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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
AGE DIFFERENCE IN A RELATIONSHIP
Stella something is actually bothering me and it's giving me sleepless nights ooooo. The question is DOES AGE REALLY MATTER IN A RELATIONSHIP? Cos recently I met an SDK lady and along the line we got talking and one thing led to another( not the s#xual aspect ooooo) but we had feelings for each other or let me say I had feelings for her so we got talking to an extent she asked me about my relationships...
She asked me if I had someone I am dating and to e sincere with you Stella at the moment I don't have anyone i am dating and she doesn't have also but I lied to her that I had someone i am dating so it doesn't look like at my age I don't have anybody...
She later buttress about my GF I guess she wanna know more about it but the silly thing was that I kept telling her different things cos honestly I was just framing the whole relationship stuff ,along the line she got to know I was lying to her about my relationship status and she blocked me on her social media( whatsapp to be precise) so I had to call her to confirm what was happening and she said she doesn't want the intimacy anymore that i am not trustworthy ...
Meanwhile before all this issue of relationship or no relationship stuff she told me earlier that she was 34yrs and I told her i am in my 30's too and I told her am not up to her age but ever since she told me she doesn't want the intimacy again that it's better we are just friends.
I don fall in love already and what made me fall in love with her is not becos she is beautiful but becos she is intelligent and that's the kind of lady I want in ma life. My question now is that is she really holding on to me not being trustworthy or the age difference?. I need advice pls. Any insult is welcome ooooo. And I really really love the lady walai
*The truth?you still need time,you don't sound like you are ready for what she is ready for...This is the reason most Ladies go for older men with wisdom....
At her age she is looking to settle and you are filling her ears with lies?who does that?how will ever trust you?Grow up and stop lying upandan......
I think it is best you leave the relationship the way it is,before you collect the cookie and hurt her more...you are not ready for anything serious but she is........Let her be but remain friends.
I agree with Stella on this
ReplyDeleteHe didn't mention his age... Maybe he is in his 20s
Delete@ weed chick he said he is in his 30s meaning e is below 34 her age
DeleteHe writes like a 16 year old though
DeleteTime waster alert!
ReplyDeleteYou are not just untrustworthy, you are childish. You think you are in love? Think again. You think you are attracted to her intelligence? No, you aren't cos opposites don't attract. You are not intelligent and she has seen it and it's a big turn off.
DeletePoster you blew it. A lady in her 30s is not looking for a joke in a relationship.
DeleteThis is pity party worry. Leave that girl
DeleteEven this your chronicle is sounding like a lie, you ain't completely honest here..😒
ReplyDelete@Blackey
DeleteBut most Naija dudes go tell fried lies to collect fork. Them fit tell Naija sisi them say
them eyes no dey see cookies....say them dey allergic to cookies till them marry 😊, them fit even give rings.
The problem be say, the sisis go spread legs. If my friends go close legs, all these them foolish lies
go pop like balloons!
Hehehehehe
DeleteGbam!!!
DeleteBlakky thank you and I thought I was tripping. The chronicle has the handwriting of a particular bv
DeleteAnon 16:14, wisdom will not kill you. The handwriting is familiar.
Delete@ANG, in your mind you belive sex is only to the benefit of the man? You don't think a woman have needs too and could even be the one using the man?
DeleteMaybe it's (ANG) a sex addict.
Delete@saphire
DeleteThanks for teaching me say una Naija girls need fork like oxygen. Only that I have never seen where someone died for lack of fornication🐥😒😒😜😜
Amin 16:14, about the handwriting ehn, I was just about typing the same thing 😊😊😊
DeletePoster, you are not yet mature.
ReplyDeleteWas it necessary lying the way you did?
I don’t blame her, you broke her trust by being petty.
First, you need to grow up to be a man...with great sense.
Having SVD doesn’t make you a man 😏
That’s the problem with dating little boys...they give you headaches.
Go get mature first.
You and SVD sha
DeleteThat thing must have cost you so much injury..😂
Well said slutty....@ that's the problem with dating little boys...they give you headaches....you can't say it any more than that...SVD fall on you.
DeletePlease what does'SVD' mean?
DeleteTo be sincere I don't agree with what Stella or most people are saying. If it was the other way round you would advice the guy to forgive but you are not advising this lady to forgive because he told a lie which he has confessed and is sorry. All saying the woman at that age doesn't want games. What was she doing that she reached 34 and is now wanting to be very serious. Abeg you pple should calm down and free the guy. Guy if she doesn't want you back move on and move on very fast. You can't spend all your time begging her if she wants to forgive let her do so..
DeleteWho has relationship ever killed!age is nothing but a number, if you really love the lady like you said, pls call her and apologise and promise to stop lying, though it will be hard for her to trust you again, continue as friends and when you win her heart again, make up your mind whether you want a relationship that will end in marriage, no go show yourself again o! good luck!look for her now and open up,and apologise! Be happy, life is short!
DeleteStella's red pen says it all
ReplyDeleteBros na lie kill your moves ooo
ReplyDeleteThe chronicle resemble Tjay handwriting.
ReplyDelete😁😁😁😁 Teejay don suffer chai.
DeleteExactly who came to mind.
Deleteposter you are a play, you are looking for free cookies jar to enjoy, you are not ready to settle down yet. A 34 years old lady is not interest in lies or talking about love when you are not ready to wife her. She want to settle down anything soon but you still looking for fine girl that is brilliant to be around you as your free pussy girl. Free her joor, forget bout the age. Babe is trying to keep her self and not allow you waste her time.
ReplyDelete"...not the sexual aspect o...but the intimacy aspect..."
ReplyDeleteShuooooooooorrr!
Dude, all these ya coding is to simply say you fork, you stole fork dey hard you eh?😮😮
You meet a sdk blog lady today and today, today, legs ajar, rod don dip?
Wawu! Naija girls (and boys) dey try o...
Did you read the SDK couple wedding we saw yesterday? They were friends, just friends for years and them began a relationship that lasted just for one year and fiaaaaaaaaam, marriage don happen.
Dude, na real forkbody you be. All these ya yarns about love na LUST and that Naija babe na one of those my friends I dey type everyday yarn say
make them no dey fork aghara aghara -fornicate everywhere but close legs till they get married.
Anyway, she said she no dey do again because you carry fried lies garnish ya mess up.
Make you leave this girl waka face front o
and Repent nnaa!
🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️
That's what you get when you lie.
ReplyDeleteShe's not going to trust you one bit. Just learn your lesson and don't do that when next you're meeting someone else.
You have lost this already.
Stella is right, poster just be her friend for now
ReplyDeleteThe base of all relationships whether friendship or otherwise is trust poster. You need to first work on that before anything else.
ReplyDeleteYou are not ready as Stella said, she needs a man but not a boy like you who still think lying is being smart. I met my wife on a social media platform and we have never discussed about age for once. She has my bio-data and have seen hers too and which clearly indicated that she is older than me with about 4yrs and for once it has never bothered me. She loves me so much for my maturity and I love her too for her understanding, she thinks sometimes that I'm her father because the way I handle issues relate with her. So you need to grow up bro.
ReplyDeleteYou're not listening to her. You have chosen to think your age is the problem. Women marry younger men all the time. Oga, you lied about having a girlfriend = you're not trustworthy = the problem.
ReplyDeleteChai!!! See how you blew your chance!! You are a fuckboy abeg, you dont like the lady na her drip drip pussy you want..Kudos to that lady 👏👏👊👊 you are too gbasky
ReplyDeleteHow about you tell her that you want to see her.Have a heart to heart and tell her everything you just typed up there. If she agrees to take you back, fine. If not, move on and learn the lessons inherent.
ReplyDeleteThe lie wasn't necessary,but you lie maybe the ones you will lie later will just spoil everything
ReplyDeleteWomen ! You say you're not in a relationship...they don't believe you.
ReplyDeleteYou say you're in a relationship...they still don't believe you.
Either way, you lose.
Omomo poster. Love kee you there! Is Prince Harry not younger than Meghan? But he still behaves more mature than her. Pls keep your love cuz dem never born who you wan marry. Just dey wait
ReplyDeleteThe poster is really confused, what do you really want man?
ReplyDeleteIndecisive/impulsive behaviour You,ve got.You ain't serious atall.All I see is a time waster!.Let her be or you get ready to commit. Stella is on point.
ReplyDeleteYou are not ready as Stella said, she needs a man but not a boy like you who still think lying is being smart. I met my wife on a social media platform and we have never discussed about age for once. She has my bio-data and have seen hers too and which clearly indicated that she is older than me with about 4yrs and for once it has never bothered me. She loves me so much with respect for my maturity and I love her too for her understanding, she thinks sometimes that I'm her father because the way I handle issues and relate with her. So you need to grow up bro.
ReplyDeleteNa man u be
DeleteYou are not ready please don't waste her time
ReplyDeleteYou sound so childish. Please leave her be. You're probably saying you love her because she is no longer accessible to you.
ReplyDeleteBtw, why was it such a big deal to tell her you're single?
Going forward, know not to play games.
At 34years you think that she's out to play 10-10games? Oga shift because she's looking for something permanent that will lead her down the aisle and you are here formulating gf and nonexistent relationship.
ReplyDeleteYou lied over something that doesn't require lying over which is a red flag because there's nothing wrong with being single, you are talking of loving up what else have you shown her aside your concorted relationship status? Nothing because if you did, she would have not been too quick to block you.
If you are serious about taking her back, you would have made moves over it... Gone to her house, office, church or through someone to help you beg her. You are not serious
So you went on a single and mingles post to take someone's contact and then told her you're in a relationship, oga you just want to do this one so d lady will think you love her and fall, this story na your strategy. Baby girl don't fall for this rubbish pls, move on! Your man is just around d corner. Sending hugs your way.
ReplyDeleteYou sound childish, you need to grow up.
ReplyDeleteLeave her alone. You're a boy, not a man.
ReplyDeleteThank God she recognized a time waster
Stella has said it all.
ReplyDeleteYou want to play a fast one and she caught you,you should know what you want at your age,if you really love her, call her and apologise and promise never to lie again, continue to be friends until you win her trust again, age really doesn't matter if you love each other
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