One man will cheat a million times but if he woman retaliates just once,all hell breaks loose...why is this so?Is there a licence to cheating owned by men alone?
This is just one of men examples that men cant take what they dish out.........
Cheating back on your spouse doesn’t make it okay. It’s no competition.
ReplyDeleteThere are ways you can handle a cheating partner without messing yourself up in the process. No man can make me disrespect and ruin my family name like that.
If you cheat on me and I can’t take it any longer, I walk away honorably.
I still don't understand why men cheat.. If you know you still want to play around then dont get married.
DeleteI was telling a colleague of mine one time we were outside lagos for work he is married but he sees that as an avenue to cheat on his wife...I asked him one day if it was your wife doing this same thing how would you feel....he gave a stupid answer that because he is the man he is prone to cheat why she is the woman cos they are not prone to...I look at him and I shake my head...I told him I wonder when your daughter gets married and she comes reporting her husband to you that he cheats...can you tell her what you just told me...he said when she gets married he would know what to tell her.
That is one of my prayers to God,that I should never have any reason to cheat on my wife... I have never cheated on my girlfriend before se na wife I wan come cheat on..
God just help me oooooo.... Society are now seeing this men cheating as a normal thing which is so wrong.
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DeleteThanks Slutty, I couldn’t agree more.
@slutty love ur comment
DeleteBigbanty, may God bless and keep your home 🙏🏾
DeleteAmen
DeleteFor all I know, it is foolish for any man to contemplate dying, dies, commits suicide or kills himself in reaction to a cheating wife
ReplyDeleteIf a woman cheats on you and you cannot forgive her, then walk away or drive her away as the case may be.
Note that no woman is worth dying for.
A whole death? 😲😲😲
DeleteMen are so dramatic fr
Go through that thread and laugh will finish you
Twitter is so much fun
The adulterous spirit entered that family when that man committed adultery.
ReplyDeleteThat was when the wife contracted it.
People do not know that fornication/adultery is sin against the body. The spirits are transmitted in the body.
Remember what happened to David's family after Bathsheba's episode?
Incest, murder, etc. begin to evolve in his house. He hardly ever recovered from it.
Now a widow and orphans are made and those kids are not spared from this
foolery! What a pity when people flaunt God's laws.
Kindly note that is "Flout".
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DeleteThanks for the correction.
Omg!What a tragedy!
ReplyDeleteWhy then can't I stop laughing?
Kami, why so heartless? 😂
DeleteYou can't stop laughing because the comment is shallow. Comments by deputy jesus.
Deletewell this part of the world we came from give men licence on cheating without blaming them. If a man cheat is the woman's fault, if the woman cheat is the woman's fault. If marriage or relationship end it is the woman's fault, it means the woman should be God so that she can be perfect and control everything in life. I wonder why men will never be blame for their mistake or cheating habit.
ReplyDeleteI see women on social media put up pictures of ladies that had an affairs with their husbands and yet the pictures of their husband are not included. I get angry because they are all supporting their cheating husbands.
To me if a man cheat i delete you right away, weather you are my husband or not i will walk away from that marriage.
Exactly, blame culture and society that make men think its OK.
DeleteWell, its a Man's world, but women rule the roost that's why when a woman cheats, the man can commit murder, infact there will be an earthquake n tsunami combined 😂😂
ReplyDeleteHe that kills does not allow machete at his back.
ReplyDeleteSome killers do not allow when someone knots his hands backwards. Serial killers are the most frightened of mankind. Scared of death.
For me but it may sound very funny and awkward, but if women feels they also have a right or want to cheat, they can start from asking the man out, paying for dates and gifts, paying his groom price and taking over responsibilities in the home. I don't think her husband will have any right to dare her to bring another man into her life. Just my sarcastic opinion.
ReplyDeletebut you know that some women have already done that, if women do it more those men hardly respect and treat them right. you have also given men reason they should cheat, shame.
Deletewomen do all this and more
DeleteTimes have changed
Women buy gifts
women pay for dates
some women are fighting for the abolition of bride price
Women control businesses and empires now it has absolutely nothing to do with economic power
Brother welcome to the year 2019
Humans will cheat irrespective of gender either male or female.
Na only God-control wey fit hold the 2019 woman
It does sound funny and awkward truely.
DeleteLolzzz..Men are not really smart cause they always leave a trail but a woman is more calculative...
ReplyDelete👌
DeleteMen can't take what they dish out to women.
ReplyDeleteWomen are emotionally stronger then men.
I agree. Women are emotionally stronger
DeleteSo he was heartbroken! Chai! Well as for me, if I cheat and my wife doesn’t catch me and my wife cheats and I catch her, if she begs me and shows she is remorseful, I will definitely forgive her! Afterall I ain’t no saint!
ReplyDeleteKelvin Dat Edo Boi (Stellz Cousin)
Way to go, Kelvin. 👏👏
DeleteStory 😁😁...each time u mount her, you will imagine her moaning under d other man n wonder if she had an orgasm or if he came inside...pls I'm hungry🏃🏃🏃
DeleteBb exactly that's just the way it is, the thought no easy a beg
Deletetalk is cheap @ Kelvin Dat Edo Boi whan the right time comes you will be the one to cry. If you and your man are together and another guy place a call across to you and you both speak, just don't sile cos once you smile your bf will conclude that you both are sleeping with each other and from there relationship is over not to talk of cheating
DeleteYou will start imagining how she moaned, how the man sucked her big bress, how many styles she did.its not easy for men to forgive.
DeleteTypical red pill/blue pill logic.
ReplyDeleteMen always trying to convince themselves that when they cheat, it means nothing because it's in their nature bullshit. If man dem are out here screwing other women then it should also be in their nature to take being cheated on like a champ.
There's no convoluted excuse why women should put up with shitty behaviors from men but when women display same shitty behavior, it's 20x worse. Miss me with the BS.
Cheating is wrong on both genders,
That whole "men can cheat and women can't" narrative is nonsense. Just stay single if you can't be faithful.
yaaaas!
DeleteIts strange cos l was discussing this with my sis in law this morning. A man will cheat for aeons of years and it will be overlooked. The woman steps out once and all hell is let loose. My cousin is a victim of this. Husband cheated from day 1 of marriage. No one was left out: friends, schoolmates, house helps etc. He finally sent her packing. She then met someone and started seeing him. Husband man monitors her, gets evidence and runs back to the family to shout adultery. They are still separated. Over 7 years now. Both are waiting the other to go and file for divorce. First two kids are in the us schooling. Nigerian relationships so one sided. Everything favouring the man.
ReplyDeleteI have been married for a long time now. My husband cheated from the word go. Thou very coded but i always found out. Prayed , did everything , anything you could think of..always stylishly brought it up but no big confrontation. Few years ago i had a breakdown and ended up in a mental institution. Invested too much in my marriage and business and could not just walk away..started to build myself financially and when i meet someone i like i cheat. I am very sure the day he finds out he will collapse and i really dont care as even the person i cheat with people close to me know him..judginas you are Welcome with your comments.as for me i am good.
Delete7 years of separation is enough to get an easy divorce. They don't want to be divorced. Nonsense and waiting
DeleteStella in some communities if a man's wife cheats, the man may loose his life. Nobody has monopoly to cheat and I don't blame some women for cheating, wrong as it is but some men deserve to be cheated on.
ReplyDeleteI pray for God to give me the grace not to be adulterous, I can't come and go and adultery to my list of sins abeg
Don't mind men,their own jealousy won pass God own when nhm d jealous say u worship another god.that's why I will never worship any other god beside obiniigwe
ReplyDeleteWhen what is good for the goose is not good for the gander. smh
ReplyDeleteFirst to do no dey pain oo...
ReplyDeleteMet a married man who said he doesn't sleep with married women because he can't stand it if his wife cheats with another man. once he finds out you is married he stops all communication. He sleeps with young unmarried girls tho. He was asking me out to be his mistress exclusively... I told him if we start he won't be allowed to carry other girls he laughed and said won't that make me a fool. That even the wife can swear with her life that he's loyal to her but see him now begging me for a relationship.
ReplyDeleteHe once told me his level now in carrying girls had reached the one where with one phone call five girls will run down and strip for him doing all sort to please him. He's wealthy sha but the wife like he said is currently a fool who thinks her husband is a Saint. If you hear them on phone you go pity the wife. Well, we never happened.
That man is depraved and sick... this one has passed cheating, he has fallen into sexual depravity. I pity the wife who is inheriting all sorts of demons from him. Ihe nwanyi n'anu. Tufia!
DeleteIf only men know that they aren't the only ones licensed to cheat and that for every man who cheats on his wife, there is an 80% chance she is cheating on him too. As you dey drill another person wife or daughter whilst married, na so them go dey drill yours too
ReplyDeleteMen are not gear to absorb some much like women are. Women are stronger emotionally, they easily fall in love,forgives and fall out of love too. But men cant even fall in love easly like that and we they do they cant forgive when the relationship go south. So when the women cheat on them it like a burden that they can't bear. They break or do the craziest thing.
ReplyDeletemost of you are just senseless. He probably died because he had health issues that were not induced by the cheating wife. Why should any rational man be disturbed by the actions of a cheating wife. If you can't take it, kick her out .
ReplyDeletethe use of the word kick looool. Rest oga.
DeleteYou cheat, your cup of tea.But know you can never insert that ...inside me again. I will be kind enough to live under the same room as spouse because of the kids only and to save his face. He is free to move out or remain and die slowly.
ReplyDeleteShocking how everybody is a saint on this post 😀....if my husband cheats on me and i catch him....hahahaha..i will fuck without caution....he kuku knows what i am capable of ...no long story
ReplyDeleteIf you cheat, I will cheat back. No one has Monopoly of cheating.
ReplyDeleteA guy I know married a really quiet and beautiful girl but could not stop cheating. He was really, really bad and would go for days without even coming home. Then the wife decided to cheat. She found the richest guy she could and flaunted her affair left, right and centre. Her husband was shocked beyond belief and threatened all sorts but she was not moved. las las they resolved their issues and he never as far as we know cheated again.
ReplyDeletelolzzz what a good bad butch,nigga couldn't take it
DeleteLol.
ReplyDeleteStella, this topic deserve a very long answer. It's not something I can summarize cos I have to touch a lot of corners. Had a long day,just coming online since morning to catch up.. Maybe some other time tho, but this isn't over yet.
By the way, women cheat more than men. From the personal experience and research by "someone I know".
Dante
And, actually it's women that can't take what they dish out... On a good day, this discussion would come up again when I have spare time. Don't worry. We dey here, we no run.. all these false analogy had to stop ☺☺
ReplyDeleteDante
why do I think I know you
DeleteAnugo?
Bitter truth is that a good number of married and unmarried BVS have cheated on their spouses in the past, currently cheating or contemplating cheating in the future. Myself inclusive.
ReplyDeleteMen that cheats have cheating or potential cheating wives too. They either cheat emotionally or sexually. Cheating has a transferable spirit.
ReplyDeleteHummmmm they think when they cheat d woman will be happy nd forgive just like that. Believe me d women do cheat back.but coded. I work in an hotel I've seen a lot
ReplyDeleteNd dat is what I will do.do me and do u man no go vex
Hummmmm they think when they cheat d woman will be happy nd forgive just like that. Believe me d women do cheat back.but coded. I work in an hotel I've seen a lot
ReplyDeleteNd dat is what I will do.do me and do u man no go vex