In this our economy, somebody will want to marry another wife on top one? Lord please pick my call na, so my only problem will be whether my wife will allow me marry another wife or not
I'll keep laughing to his face and won't say a word. He will wonder why till infinity. If he still goes ahead, I'll walk away. The best thing a woman can do for herself is to be financially sound. Even if it's sachet water business, please women do.
Haa I missed BEP yesterday.Feromi I am sorry what was I thinking? I had an accident and you were there for me but these daughters of Eve will not let me be.Oh my pastor accommodated me and I was fucking that silly girl doggy with my one leg on POP and crutch under my armpit in the pastor's house.Aye mi ti daru. Please I am sorry and please forgive me.it is 4 years now and i know i lost a gem.
Well my DH won't say that for it's contrary to our faith. But how dudes go carry their hands pour fuel set am on fire π₯ weak me kpatakpata. One Naija girl na enough trouble naπππ€π₯ Two na double wahala 3 na commotion. Anything above 3 na katakataπ€π₯π€π₯π€π₯poultry farm
I am just here looking at this post with side eyes, I pray it doesn't happen because I have built my world around him with all sincerity, not only is he myloving husband, good father but my everything and he knows how to manage our work and home well, sometimes I feel he has come to this world before,because of how he solve so many things even at work.. The trust is I won't recover easily na to put everything for God hand be the solution for me.
Mbanu! Prov. 18:22 He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the LORD.
You see, make I yarn you correct yarns. Na one Naija girl be trouble and not one wife inugo? If you find true Nigerian woman marry, you go enjoy marriage...and na only Jesus fit give that kind. ππππππ Persin we collect more than on Naija girl put for house, no be obituary be that one? Ajuju n' ese okwu.
I will ask for his reasons and answer him ok. Then I will go into serious prayers and ask God to scatter the plan and remove the bail that the woman and her village people used to cover his face because knowing the kind of man my hubby is, it is only if he is jazzed that he will think of such.
Oh my God! he dare not try that. First and foremost, I will mention the consequences to him quoting Bible scriptures to back me up. Then if he still wants to go ahead with his plans I have no option than to make sure he won't see any money to perfect his plans.
Come to think of it, it is unbeliever that will think of marrying a second wife and I can't marry an unbeliever.
@Anon, I'm not saying I am better than anyone. If you are a Christian who abides with biblical principles you will know there is punishment for this act.
I will go knack pigeon on his head sharply, by the time I'm done, he will ask us to re-do our wedding join, no second wife will find her way into my house,she go disappear into sambisa forest ozigbo. Nonsense and ingredients. I won't accept it, mba nu!!
I’ll definitely locate a mountain and use prayer to scatter such evil. I call it evil biko. A man I suffered with will now eventually think of bringing another woman as second wife, infact it is thunder that will strike that blokos. Utter rubbish.
Truth is a lot of you saying no don't really have a choice.In Nigeria, it's a man's world. Ya'all keep saying no but these men (Christian men inclusive) keep marriying more than one wives and keeping multiple cuncubines and mistresses
That is the truth. Some women are even happy to marry a man as sixth wife. Why will the men stop when there are any number of women who are willing to marry an already married man. Worse if the man is wealthy first wife will turn a blind eye and accept her fate as the price she has to pay for living in the lap of luxury.
Historically in the human journey polygamy was tested for many hundreds of years and it didn't work out in most cases. It led to a lot of infighting, hatred, and division along family lines, it did more harm than good. Most countries realized it was not a realistic model and made it illegal. I ain't interested in going back in time to try out what is already dead and buried. Good luck to those women who have to live this way.
Divorce him. No need to start quoting scriptures because the fact that he wants to marry another wife shows that he has already sinned against God and has no regards for God's law
I will divorce him but agree to co-parent our children amicably. I will never be that woman that a man will sleep with another and come sleep with me too(to my knowledge). That's is why being financially independent should be a pre-requisite to marrying a Naija man and also having the number of kids you only can adequately cater for in case things go south. It is only God that can never disappoint so at any stage of a marriage be fully prepared whilst putting your trust in God.
Okay let me tell you a story. My mom's friend shared her experience when her husband wanted to take a second wife. She's a Muslim and married her husband when he had nothing then he gained prominence and became a VC in one of the universities. Suddenly, husband of over 30 years discovered he needed a second wife. She said since the religion permitted it, she didn't argue or complain. She threw herself fully in the wedding preparations, the new bride had just graduated from the university like her last born'so age mate. She was wondering how someone younger than some of her children will become a rival. She embraced the new wife and everyone was amazed at her behaviour.
Wedding day came and everyone got dressed and got to the venue, only for the nikah to start and the bride dressed in her bridal finery to say she's not interested in the marriage. They begged her, cajoled her, she adamantly refused saying the groom was too short and she can't marry a short manπππ. During dating/courtship you didn't know he's too short? When you were getting ready for the ceremony you didn't know? My mom attended the wedding and came back to tell us she has never experienced something like that. The wedding didn't hold and it's been over 10 years now. Needless to say Alhaja is still without rival. She didn't tell us what she did, she just smilled that after all her suffering a girl with "toothpick legs" will swallow her investment, impossible!
Divorce him ni. No time to waste time. True life story: Hubby told me he wants to try another woman because we have been married for 10yrs without a child. I didn’t argue with him, I said no wahala and we went our separate ways a year ago. Btw, doctors said we are both okay medically.
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He can't say such , if he says so then, no problem but we won't live together.
ReplyDeleteDivorce him
DeleteYou just spoke my mind. He should get me my own apartment n furnish it to my taste;then he can do whatever he likes. If not, marriagez over!!!
DeleteI honestly don't know what I'd do.
Delete@rhoda,,u don finish talk,,,na wen something never happen we,dey get mouth
DeleteI will first ask if he's serious or joking. Because it could be a joke. Afterwards will talk him out of it except the girl in question is pregnant.
DeleteI will slice off his gbola while he sleeps
DeleteWhen I'm married, then will be able to answer this question... I don't want to think about it sef
ReplyDeleteNo problem, but that our house is for me and my kids, he's free to go anywhere with his woman. Then we can never have raw sex again
Delete*Larry was here*
In this our economy, somebody will want to marry another wife on top one? Lord please pick my call na, so my only problem will be whether my wife will allow me marry another wife or not
Deletei will walk away and look for another man to marry.
ReplyDeleteHaaa then I inform him of my intention to marry a second husband. Life no hard
ReplyDeleteTell him exactly what he told you, a second wife for him means a second husband for you
DeleteSince we're Christians, that foolish request will be vehemently denied.
ReplyDeleteamen ooooooo
DeleteHahahahahhahahahahahahahahaha
ReplyDeleteI'll keep laughing to his face and won't say a word. He will wonder why till infinity.
If he still goes ahead, I'll walk away. The best thing a woman can do for herself is to be financially sound.
Even if it's sachet water business, please women do.
love u for this but dont forget,u cant just walk away just like that,i pray such wont happen cuz to walk away,go hard ooo
DeleteI will be like Yippe!!! We will be having a threesome then like every night..We will share her...
ReplyDeletehε δΈΊζ
DeleteWEB, I dey look you in High Definition
DeleteI'll leave mbok,I no fit shout
ReplyDeleteHaa I missed BEP yesterday.Feromi I am sorry what was I thinking? I had an accident and you were there for me but these daughters of Eve will not let me be.Oh my pastor accommodated me and I was fucking that silly girl doggy with my one leg on POP and crutch under my armpit in the pastor's house.Aye mi ti daru. Please I am sorry and please forgive me.it is 4 years now and i know i lost a gem.
ReplyDeleteπ€£π€£π€£
DeleteServe him divorce papers.
ReplyDeleteMarriage has ended niyen... No need to continue. I can't train my kids in a polgampoly home.
ReplyDeleteGbam...no time to check time
DeletePolygamous home I beg your pardon. Auto correct thank you oo
Delete'was born into a polygamous family,,,it has really affected my life and not,praying to put my kids into such.so,annoying
DeleteWell my DH won't say that for it's contrary to our faith. But how dudes go carry their hands pour fuel set am on fire π₯ weak me kpatakpata. One Naija girl na enough trouble naπππ€π₯
ReplyDeleteTwo na double wahala
3 na commotion.
Anything above 3 na katakataπ€π₯π€π₯π€π₯poultry farm
one wife is a real trouble let alone having two,,,cant deal abeg
DeleteI am just here looking at this post with side eyes, I pray it doesn't happen because I have built my world around him with all sincerity, not only is he myloving husband, good father but my everything and he knows how to manage our work and home well, sometimes I feel he has come to this world before,because of how he solve so many things even at work.. The trust is I won't recover easily na to put everything for God hand be the solution for me.
Delete@Pinky
DeleteMbanu!
Prov. 18:22 He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the LORD.
You see, make I yarn you correct yarns. Na one Naija girl be trouble and not one wife inugo?
If you find true Nigerian woman marry, you go enjoy marriage...and na only Jesus fit give that
kind.
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Persin we collect more than on Naija girl put for house, no be obituary be that one?
Ajuju n' ese okwu.
I will ask for his reasons and answer him ok.
ReplyDeleteThen I will go into serious prayers and ask God to scatter the plan and remove the bail that the woman and her village people used to cover his face because knowing the kind of man my hubby is, it is only if he is jazzed that he will think of such.
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DeleteVeil
Deletetanx,,,God bless u
DeletePack my load and pick race.
ReplyDeleteObviously he and the other woman have been on and she probably is pregs or spotting one.
I won't look back, I won't be bitter,i will simply move away for my peace mehn.
As long as he’s cool when i inform him of my plans for a second husband, we good. ✌πΌ
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DeleteLMAO... your comment doesn't disappoint
DeleteReally anybody marrying you needs another wife to smoothen things.
Deletei love pple like u,,,,do me i do u
DeleteLol. But perxy you know it's not possible. You can't do that.
Delete19:32 you 'd marry me too if you had the chance, quit fronting. ππ
DeleteI will congratulate him very well and give him an option of either I move out or he rents another place for his new bride....
ReplyDeleteLife is too short abeg. Zero stress.
I will tell him to go ahead nah
ReplyDeleteWho says I can’t marry a second husband too?
I’m of the opinion that once I’m married,I will respect my husband but mehn I won’t take any shenanigans from any descendants of Adam!
Ghen ghen
DeleteIbukun o! you are mouthed
DeleteMy heart can’t take it. I will take a walk, and never look back.
ReplyDeleteI will yimmu for him. He never reach.
ReplyDeletedont forget say muslim dey marry,more than one oooo except the one wey get,fear of GOD
DeleteOh my God! he dare not try that. First and foremost, I will mention the consequences to him quoting Bible scriptures to back me up. Then if he still wants to go ahead with his plans I have no option than to make sure he won't see any money to perfect his plans.
ReplyDeleteCome to think of it, it is unbeliever that will think of marrying a second wife and I can't marry an unbeliever.
So you are better than the so called unbelievers who marry more than a wife right? Interesting..
Deleteit is well
Delete@Anon, I'm not saying I am better than anyone. If you are a Christian who abides with biblical principles you will know there is punishment for this act.
DeleteI will go knack pigeon on his head sharply, by the time I'm done, he will ask us to re-do our wedding join, no second wife will find her way into my house,she go disappear into sambisa forest ozigbo. Nonsense and ingredients.
ReplyDeleteI won't accept it, mba nu!!
omo agba u be,,,,na to cook eja aro with enough incantation,,he will love u pass him own mama sef
DeleteBigamy is illegal where I live so this conversation could never happen.
ReplyDeletewhere do u live dear?is it in this country or wia.
Deletebigamy does not work only with muslims,,having a second wife is not a prob to them especially the northerners
I will start making preparations for their wedding.
ReplyDeletenwalamba.
With fuel and matches?
DeleteAnd block everywhere fire service can gain entrance from?
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u are a devil in human form,,u go wicked pass herbalist,who was trained by ogunlakaiye
DeleteI’ll definitely locate a mountain and use prayer to scatter such evil. I call it evil biko. A man I suffered with will now eventually think of bringing another woman as second wife, infact it is thunder that will strike that blokos. Utter rubbish.
ReplyDeleteKnack am something. No time. π€£π€£
ReplyDeleteTruth is a lot of you saying no don't really have a choice.In Nigeria, it's a man's world. Ya'all keep saying no but these men (Christian men inclusive) keep marriying more than one wives and keeping multiple cuncubines and mistresses
ReplyDeleteThat is the truth. Some women are even happy to marry a man as sixth wife. Why will the men stop when there are any number of women who are willing to marry an already married man. Worse if the man is wealthy first wife will turn a blind eye and accept her fate as the price she has to pay for living in the lap of luxury.
DeleteHistorically in the human journey polygamy was tested for many hundreds of years and it didn't work out in most cases. It led to a lot of infighting, hatred, and division along family lines, it did more harm than good. Most countries realized it was not a realistic model and made it illegal. I ain't interested in going back in time to try out what is already dead and buried. Good luck to those women who have to live this way.
Our faith doesn't permit that, but if he insist am leaving the marriage, is not me he will kill.
ReplyDeleteis second wife a taboo?
ReplyDeleteOga ooooooo.women are just floating everywhere.we need to help their ministry.
stella.i am a xtain.i hv 3 wives and they are all happy.
ReplyDeleteOf course you are "a xtain" whatever that means.
DeleteSure. You’re definitely not a Christian so nothing do you.
DeleteRide on in your “xtainity”, marry more sef and keep ‘staining’ yourself.
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ReplyDeleteThe truth? I don't know what I will do at that moment. I would go blank. But I know for sure that thunder will fire him.
ReplyDeleteI love this your comment
DeleteLet me read comments
ReplyDeleteI will gladly walk away peacefully..
ReplyDeleteNo time for nonsense..
Divorce him. No need to start quoting scriptures because the fact that he wants to marry another wife shows that he has already sinned against God and has no regards for God's law
ReplyDeleteI would ask him to bring her home,let me see her(with a smile).
ReplyDeleteIf it's TRUE,she would be SORRY.πππππ
Let's the comments start rolling in.
ReplyDeleteHe has started digging his grave bi that
ReplyDeleteAll of you that are saying you will divorce him are lying...some of you won't even say a word especially if the man is wealthy.
ReplyDeleteAnon 19:21 you're indeed a xtian because your comment shows you're a exCHRISTIAN or was never one
ReplyDeleteI will divorce him but agree to co-parent our children amicably. I will never be that woman that a man will sleep with another and come sleep with me too(to my knowledge). That's is why being financially independent should be a pre-requisite to marrying a Naija man and also having the number of kids you only can adequately cater for in case things go south. It is only God that can never disappoint so at any stage of a marriage be fully prepared whilst putting your trust in God.
ReplyDelete,
Second wife kwa,I laugh in spanish
ReplyDeleteOkay let me tell you a story. My mom's friend shared her experience when her husband wanted to take a second wife. She's a Muslim and married her husband when he had nothing then he gained prominence and became a VC in one of the universities. Suddenly, husband of over 30 years discovered he needed a second wife.
ReplyDeleteShe said since the religion permitted it, she didn't argue or complain. She threw herself fully in the wedding preparations, the new bride had just graduated from the university like her last born'so age mate. She was wondering how someone younger than some of her children will become a rival. She embraced the new wife and everyone was amazed at her behaviour.
Wedding day came and everyone got dressed and got to the venue, only for the nikah to start and the bride dressed in her bridal finery to say she's not interested in the marriage. They begged her, cajoled her, she adamantly refused saying the groom was too short and she can't marry a short manπππ. During dating/courtship you didn't know he's too short? When you were getting ready for the ceremony you didn't know? My mom attended the wedding and came back to tell us she has never experienced something like that. The wedding didn't hold and it's been over 10 years now. Needless to say Alhaja is still without rival. She didn't tell us what she did, she just smilled that after all her suffering a girl with "toothpick legs" will swallow her investment, impossible!
I love this and I can't stop laughing.
DeleteThe most Complex
Somebody that is broke will just wake-up one day and say such,hnmm until then.
ReplyDeleteAnd Kenya just legalized it today.
ReplyDeleteDivorce him. I can't share my man
ReplyDeleteThe first phase is denial
ReplyDeleteMy next plan would be like that of the woman mentioned by anon20:55
Divorce him ni. No time to waste time.
ReplyDeleteTrue life story: Hubby told me he wants to try another woman because we have been married for 10yrs without a child. I didn’t argue with him, I said no wahala and we went our separate ways a year ago. Btw, doctors said we are both okay medically.