A lot of Father's do this and it is wrong!...Just bring up a child the good way and pray!
Checking up on your girls hymen status every time is nothing cos if she will go bad,she will....
I remember how they were always checking to see if i had started or not......Sebi I still started?I believe that if you teach a child the right thing to do and set them free,they will not let you down...
Bringing up a girl child is not easy i hear but checking ain't right!
What do you think?Were you checked?
Breach of privacy..
ReplyDeleteAs in wtf,
DeleteThe thing is, I don’t even know how to check. Never knew 6months can have a hole there! My mentality has always been , maybe from period( menses yrs) the hole will open. I never knew kids have openings. Biko how do we check
DeleteTheir wahala.
DeleteKai how I wish our Nigerian parents would start doing that...
He doesn't want to hear newsss.
Kanye West may do same thing o.
DeleteComplete breach of privacy, so what if they check and find out it's no longer intact, what next?
DeleteWhen he impregnated her mom and didnt marry her he no know that another man will be interested in his kid that way? He don dey form VIRGINITY VOLTRON yeye dey smell
DeleteHa, please leave me and my hymen alone.
ReplyDeleteTeach me sex education and the need for abstinence.
I was never checked.
TI behaved like someone who is not exposed. I was shocked when I read the news. This bull crap of checking hymen must stop.. And I agree it's not easy raising a girl child.. They mature faster than their male age mates..
DeleteT.I is a narcissist and so controlling of all the women In His life.
DeleteMeanwhile he constantly cheats on and disrespects his wife. So all the chicks he’s been misbehaving with, no be person poking?
DeleteIt’s right what they say... man they have been around town are always scared for their female children cos of their own history
Nah. This is extreme. If he did his homework properly, he wouldn't be concerned with that. That's a disgusting act please (whether he did it himself or not).
ReplyDeleteHaahaahaahaahaaaa, I laff scatter legs for this. Of cos, they did. My own was to simply do anal sex till I slept wit the doctor. Free passes to plenty more sex, the doctor took his share a day after the impromptu test. Slept wit anything then, abortions for some. Finally, I cool down myself. Now they all know and the shame still on them cos some na dia friends and neighbors.
ReplyDelete😨😨🙌
Deletemouth open..MVP! did you do that to hurt them or cos you felt they were hurting you
DeleteLmao 😆
DeleteWow!
DeleteAnd you do not sound repentant at all?
DeleteYou are proud to have murdered babies?
Anon oh please quit with the sanctimonious crap! Someone who sounds this way now, was never fit psychologically and emotionally to be a mum then!
DeleteI blame her for not taking precautionary measures while living wild then! I guess she must have learnt her lesson!
Thank God she didn't go ahead to birth an innocent child who will become damaged too and the vicious circle continues!
WHat???
DeleteLord of mercy!!
DeleteLolzzz
Delete@14:24
DeleteSo then she did the best thing by executing those babies?
Not fit to be a mum but fit to have sex everywhere with anybody?
And you are defending a self confessed unrepentant murderer?
Bringing up a female child can be challenging but checking her hymen all the time is uncalled for, just do your best as parents and leave the rest
ReplyDeleteIts actually disrespectful to the child.
DeleteVery disrespectful and disgusting
DeleteMy former pastor do this, he has five girls and he takes them to the hospital every month to check their hymen and he comes back to brag about it in the altar.... The senior daughter still carry Belle without no the father of the baby, although he disowned her and told her never to step foot in his house again, but she had her baby girl, the rest four are the ones that go for regular check up now. disgusting!!!
ReplyDeleteEVERY month?!
Deletewow!!!
Delete@The realOA every single month! apprently after the eldest daughter has do the do, she lied she was sick so she could miss that month appointment, but before the next appointment mummy in the lord already raised an alarm that she is pregnant! see shame! 🤭🤭🤭
DeleteHe was only doing it to have bragging rights not because he cared for them one bit. Shame on him
DeleteProverbs 22:6 Direct your children onto the right path, and when they are older, they will not leave it.
ReplyDeleteColossians 2:22 These will all perish with use, because they are based on human commands and teachings. 23Such restrictions indeed have an appearance of wisdom, with their self-prescribed worship, their false humility, and their harsh treatment of the body; but they are of no value against the indulgence of the flesh.
Is it not when people neglect the manual of life; the Holy Scriptures that they start pursuing shadows?
Okwa ajuju oo 😮😮😮😮😮
The papa wey dey check toh🤐🤐 fit dey use im rod drill other people's daughters o.
Okay, even if that is "right," wetin the mama dey do?
How them go check sisis wey dey open back doors or chop toh🤐🤐
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I am not in support of such
ReplyDeletethese kids end up using their Anus... Just be wise
ReplyDeleteis people like this father that pushes their daughters into following the back door instead of the front door.
ReplyDeleteTeach them the right things to do, pray for them always, draw them closer to you and God at all times. Free them cos someday they will still break they koko.
My late uncle's wife use to doing it and afterwards she will come and brag about it.
DeleteHer daughter carry Belle for under her nose she pretended she didn't know. She quickly shipped the girl to the man's house without bride price.
Swag, that is what usually happens when parents are extreme.
DeleteThe ones that don't get pregnant, are experts in all other areas.
Child wey wan bad go bad.
My roommate's sister back then in school got pregnant for a corp member, her parents who are deacons in one of the old churches took her secretly for an abortion just to cover their shame and protect the girl's future in their words.
DeleteThis is wrong
ReplyDeleteIf you train your child the goodly and godly way there would be rest of mind
2 it doesn't depict trust , it displays high level of insecurity and mistrust towards the child and this could be really damaging to the child's wellbeing .
In Ti's case maybe his past is what's causing this kind of nonsense.
And the fact that he even made it public is even worse .
It's every shade of wrong.
ReplyDeleteThat is evasion of privacy.
They end up using Anus just like i did... It is not the best
ReplyDelete*dat messed up silly girl*
😲😲😲😲😱😱😱@ odi
DeleteOdi is still here? good to see ur comment after a loooong time
DeleteOdi welcome back
DeleteOld blog visitors reappearing..
DeleteWelcome back to commenting
You have been on my mind for a while.. love and e hugs.. I am so relieved to see your comment...
DeleteThis is wrong
ReplyDeleteIf you train your child the goodly and godly way there would be rest of mind
2 it doesn't depict trust , it displays high level of insecurity and mistrust towards the child and this could be really damaging to the child's wellbeing .
In Ti's case maybe his past is what's causing this kind of nonsense.
And the fact that he even made it public is even worse .
Why the fathers why not the mothers, I heard of some fathers that use their hands to dis virgin their daughters. This is very very wrong and disgusting.
ReplyDeleteIts really creepy and reeks of control issues. Toxic masculinity and inadequacy is the only reason a parent can't trust the child he raised.
ReplyDeleteTalk about boundaries and if i dare say, abuse.
Lol. His daughter will do anal right under his 👃; shebi it's front he's checking, not the back. Is he talking to his son, or he's doing double standards? Some of these men can't sleep when they have daughters cos they're afraid that karma will visit their daughters with what they did/do to other people's daughters.
ReplyDeleteAny parent that's doing or claiming certain things about ANY child is on a long thing. Shebi it's on this blog we read some weeks ago about a young lady whose mother was team #IswearMyDotaIssaVirgin only to discover her daughter has done anal, done abortion and been submitted for rituals right under her 👃.
T.I's son is 15 years and is sexually active. All his energy is only focused on his daughter.
DeleteThat is barbaric abeg. I wasn't checked and wont be checking my daughter's. What kind of invasion of privacy is that? So I'll lie down and open legs for my father to be checking my hymen?
ReplyDeleteChecking is actually wrong and he applauded his son when he let he has started having sex and his mother was happy about it. Also this is 2019, she might be doing other things sexually.
ReplyDeleteReally? Oh he was happy his son had started having sex but his daughters virginity keeps him sleepless at night. I hope this daughter of his grows up to sue him for abuse and trauma.
DeletePatriarchy must die!
A father who is checking his teenage daughter's virginity to see if she is still a virgin is either a useless father, sicko or didn't do his homework well.
ReplyDeleteThat's serious. Checking with egg or what?
ReplyDeleteEven as old as my parents were they didn’t do something so barbaric, TI should be ashamed of himself and should also make sure he has a torch light on the day his daughter finally decides to be sexually active. Crazy parenting style that yields no fruit.
ReplyDeleteHow could such a thing take place in America without the dad being prosecuted?
ReplyDeleteSomething tells me this story is exaggerated to sound sweet to trend.
DeleteFirst off a father won't be allowed into the Gynae's exam room while checkn her V,especially if the girl is above 18. The mother maybe....
The most TI will do is sit in the waiting room for her while she does d annual gynae check every woman does that includes checking the organs,test for cervical cancer,pap smears and STI checks etc.
As she is probably under her father's insurance they may email him her results. Some Doc's won't even do that without her consent if she's above 18. To now include her hymen being intact. Which type of Doc does that? He shld just report everything seems fine. List her test results and give her A clean bill of health.
The story is weird.
The story doesn't sound sweet, so that can't be the purpose. It sounds horrible.
DeleteHe requested the check; he said he specifically asked for her to be checked and the doctor told him there are reasons a hymen might be broken, that have nothing to do with sex. He told the doctor that she doesn't do any sports, ride horses, etc so basically the doctor should check and stop speaking grammar.
I believe the girl turned 18 not long ago.
There are poor dads and rich Dads. You wanna prosecute a Dad that lets you drive his Bentley, buys you a porsche, your pocket money is some people's tuition fee, all your needs met and so on.. keeping the virginity for all these benefits ain't a hard bargain. Daughter may not mind.
Delete(Not in supportof TI but I do support virginity, chastitiy & purity for both men & women)
Real OA Obviously the story is horrible and even unbelievable. Smthn just doesn't sound right. Which sort of gynaecologist will agree for such test in 2019, I don't care the sort of money you have., your docs license shld be more important.
DeleteTI is a very chauvinistic man that always wants to control the women ard him, even his artist. This is so wrong.
He started the check when she was 16. Now she's 18.
DeleteIdc if he started at 1. She is now a WOMAN.
DeleteHmmmm should i say he is being overly protective of his daughter
ReplyDeleteAnd his even proud to say it. How would he check for the male child.
ReplyDeletehe is the father.he has the right.
ReplyDeleteMy ? is how do doctor's check toto,is it by inserting any device or fingering.just asking.
ReplyDeleteI laughed when a guy mocked me for being a virgin back then. Chaii! There was no name he didn't call me.
ReplyDeleteThey mock you but deep down they want their daughters to be like you😂😂. He came back later to ask for my hand in marriage but I said no, I don't date non- virgins.
Debra.
T.I is a sick man... He needs to go for therapy.
ReplyDeleteImagine if it was one of the conservative men that spill that shit on social media, the #metoo and what not will go after them, but one of their mouth piece have spoken and no one is making a fuss about it.
I do not support in anyway checking your female child's hymen, just to know if they are still virgin or not.
Some of them have started dragging him. I think the rest are still in shock.
DeleteAnd one has to wonder about the kind of mother that allows this kind of abuse, especially when their son is sexually active and they know.
Hmmmmm If it was a conservative white man that said it, let it now be a republican/politician. Social services will be on his door trying to question the daughter if she's been abused.
DeleteThis is abuse to me, psychological. At 18 ? if anyone shld be following that girl to gynae it shld be her mother.
Raise your kids right. Raise them to be aware. Teach them sex education and pray they do right. Yours is to guide and not become virginity police.
ReplyDeleteThis post brought ugly memories. This here happened when i was 17yrs old.
ReplyDeleteI will never allow my husband to check my daughter's hymen, it's my duty not his. I will always check my daughter's hymen from the day I enroll her in a daycare and stop when am sure she has received enough sex education. I was molested as a child & I wished my mom had checked mine she would have found out on time what her cousin was doing to me, I was 3 years then
ReplyDeleteI wasn't checked but was given enough sex education and I think it's wrong .
ReplyDeleteMy friend's uncle was doing this to her too. No school fees unless the doctor certify that her hymen is intact. Guess who one of her boyfriend was the doctor! The uncle paid her fees till she graduated. It used to make us laff then in school. The doctor dey do better Dnd C too. Dr Bee God bless you o herever u dey
ReplyDeleteWhy do I think that TI is a paedophile or papist after reading his revelation? I think he's been doing so much harm to other people's children and is living in fear of what could happen to his daughter. I also think if care is not taken, the psycho might sleep with his own daughter to confirm if the doctors are not telling him lies. He has very deep trust issues.
ReplyDeleteTeach them the word of GOD and pray for them, like mommy Gloria Bamiloye of mount zion film, In one of her interview she said that she always asked GOD for one thing on her birthday every year, LORD let these children grow to know you and draw them closer to you each day, look at those 3 children Damilola, Joshua & Darasimi doing exploits. parents pray for your kids, teach them the word of God. trust me you wont regret, God bless my mom, she raised me well! i will keep making her proud.
ReplyDeleteIt's not just about teaching them the Word of God. After all, a BV on this post has said how her former pastor checks every month but his eldest daughter still got pregnant before marriage. I'm sure it's Word of God that pastor teaches.
DeleteUnfortunately, the way many parents live their lives is a mockery to the Word of God. A lot of church mummies know their children are yahoo boys or runs girls, gladly collect the proceeds and bring them to church where they stand on the altar! No fear, no shame. Some parents don't have any moral right to be saying anything cos the hypocrisy their children see means that their teaching actually annoys and turns their children away from God.
My Mom told me a story of her school mate then whose Dad was so paranoid about her chastity. He would monitor her and follow her everywhere. She could never be alone.
ReplyDeleteLas las, she fell pregnant and told everyone who cared to know it was her Dad who impregnated her. They knew she lied and only wanted to robe the man in cos of his strictness but she never deviated from the story. The man killed himself and that was that.
Parents, teach your daughters (and sons) well. They will make their mistakes and learn from it. The world will not end.
#Shalom
It is possible she wasn't lying.Fathers who behave like that are psychos.
DeleteGod forbid! I was never checked. This is all shades of wrong. Ah!
ReplyDeleteThe guy is just a pervert period
ReplyDeleteJust to add, most men who do this virginity testing of a thing are men who phwucked the daughters of other people over in their youths. Players who penetrated and desecrated the daughters of many people. They become paranoid and temperamental cause they don't want that to happen to their daughters. But truth is, If you are one of those men and you are checking your daughters virginity, you are just wasting your time. Cause even if you camp your daughters in a room under your watch 24/7, or check their virginity every second, they will still be penetrated and phwuked over! Even worse than you did to other people's daughters
ReplyDeleteThis brings back memories...
ReplyDeleteCheck gini?? Tufiakwa!!!
ReplyDeleteThis is invasion of privacy Biko
korokoro for him eyes the daughter will be preggy and he won't known...
ReplyDeleteThis is wrong
ReplyDeleteWhen i was 17yrs old i got My first periods i told My Mother and she said that i was too young to get it so she told My older brother to monitor me because i have been having sex since My periods came early if My brother sees me with Any man he should not hesitate to beat me and she wanted to check if i was a Virgin i told her i will scream to the whole world yet i was stil a Virgin God punish that My Mother.
ReplyDeleteWow! So sorry you experienced this. At 17,your period actually started late! I'm sorry to say but your mum was clueless
DeleteSo after the man fucked everything that moved or slithered, he wants his daughter to be a virtuous virgin? And to make matters worse, he thinks carrying out a humiliating procedure every year will ensure that???
ReplyDeleteOga TI it doesn't work like that. We all reap what we sow.
This kind daughter na they end up being a porn star.this is america one guy go wake up just tell her say give me ur toto for million dollar
ReplyDeleteAmerica the land of sodom and gomorrah.i live here i know wrtin i dey talk about .
Hmmmmm any parents doing this to their child is something else. It is not only embarrassing but barbaric.
ReplyDeleteMy mum use to do this to my sis and I. She'd tell us to lie down then she will be checking for what she kept there... The only reason she stopped was when my sis had late period and my mum took her to the hospital to run pregnancy test. Imagine the almighty checker didn't even know how to check for the hymen after all cos my sister wasn't even having sex at that time.
I just want to thank that doctor wherever she is (a Muslim doctor fa), she gave my mum serious lectures and told her to apologise. That was when she stopped the nonsense but still asked us to document our cycle like the period tracker she is.
The sad thing about it is I'm 32 but still scared to put my finger in my vagina. Parents need to stop this unnecessary policing and rather draw their children close to them by constant communication.
That's nonsense, teach your child sex education, teach them how to use condom and when to use condom when they cannot abstain from sex.
ReplyDeleteThat's nonsense, teach your child sex education, teach them how to use condom and when to use condom when they cannot abstain from sex.
ReplyDeleteT.I’s daughter look like a lesbian to me anyways, he’ll do that stuff till she starts swinging the other way or even do anal sex and he’ll be shocked. This is normal, when the body is ready you must respond to stimuli, it’s a natural occurrence. As parents just give sex education to help your kids not make drastic mistakes.
ReplyDeleteAbeg it is all shade of wrong.
ReplyDeleteWrong Wrong Wrong
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