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A STORY TO LEARN FROM

I want to share my story and no I don’t need any advice I just want to encourage women that are going through the same hell I was made to pass through.


Please mind my typos and bad grammar o.....

I met this guy when I gained admission into secondary school,he was our class senior.i was in JSS 1,and he was in SS3.I was the most brilliant student in my set and so he picked certain interest in me and before you knew it we became close.

He didn’t take advantage of me,I was just close to him,they called me his school daughter.after he finished school he gained admission into the university,we still kept in touch and all.

Fast forward to when I was in SS3 he was serving and that was when he told me he liked me and that he wants to get married to me,meanwhile I was saving my weekly allowance to send to him while he was still in school ,saved up money to buy him stuff when he comes home for holidays.

After his NYSC,he came home n tutored me,I took jamb and scored 325,and it was the day I went to check my result that I lost my virginity to him,that was 2006.

Some months later I realized I was pregnant,his friends advices us to go for a DNC but he declined as said he would face my dad,mind you my dad was a brigadier general in d army then,but he still faced my dad and told him that he got his 15year old daughter pregnant.

We did our introduction and traditional wedding but oh,how I broke my dad’s heart,that was the first time I actually saw my dad cry......

After the wedding my dad gave me 5million since I couldn’t go to school,I told him to give it to my husband,he initially refused but he later agreed to,and that was where my trouble began I was just 15 and pregnant,I didn’t have a mother or a sister just a father and brothers.

This man squandered the money,he told me he was duped,I couldn’t stay in d 1room he rented,begged my dad to move us to somewhere convenient,my hubby started making soaps and I was helping him supply them.

Some months later I had still birth and decided I needed To go back to school which I did,my dad was still ready to train me to school,I was still the one that was carrying the home,by then I was 17yrs old,and my dear hubby started cheating on me with different girls,and he started beating me.but I thought I was at fault n I would beg and cry and complain and all,I was called a nag,silly and being too sensitive

When my dad retired,then I was in 400level my dad gave me 10million to start up something,I gave it to dear hubby,I’m stupid right?he invested the money n before you knew it,we started living okay,he bought land n we started building,but he was quick to tell me at any little misunderstanding that I trapped him with pregnancy,found out I was pregnant again d day I went to defend my project n I told him,he wasn’t really excited but I kept it n I gave birth to the most beautiful set of twins ever.....and then the abuse tripled,by then my dad was battling with his health so I couldn’t bother him n my brothers were still too disappointed.i stayed n swallowed all the ill treatment he meted out to me.he stopped me from working or having friends.i was forbidden to even tell my dad anything.

Until one fateful day in 2014,I came home with my kids n met him n his now wife on our bed,I went berserk,I went to drop my kids in the next compound,I chased him n d girl outside,locked the gate n destroyed all the electronics in that house,packed my things,went to pick my children n I left.....by then my dad was responding to treatment,I told my people to send him his bride price and thank God we didn’t do court wedding.

Travelled for 6months with my kids and when I came back I was renewed,by then I was just 23years old.

Met with my university toaster who I didn’t even know was married n divorced,as I was divorced already myself we started talking and he gave me a contract to supply some stuff,before u knew it I started getting deals n contract,money just kept coming,I bought myself a good car,built a duplex,bought my dad a Benz and my children were happy.

One day my dad called me to tell me that my ex husband came looking for his kids,I’m not a scorned woman so I told him to come see his kids somewhere,he has married his girlfriend and all


He saw me from afar and immediately he started crying and saying shit about us being his family and about how he messed up his home and about him needing his family back,I just laughed.I was already dating the divorced cute guy that helped me start my life back,told him I was already with someone and that was how the whole pleas and sweet talking started,he has made money,I have made more money,now he wants to start spending money on me,I Dey collect o......last week I asked him for 2million he sent it yesterday,and No I am never going back to him,I love my man and I’m not sure I would wanna get married again.And yes I am just 28years old:::