Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative -UPDATE And Right Of Reply...

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UPDATE
Thank you Stella for posting.. I didnt add everything that happened.

 He actually gave me 2.4. He said the extra 1 million was what he promised to spend on me on our wedding day. But at that time I said where would you get that kind of money and he told me he doesnt make empty promises. But since it didnt happen he nevertheless is adding the extra 1m.

Apologized for blocking me from all forms of social media contacts. That he doesnt like to keep in touch with an ex cos it may reignite old passion and thats why he decided to take that step. Told me also to stay away from my friends who were sitting with me there with a statement that they be my undoing if care is not taken. He said it in the hearing of my two friends though. 

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RIGHT OF REPLY.

Good day Stella,

My name is Yomi and one of the friends of yesterday’s chronicle poster. I read people saying we are bad friends to our friend. We aren’t bad friends. I know we instigated her to leave him in 2016 but if you take a look at the situation very well, you’d discover we were young and acting out our age then.

She’s a very good girl, soft and responsible but we felt at that she was doing too much for her guy then. This guy isn’t from a poor home but he just hated asking his parents for anything or his elderly ones, hence he would rather ask her for assistance. 5k here, 20k there, just like that with a promise of paying her back when he has. He never paid back while they were dating. Men don't pay back!


This was 2016 and we were like 25,26 years, young girls who thought they were living the life. I was dating a guy who provided everything for me then so the idea of him suddenly saying he wanted to further for a specialized course in financial accounting master’s didn’t make sense to us. Reason being that our boyfriends then were like 30 and were doing businesses and making good money then, We felt he should also be making money.

Also, aside his good looks, we weren’t jealous of her guy just as some insinuated yesterday with their comments. Yes we made a mistake pushing her to leave but it wasn’t cos we were jealous. Furthermore, it wasn’t 1.45 he sent, he actually made two transfers totaling 2.4 0r so cos I remember the second amount was 1m with a stupid advise of we being the bad and negative influence on her. We were in her life before he came in.

For those who were saying how could have just entered the eatery, truth is that he was there with a male friend eating before we walked in. when he left us, he walked back to his table where his friend was. Also, the advice for her to still patch up things with him was because she told us that while they spoke she jokingly asked him of his babe and it seems he isn’t dating anyone yet and hasn’t dated anyone after their breakup. That he is decided to concentrate on his goals.

Aunty Stella, that’s my own version. We remain friends however though some cold treatment has been meted out from her like not picking our calls since the incidence.

I know she feels hurt and hoped we didn’t interfere in her life, for me I am sorry. I know what it is to have a good man by your side or a good woman and letting them go.

Thank you.