephanie Linus in the list of divorcees you just named?
Delete@Tenth, you are just trying to defend the indefensible. I have counted so many to you now who didn’t even enjoy up to five years of marriage yet you are comparing with someone who was married for 20 years. Are you kidding serious?
DeleteMet 2012. Married 2014. Separated earlier this year for almost a year, back together but doesn't mean the trust is there. Shit happens. Marriage is no child's play. Funny how he was my friend and brother while we were dating.
DeleteThe Lady Is So Beautiful... What Could be the problem That Cannot be Solved... Wish Them Well In Their Different Endevour...
ReplyDeleteGaskiya, she is a beauty.
DeleteOh Gumsu. The best of the Abacha sisters. This is sad. I suspected something was amiss with her recent frequency to Nigeria.
ReplyDeleteShe tried honestly. 20years is not a joke. No one even thought she’d make it this far.
What do you mean 20yrs is NOT a joke? Our parents married for 50yrs for the oones who lived.. and I have been married for 22yrs and I married my university boyfriend after school, we then with the help of our parents relocated to the UK. Gumsu is stunning, I agree that once marriage is not working out, it's best to WALK away and Fast too especially if there is spousal Abuse or spousal Disrespect of any sort..
DeleteGod bless you! Everyone thought Gumsu would be back home in no time but she stood tall and gave it her best for twenty years! Even people who stayed married for just one month or year deserve a hug. Your first impulse when you see something you don't quite like is to rush out immediately but love and commitment make couples stay and work things out. If after 20 years they both feel they can no longer live together, I totally respect their decision. No unnecessary drama on social media space.
DeleteEeyah. This is sad...
ReplyDeleteShe kept on boasting about how her marriage had survived the on ig, and shaming bad belle according to her now this news.. . I wish the best for them both as they forge ahead with their lives.
ReplyDeleteA beautiful woman boasting about twenty years of marriage and five children on IG bothers you!? Anon, you need exorcism ASAP! Keep monitoring her on your iTel phone o. Iskanci.
DeleteBa keremi iskanchi gaskia. Chini iskancho baban baliyi.😠
DeleteSanu'n Ku! Masu yara'n Arewa😍😂
DeleteAbeg! she should boast oooooo, 20 years of marriage is not pot of beans. In fact, she did well!!..💪💪.
DeleteIt is better they separate than sink into depression.
She surely need to brag!!,DAMN!...she is a beautiful lady.
Chai. See beauty!
ReplyDeleteAyyah! this breks my heart, i hate ot when couple have come a long way like this and still break-up. I wish you both good luck.
ReplyDeleteShe tried...20yrs! She will get married again...soon.
ReplyDeleteSee hair like mine
Az in! Except she wants to take a long break from relationships in general. If not, she for do Nikkai in January 2020.
Delete@Amebonawork, you wicked o, rotfl
DeleteWow such a beautiful lady. Five kids? They tried sha.
ReplyDeleteDivorce? Irreconcilable differences? Oh Lord!! Nothing seems to keep men & women together again in marriage. ☹️☹️
ReplyDeleteSo sad
It's well with them.
ReplyDeleteMarriage is not easy. It's just God's grace that makes it easy.
My mouth is still hanging open
ReplyDeleteYou better close it quickly before fly enters your mouth.
Deletethe lady is fine sha
ReplyDeleteAs in enh, just starring at the picture. Is that her hair??
DeleteSad though
ReplyDeleteOh Ms.Gumsu, very beautiful lady.
ReplyDeleteTake heart beautiful woman and care for your beautiful children.
No need throwing shades on social media, you're bigger than that.
Sending you love, strength and courage 🤗
She's soo beautiful!!
ReplyDelete20years has gone with the wind. It is welll
ReplyDeleteThere is nothing disastrous about a divorce abeg. Better a peaceful divorce than a life-threatening marriage. I'm glad the children are grown up enough to know what's up though. Na new husband go dey rush Gumsu-our fellow senior commando. Dem still dey toast her mama sef at her age and after ten children, e come be Gumsu wey mammy-water sef dey throway salute give. No wonder we dey enjoy better light this December. Na Gumsu beauty dey light up everywhere.
ReplyDeleteWelcome back home sis and know that love will find you again soonest. Bala Dimka still mentioned not marrying you (because your father refused) as one of his regrets in life. Person still carry your matter for heart since how many years ago. Just rest awhile and surround yourself with good music plus the people and things you really love. Twenty years no be beans mbok. Una try. Na marriage end; your life no end.
Plenty sense Dey worry you
DeleteCorrect!
DeleteBabangida sef dey look for potential and prospective wifeband .
DeleteJokes aside, may God be with this couple and their children..
What will happen to some of us that is knocking 36 and have never been married but a helpless romantic and believe so much in marriage, with this kind of news, how hopeful should we be?hmmmmm
.Father Lord, na your hand we dey o, I am on this corner of the earth, that one you made me from, don't let him or me miss each other. This is no good news at all.
I say a big AMEN to your prayers, na God’s hands you dey and those that trust in him are never put to shame. He will certainly give you the bone of your bones. Marriage is beautiful with the right partner.
DeleteMy madam! Where have you been?
Delete@ Amebonawork come chop kiss 🤗🤗💅
Delete🥂🥂🥂🥂🥂🥂🥂🥂
DeleteAfter 20 years and 5 kids.
ReplyDeleteLord have mercy! What happened?
That last paragraph in blue inset got me "and in December 2019 the couple decided to separate due to irreconcilable differences".
Meaning they have tried to make it work again.
God take control and protect the kids.
Amen!
DeleteAmen.
DeleteA lot of couples try very hard to make it work but, when a glass is broken, it can never be meshed again.
Na waahoooo, it's well with you both
ReplyDeleteI remember seeing their wedding pictures in Ovation magazine in Kano those days.I wish her well
ReplyDeleteShe is beautiful.
ReplyDeleteAnd i like this Lady oh...
ReplyDeleteMay God guide you. It is well Ma'am!
Me that husband said he doesn't want me again since July and I haven't rested from plenty suitors who are 10* better off than my ex-husband. No jokes! No woman should feel less of her self when divorce or separation happens oh.only a foolish man would think his ex-wife wont be rushed as soon as he steps out of the picture. Pick up yourself gumsu. I still recall the day you got married and had to relocate to Cameroon francophone zone to settle and build a family. Through the years I watched you give birth and even started speaking French. Your heart and soul was there and for it to want to end now, gurllll you got our love and support
ReplyDeleteWhat a beautiful woman.
ReplyDeleteWe can only speculate, we weren't in the marriage with them to know their ups and downs.
divorce after 6 months people will say it’s too short
ReplyDeleteDivorce after 20 years people will say “after such a long time”
No one knows what people go through in marriage everyday, especially with children and other issues related like health, family, career, sex, emotions etc They gave it their best shot I’m sure. We should learn to wish them the best and move on because nobody knows tomorrow. I don’t think any one wishes to have to go through the legal and emotional wahala of divorce. Thank God she’s a northerner. Those ones remarry frequently no matter the age or number of children. She’s also an Abacha🤷🏽♀️ Funny enough no one finds a husband quicker than a divorcee with children
Eya. I only follow Gumsu on the gram but i feel so sad for her. I pray this decision bring her peace and happiness.
ReplyDeleteare 5 kids not too much
ReplyDeleteThey can bloody well afford it.
DeleteOh Gumsu! Marriage is so so hard. Twenty years is a long time. Hope this gives you the peace and happiness you deserve.
ReplyDeleteAll I see is a beauty queen with her full hair. all abacha children to fine no b small even their mama na fine woman.
ReplyDeleteAunt beauty it is well with u ma
Allah Sarki Gumsu,I know u will be fine 20yrs of marriage is not a joke. Allah Ya sa shi ne maifi alheri❤
ReplyDeleteI thought so. Gumsu has been in Kano most of the time for over a year now
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