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PREACHERS WIFE UPDATE.
This is the update and i will be very grateful if u post. I actually learnt from bvs suggestions, thanks to Twin-squared, foodie, the real OA, a particular anon that kept defending me while bvs bashed me(thou I'm not angry cos i have come to understand that u don't judge a situation u have never been in), and especially lady T worth more than thousand dollars, God bless u for me,i really appreciate u.
I don't mind dropping my contact with Stella so u can be my counsellor,lol, i love u.To d Anon saying I'm insecure cos i don't dress well,on the contrary i glam well, with lovely accessories and face beat very well, this has really endeared lots of young ladies to me in d church who says they admire me. I prayed severally about this lady but each time i don't feel peace in my spirit.
There are more beautiful and not deeply rooted, struggling with their spirituality ladies I'm very close to in and out of church, but this particular lady there is something unsettling. I'm not judging or condemning the lady as some bvs insinuated, I pray each night for the altar to lead souls to Christ, even outside being a preacher s wife, I'm involved in so many outreaches for lost souls into God s kingdom.
I wouldn't want my husband to fail in ministry, guess that was why i had my reservations about an assistant choir mistress from another church that wears only skimpy tops and bump shorts all around d neighbourhood and asides the fact that she told my husband she has slept with her pastor(which i feel if she s genuinely repented ought to have changed church)
I know few men who attests to sleeping with her at will ,she is so desperate to minister in the church my husband pastors, she is just desperate to be in the spotlight and might not be a good role model to the church as people are familiar with her lifestyle.
The following Monday she went to see my husband and according to him she asked if he hasn't revealed her secret of sleeping with her pastor to me as i wasn't free with her. My husband said shebi i have satisfied myself chasing her away, we argued and wanted to know why he wants to force the Lady on me, then i reminded him of a similar case we had few years back, the lady in question got so close to him, later blackmailed him and even church members blamed me for allowing the lady get so close to my husband, i can't explain what i went tru emotionally and all ,even his integrity was almost tainted.
The following day my husband mounted the podium during service and started ranting,in his words......
" Anyone not Gathering is scattering, stay on Ur lane, don't Chase new members away,tagging them sinners, cos of whatever title you are answering in church, anyone trying to scare new members away Angel of death visit them, Crush them".
After the service we argued and i told him he wishes me death cos of a stranger? though he denied referring to me. I spaced him but he has been acting nice nice but I'm not happy with him. I believe lady T who says he is under attack already. my Dear Bvs especially the ones who truly understand me and would put themselves in my shoes, this is the update.
Thanks Stella, God bless u.
Madam ,God bless you too but abeg rest,the way you carried this mater on your head is even worrisome...You said if she had repented she would have changed Church,isnt she trying to change to your Church?let her nau....
The gospel is meant for those who have sinned and not those who are blemish free......
Your husband will mount the Church podium and be sending Angel of death to people instead of asking God to visit them?This is really shocking and i also find this shocking...
I dont even now what to say,I cannot Judge but this matter get as e be!!!
He really get as he be o Stella...May God have mercy on you and your husband..Thanks for the update...
ReplyDeleteHusband mounted the pulpit and said “ “
DeleteYou and your husband are on some long thing..
Both of you have fundamental character flaws that is not your fault but society.. I can’t advice you because you will not understand the advice.. You both deserve each other and this small lady drama will pass.. on to the next cultural religious nonsense
Dat gal has a mission!
DeleteIf care is not taken, she will sleep with ur husband!
Ur husband already wants her,d bible says what d flesh wants, it goes after! D same bible also said, wen u ask n u dnt receive, its cos u ask wrongly!
I would advise u continuously pray for ur husband cos he had already fallen! Just to do d thing na im remain.
Dear poster please follow your instincts to the later. They don't lie
DeleteAre you sure God called this your husband? or he only open church to make money.Since church business is the fastest way to make it now in Nigeria.The new yahooyahoooo
DeleteYou are really taking this Preacher's wife title way too seriously.
ReplyDeleteA preacher’s wife is a very serious place to be, she needs to take it very seriously.
DeleteTrue. I ve to admit..16:00
DeleteI'm shocked @ Perxian's comment too. " Preacher wife" is not just a title. If y'all want to marry Pastor and can't pray, think twice! Anyway Poster, I don't understand the last part of the story.....cos it's too worrisome to be understood. Well,I'll still make reference to my previous comment in your last chronicle for lack of time. Also, I'll remember you guys in prayers too. That's really what you need now!
DeleteAll the Best,
Poster... Thank God for a discerning wife like you. If most men, had a woman like you -who would Stand and disagree with their husbands for the right cause- they wouldn't have dabbled into unnecessary errors. Your husband as you rightly put, is subtly under attack.. The first sign is ALWAYS: denial.. She's a snake and she wants to sneak in.. I'm glad you're alert both spirituality and physically, her devices won't work IJN
DeleteMadam, as a Christian you should understand that you're not being led by the physical realm but rather, the spiritual realm that you cannot physically see. How you're handling this issue is purely blindly. Fall on your knees and pray! Keep your husband quiet, keep the lady quiet. Pray to God and watch Heaven release angels to fight away the spirits involved. Remember, Jesus died on the cross for not just you and your husband, but for this lady also. Mentioning the experience you had shows that your actions are based on fear. Is that the spirit God has instilled in you? Wake up woman!
ReplyDeleteThank you very much!!
DeleteI usually almost don't comment on chronicles but Madam, you judged that lady in your first chronicle and this second one shows that you don't trust your husband and you're handling this physically!!
Like this anon said, PRAYYYYYYYYYY!!!
I am indeed surprised at the way some of us read chronicles. Always quick to read and pass judgement without any form of comprehension. Read it again dear and you will clearly see where poster alluded to being a prayer warrior wife. So you advice she only prays and does nothing? This mentality of Nigerians is the reason we may never get out of this mess until we start acting. Jesus not only prayed but acted more. In all my existence, I have never seen anyone that sat on their butts (or knelt down) calling upon God and a glass of water miraculously left where it is kept and appeared in the hands of the "prayer warrior".
Delete@poster, you've got every right to be worried cos when things go south, everyone, including that darling pastor husband of yours will blame you for not being strong enough to stop it.
Yes, continue praying but make your stand very clear to your darling husband. While at it, do not nag. Also, if he has a spiritual father he listens to, approach that person. After exploring all these options and your hubby still decides to be the fly that follows a corpse into the grave, let him be cos we all came into this life alone and know that you are blameless cos you did all you could do.
Word of advice : Never carry any man's matter like gala for head. You will see your BP raising fast. If you kill yourself while at it, another takes your place (may even be the lady that gave you high BP in the first place). Even pastor Kumuyi remarried, people even hailed him for doing so. I just pray you experience growth from this and know that you are not responsible for the actions of a grown man. #love
Mrs E, really did pastor Kumuyi remarry
DeleteYes be did. To a lady in her 50s who'd never been married . Spinster.
Delete@I'm blessed yup! His late wife's PA of how many decades. The woman hadn't married before.
DeleteEven late Pastor Odukoya's husband re-married too. Think it was his late wife's ally in church too.
Pastor Kumuyi remarried because his first wife died. Anything wrong with that? I am not a Deeper life member but please don't give examples out of context. It can be misleading.
DeleteChikito, this is very unfair. Nomthi Odukoya wasn't an ally to Bimbo Odukoya when she was alive. May God forgive you, oh!
DeleteThis is how y'all will drag someone into a story that doesn't even exist. The way you've written this makes it look like Nomthi acted like a friend but was secretly eyeing Bimbo's husband and stepped into her home when the latter conveniently died. Meanwhile, both women's paths never even crossed in Bimbo's lifetime. Hian! Thank God say na plane crash we all see wey Bimbo take go; if it was an illness, maybe someone would have been posting about how Nomthi was her secret PA or best friend that poisoned her to take over her husband.
Please, not every pastor's wife is a conniving witch. And no, my husband isn't a pastor.
@OA abeg ehn... as I take like you for this blog make we dey as we dey.
DeleteI used the word "THINK". Because I wasnt so sure. Kumuyi's own I am certain. You can as well correct any false impressions without being petty. Please save your analysis and forgiveness prayer for someone who needs it. As for the witchcraft, have you've encountered a pastors wife who is one? Cos I havent. Cheers!
Your husband should pray to God for His gifts. He has none at all. He is using sentiment doing God's work. He is not spiritual at all.
ReplyDeleteMy dear continue praying for your husband and the church. It is in your hands. You have to be spiritually alert.
It is well with you. Both of you needs wisdom.l
Na wa 🚶 🚶
ReplyDeleteThere is fire on the mountain!
ReplyDeleteYour husband is a spirit, and that woman is her spiritual husband lol... See pastor cursing his own wife? Lol
ReplyDeleteMadam continue in your prayer for him. Don't letbdown your guard ones you are feeling unsettled about her. You need to see your mentor(yours and hubby's in the ministry) if he has one and discuss with them.
ReplyDeleteMadam, so sad that after I "defended you" (though I was only saying the scriptural truth) and advised you to
ReplyDeletebe watchful and change approach, you went ahead to "argue with your husband?"
Let me warn you again madam (I've been a lady's leader in an exclusive lady's ministry), if you do not fast and pray effectively and earnestly, you will destroy both your marriage and husband's ministry.
The wise woman builds her home but the foolish one with her hands tear it down...
The lady you described in these two chronicles is stuffed with the powers of darkness (I did not write this for debate please, it is my perception).
She is already exercising control/dominion negative-supernaturally but you are instead of
doing same positive-supernaturally, you
are "arguing". When you argue with your husband, have you not yielded already to the devil to attack you
through the bitter of anger and so on.
Hebrews 12:4Pursue peace with all men, as well as holiness, without which no one will see the Lord. 15Be careful that no one falls short of the grace of God, so that no root of bitterness will spring up to cause trouble and defile many.
The keyword you mentioned here is her "LIFESTYLE" is well known.
If she ends up becoming what she aims at becoming in your local assembly,
the yet-to-believe will see the assembly as
a nest of "that known lifestyle" of hers.
Be warned madam.
Ekwucha kwam -I don yarn finish oo
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Thank you for updating us. Pastor's wife or not, you have a right to protect your marital home! if you are unsettled about her, then so be it! We women have intuition so please dont play. It's no longer just about you but your kids stability, the home, the ministry of your husband so please guard all you can! Satan is subtle. I am also very protective of any yeye girl coming near my hubby in the name of church please. have we not seen even great men fall?
ReplyDeleteI wish you the best but shun anyone sayin you are insecure na so them dey, till their roof is on fire. Guard your hubby and your home woman and well done!!!
Poster, listen to this anon. She is right!
DeleteAbove all, continue to seek God's face!
Pls if you don't feel peace on your spirit around this lady, pray against her abeg. Some of this BVs will not be there if anything otherwise happens. Pray against her and chase her away from your family and try not to fight your husband, he doesn't knw what he's doing
ReplyDeleteI was about to indulge you until I got to the part you said a lot of guys attest to sleeping with her. I want to ask, did they all walk up to you or you went asking? Let me tell you something keep going the way you are going and you just might find what you are looking for. The fact that you keep bringing her up to your husband, trying to peach her black to him all the time my dear might cause your husband's heart to veer off to that place you are scared of. You are making her look weak and in need of defence while you look vindictive. My dear give yourself brain and stop fussing I did not complete my description for you to fill up. Be wise and stop acting insecure.
ReplyDeleteI was surprised to read that too. Like she gossips with these guys or what? Looking for info concerning the girl, too low.
DeleteThis pastor's wife have a serious problem. She sounds like the type that gossip about people.
DeleteI wonder how she found out that the girl sleeps with men freely.
Don't worry, you're about to scatter your home.
Watch it.
She's just trying to paint the girl black meanwhile it's her husband she should be bothered about!!!
DeleteBoth you, your husband and the girl need Jesus biko!!
My dear I understand you and I know few men of God who were destroyed not just by quest for wealth but by women, your intuition can not be wrong, continue to pray for your husband and keep the lady at arms length for now till you are fully convinced.
ReplyDeleteIs the angel of death part that is my issue. Preachers wife fast and pray about the situation since it's really bothering you.
ReplyDeleteYou all dont understand her. i do
ReplyDeleteI take space.
DeleteSo many men of God claiming spiritual maturity but are not emotionally mature. Who sends angel of death to people??!! Who argues with his wife about a church member? Who doesnt listen to his wifes opinion without being defensive?? An immature husband.
I suspect your husband very very well. You need to gather the members in church to pray for their pastor's upliftment (you dont have to give them details) but this is why intercessors groups are created in church. Men of God are under so many attacks and not many people holding their hands in the battle (Moses and Aaron Ex. 17). For him to even be acting nice afterwards, shows how guilty he feels. And who knows the reason for his guilt?? Be prepared for anything ma.
Stella, if a Christian sins in a church and needs to move to another church, she moves as a member and NOT (yet) a worker. Until she has been counselled to reflect on her mistakes and do better. She can volunteer but leading worship is like preaching on the altar. Not everyone should just minister to other like that. She cant just come in as an asst. Choir leader when her spirit hasn't been tested (the bible encourages us to to "test all spirits" 1John 4:1) so pastors wife has every reason to careful because when shit hits the roof, she will be blamed (as she has stated).
Exactly.... Her husband is the problem and she needs to PRAY!! Confrontation won't change anything... Your husband is already veering in that direction!!!
DeleteGuys, if you have not been there, please shut it. If you do not have spiritual understanding, keep quiet. My dad is a pastor too and I totally understand you preachers wife. I know about a fellow pastor, my dads friend who got married to a lady and the lady told him, she was sent to destroy his ministry. Yes, the enemy can be that desperate. When the devil wants to get you, he makes you enemies with those who will stand in the gap for you. Madam, that is what the devil is trying to do to you husband. Do not agree, shine your eyes. Stand in the gap, that lady might be sent. Love her, pray for her but let this be from afar. Be the watchdog o. If your husband gets ruined, you will also be a partaker of the whole 'shame'. The lord is your strength madam.
ReplyDeleteIts beyond physical. She needs to deal spiritually while practicing physical silence. That girl can ruin the ministry, if care is not taken. She would just come and be distributing to all pastors and elders and be singing in choir. She has ruined one ministry and is looking for another.
Delete"Anyone not Gathering is scattering, stay on Ur lane, don't Chase new members away,tagging them sinners, cos of whatever title you are answering in church, anyone trying to scare new members away Angel of death visit them, Crush them"
ReplyDeleteAmen to that!!!!
You are still judgemental, stubborn,unreasonable and unrepentant.Even if you feel she's up to no good,you should have handled her with wisdom,not condemnation.You should be happy now because she's finally gone!
Your husband on the other hand is not happy with you and he is indirectly telling you not to chase away his members because of your judgemental attitude.
Learn to accommodate people even if you don't accept their way of life,do it for your husband or else,that church will become empty!I am not saying that you should kiss asses but think before you strike!
Go and learn from Modele Fatoyinbo,Ifeanyi Adefarasin and other women married to successful Pastors on how to act.
If you don't like his style of leadership or his decisions,go and open your own church or sit at home!
Dont listen to this angel of satan. She is defending her co-worker! Awon alagbere! Madam, keep the lady at arms length, pray and fast.
Delete@17:18,you are either the poster,a demon in human form or both!
Deletepeople like you don't even deserve a seat in the house of God due to the wickedness in your hearts!
Go and pray and fast for God to have mercy on you.
Arms length kor,bra length ni!
Esu belete!
Pink lady, sit this one out.
DeleteYou lack the spiritual depth.
madam St pastor's wife, you are obviously the peacock feathers pastors wife who feel other single ladies are sinners while you are the righteous woman. comon gerrahia
ReplyDeleteI suspect ur husband. Maybe he has already slept wit her sef.
ReplyDeleteSEE DEM,AWON HOME WREKERS!
DeleteTueh!
Madam, in your church don't you put people on probation? Why is your husband so hasty to fill the said lady in as an assistant whatever? Even in our work places, when people's duties and loyalty are in doubt, they are placed on probation. If the said lady has genuinely repented, why the rush? The rush speaks of one thing only,( SHE IS ON A MISSION AND SHE WILL NEVER REST UNTIL SHE ACCOMPLISHES IT). Unfortunately, she has gotten the head( your husband) under her wraps. I'm a minister myself. An issue once developed about a deacon and a sister, both were put on hold not to serve in any capacity, until on day, the truth busted open, that nothing happened, and the lady was only trying to frame the brother up. Moreover, God uses TIME to prove us all, to see if our motives are right and to show our fruits as christians. Sorry, to say this: Your husband has no wisdom as Pastor, ( Luke 7:35) and I wonder the kind of counseling his gives to his members. He indeed lack discernment, (No bashing, because it's the truth). I rest my case.
ReplyDeleteExactly! He should be on probation and membership class and counselling and all that stuff. Not just choir leader. Choir is a very sensitive part of a church. Why is her husband in a hurry? A man of God should know better. I smell a rat
DeleteThis is the devil at work, my sister. Let us join forces and do battle for the Lord.
ReplyDeletethat is how one pastor they bring to my office every first Monday of the month keep praying for angel of death to visit anyone that is not doing the needful in the office .....i am not saying people should not do the needful or be penalized when caught but for a man of God to call death to anyone????
ReplyDeleteWhat pattern of prayer is that, abeg church matter tire me.
DeleteWhat kind of church is you and your husband operating for him to say such words. You guys need Jesus, “Many are called, only few are chosen “ God should save us .
ReplyDeleteHonestly poster I think you are more of a pastor than your husband is. It’s possible he wasn’t called by God at all that’s why he’s so easy to be manipulated.
DeleteIt’s not the matter of devil using him and all that after all you said it yourself that it’s not the first time someone is trying to use him.
I’m sorry but I was among the people who thought you are taking the issue too serious, but now I think you should take it very serious. Don’t pray for the woman to leave your husband, pray to God to remove any fake man of God from your church Abeg.
Its possible he was called but has fallen to d sins of this world with dat woman!
DeleteThat's y I said above dat it starts from d heart. What d haert wants, it gets!
He has started falling for dat lady n he wants her, so whoever stands on his way, his calling on d wrath of God.
Poster stop arguing with him n do midnight prayer onto his head.
I had an experience but I wouldn't share it.
Madam follow your instinct, please don't mind this bvs oh, every woman has that instinct in them, follow it well oh
ReplyDeletemata pastor the lord is your muscle.
ReplyDeleteThe Bible warns us to be wise as a serpent and gentle as a dove.
ReplyDeleteTry and read The Purpose Driven Life by Rick Warren.
It talks about Christians that require extra grace. Be patient and tolerant but at the same time ensure she does not cross the boundaries you have set.
You can also get Growing Spiritually By Kenneth Hagin.
These books will help you tremendously.
I have been in a place where I was treated badly by a pastor's wife based on my background but not behaviour and I detested her for a long time.
Try to keep her at bay but be civil about it.
All the best dear.
This what happens when people take the church as their personal property or family business and not as God’s own property. When church founders and their spouses forget that they are servants of God and want to run it like Chukwudi and Sons Limited. Tithe and offerings are your revenue right?
ReplyDeleteYour husband saw that the lady’s gift of singing will attract others to his business. He also hoped that he would “reform” her and use her as a testimony. His own little personal project. I laugh in testimony time.
You, as I believe, are an unwise and insecure woman. You forgot that you do not mix emotions with business. That lady would have automatically been your mentee and you would have kept her comfortably in your armpit. But who even knows, your husband may have committed adultery under similar circumstances in the past and you panicked. I laugh in tongues.
Your husband went to mount his so called altar and was sending angels of death to mummy GO his business partner, because she wants to spoil his market. I laugh in tithes and offerings.
You people have not seen anything yet. Anything that is wrongly labelled God, used for selfish and personal gain, will scatter and crumble to the ground. You both are a bunch of motivational speakers that use bible references to tax gullible people. Ndi biblical life coaches. Awon funky for Jesus.
Honestly poster I think you are more of a pastor than your husband is. It’s possible he wasn’t called by God at all that’s why he’s so easy to be manipulated.
DeleteIt’s not the matter of devil using him and all that after all you said it yourself that it’s not the first time someone is trying to use him.
I’m sorry but I was among the people who thought you are taking the issue too serious, but now I think you should take it very serious. Don’t pray for the woman to leave your husband, pray to God to remove any fake man of God from your church Abeg.
That girl is definitely an agent of the devil going around, looking for homes and ministries to destroy. That is the impression I got the first time you sent a chronicle, which is why I focused on you and your husband partnering with the Holy Spirit to do ministry in my previous comment. I don't know what the protocol is in your church but I find the girl's desperation to stand on the altar, deeply unsettling.
ReplyDeleteThe way you're taking this is exactly what she wants - to drive a wedge between you and your husband, scatter your marriage, ruin your husband's ministry and drive your husband to suicide. Yes, in that order. Which is why arguing with your husband will not help.
Madam, your husband is NOT your enemy. The man is your team-mate. Start doing night vigil on your own. Don't shout when you're praying especially at night, oh. When Hannah prayed (1 Samuel) and God finally heard her, her lips were moving but no sound was coming out though her heart was earnest. And pray out everyone and everything that God didn't plant in, around or near your husband's life. If you can pray in tongues, do so constantly. Your husband is under a spell abeg. Talmabout who isn't gathering, is scattering. What if what is being gathered isn't of God, so He is the One doing the scattering? Does he want to gather what God isn't?
Please, don't say anything to any women's leader in your husband's church, no matter how close you are to them. You didn't mention the name of the church, (I might be wrong) but I suspect it's RCCG. The setup and intricacies are different from what the wife of say an HOTR pastor will face. You need a genuine woman of God who actually understands what you're saying cos she has been there and survived. Ask God to show you your Elizabeth; when Mary found out she was pregnant, she was sent to a specific person who had gone through something as well. Talking to the wrong women breeds gossip and in-fighting in the church, no matter how spiritual they seem. Cos ain't nobody can do you bad like a group of gossipy church women can. Prayerfully locate your Elizabeth as a matter of urgency.
Your Elizabeth may not be older in age than you but she will have experience you don't have, in this very area. She might not be popular but she exists.
There are demons whose physical form we don't confront physically. This girl is one of them; the demon of seduction isn't even the main problem cos that's not only thing she's carrying around. I'm a bit more concerned about her end game; this film with Mount Zion dimensions she boldly wants to act with your marriage and your husband's ministry is making me shudder. If she succeeds, your husband will never recover. Pray for his eyes to be opened and for God to shield him from ALL harm. And as annoying as your husband is being right now cos you're seeing something clearly that he can't or has refused to, CONTROL YOURSELF cos he is NOT your enemy.
You know yourself, your God, and your husband. Ignore those calling you names. When they marry their own, they can be inviting demons for lunch every weekend. Or they can be slapping their own husbands like doctors' prescription - once after meals, thrice a day. When a woman who has trusted God enough to follow a particular man to build anything, there are some kain things we don't leave to chance.
Wow,u r so deep
DeleteMadam poster, please embark on midnight prayers for your ministry. Your hubby's ministry is yours as well. Spiritual battle is not carnal , that is, it is not by arguing and all sorts. Talk to God that called you into the ministry.
ReplyDeleteI hope you get to read this. Your primary duty as a preacher’s wife is submission in ALL things Eph 5:24. There are no two captains in a ship. When you submit to him and see he is deviating, go on your knees and pray. (You don’t have to talk all the time) If you don’t submit to him, your prayers will be as a tinkling brass (noise). As a matter of fact you will be off God’s hierarchy, read 1Cor 11. The woman was the one deceived not the man 1Tim 2:14. Remember Eve? If you don’t occupy your spiritual place ie where God has placed you, the devil will disgrace you (Don’t be ignorant of his devices 2Cor 2:11) before all those who are honoring you today. You dont fight the devil with your sense but by obeying the word of God; that is his only antidote. Lastly, you shouldn’t be seeking counsel on social media. What happened to digging into the scriptures or following anointed women of God and reading their materials because the journey of a preacher’s wife is not the same as a normal wife. Most people here are supposed to be seeking counsel from you.
ReplyDeleteWord of advice: the ministry will match on with or without you; if you pass your boundary, you will be cut off. Do you even believe the Holy Ghost is in the ministry? Why would you challenge what your husband preached on the altar? If he is truly anointed, is the Spirit of God you are challenging and you certainly can’t go away with you Rom 13:-2.
Or peharps your husband isn’t the visionary pastor of the ministry, even at that give honour to whom honour is due, ma.
Take this advice from someone who has seen and knows this journey ahead of you.
Hey listen, I'm a man and a Pastor's kid at that.. Right now, you're in error! I suppose, you know what the Bible says about testing all spirits?.. her husband spoke in error and she simply got angry over. rubbish he did on the stage.. Please don't bring the HOLY Spirit into this. Did Holy Spirit, give her husband the inspiration to make such a prayer, in the first place?.. A woman, can and should disagree reasonably, with her husband.. else, how are They One? please be guided!!!
DeleteThank u anon 18:42
DeleteCos I wonder what dat nonentity up there is saying!
Cant believe a human being typed dat!
Tuehh!!!
Wow....see the reason why many pastors fall. They turn themselves to demigods nobody dares to question. If his wife cannot tell him where he is missing it then who will? He is clearly wrong to embrace a newcomer so fast and ready to make her assistant choir leader. Things are not done that way....the lady needs to proof herself as an ordinary choir member first. And for the pastor to take things to the level of such evil prayers against his wife shows he is already a lost case. Many pastors are bad husbands because they fail to obey God. Love your wife as Christ loved the church...if he fails in the home department he has failed in all spheres...simple. They need God's intervention before this gets out of hand
Delete@17:22 I'm sure you're a product of those old archaic churches that relegate women to silence and oppress them with scriptures they dim fit.
DeleteFirstly, there no such thing as 'seeing and knowing the journey' of christianity more than anyone. Apostle Paul admonished the Corinthians who were feeling like they were more important than others. EVERYONE has a different experience with God and we know in parts (1. Cor. 13:9) So shove that your opinion down your throat. You may still not make heaven with this wack mindset of yours and this poster could!!
Secondly, the ministry will not match on without the woman who started it by her husband. These are the things you ppl tell pastors to make them feel like the wives of their youth are dispensable. So are you one of those who encourage pastors to leave their wives over disagreements, because the ministry has to match on??! You are a double disgrace!! You better repent if you have been you have ever been a part of pastors wives coup. That is being a Caterpillar and not a pillar.
Thirdly, why wont she challenge what her husband preaches, if he is being petty? Where did you see any of the Apsotles being petty in the gospel?? That's how you people allow pastors preach off-point on the altar. When he loses the word, you move to another church and still condemn him. The person who should bring him to book is his wife and she did it!! How can a pastor wish people death and you think he shouldn't be cautioned?? Are you okay???!
Your whole comment is just disgusting and its people like you who make people have a disgusting view about serving God. Carry your Habakkuk and Ezra mentality away from this comment section because you lack goldly wisdom.
I'm praying for you.
Na them them. Association of arrogant, know it all Pastors, always ready to subdue opposing voices with misquoted scriptures. Meanwhile Devil is dancing azonto on top of their ministry. Loud hiss.
DeletePoster please follow your instinct concerning this woman. Not even as a preacher's wife but as a married woman you have every right to protect your marriage and home when you feel the need. Most of the time, our instincts are right so you can follow your instincts in this case. However I also feel your husband's spirituality is not at the level it should be hence this has become an issue for you. You also know he may have philandering habits or potential and that could be why your instincts have alerted you. Ultimately, you should as well focus on praying for your hubby cos if he is attracted to the woman, even if she doesn't get on the altar in your church she could still cause damage to your union. Best wishes.
ReplyDeleteI've noticed that those BVs insulting the woman are the notorious side chicks.
ReplyDeleteMadam, i'm sorry but your husband is either nursing a crush on the lady or may have already started sleeping with her. The problem sadly is your husband, not the lady. Focus on your husband. He's not led by God's spirit at all.
Gbam.
DeleteGod bless you Anon. The young lady in question is the typical whore of babylon. Men can never be rational around her andher fellow side vultures on this blog seem to be supporting her.
DeleteOh pls!! Do you know them personally?? Yen yen yen notorious side chics...
DeleteI've seen some BVs who are claiming to be married supporting the side chic in the comment section too. Leave people with their opinions and stop this blog ID guesswork. Afterall some married women here also confess to being hoes on anonymous posts.
Poster keep praying for your husband.
ReplyDeleteMadam, your husband's dick is already in love with the lady. You have to enter into very serious praying and fasting over this matter. Stop talking about the lady to your husband or anybody else. Be mature and keep very calm. Just go straight to God and seriously seek his face. Lust is a very powerful feeling and is no respecter of people, pastor or not. Fight for your home on your knees and do not be provoked into arguing with your husband as you will push him more towards the girl.
ReplyDeleteWifey is more concerned about protecting her home and husband and husband is more concerned about protecting his church business. Who is concerned about the souls of God's people? I believe both of you have misplaced priorities. I also unabashedly say that your husband is under the influence of a spirit that is not God's spirit when he proclaimed that curse, against his own wife. I'm in shock! How can you proclaim the gospel and curses at the same time? Can sweet and bitter water flow from the same mountain? Unu na'abo ji uka chukwu eme ihe egwuriegwu. The church of God is not a plaything. God will hold you both responsible for the lives you lead astray including each other. I don't want to say it but from what you just narrated, your husband doesn't seem like a genuine man of God to me.
ReplyDeleteThank you. That’s just what I just feel. The husband isn’t a genuine man of God. No real man of God should be falling for temptations like this, twice for that matter. The husband is an easy target and the devil or whatever spirit they think have possessed him is working perfectly well.
DeleteMe personally don’t believe the poster’s husband has been possessed by anything. This is just you seeing your husband’s true colors. Because he’s a pastor dosnt mean he Dsnt have his own bad sides. I also don’t think the devil is using the girl to get to your husband. I think the devil is using your husband to get to you, you seem like a good spiritual person.
Think about it mehn. That girl is too small for you not to be able to confront. It’s your husband that you cannot confront well.
Fountain. I meant to write fountain up there. Anon 7:02 yes you make a lot of sense too. I agree.
DeleteDear poster, you can leave your contact with SDK,I will get it. But you are already under a siege.
ReplyDeleteHow could she go and ask your hubby if he had told you about her and the other pastor? What was she expecting? I hope there is no door way already opening you up.
You are not insecure that's part of the lies of the devil to take you on a guilt trip. So that you can't pray.
Jeremiah 33:3 says call upon me and I will show you great and mighty things that you do not know.
To start with, pls pray Psalm 101 at nights. When I was first given this chapter to pray with I didn't understand it. But I have used it to pray. Ask the Lord to open your eyes.
Sister, you are already in a war. Don't take it lying low.
Zechariah 2:5 ask the Lord to be a wall of fire around you and your hubby, your work and home.
Talk to you soon.
How folks understand situations vary but too bad if some bvs comment just for their comments to be enabled.
ReplyDeleteWhat did the poster do wrong? Was pissed off from comments in part one of her post. All bvs calling her names might even scandalise the husband, the pastor, publicly, for allowing the girl come close to him
God has given us wisdom and every time "pray, pray" as if God has nothing else doing apart from listening to situations HE has commanded us to take care of.
So, all the BVs that insulted her could not see that the girl was sent to cause problems to the man's family and ministry?
The pastor's wife was playing safe, being cautious. Where is the saying prevention being better than cure that bvs should insult her?
Saying she should give her chance, what Chance? A confirmed "pastor sleeper?" Let no one say she 's being judged. She judged herself first.
Who here would allow her husband indirectly want another woman and mandate you, the wife, to get close to her? So that the girl will come close and be a family friend and when they sleep together, eyes will not be on them?
If you insulted the poster, put yourself in her shoes and sincerely check how you will fill or react when your guy/man was reachs out to a confirmed olosho?
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The preacher's wife have explained why she acted this way. She has had a previous similar experience with another which had no doubt traumatized her because she was unjustly blamed. Most women bvs criticising her will do much more to protect their husbands from a scantily dressed, bum shorts sporting women with a history of promiscuity. Her husband has almost fallen once and she will not allow it to happen again. But for the husband to invoke the angel of death on his own wife it means he himself has been enchanted. God will give her victory in this battle.
ReplyDeletePoster, please remind your "preacher man" husband that two of you have become one, according to scriptures. By cursing you, he curses himself by extension. He is yet to understand the spiritual dynamics of marriage. Its not by forming pastor.
ReplyDeleteWhy rant on the pulpit?
ReplyDeleteMadam please pray!!!! Don't ignore your instincts. Your husband's type if God doesn't help him will make lots of mistakes in the ministry. Please start praying in the spirit for one hour every night, then study the word for one hour, God will open your eyes and ears and you will know how to solve this problem by divine direction. God's grace!!!
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