STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
A DIFFERENT KIND OF CHRONICLE
Good day Stella,
I have had a lot on my mind lately,and I really want to know;
"how do people who had sugar daddies or multiple partners before marriage feel after being married to their husbands"?
Do they feel any attached to them or they just snap out of it and focus on their new homes? Do they end up feeling bad and even tell their husbands?
What if they were so in love before then and circumstances didn't favour them?
I really just want to know and learn.......
Thank you Stella, I love you!''
''I really just want to know and learn''meaning you are on this table....
Babe nothing dey inside,you go just strong your mind,cease contact with all the exes and move on with your new spouse.....going back or keeping contact might activate Okafors law.
Tell your husband what?is he also telling you his?dont let me land you hot slap...There should be n confessions made that will be used against you later,you dey hear?if you try am!
The past remains the past. Move on with the new and forget about everything about the past.
ReplyDeleteWehdone. Stella this poster is stylishly using this medium to do research. Asking jamb kweshuns. Me I no nor know. Na you sabi poster.
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DeleteEnd of the year don come, this one don show because of Santa giveaway! Hunger dey ooo!
DeletePoster is scared of karma 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
DeletePoster move on. It's not that hard. Tell yourself it's the past and let it remain exactly that.
DeleteI think the question should be where are all the runs girls now? I mean every university had them, like 30-50% of girls did runs at Uni. Are they born again now and condemning the act or they are recruit for young ones.lol
DeleteStella shut up. Stop assuming what you don't know. I ask questions that have nothing to do with me sometimes so just answer and stop being judgememtal
DeleteStella please give her a hot slap. It's better you don't indulge yourself in such at all. And if you're there this is the right time to stop, it's not too early nor too late. Or you've fallen in love with someone else's hubby? Better do yourself a favor now.
ReplyDeleteThis is going to be interesting..
ReplyDelete#Read and Learn
You want ot learn?
ReplyDeleteFirst of all, old things have passed away and everything becomes brand new.
Whatever you had in the past, let it remain in the past,no need to have regrets.
Focus on starting a new life, close all avenues to contact those ex's of yours and ask God to guard you on your new journey.
Who is a Saint anyway?
In all you do, make sure you do things right. Whoever decides to mock or use your past against you, do not pay attention to them.
Sluttychic.
@SluttyChikito
DeleteYOu goofed.
Let's quote that you first line completely...
2 Corinthians 5:17 Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come:
a The old has gone, the new is here!
Did you see the condition there; IF ANYONE IS IN CHRIST...?
This poster did not tell you that she is in Christ -repented, did she?
Know that for every promise of God, there is a condition attached. Study your Scriptures inugo?
And why you come enter ghost mode?
Answer my sincere ajujus o 😊😊
ReplyDeleteYou never get disconnected from those "sugar(bitter) papas" because you have
given your souls to them sexually: Hear the Word:
One that joins herself/himself with a prostitute is one with her in the body, for it is written,
the two has become one 1 Corinthians 6:16
So how does one get to free oneself from such idolatrous bondage?
That's ajuju there;
If Jesus sets you free, you are free indeed John 8:36
If you do not genuinely repent of the life of fornication/adultery and killing of babies, those blood will
haunt you in your new home (ndi uta can shoot here 😘😘😘)
And any day the opportunity presents,
you are caught in adultery. Again, having added your new husband to those
"unfaithful among men you multiplied" (Proverbs 23:28) he becomes a "skirt chaser" even if he
wasn't one before. He too will become
"sugar daddy for some other Naija girls" for a person (who does not repent) reaps what she sows.
Ighotago -you understand?
Ajuju ooo 😘😘😘😘
Abeg make I hear. Na u holy pass
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DeleteThanks for your arrows, I always leave room for ndi uta to shoot 😊😊😊
I did not mention "holy" in everything I wrote there...that's your word okwa ya?
Rather, I wrote that I was jobless for a whole year... and more.
May the Lord heal your soul from everything that is making your soul bitter 😘😘😘😘
So your husband’s soul is with all his ex girlfriends. Noted
DeleteSexy hips thank u. All these fake holier than thou!!
DeleteJust forget everything about them and face your family,it might not be easy at first but with time you will get use to it
ReplyDeleteLol i never had one, always ran before someone disfigures my pretty face as i no get strength. If it's possible, you can change your contact, keep your sm pages on private and start a new life.
ReplyDeleteHanty, just like you leave A to date B that's how you leave and go marry your husband. No guilt mehn. Marry your marry in peace and keep your mouth shut.
ReplyDeleteGbam
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Deletelafresh u nailed it🙌🙌🙌
Deleteyou might begin to compare your husband with some of the people you have been with
ReplyDeleteLol abeg. So people without sugar daddies don’t have exes
DeleteEhen?? Then d husband must b lacking seriously in that area of comparison abi?
DeleteI'm here for the comments.
ReplyDeleteAll I see is consequences of fornication and immorality.
ReplyDeleteBut had it been u were not involved in all these u stated above,ur mind would have been free and u would move on quickly.
just move on sister,and confess your sin to God alone and start on a clean note with your husband.
but pls do not look back again.
Those of you that open your mouths to tell your spouses about your past relationships deserve to be knocked on the head with a hammer. I can never understand the logic behind doing such. It will come back and bite you in the butt. Life happens and if you clean up and marry just keep it moving. Face front. If you see any of your ex runs or ex boyfriends just act as if you never saw them before . God will still bless who He wants to bless. Nobody should talk rubbish under my comment, as 2020 is approaching I have zero tolerance for bullshit now. Too many rude kids on this blog
ReplyDeleteI ve missed you and your wise comments
DeleteLooool... I rarely comment on this blog but your comment made me laugh - you've taken the words right out of mouth.
DeleteThe past is gone,focus on ur new family..if possible change ur sim n message ur closed pals..don't ever share ur past with ur man cos he will use it against u one day!
ReplyDeleteBut remember if you dated someone husband, someone must also date your husband. Happy married life
ReplyDeleteYinmu
DeleteThe someone’s husband that was dated, did d wife also “dated” person’s husband? Just asking o.
DeleteStory
DeleteSome feelings dont just go away.But face your marriage and dont tell your spouse anything
ReplyDeleteI had a sugar daddy that I was very in love with. In fact when I met my husband my loyalty to the sugar daddy was the reason I put him in the friend zone. Years later after me and sugar daddy grew apart, I dated other people but my affection for sugar daddy didn't go anywhere and I found reasons to dismiss them. I never went back to sleeping with sugar daddy but we remained friends. Then finally things clicked for DH and I and we started dating. I told him everything about every one I was involved with in the past. He asked me to stop but I did so because I wanted him go have first hand knowledge from me in case anyone came to warn him, he would already know. DH and I dated for 2 years then broke up. After 6 months apart we got back together and married within a few months. I was glad I told him about everyone in the past because during our break up so many people "reported" my past relationships to him and with everyone they told him about, I'd already given him full gist. That's when he said he started praying for our reconciliation because he knew he could 100% trust me. So when we reconciled within weeks we already started marriage rites.
ReplyDeleteI don't recommend getting into relationships that take away from you and sugar daddy relationships tend to do so. They keep you busy with gifts and money and you put your emotions in when all he does is make sure he does the minimum to keep you as an option for sex. And you will be blocking your own best match.
Nice attitude at keeping things straight with the one you intended to marry.
DeleteBut being "in love with sugar daddy"
No, mbanu -you can say; "I was in lust, I was infatuated, I was fooled by vanities etc."
For Love is pure, does not seek his own, is not selfish, takes no pleasure in evil 1 Corinthians 13:4-6
...check Scriptures and understand what Love is.
1 Corinthians 13:…4Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no account of wrongs. 6Love takes no pleasure in evil, but rejoices in the truth.…
DeleteYou have a point about coming clean most of the times, but most men will definitely use such against their wife sooner or later.. A woman can easily look past her husband's sexcapade, but most men can't!
DeleteNot judging but someone somewhere will also fall inlove with your husband. Just have that in mind
DeleteYou just judged... And no, nobody will sleep with her husband. Are you God. Jeez, never seen a hypocritical bunch like Nigerians.. If your hubby had a side chick, it was because he wanted to.. Jeez face him
DeleteWell done. Any opportunity to abuse Nigerians you people jump at it. Can't you drop your tired opinion without involving the rest of us Nigerians?
DeleteThis should be interesting
ReplyDeletehalf of madam gwegwe was as a result of sugar daddies
ReplyDeleteThis is a stereotype and not always true Ugonna. The way you people generalise is amazing. But it is not wise, nor true.
DeleteDear poster,You sound like you are not happily married and you feel that you dont deserve it.
ReplyDeleteIf you could move on from one boyfriend/sugar daddy to another as a single lady,why is it so difficult to forget about the past and concentrate on your legitimate oga?
Incase you dont know,those people belong to your past and they should remain there forever!
No use your hand scatter your home o!
Hian!
People without sugar daddies don’t have exes? People without sugar daddies have faithful husbands? Just pray for forgiveness and move on with your life. It seems your problem is that you’re obsessed with your sugar daddy. Better just leave him alone and face your front
ReplyDeleteBeen there, done that, moved on, never told DH. Married 20 years now and looking forward to grandchildren. The past remains the past!!!
ReplyDeletemove on with your life.
ReplyDeletePeople take things too serious.
ReplyDeleteWomen attach so much emotions and sentiments to sex!
The moment I started thinking like a man and acting like a women with sex, I started enjoying life.
Please explain
DeleteDid you marry solely for the purpose of clearing up your reputation? If you are married to someone who you spiritually connected to nothing about your past will seep into your marriage. Let's use a glass for drinking as an example. You have probably drank out of the glasses in your home hundreds maybe thousands of times, but every time you pour something in it that is all that is on your mind, you do not keep remembering the other things you drank from it. Your vagina has been used before your husband came along, but now you committed yourself before God and man to him and him alone so the past is forgotten. He is the one who gave you the status of wife not the sugar daddy or the others, so why not focus on who changed your status than focus on who you had to hide behind bushes and crawl around in the dark of night to be with.
ReplyDeleteLike Lot's wife you will turn to a pillar of salt if you keep your mind on past glories. Put your hand in the hand of your husband and flee out of Sodom and don't look back. You have the opportunity to create something magnificent with your husband if you fully commit to your union and build from it. Some of the greatest romances started off with huge hurdles. Don't miss an opportunity to grow and evolve into something wonderful with the man that you are bonded to in spirit and in flesh.
Nice one esp about Lot's wife.
DeleteMA to leave and fact the new matter I. e your marrige
ReplyDeleteThis is pure ajuju na ese okwu
ReplyDeleteThe rate at which you runs girls do a 360 once you become wives is amazing. Some of you deliberately contributed in bringing sorrow to an innocent woman, pains that would probably never disappear in her life time yet you expect to just move on happily after marriage?! Just as God made sure David suffered for sleeping with another man's wife and orchestrating the innocent man's death even though he repented, so shall it be with you. Nonsense
ReplyDeleteLeave them. Karma will deal with them at the right time.
DeleteWhat goes around comes around
ReplyDeleteIs a normal thing to delete the past from your brain and move on with the present, who telling husband her past epp? You want to form good wife by telling him all the sugar daddies you had, excuse me ma. You better face your new home before you use your own hand to destroy your marriage. Is your husband telling you his own?
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