In this post,we will be putting sentiments aside as we sit down to discuss.........
Which do you think is really the pride of a man or woman between being a virgin and having a good character..?
Would you rather want to end up with someone you know is a Virgin or someone you know is not but they have good character ?
Are there any Advantages or disadvantages in being a virgin?
I will go with good character any day. I lost my virginity via rape. So many people lose their virginity unwillingly. It takes a day for virginity to be taken. Character is a life time.
ReplyDeleteLow expectations....that could be an advantage.
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Anon I am so sorry you were raped.
DeleteMy apologies Anon
DeletePlease TRUE Virginity does portray a certain level of restraint
A good character plus virginity requires discipline, wisdom and restraint
Let us fear GOD and Do good!
Men will prefer virgins ,even till tomorrow
ReplyDeleteIf u r a man, then speak for urself and if u're not, then u know nothing..... virgin ko. aye virginity o ni da
DeleteThe kind of Naija virgin -hymen intact and backdoor like borehole?
Delete😉😉😉😉 and who licks 🍭🍭🍭 aghara aghara -indiscriminately?
Them full here ooo
ANG the things you say how do you know about them?
DeleteBitchplis ooo😁...Missed you here bro.
Delete😂😂😂😂 abeg ask her how she knows 🤣. Radio with satellite.
DeleteIf a man got both good and fine, but if left to choose eeehn oboy na 'good character' the man go choose because that goes a long way, virgin with no character is zero for men.
ReplyDeleteThere are virgins with good character and someone with bad character verse versa.
ReplyDeleteVirgin or not as long as the person tick your plus. Quick question why are we so concern about female virgins, what about male being virgins. I hear some men saying i want to marry a virgin and am always tempted to ask Mr. are you a virgin too.
In as much as my man needs to have good characters (very important), he shouldn't be an aja igboro. Dassit!
ReplyDeleteVirginity is important but good character is importanter
ReplyDeleteI choose good character over virginity. Virginity will still be lost to consummate the marriage but good character is crucial to sustain the marriage
The pride of every woman is GOOD CHARACTER.
ReplyDeleteIf you are a virgin and of good character, that’s a plus. But being a virgin without good character, is nothing near pride.
Nothing beats good character, you find favor in God and man.
I will prefer a man with good character than a virgin man 😏
@SluttyChikito
DeleteYou mean that yahoo dude with "good character," who kills and gives human heads to Satan to make money.
And if the medium tells him to fork that mad woman in your street, he does not bat an eyelid?
He lives "you" on the bed and goes out in the night, rapes the mad woman and comes back to pound you like foo foo
And what's that his good character?
Of course -money, money, more money, ... he gives you anything money can buy
isn't it? And what about your soul?
How about having peace here and in eternity?
How about the fires of hell and the maggots (worms)?
That is the ajuju oo, very costly ajuju.
Think about it.
Mark 9:48 47And if your eye causes you to sin, pluck it out.
It is better for you to enter the kingdom of God with one eye
than to have two eyes and be thrown into hell, 48where ‘their worm never dies,
and the fire is never quenched.
Una think say Jesus dey play okwa ya?
😢😢😢
Gbam @your last line. Wetin I wan use virgin man do
Deletethe two is a full package but since we'r asked to choose one,character over virginity..a virgin with a bad character will leave people asking who virginity help..
ReplyDeleteMen would choose the latter. Who needs a virgin that won't give you peace of mind?
ReplyDeleteDo I have regrets of not marrying as a virgin No!!! The sex I've had excluding my first experience I gave myself because I was so into them which is the only way I can even ve sex. There must be heightened attraction.
ReplyDeleteI look back at my exes, they are good men still doing well, I attract better people so when I marry hubby should know he's not my first and I didn't have my other experiences with anyhow men. In fact he should be proud I once had something with people of importance just that it didn't work out lol..
Who virginity help!!
Deep down sha, I wish I met the one earlier so he would be my first maybe not middle but definetly last cos we gat reconnect after the middle lol. OK bye.
Wait! People still consider being a virgin a standard/quality of husband/wife material;in 2019?
ReplyDeleteThis kind of backward mentality is wearing shoe,socks and raincoat sha.
Because you have probably killed a lot and buried in your womb and think that 2019
Deletebeing a virgin will not amount to anything?
Think again.
Like, I'm shook!
Deletethe memtality is adding soapy dance to its nature sef
Deleteas shook as you are it should not be under emphasized
DeleteBackward mentality dey wear coat n akpolar not suit n shoes!
DeleteAnon 13:15 how dare you? You see your kind of head; is what is described as BLOCKED HEAD. Did you have an F in comprehension? I'm responsible for what I write, you are responsible for what you understand by it. Get out of here with your daft and negative energy. Go get some education; especially in comprehension.
DeleteAnon 13:53 not 13:15**
DeleteWould rather be with someone that has good character that is not a virgin.. Being a virgin is something but having your whole identity wrapped up in being a virgin is nuts. I mean, your worth, value and esteem is not tied to the vagina. Is it?
ReplyDeleteIts character all the way
DeleteANG the mad one is coming for you
DeleteAll i know is asking we religiously hypnotized Nigerians to put sentiment aside is a big task. Being an ill mannered person is in you, being a virgin wont wipe your sins away. Remember there are other listed sin aside fornication. Besides you dont show people you are a virgin, but you show everyone you meet your character.
ReplyDeleteNOTE!!!
Please my opinion.
This caught my attention: "....you don't show people you are a virgin, but you show everyone you meet your character."
DeleteI'll take Good Character over virginity ANY DAY!
You are correct ma... You indeed don't show everyone that you are a virgin but everyone either they like it or not will meet your character as you interact with them.
DeleteNeither.
ReplyDeleteWhat counts is a person's right-standing with God: Talking about salvation. With salvation comes the development of the Character of Christ in a person, the knowledge of God's word and consequently the fear of God.
Proverbs 9:10 The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom,
and knowledge of the Holy One is understanding.
It is this fear of God that makes a saved soul want to please God thus treat his/her fellow human with kindness.
1 John 4:20 …19We love because He first loved us. 20If anyone says, “I love God,” but hates his brother, he is a liar. For anyone
who does not love his brother, whom he has seen, cannot love God, whom he has not seen.
Being a virgin is not just not "having the hymen broken" -it does not fetch anyone heaven. The person might be
full of lust and other vices.
If this person is not saved
and sees a way to kill to make money, he/she will do it.
But being in Christ makes one to hate fornication/any iniquity that Christ hates. The Spirit of Christ dwells in
such a one and his character
effortlessly flows from this being;
Galatians 5:22But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness,
faithfulness, 23gentleness, and self-control. Against such things there is no law.
When Naija girls talk about a yahoo dude (who kills for money)😊as having "good character," what they mean is that
he doles money (blood money) to them like ATM.
"Stella, he is so nice, bought me iphone 50, gave me a car ...the last
time we forked, he sent 5 million credit alert...even though he forks
anything on skirt including goats...
he is a god-fearing man to the core"
😱😱😱😱😱😱😱
Matthew 16:26 What good will it be for someone to gain the whole world, yet forfeit their soul? Or what can anyone give in exchange for their soul?
Na Jesus' ajuju n'ese okwu be that oo
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DeleteRevelations 14:4 They have kept themselves as pure as virgins, following the Lamb wherever he goes. They have been purchased from among the people on the earth as a special offering to God and to the Lamb. 5And no lie was found in their mouths; they are blameless.…
Do you remember the parable of the five foolish virgins? Matthew 25 from vs. 1... Virgins can be foolish and not prepare for
eternal life and it cost dearly, they missed heaven.
I choose good character please.
ReplyDeleteAfter marriage virginity will be lost and the only thing that can keep the man or woman in that marriage is his or her character.
Some men prefer virgins, even if its tertiary virgin.
ReplyDeleteAgain some virgins turn out good, some turn out to be kinto AKA pataego.
Tertiary virgins 😂😂😂😂😂
DeleteLet me read comments and learn.
ReplyDeleteI don't know anything.....
i prefer good character to a virgin,,what is the essence of having a virgin as a,wife of,girl friend without character?
ReplyDeleteis like having a phone without network(life of an airplane mode
Wait until you meet jezebel virgin
ReplyDeletei read some days ago or let me say a day ago that "yahoo boys has a good heart"
ReplyDeleteif i may ask,,who told you yahoo boy has good heart? someone is who making himself happy in expense of other.
so,,having a virgin as a woman is not a pride cuz when one is not cultured then that individual is completely finished
i read some days ago or let me say a day ago that "yahoo boys has a good heart"
ReplyDeleteif i may ask,,who told you yahoo boy has good heart? someone is who making himself happy in expense of other.
so,,having a virgin as a woman is not a pride cuz when one is not cultured then that individual is completely finished
Heyyyyy, English no be by force. Abeg type pidgin nau. See me struggling to make some sense out of what you typed 😄.
DeleteSlutty is that you? 18.32
Deleteits good when shes a virgin and has good chracter. thats lifetime respect.
ReplyDeleteWhat has virginity really got to do with for example being a good spouse or a good business partner? No basis for comparison if you ask me. Except the not being a virgin means you are over sharing your thing..in that case that is also bad character ?(lack of common sense...heheheheh) Character all the way...a virgin with bad character....tueh
ReplyDeleteA good name is better than fine wine.
ReplyDeleteMy mum married my father a Virgin,after 9yrs of domestic violence and abuse,he abandoned her without unapologetically.
For me,Good Character over anything.
Ajuju na-ese okwu, Chukwu gozie gi.
ReplyDeleteGood behavior over virginity please
ReplyDeleteWho virginity help... does it make any difference in this day and time (boring) find you a woman with good “character” respectful which with u have understanding and live life... regardless of her past, weather a prostitute or something Griever, character, love and understanding leads...
ReplyDeleteit help me. VIRGIN and PROUD
Deletegood character any day anytime, who virginity epp? if a person has good character your relationship will be sweet but if the person is still a virgin with ugly character you will not be able to enjoy the relationship. Character is everything.
ReplyDeleteMarrying a virgin is not the problem. The problem is what happens after she tastes the rod. She will be imagining what she missed all these years. No experience. No comparison. That is one hell of a cheater loading especially in this WhatsApp, Instagram and Facebook era.
ReplyDeleteThe ones running riot nko
DeleteVirginity is good
Good character good
Fear of GOD , restraint and the above best
Anon 15:17, PURE LIES!!!!!! I got married as a Virgin and my husband was a virgin as well. I have never ever thought about "the things I missed out on" Heck! I didn't miss out on anything. I have the most amazing husband ( thank you God!!) , We have great sex. It took some months, but we both learnt together and we're doing really good in that area. If I could do this all over, I'll still marry as a virgin and the thought that I'm my husband's first, is simply beautiful. Oh and about good character, if I can say so myself, I have a beautiful character. Thank God! You can be a Virgin and have great character.
DeleteVirgin ko Virginia ni... who virgin help?
ReplyDeleteThis comparison is baseless. How can you compare a virgin with bad character? A virgin can have good character, a virgin can have bad character. A non virgin can have good character and a non virgin can have bad character. If you want to be objective, compare marrying a person with bad character to a person with good character. As well, other things being acceptable, you can compare marrying a virgin and marrying a non virgin. You people should stop antagonizing virgins with baseless posts. Non virgins will always feel inferior and always seek for opportunities to glorify themselves by antagonizing virgins.
ReplyDeleteThank you
DeleteIf you are virgin
You have shown restraint and I am proud of you
Thank you!! If you're still a Virgin, keep your head up and stay proud. Some of us are virgins and we have amazing characters!!
DeleteI am still a virgin at 26 but e never epp me. All the men that I meet are just something else. I am tired.
DeleteGod bless you.
DeleteStella be acting like someone cant be both, virgin and good character. Some of us are !!!
This post is to make non virgins feel good about themselves.
Good character over virginity any day any time.
ReplyDeleteWho virgin epp?
Virginity help me!! #proudlyvirgin
DeleteLol..
ReplyDeleteStella, why trying to be politically correct with the topic by including men instead of just writing only women.. you dey fear them Feminist? Lol.. abegi.. make una park well.
"There is no market or demand for male virgins. That's why a Dick comes with no Hymen and no primitive deity has ever demanded a male virgin as a sacrifice. Male virgins are useless.
When was the last time you saw women fight over a Chaste Man? Or a male Virgin? But I bet you know lots of women who came to blows over a Player Or some Bad Boy"-ubunja.
Now to the question, no need trying to be politically correct, if lady with good character would remain a virgin.. abi is it not disobedience that made them lose it in the first place? Abi their mama no advice them to keep it until them marry? But because of their bad character they had to disobey. Teams and conditions apply tho. Also there are exceptions to this rule like rape and other stuffs one couldn't control.
To those that want to come and shout this is the 21st century under my comment, Nigeria is not yet in the 21st century, if you want to argue, then why are you girls still giving green lights when you see a boy you fancy instead of walking up to him and asking him out,as a 21st century babe is supposed to, abi you na traffic light ni..
"If a lady has good character,she would remain a virgin"... typo errors abeg free me
Deletemy man friend married his wife as a virgin, now he's worshipping in my kingdom, he's abandoned madam virgin, he got me a car, I'm already building my own house courtesy of him. he said I should have a baby for him so as to cement our friendship, but I Still dey reason am, so who virgin epp?
ReplyDeleteAnd you won?
DeleteHe is promiscuous
You are promiscuous
Own your rubbish and stop justifying nonsense
Your reward is not now, na for future. Kontinu
DeleteAnd you are proud of it ... Stoopid harlot !!!
DeleteYou are an example of bad character. The man that chose you is a mumu.
DeleteAwon feminists ti take over
ReplyDeleteI will take Good character any day any time over virgin. Who virgin toto help. There is no pleasure with non experienced toto(Virgin). But there is happiness, no stress, joy and enjoyment with an experienced toto With good character. But make the toto body count no pass 4.
ReplyDeleteI choose "good character"
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