I've heard and read all sorts of opinion pertaining to s#x and what I find disturbing is that there are no scriptural quotations to back up these doctrines.
I remember listening to a preaching on TV and the preacher said anyone who engages in s#xual activity on Sunday is desecrating the Sabbath day. He sternly warned wives not to give in to their husbands' s#xual needs on Sunday as the Bible commanded us to hallow the Sabbath day.
Another said anyone who practices any other style apart from missionary position is also in error. When I heard this one, I just felt immense pity for his wife and the kind of s#xual frustration she could possibly be passing through.
The 'die by fire' church strongly preaches against fellatio and cunninglingus as it is a form of s#xual perversion and a grave sin against God.
The questions that always come to mind are; how do these couples who believe these teachings spice up their s#xual lives, do they just endure or are they really enjoying their marriage? Are there biblical references for these doctrines?
I read my Bible and I am yet to see where it is explicitly stated that these acts are sinful.
S#xual intimacy in marriage is allowed by God and should be enjoyed to the fullest. These preachers should stop making it seem as if God frowns at s#xual fulfilment in Marriage......Just stop already!
S#xual intimacy in marriage is allowed by God and should be enjoyed to the fullest. These preachers should stop making it seem as if God frowns at s#xual fulfilment in Marriage......Just stop already!
Lmao 😂😂😂😂
ReplyDeleteOne should stick to just missionary? Where’s the fun in that? Enjoy sex properly by indulging in different styles.
I love sexual adventure....it’s beautiful.
Some people have made Christianity tiring.
What’s the essence of sex if you don’t get to break the bed 🤷🏿♀️
@Slutty chikito
DeleteSo you love sexual adventures, with whom?
Okwa sincere ajuju oo
Mrs. Dee is talking about sex in marriage -legitimate poundings 😊😊
I don't know why you want to change the topic to "sexual adventures"
is that one not fornication-perversion syndrome?
Okwa sincere ajuju oo 🤷♀️🤷♀️
WHAT IS A MARRIED CHRISTIAN COUPLE ALLOWED TO DO IN SEX??
DeleteWhat is okay in the 💍Christian bedroom? I have heard that question asked a whole lot of times.
It's a highly controversial question because some Christians say anything is permissible while others say no, that sex should be in a particular way😉.
People have different opinions concerning anal sex, oral sex, sex toys or different sex positions. In fact, you even hear some pastors say that any sex position besides the missionary style is a sin😄 and this leaves a whole lot of confusion.
Variety spicens things up in the bedroom. You know, when you keep doing something in a particular way over and over again, you will get bored. Same thing with sex.
So there is nothing wrong with breaking free from being stereotyped and getting creative in the bedroom👙.
Hey, God wants married couples to enjoy their bodies without restrictions. So don't feel guilty about wanting to try something new.
As for what a couple should or should not do sexually, the Bible makes no mention of it. Rather it encourages married couples not to deprive each other sex except by mutual agreement and for a time (1Cor 7:5a)💏.
But whatever the couple wants to do must be mutual, safe and not violate godly principles.
Ok, let me break it down:
💜Mutual: Whatever new method you and your spouse want to experiment must be based on mutual consent not coerced. Both of you must want to do it.
In a case scenario where one of you is uncomfortable with it, do away with the idea for the benefit of the both of you. Sex ought 😍to bring you both together, not tear you apart.
💜Safe: I believe God wants you to be safe during sex. Anal may not work for your spouse because not only is it painful but it also can cause certain medical conditions.
So as for oral and anal sex, I leave it for you to decide. Don't do it because your friends are. If you feel it's wrong, don't😫😫.
But there are unsafe sex practices that I will blatantly tell you to stay away from cos they go too extreme to achieve sexual stimulation and may cost you your life.
They are:
Erotic Asphyxiation: The intentional restriction of oxygen by😢 smothering or strangling so as to heighten sexual arousal during sex.
Sadomasochism: Sexual gratification that comes through inflicting and recieving pains.
💜Doesn't violate godly principle: God created sex to be between a man and his wife only, not between three or more people. That’s why swapping /swinging, threesomes, foursomes👥👥, orgies should never be considered as a way to heat up things in the bedroom. It's unbiblical and satanic.
Pornography is also a big no no. Christian couples should NEVER use porn to tune up their sex life.
Ultimately, don't engage in any sexual act you feel is wrong😵. Sex in marriage should not produce any form of guilt because you are walking in the will of God for every married couple!!
Enjoy it, savor it and feel great.. 👑
@Pure inspiration
DeleteYou come yarn all these (some meaningful) long grammar
without reference to the Bible?
The Bible is the manual of life and sex in marriage is
the act for the beginning of life in this sphere of existence.
Please study your Scriptures else??
ANG... so everybody must quote bible? What if the person is not a Christian? Commend a good write up when you see one. Hypocrisy will kill you las las.
Delete@14:38
DeleteYou just want to shoot arrows okwa ya?
Okay, make I quote from her last 3-4 paragraphs;
"...threesomes, foursomes👥👥, orgies should never be considered as a way to heat up things in the bedroom. It's unbiblical and satanic.
Pornography is also a big no no. Christian couples should NEVER use porn to tune up their sex life.
... "
Looks like you Naija girls no longer read the comments, once it is "ANG"?
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I see you stylishly ignored anal sex between couples Mrs dee. Everyone has their limit like you have yours. If you don't deem anal sex fit then others have the right to not deem fellatio and cunnilingus fit okay? So from your write up, it shows all mallam to him kettle.
ReplyDeleteExactly @anon13:08. Every mallam to his kettle. The fact that you enjoy fellatio and cunnilingus doesn't mean people that don't engage in it are archaic or old fashioned. Everyone should study their limit,breaking point and stick to it. As for me as a person I will never indulge in fellatio and cunnilingus bcos health wise it is not advisable. I've seen people who have gotten all manners of diseases from it. Human papiloma virus which causes mouth and throat cancer can be gotten from giving and receiving oral s*** while anal cancer and feacal incontinence can be gotten from anal s**. So my dear I won't indulge in what will harm me at the long run or predispose me to danger all bcos I wanna explore and enjoy. God forbid.
DeleteBut how person go carry fork chook for ike nsi bikonu?
DeleteThat thing tire me oo.
I hear that some also kiss ike nsi -full of sheet?
🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢But Naija girls do all these things once 'mmoney (and abroad)
are involved.
Anal sex is generally dangerous to health so yes, *not all things are good for you*.
DeleteI see nothing wrong in what she said,she didn't whole condemn their decisions.If I get what she said right,she's only saying that it shouldn't be termed 'sinful'.
DeleteDo you,yes...but don't come out,hit your chest and say it is SINFUL.
Anal sex is sodomy...and sodomy is referenced in the Bible!!
DeleteWhat of when the couple are fasting, if they both agree can they make love after they break their fast or abstain till the fasting period is over? Some people say if they both agree it's fine, while some others say nope abstain for the duration of the fast. Which is it?
ReplyDeleteAbstain for the duration of the fast. You must suffer your flesh during fasting to obtain open heaven.
Deleteit's all about agreement. They can decide after breaking the fast or after the entire fasting period. But if you feel it'll 'mess' up your mind and make you loose concentration on your fasting,you will not die if you stay for a while will you?
Delete@Cyclone
Delete'some people say, some people say..." What does the word of God say?
1 Corinthians 7: …4The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife. 5Do not deprive one another, except by mutual consent for a limited time, so you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again, so that Satan will not tempt you through your lack of self-control.
PLEASE take out time to read at least a chapter of the New Testament everyday and you will learn a lot inugo?!
Ok thanks @black D, @deheroine, @ang.
DeleteHmmm, I still think the missionary position is the best!
ReplyDeleteDon't be deceived,these religious people enjoy sexual intimacy with their partners.
Yes oh. Eg Pastor Wilson.
Delete@Lilian
Deleteplease can you describe this missionary position?
Anonymous 13:37, are you for real 😒🙄😳😌😏 or you just want to stress Lilian 🤷🏾♀️?
DeleteExplain missionary position? You remember how d white man came into Africa...you remember? That's it.
Deletebased on God's intention for intimacy,the missionary style is it. Any other style was brought in by man for his pleasure. And yes mrs Dee brothers and sisters in the lord do have a great time with their spouses in za oza room. You don't want to imagine!
DeleteMy clitoris just tickled as you mentioned That Pastor Willson. That nigga should start coaching men how to eat pussy.
DeleteMissionary position is man on top of woman facing each other.
DeleteSexual intimacy in marriage is God ordained and sanctioned -legitimate poundings! 😝😝
ReplyDeleteMrs. Dee, abeg retouch that ya last line make we catch am well well.
I don't care what the preachers preach. God will judge them all for
those they led astray. When you study your Bible like I (by the Grace of God) do, you care less about the
"preachers" rhetoric.
The only situation God encourages couples to abstain is still by mutual consent of the two;
1 Cor. 7: …4The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife. 5Do not deprive one another, except by mutual consent for a limited time, so you may devote
yourselves to prayer. Then come together again, so that Satan will not tempt you through your lack of self-control.
God will judge also the adulterers, the fornicators (fork thieves).
God will judge all that snatch and vamoose, the suffocators,
I read here that some Naija girls dey demand that their husbands pay cash or credit transfer before legitimacy???😱😱
Okwa ajuju oo
God will judge any married sisi that collect money from her husband before
offering legitimacy!
That Sisi na runs girl inside marriage o 😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮
Hello chisom
Delete@Melancholy
DeleteSee me see wahala o 😱😱
Naija girls want to "maim" me with more strange names?
No longer 🤐🤐🤐🤐
God only commanded couples not to deny each other the conjugal right. He didn't state whether it is right to practise which style or not but if your conviction says otherwise,do not indulge in certain styles and leave others to their conviction
ReplyDeleteSome people read from the Bible upside down.
DeleteCorinthians 6:12
ReplyDelete"Everything is permissible (allowed and lawful) but not all things are helpful (good for you, expedient and profitable). Everything is lawful but don't become the slave of anything or be brought under its power"
Either these pastors chose to ignore that part of the bible or they are just delusional.
God gives you room to make choices based on personal preference, risk, health and desire.
I love you jare
Delete@Perxian
DeleteCorinthians 6:12?
How about First Genesis 6:12?
13:58 You know, you can just ask like a normal person. sigh
Delete1 Corinthians 6:12
Prex I think this anal sexs is ok for some ppl o. I have a friend who refused to marry her boyfriend then because he refused anal. My jaw dropped!!!😯😯😯
DeleteI thought anal was a man's fetish.
The guy she finally married was because he was crazier than her and introduced her to 3some!😯😯 She is a mother of 2 now but they are both still very sick in the head. And she brags to me about it!!!😯😯
Saphire, she's doing it doesn't make it okay since we are talking godly intercourse. Even having 3somes is desecrating her matrimonial home but i ain't judging. 🤷♀️🤷♀️
Deletewhat rubbish are you saying you are not judging? stop being hypocritical. the reason why the church no longer has power is because Christians have become like ostriches and do not say the truth. the church now has no difference from the world. the truth must be said...I AM JUDGING, threesomes are totally wrong and ungodly...the marriage bed should be undefiled like the bible says and no third party should have sex with a couple because it is a covenant between two people. am a christian, and i do missionary and doggy with hubby. we do oral occasionally but we dont do porn. yes the bible doesnt define what you do but you need to weigh any actions with the word of God. it is silent about sex but must you behave like animals during sex? what is the essence of bringing a 3rd part to your matrimonial bed? all things are good but not all things are lawful or expedient
DeleteReligious biggots every where. God has many things to judge ooo. For me do good and wish your enemies well,help those in need and do not deny any man what belongs to him. And enjoy your wife as she enjoys you. Na my own be that oo
ReplyDelete@Zemzem
DeleteAt least spell "bigots" well let's know where to classify you.
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@Ang so because he misspelled your name you are throwing indirect shade. Okwaya? Okwa ajuju o.
Delete@Saphire
DeleteAjuju gi adi ese okwu ma ncha -ya question no cause any shooting at all
At least I contribute correct spelling of the word he murdered.
Wetin you contribute?
This is the real ajuju ooo 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@Perxian
ReplyDeleteCorinthians 6:12 😮😱
Abeg o, Corinthians get first and second,
which one you dey yarn up there???
Okwa Sincere ajuju ooo 😊😊😊
1 Corinthians, boo.
DeleteSee you judging already. If the man can satisfy his wife thoroughly in missionary, what's your business? Whatever gets both parties cumming is their business not any other's. Not everyone is adventurous in bed. Do you. That should have been your message. How are you different from those you've castigated?
ReplyDeletewhat do i know, i will read comments and nothing more.
ReplyDeleteHmmmm i will just follow you de read comments too.
Deleteduring the times of our for father's, what style were they practicing?but still,their marriages lasted the test of time.
ReplyDeletethe keyword is what works for one marriage might not work for another marriage.so just do u.
They did any style the man said. And many of our parents marriage lasted cos that was what society expected. Many couples were miserable. Times have changed my friend!
DeleteSo on point @ anon 🙌🏼.
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ReplyDeleteHmmmmm its well
@woman during our fore fathers ,u follow dem dey d oza room.
ReplyDeletestick 2 what works for u in marriage. another man's meat its another man's poison.
I am here to read comments and learn nothing more.
ReplyDeleteBut I don't like doggy as hubby dick is on the big side, I prefer missionary, I'll hold my legs like when you want to push out baby,so so sweet and he thrust in slowly and deeply. Missionary for me any day anytime while holding the legs and widely spread,I'm wet already 😋
ReplyDeleteI envy you sis,my sex life is miserable. Hubby has a very low libido,I'm tired of trying anything again. I desire to have another baby but I found myself in a sexless marriage and to think I kept myself for marriage is more depressing. Enjoy your home.
DeleteHelp him increase it na,do the dates and coconut drink mixture for him and at times,send him text of how you can't wait to f..k him silly while at work,trust me, he'll run home like a headless chicken. Another thing is while doing the do, don't just lie there like a log, even if it is missionary, you f....k him back, just be lifting your butt as he's thrusting. Sorry for being too explicit. Help him look forward to f..king you😍
DeleteFirstly my hubby is huge then he can fork ten times a day for hours if u leave him. He licks both my pussy and my butt hole. He sucks my toes and licks my whole body..... I don’t enjoy sex but I do enjoy the annilingus and cunnilingus
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