Moin Moin!!!
Hope your night was Fab?Mine sure was,i no get time to let anything steal my sleep...Nothing is worth worrying over my dears....
The things you worried about in January and the sleep you lost,no be you dey there so?
Please 'Moin Moin' up there refers to Good Morning in one of the dialects in Germany....before you think I am eating Moin moin this Moin Moin.....hehehhehe
Hmmm God has been awesome and the way the Blessings have been coming my way eh,I cant shout,what!!!
I no longer put even the tiniest hint of what God has been doing for me because my inbox will be full of people asking for money and promising to pay back.....If only they know that i do not borrow people money cos trying to collect back has cost me some friends eh....
People will take your money and refuse to pay back!!!.....If God blesses me and i wanna give,i give and don't collect back.....
God has been awesome!
I will be playing Santa to Known BVs with Handles i can recognise.........If you are a BV that God has blessed and you want to play Santa this Christmas with me and you know the People you want to Bless already,please contact me.....This year,there will be no gifting anyone in anonymous mode and the gifting will not be for those who do not have alone,even those who have will have their store houses blessed with our widows mite........
Please send me a mail or ping me on Whatsapp if you wanna play Santa....
There is no in house news today but you can still send in stuff for next week....
Send in your chronicles,both bad and good stories to learn from or drop it in the comment section,i will pick it up and not enable it!!!
Oh don't mind me this Morning,I am a chatter box...Women in love always are!!!!
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Care deeply
ReplyDeleteCan you care deeply? Can you, at the same time, not care at all?
Care deeply about your purpose, your efforts, your values. Care not at all about what’s beyond your ability to influence.
Care deeply about the moment, its beauty, its possibilities, its challenges, about doing what’s right. Care not at all about what others think of what you’re doing.
Feel the power of stillness within you. Engage that power to make yourself a positive presence in life.
Always, life swirls around you. Give love, attention, effort and care to life, without getting too distracted by all the swirling.
Care deeply about what matters, about what you can do. Let all the rest take care of itself.
Mum SDK. Don’t bring a hard working man down. He could have been a ritualistic, 419 +. Kidnapper to Mk such money over night. But he is doing a decent work and u trying to pull him down. Pls stop From yday BBN2 get together commet
DeleteNice one niklaus
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ReplyDeleteIt's either you collect the cloth or pay the 10k.
DeleteNne i dont understand you, what is hard in saying give me back my fabric i aint doing again?
DeleteNa wa ooo, no one can make me have headache on top my fabric. I either i do or i dont do. In your case since you no fit give am 10k which i think is not worth it by the way. Tell her boldly you cant pay more than 6k Simple.
Wow for your friend o..She has the mindset to recover at once, money she spent in fashion school..
DeleteLeave the fabric with her. Gather your money and go back to pay cash. Tell her that it's what you can afford..Its left for her to accept or send you away..Happy weekend.
I can feel you. My own is hope she will sew it well. My friend went to fashion school and I decided to patronize. I didn't wear any of the cloth she made for me. She won't even allow me rest for pictures that she wants to post on IG.
DeleteJust tell her to give you your fabrics na, that you don't have 10k to pay her. Just be diplomatic about it, so that she won't start bearing grudges.
DeleteThat is how my tailor behaves at times, He will sow simple long gown and shout 12K, I will smile collect the cloth and give him 6 or 7k, when he shout finish, he will cool down. If na so everyone will become a tailor.
DeletePlease, next time make sure you price before you leave your fabrics.
DeleteJust pay her the money if you have it and let her know the price is too high.
This is one of my problem with Nigerians, they want to make money immediately
Tell her what you can afford,if she insists on the 10k try and pay her but it should be the last time you will ask her to sew for you.
DeleteI think she wants to recover her money with speed.
I had this experience 2 days ago with a neighbour who's a tailor, and I didn't hesitate to leave with my fabric because I was sure she just inflated the charge cos she feels I can afford it. She contacted me next morning to return the fabric at the price I offered but I won't.
DeletePls collect your fabric. She probably knows you can afford to pay 10k and I bet you, she'll most likely accept 6k from a walk in customer.
You've not said why you can't go and collect your fabric.
DeleteI don’t know why they behave like this to friends. That’s how my own friend will give me the highest price for ankara which someone else would get at a cheaper price because she thinks I can afford it.
DeleteI think you should pay her and end the patronage there. Since you dey shame to collect your own material wey you buy with your own money.
DeleteThat's how you people will give your fabrics to those that will charge you 1k and end up bringing Chronicles of "what I ordered vs what I got" here.
DeleteIf you cannot pay the money, collect your fabrics and give it to someone who will collect 1k, don't spoil your friend's crafts. Drafting pattern is not moin moin, your friend is cheap sef.
If you cannot support her business, don't spoil it!!!!
Collect your material from her ooo. trust me it is better that way... You will be doing no wrong at all, you simply cant 'afford' her... If she sews the material and you couldn't pay up the balance don't be surprise when she start telling people you want to ruin her business that is still at the early stage.
Delete@Anon 09:58
Deleteno one is trying to spoil her business, She just graduated from Fashion school she should chill with billing first and get trust first. What if she spoils her material, then she will remember they are friends then shey? To think she was the one begging for the patronage sef. When my tailor started she started small but now she gives big bills because she sews VERY well.
Yes!! It's Friday already. Happy weekend my people 😘😘😘
ReplyDeleteGood morning lovelies 🥰🥰🥰
Good morning everyone, good morning great Bvs, good morning angels on this beautiful blog.
ReplyDeleteThis is going to be a long weekend because on Monday is public holiday. I love weekends especially when it has to do with public holiday added to the weekend. Wishing everyone a great weekend, stay safe and enjoy grace.
Yes Oh Public Holiday weekend is lit...BV Allure I was thinking about you on my way to work, hope you are good and your nephew too..
DeleteGood morning y'all! It's going to be a long weekend!!! Yes I'm super happy...
ReplyDeletePlease people of God I need an answer, goggle is blowing things out of proportion. My period started yesterday morning and I took Lipton tea - I noticed the flow wasn't like my normal 1st day flow, was very very minimal. Please does Lipton or any other tea in that category disrupt/affect menstrual flow?
I dont think so...My dear no allow google increase your BP..If you aint convinced enuff, I suggest you ask your doctor...
DeleteI use Lipton as a form of conteacetion and it has been working for me for over 12years. It depends on how you prepare it
DeleteLet me add mine as no 2 question.
DeleteI boiled ginger, garlic and 2 Lipton bags till very dark and drank for 1week. Na for here I read the therapy.
Its supposed to be my menstrual week but na small blood I come dey see. Light brownish red droppings.
I don enter.
@Amazing grace nne come and explain what you mean. I am not understanding.
DeleteAmazing Grace please give us details biko
DeleteAfter "cleaning" the oza room mostly done late in the night, I make sure I drink an almost half filled cup of lipton first thing in the morning while it is warm. It is usually dark and bitter though.
DeleteThe first time I missed it, I "fell" pregnant... Hubby told me about this while we were dating. It never fails me except I forget to drink it
LIB Breaking Free~
ReplyDeleteI have just seen the synopsis to the movie. The sequel to Living in Bondage is great. I give it to Ramsey Nuoah and his crew. They tried jaré.
Is someone still wailing/talking about the Oscars? We don't need validation from oyibo people. Oscar's is a new form of colonial mentality na.
Bye.
I saw it too. Today it will be showing in cinemas. The cast and crew tried👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽. So intriguing.
DeleteEnd of year blog awards loading. The categories are:
ReplyDelete1. Most intelligent bv
2. Most reliable bv
3. Most annoying bv
4. Most industrious
5. Most hilarious
6. Most valuable
7. Most talkative
8. Most cheerful
9. Most dangerous(two faced)
10. Most Loyal
11. Most dependable
12. Most Caring
13. Most generous
14. Most Mysterious
15. Most friendly
16. Blog's writer of the year.
17. Blog's most interesting segment.
18. Blog's most annoying segment.
19. Chronicle writer of the year.
20. Most troublesome bv
21. Couple of the year.(with d Wow effect)
22. Most stubborn bv
23. Blog's best adviser.
24. Blog's irritant
25. Most humble
26. Most wanted
27. Most Lazy
28. Best inspiration writer
29. Blog's Pastor
30. Blog's best behaved (male category)
31. Blog's best behaved (female category)
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Lol. nobody dey look this award. Pple wey dey find giveaway.
DeleteIsaiah 7:7
ReplyDeleteThus saith the Lord God it SHALL NOT STAND neither shall it come to PASS.
I MAKE DEMAND ON THE AUTHORITY OF THE WORD OF GOD;
Every Negative or Evil VERDICT against you or any member of your household from anywhere shall not stand in the name of JESUS.
#YOU SHALL NOT GO EMPTY IN THE NAME OF JESUS.
Good morning. Have a beautiful Friday.
Amen!! Hallelluyah!
DeleteAmen !!!
DeleteAmen.....
DeleteGood morning everyone. Do have a blessed day
ReplyDeleteGood Moin BP.
DeleteYou too
DeleteGood morning
DeleteMadam Chronicle, this is what you should do; inform your husband you want to further your education. Tell him you're ready to step up to what he wants. Yes, tell him that. Do away with pride. This is your marriage. You stoop, plot and make sacrifices to make it work. Tell him you want to step up so that he'll stop beating you. These words should be uttered with all the calmness you can muster. Mind games. You're literally sending painful arrows of guilt down his innermost being. Oga might isolate himself to cry in regret. In addition to schooling, learn to develop yourself on your own. There are free courses online you could take. I have more than 20 certificates from these online platforms. It doesn't take much. You can do it. Read books on self development. Read educative books. Your husband should see the new zeal in you. Don't be complacent.
ReplyDeleteI don't want to harp on the insults and beatings because it's clear the both of you are guilty of this although he should have been more circumspect as the head of the home. You both were wrong. You threw filthy words at each other. Restrain yourself further. Whenever he throws in a shade, reply with a kind word. Use niceness and consistent calmness to "control" your marriage. It is your marriage, it is worth going the extra mile to work on. Find a way to convey to him you are averse to him comparing you to other women.
Lastly, do not listen to any dingbat that asks you to leave your marriage.
Good comment except for the last statement.
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Caesar pls what are some of the certifications, help us with some names. 10q.
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Stellz! Any endorsement for today??? Oyaaaaaaa hit me! 🕺 Ikwakwakwakwakwa e Dey pain oooooooo! 😢
ReplyDeleteKevin Dat Edo Boi (Stellz Cousin)
Please, don't allow desperation to push you to go where God is not, cos they tell you it's the happening place and you see huge crowds. You'll end up paying a bigger price than you realise or bargain for.
ReplyDeleteWaiting on God is probably the most difficult thing you'll ever have to do, but a gift from the devil will always be a trap. Some of these people pretending to be ministers of God are just juju priests in disguise. Selling things like oils, wristbands and other items that the Bible no send them. I thought I was dreaming when I saw "riches oil". And it's packaged by a place that claims to be a church! That is definitely a different gospel & another Jesus, oh! How is this mess different from what Jaruma and her colleagues do? Is it not the same thing as those that even go to village to collect items like favour soap, etc?
Seriously this is the truth..And also listen to your intuition most especially we ladies...It never lies..
DeleteHmmmnn!! I tire my sister... To think that a church in abuja charges 50k to swim or 10k to fetch water with ragolis from a swimming pool constructed inside the church they said its healing swimming pool. The end is really and obviously HERE
DeleteThat's how I woke up feeling exhausted!! Can't wait for tuesday to come so I can rest. Good morning BVs.
ReplyDeleteSorry Selene,
DeleteTake a cup of green tea,it will help relax your nerves and try take some minutes to rest\relax.
Good morning Selene.Long time!
DeleteGood morning to you all beautiful people!
ReplyDeleteWho's going to be my Santa papito and Santa mamito 😊😊😊😊
Stella, your BVs are the best...
Hashtag reader association member 😂 😂😂😂,
Proud member!
DeleteAddicted member.
DeleteCoded member
DeleteExecutive member.
DeleteHumble member😀
DeleteMehn, it's been crazy mehn. Really crazy. I've come to realise humans are actually really strong
ReplyDeleteCoupled with the crazy, I now went to buy glo sim to be browsing since my airtel decided to be bad in my house. Totally forgot u can never use glo to open SDK and I totally hate that puffin browser.
Now I've also subbed my mtn, solely for this blog. Stella, we love u and your blog abeg. Its evident.
Counting down oh.
95%/90% and 88% loaded.
I need IV o.
DeleteCongratulations in advance Eka.
DeleteYes the big D days..Good morning
DeleteReally!!! So I can’t use go to open SDK and I was planning on getting it today
DeleteAirtel has done me shege 😞😞😞
In order news Santa mama and papa are welcome ooo!!! 😋😋😋
Yes oh,let the count down continue. Latest bride to be💃💃💃.
DeleteI think it depends on location. I have always been using Glo and I comment using puffing browser but can't comment using opera mini.
DeleteCongrats in advance
The issue with network depend on the location. Like in my house mtn is too bad for browsing so i switched to airtel for browsing.
DeleteAm browsing with glo
DeleteI use glo with Google Chrome and it is perfect in my area and at work. Congrats dear
DeleteThis is for you, yesterday’s chronicle poster.
ReplyDeleteHow dare your husband hit you even in pregnancy? Such an irresponsible man.
Respect is reciprocal. He wants a respectful, loving and submissive wife, he must earn it by showing you same.
I don’t know the circumstances in which you agreed to marry your husband.
Some ladies don’t care much about a man’s personality, as long as he’s abroad, he is the perfect material for a husband.
Who does he even think he is anyway? Some of his mates trained their wives/partners and they are doing okay. Why can’t he do same for you? Did he not know you were an “illiterate” before he married you?
Obviously he doesn’t even have what it takes to approach sophisticated women.....you are the one he can oppress.
Comparing you with his friend’s wife is disrespectful.
How can he keep forcing you to be friends with her?
Obviously he likes his friends wife and that’s bad.
He plans to send you back to Nigeria after birthing your baby and also you will be under serious scrutiny. You won’t be allowed to give your family money and they won’t have access to you...cheap man. Where did this guy get the gut to speak about your family like that?
If after birthing he still insists on you coming back to Nigeria, please do.
But please, do not report him to the authorities. You know what that would do to him, remember he is your husband and the father of your kids. These are some of the sacrifices we make for family.
Please password your phone before he gets you into trouble, using your phone to send another man’s wife messages.
For your sanity sake, avoid him even when he’s talking nonsense, before he disfigures you. After birthing your, get a job.
My dear,alot of women are suffering in the name of marriage.
DeleteIf I hear somethings some people say I will just be weak.
Some see themselves as slaves to a man,a man with cheat on u and will be snubbing you,fellow women will ask you to go and beg him .
A man compares u,treats u like thrash above all,tells his mother about his wife,instead of the woman to scold her son to face his home she will applaud him.
Cos he is Ur son and the wife is not Ur own.
Gossiping Ur spouse to Ur family is the height of it.
IF HE IS NOT BEEN MANIPULATED SPIRITUALLY.
Until he kills her, since he doesn't know or care about the fact that she is the mother of his children. SMH @ "some of the sacrifices we make for family".
DeleteNot this morning...
They were both in Nigeria, got married before he got a job abroad and relocated. Stop sounding like ANG.
DeleteJust when i tot i have seen and read all sdk crazy hash tags then she drops this ifyouareawomanwhotellsyourselfthetruthgiveyourtohtohahandshake this hash tag is beyond me aswear.
ReplyDeleteChoi!!! who send me open this post sef?
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣@ fINNY, I dey tell you
DeleteNa curiosity kill us.Always trying to decode or read SDK's hashtags
Yeppyyyyy.......TGIF
Goodmorning bvs.
DeleteThe hash tag got me laughing so hard. Stella ni go kill person
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣,after reading some my eyes usually turns me.,
DeleteBut how shall man do,we must still read na🤣🤣🤣
I tried giving my tohtoh a handshake.
DeleteMy people my people , what did it mean, na masturbation things kpere.
Waving on top of tohtoh, left right. Oh Stella has spoilllllllllllllll
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@Tenth keep reading, it gets better with time.
DeleteIkponwosa today and always.
ReplyDeleteSunny morning...
Yes oooo,. Osakpolor
DeleteBeware of Ororo Vegetable oil for cooking.
ReplyDeletePlease Inform Family Members In Nigeria.
VERY IMPORTANT HEALTH INFORMATION. There is a huge volume of imported dangerous recycled cooking oil in circulation now in Nigeria.
How to determine if a cooking oil is recycled oil.
Place your cooking oil in the fridge for about 2 hours, if there is whitish bubbles or foam, you know then it is made from recycled engine oil waste materials.
We need to spread the news to our loved ones.
The simple test 2: Put a clove of garlic when about to fry, if the garlic turns red, that means the toxic level of recycled Oil is very high.
Garlic will remain white if the oil is of good quality.
Help restore someone else's health by informing others.
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hmm the effect of border closure. They will now smuggle anything for us in the name of cooking oil especially now that the price has gone up. #Godsaveus
DeleteThank you for this info
DeleteLet us avoid unbranded oils. Go for power oil, mamador, kings, golden penny etc. I can never buy measurement vegetable oil or palm oil because only God knows the rubbish these traders mix in it for profit.
DeleteThanks for this 👆
DeleteThanks mama Juice..
DeleteThanks for this information.
Deletemoin moin to you too mama Stella Thank God for the showers of blessings upon you..like you said,when your house is overflowing remember to channel the pipe to us
ReplyDeleteStella and Bvs good morning.. Pls I need help.. My 2 years old son always have boils and rashes on his neck, face, back, chest etc.. Ever since he was one wk old, he has always been having it till now that he is almost 2 yrs.. I have used different types of soap and body lotion, i have even given him different antibiotics but even when it goes, it resurfaces again in 3 days. I don't even cover him with too much clothes him cos my room is well ventilated. During wet and dry season even harmattan sef gan u will see rashes and boils. His elder bro who is 4 has smooth skin and I use same body lotion for them. The guy skin dey embarrass me I swear b'cos of questions been asked by pple abt the boils and rashes. I don tire jare. The doc said he would outgrow it when he was few weeks old but now he is almost 2 years.Abeg Stella and Bvs make una help.. What should I do? Note: he doesn't feel feverish anytime he has these boils and the boy is hyper active. I will be at the comment section.
ReplyDeleteMostly I will attribute it to very bad weather and the changing climate...However I dont know if you have tried bathing him with ''Agbo'' you can ask those mamas that are into it..N.B please don't give him to drink abeg..And also I believe that you visit a dermatologist instead of a GP so they can do a general comprehensive test to get the root cause...
DeleteOkay, i wanna play.. Morning Queens and Kings.
ReplyDeleteGood morning 👑
DeleteMoin Moin Perxian
DeleteShooter baibay, happy weekend b. 😘
DeleteMoin Moon Ayaoba. Happy weekend, sis. 😘
Good morning...Your 1st sentence reminded me of Chucky
DeleteMorning Queen ✨✨✨
DeleteLol, WEB. Happy weekend, b. 😘
DeleteHey Ms A. 😘
Beautiful morning to you all. Its going to be a blessed day, I can feel it already.
ReplyDeleteStellz, God's blessings in your life will never cease.
Good morning BV's
ReplyDeletePls help me put my client in prayers oh... make she pay me for the work I did for her. I am tried of calling and sending messages...and she's a family friend 🙄.
I am not making that mistake again
Hey God!! You mean you didnt take at least a down payment/Deposit for the job...Please stop mixing business with pleasure..Don't allow even family run you down..What about going to visit her in her house or something..Let other BVs advise
DeleteMy sister oh... Thank you... will try not to do it again 😎. she just got married. Na wedding things I did for. I never imagined her owning me.
DeleteSee dear I will advise that you give her some time...Me I dont support her at all but maybe wedding expenses has been overwhelming for her..Try again either ending of this month till mid December and ask for your money, it is your sweat...
DeleteEngraced you will surely receive your pay before the end of this November 2019 but remember to do Santa when she pays you oooooh.
DeleteThe most Complex
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ReplyDeleteMoin-moin to everyone!!!
ReplyDeleteLots of plazas shut down in the market because of the fire,hopefully the government helps the people affected as promised,may we be far away from evil IJN!!!
Yinmu!! Government help who..Have you not heard that sometimes these fires are deliberate so they can erect white elephant shopping complexes which the people affected cannot afford or rent...A good example is Tejuosho market..
DeleteSmile Today is Friday😃😃😆😆😃😃😃😆😆
ReplyDeleteThank God it's Friday 💃💃💃💃💃💃💃
Just excited this morning💃💃💃💃💃
Father let this my mood continue ooo...
Good morning beautiful blog visitors ❤❤❤💕💕💘💘
Congrats Stella.
ReplyDeleteYour happiness is so contagious.
Givetohtohhandshakehowna?
Its the weekend beibeir
🎅🎅🎅 is in town already
I love Christmas season. So much joy.
Have a fabulous weekend y'all
Whatever it is, just choose to be happy.
Yeah its the most wonderful time of the year
DeleteI went to pick my 2yr old baby from school yesterday and her teacher told me to take her to hospital and check her urinary track.
ReplyDeleteShe said my child is always disturbing her that she wants to wewe. This is a baby that drinks water like fish since I gave birth to her. My baby stopped using daiper before she clocked 2. At night I wake her up once or twice to pee but in the day time she wewe often because of her excess water intakes.
I told the woman haven't she noticed that she finishes her water everyday before the school dismiss, that I'm even planning to get a bigger water bottle for her but she said my baby can not be stressing her that much unlike her classmates. I even noticed my baby was crying as the teacher was bringing her back to class from their school toilet as I was coming to pick her that yesterday. BVs what should I do
Hopefully d teacher isn't doing more that meets d eyes.
DeletePlease take her to the hospital nothing more..The teacher has already told her...
DeleteMay all our heart desires be granted. Good morning SDK family.
ReplyDeleteAmen
DeleteGood morning,fam.
DeleteGood morning everyone, I'm excited😋😋😋last working day of the week plus the coming public holiday.
ReplyDeleteQuestion for skincare product lovers, I'm dallying between buying the body shop products or Advanced clinical products, which one is better please???? I have some items in my cart waiting to be paid for but don't know which to go for. Tankio in advance.
Advanced Clinicals. I'm using their vitamin C serum right now and my glow is as bright as the sun.
Deletegood morn Dainty, pls I live in calabar ,where do I get bodyshop products from, i really need their teatree oil and sheabutter.
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DeleteWanted to know the exact item names but i guess, Kami already got you.
DeleteThank you Kami.
DeletePerxian I chose the vitamin C face and body care(serum and moisturiser), rosehip oil, rosewater mask and collagen moisturiser.
Monitoring/ caging a child like that can't make her be well behaved. Educate her about sex and it is left for her to be responsible or not.
ReplyDeleteI have heard stories of parents monitoring their daughters like that and their daughters are receiving anal right under their nose. Some of them even started sleeping with the doctor that examine them.
This same TI applauded his son for being sexually active at 15years.
Why can't him call his son to order.
If he truly wants to be righteous, he should start with his son.
When a male child impregnate a girl (someone's daughter) we act as if it is normal. Some parents will even encourage their male child to deny the pregnancy. But if parents notice that their female child is sexually active , she will be seen as ashewo , woe betide her and she gets pregnant, it will be considered a taboo, atrocity and everything bad.
That's the problem in our society today.
Everything goes for the male child.
Is it not someone's daughter
that he impregnated ?
What I'm trying to say is that , let us treat the male child with the same energy we treat the female child.
Just the way we hold the female child accountable for her actions, we should equally hold the male child accountable for his actions.
We should stop making male child believe that anything goes for them, as in, that male child don't spoil unlike what we make female child believe .
A male child will have multiple sex partners, we will applaud him that he is a playboy, but a female child will have 2 body count and we will call her ashewo.
Guys let's be sincere to ourselves and to our children by calling a spade a spade.
Why will you disown a female child because she got pregnant but welcome a male child when He impregnate someone's daughter.
If you want to be strict or overlook things as a parent (s), do it to both male and female child.
Mehn!!! This life is fucked up with useless beliefs.
That's how we make female child believe that it is the duty of a man to pay both gender's bill.
What happened to telling the female child the truth that there is respect in making their own money and paying their bills.
These are one of the lies our fore fathers told our mothers in the olden days and used it to subject them to pain, agony and maltreatment in marriage. Making them to believe that once he provides for his family , he is lord over her and she must take any nonsense from him and if she leave the marriage it will be a shame to her alone.
Well let me stop here, makana mmekata continueo chi ga eji, chi ga abo as in day go break, day go quench for the matter.
Bro me igboro ife ewu n'ata!
DeleteWow! This is quite impressive .
DeleteHmmm are you the newly incarnated Caesar?? Just kidding...
DeleteGod bless you my person. I believe that The family is the prototype of the society. The Society is a reflection of the condition of the family. If we want a better society we as parents need to begin to instill in our wards the character we want to see in the society. Until we come to that point where each child whether male or female is held accountable for his or her actions and inactions we will continue to complain about how messed up the society is.
DeleteI have made up my mind that each child of mine will be held accountable for his/her decision. I will teach my son to love and respect women and teach my daughter to honor and respect men too. No one is bigger or better than the other. they are first of all humans before being a male or female and such must accord each human the respect they deserve. As my child you mess up by disrecting a lady i whoop your nasty, little black ass with my slippers. Nothing like she is a gal or no he is a boy.
That's why when Toke Makinwa wrote about how mothers should re-orientate their daughters, I was wondering which mothers she means. The mothers that did their best to instil a lot of the erroneous beliefs you've just complained about, or another set of mothers?
DeleteI'll keep saying it, many of our mothers didn't try at all. Queens of double standards and gatekeepers of patriarchy, raising broken men and bitter women with their chests. A mother will tell her daughter, "A man must not see your money; all men are useless". So as soon as she sees her son loving on and caring for his wife, demons of karma will start biting mama. Yet she wants her daughter's husband or numerous boyfriends to do what her son must not do for his wife! A young lady will just be carrying around the demons of bitterness she inherited from her mother, and looking for the man in whose life she will happen and manifest. They equip you, so that you will go and be fighting battles that are not even your own. And you will replicate that madness to a new generation.
I had to firmly tell my mother to back off where my husband is concerned, cos he is not and will never be a replica of my biological father. God forbid that my husband will pay for the real and imagined sins of my father. That crap stops with my generation. Heaven help anyone that says I shouldn't spend my own money on a husband that goes and above to honour me in ways that my own father never did for my mother or anybody else.
So so true @Chike.
DeleteHappy Friday ma people, its gonna be a great weekend. #cheers.
ReplyDeleteUna good morning
ReplyDeleteGood morning sis. How are you doing?
DeleteI don't know why some people are comfortable making other people miserable emotionally through their behaviour and words of their mouth.
ReplyDeleteYou poke your nose into a friend's life behaving as if you care, after you know all his/her problems, you did nothing. You promised to help with a job, you promised to work out loan to solve health challenges etc. Yet you did nothing, trying to still poke your nose into their life to get information. You still dey pose upandan with big house and cars.
You said you are a friend, no you are a fre-enemy. You still want to be buying goods on credit. Real devil. BVs please make una choke mouth for this matter ahhh.
Sorry dear..Friends do hurt because we are all humans...But las las and sadly, no one owes us anything..That is why you have to stick to God to help you.
DeleteStop contact ASAP!
DeleteThey were never your friend in the first place. Some people feed on your misery to make themselves feel good. Dump this person immediately and look to God for help. He will send strangers to help you if you believe. Big house and cars does not equate with wealth. You don't know whom or what they owe. Face your front and seek God's face.
DeleteEvery near-success syndrome, depriving me of my heritage, my fruitfulness, my reward, my shine, my joy...Father by your mighty hand, remove such obstructions and limitations
ReplyDeleteIt shall be well with our souls
Good morning house.
Good Morning Bv. I just want to appreciate God for a successful delivery of my baby. It was not an easy journey but God came through for me by giving me this beautiful gift. Thank you Arugbo Ojo!!
ReplyDeleteCongrats to you.
DeleteCongratulations to you.
DeleteCongrats babe
DeleteWow!
DeleteWhat a good news, I thank God for you and the baby.
Congratulations dear.
Congrats on the birth of your bundle of joy Queen Vee.
DeleteCongratulations, Queen Vee. God bless the lil one.
DeleteYeah Congratulations Mama..Enjoy your bundle of Joy!!! Ancient of Days we adore you...
DeleteCongratulations latest mummy. My love to baby.
DeleteCongratulations! Great news
DeleteCongratulations on your new bundle of joy.
DeleteCongrats on the new born! May the baby be a source of joy to you always!
DeleteCongratulations
DeleteCongratulations
DeleteCongrats dear
DeleteCongratulations dear
DeleteCongratulations Queen Vee. May your child be a blessing to you.
Deletecongratulations!
DeleteThank God for Safe delivery...Congratulations to you. Looking forward to my own day ohhhh
DeleteCongrats to you.
DeleteCongratulations!!!!
Delete💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃
DeleteI just can't stop dancing QUEEN VEE.
Words cannot congratulate you enough,It was a pleasant journey my dear.
I am so happy for you.
I thank God for you.
My warm regards to our baby
ReplyDeleteMoin Moin to y'all.
I woke up happy this morning. I don't know if it's because of the testimony an acquaintance told me yesterday or me just being happy. Whichever one it is, I'm thankful to God for life and I'm happy to be happy. I pray that any of us who seek happiness shall find a cause to be happy today.
My prayer this morning for myself and y'all:
O Lord our God, as we seek your guidance this day we do not ask to see the distant scene, knowing that we can only take only one step at a time. Make that first step plain to us, that we may see where our duty lies. But O Lord, give us a push that we may start in the right direction-through Jesus Christ our Lord and Savior. Amen
Traffic in Lagos especially on the Island in the evenings has doubled, I’m so exhausted ehn I can’t even explain it. Happy it’s Friday but my weekend is about to be very busy.
ReplyDeleteI pray the traffic eases up today.
DeleteThis week traffic has been distressing
Birthday party preparation in progress 😀.
DeleteGood morning all. I thank the day i discovered your blog Stella, it is a place filled with so much love. Thank you Stella and thank you to all the blog visitors.
ReplyDeleteAww good morning dear..
DeleteThank God it's Friday
ReplyDeleteI'm always happy on Fridays as I won't have to wake up by 5am on Saturday and Sunday. Teaching job is not easy.
Stella congrats on your blessings, God will continue to do more for you and for us too.
ReplyDeleteI believe that love still lives here o, I don't know why you said such but I believe love is here.
I pray that God blesses me so I can be a Santa to as many people this Christmas. I really want to be a blessing.
The Sun is Up.....
ReplyDeleteWe gotta strive to achieve our hearts desire
Good Morning BVS
May we all be blessed beyond measure and may God raise Destiny and Divine Helpers for us all in Jesus name, Amen...
Good money!! Cee Hee Ohh
DeleteSomebody help me o, my opera mini has refused to work o and I don't know how to uuse puffin o.
ReplyDeleteMartins, isaacson and other tech inclined bvs come to my aid pls o. I don't know what my daughter pressed on my phone. The screen gets locked and when I try to open it, I get this on the screen "inadvertently mode" "do not cover the top of the screen" "long press the Volumedown key to exit"
ReplyDeleteI had to press down the volume and it goes on silent before I can do anything.
Help!
It has to be from your settings. What model of phone do you use?
DeleteOn your phone, go to settings>Display>Anti inadvertently mode. At this point, you can click on "off". This step may vary on your device though
DeleteThanks Sapio
DeleteI just did it. I put it off.
I have been trying to reply you with the phone model since forever, bad network would not allow me.
Moin Moin to all my wonderful blog fam
ReplyDeleteOnly moi moi, where is the Akamu..
Deleteplz do taurus forgive?I offended dis taurus guy by calling him names tho I apologised but he isn't having any of it.i miss him,very nice guy
ReplyDeleteHahaha🤣🤣🤣 I know say them stubborn very well..You have apologized and dats enuff..he is not having it, its his problem not yours...
DeleteI dread going to Lasuth, the wait and the stress that comes with it. I'm tired. I can't wait to be okay again. There's my account balance that is on a weight loss program with me �� ��.
ReplyDeleteI just pray that when I'm recovering it will recover with me o.
Healthcare is expensive sha.
You will be completely healed in Jesus Name...And God will replenish all you lost in a 1000 folds..
DeleteAwwww, so sorry about that.
DeleteShowers of blessing we need.
ReplyDeletePlease help .
ReplyDeleteI have genital warts and I have been seeing a doctor ,I don't have any visible warts again but still discharge and a little itchy .my pap smear is out and I have chronic cervicitis .. the doc said I need antibiotics .I have taking alot of drugs for the itching . please help with a good antibiotics
Genital warts is not a bacterial infection but a viral and Its not good that we BVs should recommend antibiotics for you so we dont create more resistant microorganisms to drugs and its not even the right drug to take..A good doctor will recommend drugs for you to take..If you aint satisfied with him, please see another doctor..All the best...
DeleteGood morning to you all! Have a blessed friday... Pls someone should send me Madam Stella's whatsapp number.
ReplyDeleteGood morning everyone, thanks to all that gave me advice yesterday on how to handle my uncle in the village. Yori,WEB,CherishD,lagos shopper and Anons I really appreciate you guys! Thanks for having my back. I am still in my language school I am not working yet where does he expect me to get money from? When my father died they never contributed anything to his burial thank God we didn't even ask them. When my mother also died nothing they even asked us to bury my mother in Abuja because they didn't like her. I no dey send na who get money dey send no be so? When my mother died we went to the village to inform them as per tradition what this man told me I will never forget. He said our family is finished no father,no mother that people in the village have condemned our family that he is the one saying that they should not say so,I just look am with side eyes now someone I don't even know has died then na me go bury the person? Thanks everyone.😘
ReplyDeleteYou see am...Enjoy yourself jare...
DeleteDon't stress yourself.Press the ignore button.
DeleteBetter to be a Santa mama on SDK than give those wicked and ungrateful fellas in the village. Just block his/their contacts to have peace of mind
DeleteForgive him and move on.
DeleteMoin moin everyone, plus I ate moin moin this morning 😀. Getting ready for Abuja special holy Ghost service later today.
ReplyDeleteDont go there and fart o.😁😁😁😁
DeleteGod let your mercy speak for me in Jesus name.
ReplyDeleteGood morning everyone.
Moin moin everyone...
ReplyDeleteEnjoy your day...
I thank the Almighty for the gift of life.
ReplyDeleteI am here confused and thinking about my career path.
Baba God, I need your divine connection and favour
What are doing currently?? I can help in guiding you...
DeleteReading hashtags uo easy abeg ....... That is when you need all the attention. If you can get them all, you can tame a lion.. Moi Moi (ati eko) BVs.
ReplyDeleteGood morning guys
ReplyDeleteMay God come through for us
Thank God it's Friday. I am so looking forward to the weekend. Wake up later, have breakfast late, see some movies, rest....
ReplyDeleteAbeg enjoy..becus Weekend don become chinko, he no dey last
DeleteBeautiful friday morning. Thank God for the coming public holiday. I really needed it. Those with long ID, please reduce for stella's sake ooooo. Christmas is here again. This 2019 run pass usain bolt. God perfect all that concerns us and keep us from all evil. Amen
ReplyDeleteI'm looking forward to December. The while month will be my vacation month. No work, just eating, sleeping, visiting new places, cinema, concerts, the seaside & taking loads of pictures. Hehehe
ReplyDeleteIf they hold me down, I'll japa ooo. Lagos stress can wear one out. Congratulations to everyone celebrating. BV EkaJoy, BV QueenVee & a host of others.
For the rest of this year, I am only available for enjoyment.
The weekend is here again, Thank God for this week that is almost coming to an end
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