Fayemi said this on Monday during the premiering of #SexForGrade, an hour long documentary exposing randy lecturers in some universities in Nigeria and Ghana
Condemning this, Fayemi said it is troubling some of these lecturers have a culture of entitlement to the bodies of the girls.
Condemning this, Fayemi said it is troubling some of these lecturers have a culture of entitlement to the bodies of the girls.
“I cried because what this young women have experience is the story of many of us who passed through higher institution in this country,” she said.
“I was educated here in Nigeria and I too was a victim of sexual harassment during my university days. I was luckier than these victims. It didn’t go that far but it was extremely unpleasant and of course back in the days when all these things happened you can’t tell anyone because if you do even up till now people ask you to keep shut.
“You know people don’t talk about things like this. I was watching the documentary and there were three words that came to me, one is voice, it is time to speak up and speak out and for those who do we need to stand with them and stand by them and not silence them because the culture of silence has endured enough.
“Another word that came to me was accountability, we need to be accountable whether there are parents, guidance or teachers or leaders in any form through out the different section of society. We have to be accountable for the well being and health of the young people in our care, from when our children come to say mummy, uncle so so and so touched me and instead of asking further to find out what’s its all about, we should act.
“There has to be accountability and the third thing that came to mind was justice, justice for victim or I choose to call them survivors and so those of us who have worked in the women’s whether at international level or Africa or national air in Nigeria, we know that we have many law and policies in place that are supposed to guard against things such as this but this law sometimes means very little because there is inadequate political.”
The governor’s wife said Ekiti had already opened a register to name and shame sex offenders in the state.
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so many women are Victims of sexual harassment in university but alot have to cover it cos of what society will say and the way they will treat tat person.
ReplyDeleteI dey tells you..There is always a conspiracy of silence..Even when you talk..Both dean, senate and governing council are involved in this quagmire...
DeleteMadam so u attended uni and it aides shot and killed uni students protesting just last month????
DeleteI doubt there any woman that has not been sexually harassed in the university, esp federal or state university
ReplyDeleteI was never harassed.
DeleteSo many ladies went through it. Mine started in Secondary school, My Economics Teacher will take me to library nd touch my nipples even suck sometimes, then university, My level adviser too,touch and suck,then another lecturer,but he didn't do anything, always saying we should meet outside school,i later begged and bought something for me and he left me. It is well!!!
ReplyDeleteHaaa...Latched on your nipples like a gorilla...This is crazy...You mean you never reported this to anyone..
DeleteNo,i couldn't tell anyone.
DeleteI saw this happen to friends and colleagues at secondary school, University and in the work place in Nigeria. It's a culture of sexual abuse that needs to end in our country.
ReplyDeleteThey Will soon start now. A lot of women go dey creep out like they did during Busola/Fatoyinbo tape scandal.
ReplyDeleteIf only something would be done about it. Naija my country .... All noise and no action ot Justice.
It's time to take action and hold people accountable.
ReplyDeleteMAKE SHE RELAX JOOR. IT IS NOW SHE IS REMEMBERING SHE WAS HARASSED ABI! IF TRUULY IT WAS ON HER MIND, IN THIS OFFICE OF POWER WHY SHE NO WHISPER THESE MEASURES SINCE- SHE HAD TO RIDE ON THE WAVE OF THE TREND. IT IS NOT EASY TO SPEAK UP -YES. BUT IF SOMETHING BOTHERS YOU-LIKE TRULY, AND YOU HAVE THE POWER TO CHANGE IT. YOU DON'T NEED BBC TO INVESTIGATE AND LOUD IT FOR YOU. IF YOU REALLY WANT TO CHANGE SOMETHING- NO CHRISTINA AMAMPOUR WILL BEAT YOU TO IT.
ReplyDeleteMrs Fayemi is always prone to sexual abuse, her relatives, swimming teacher, Uni Lecturer and who again?
ReplyDeleteMrs Fayemi is always prone to sexual abuse, her relatives, swimming teacher, Uni Lecturer and who again?
ReplyDeleteUpon all the money she no fyne.
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