walejana#ManSunday
The feedback from my post yesterday was overwhelming, many women reached out to me and lamented about how they stayed with a man who had nothing and when money came, he dumped them for another woman.
This morning I am sharing tips on how to know if a man loves you and I am using @davidoofficial and @thechefchi as case studies.
1. He spends money: The proof of love is the willingness to give. We all know how Davido is constantly buying bags, watches, jewelry for Chioma. He lavishes on her endlessly and men are like that when they love a woman. If I see a woman wear a weaveon or carry a bag my wife doesn't have before that month is over, my wife must have it. Even when I didn't have much I would send her 10k out of my 100k salary every month. To a man, if he loves you, he will spend money on you lavishly and recklessly. Be a smart woman learn to receive it and enjoy it don't say "haa you should have given me the money 🙄"
2. He spends time: Chioma and Davido spend a lot of time together even with his busy schedule. My favourite place in the world is my house, I will rather be around my family than anywhere else.
3. He NAMES you: Davido has always called Chioma his wife. What a man calls you is important. Ladies don't assume you are dating o, ask him "what are we doing? Who am I to you?" A man can have "friends with benefits", "my guy", "trophy babe" and "a wife" you NEED to know who you are to him.
4. He shows you off: If your man is social media savvy, he is always on Instagram and posts pictures a lot but he has never posted yours there's something fishy. When a man is proud of his woman, he shows her off, you see Chioma in Davido's videos and he even calls her out on concerts just to kiss her 😍
5. You always make up: Regardless of how crazy things get, both of you always make up. Dating a celebrity like Davido could be crazy but he won't let her go and now they are getting married.
3. He NAMES you: Davido has always called Chioma his wife. What a man calls you is important. Ladies don't assume you are dating o, ask him "what are we doing? Who am I to you?" A man can have "friends with benefits", "my guy", "trophy babe" and "a wife" you NEED to know who you are to him.
4. He shows you off: If your man is social media savvy, he is always on Instagram and posts pictures a lot but he has never posted yours there's something fishy. When a man is proud of his woman, he shows her off, you see Chioma in Davido's videos and he even calls her out on concerts just to kiss her 😍
5. You always make up: Regardless of how crazy things get, both of you always make up. Dating a celebrity like Davido could be crazy but he won't let her go and now they are getting married.
If your man ticks these boxes you are on the right track, if he ticks between 3 and 4 he is still good but 2 and below? You need to ask some questions.
Ladies shine your eyes, may they not use beard gang and baritone voice to frustrate your destiny.
*Saturday and Sunday in house gists will return next Saturday and Sunday.....
All he said is very true
ReplyDeleteno.3 & 4 are not that true.
Deletejust 10% true
Accurate... He says he love me alleluhia! 😊
ReplyDeleteFunny Enough my bf doesn't do any of this kia
ReplyDeleteIs not by this o. People show love differently.
DeleteDon't let anyone tell you it's not by this, aunty it's by this cus when someone really loves you he doesn't calculate, he just does things to prove his love. How can he not do any of this and he says he love you?
DeleteMy dear forget what's written up there. Love has no format and can't be calculated. People express love differently, just understand who you are with.
DeletePls it is not by this! Why must he buy weave on or bag for his wife because someone else has it. That is olojukokoro. This Wale guy comes across as someone very desperate for social media attention. People have different love languages, hence they show love in different ways.
DeleteI have been happily married for 11 years and trust me its not by noise making.
Davido is a musician with a fantastic personality. Do not compare your relationship with his lest you have a headache. Just do you and be happy.
It’s not by all of these but if he doesn’t spend time with you and doesn’t acknowledge/ show you off then you are in a relationship with you and yourself.
Delete16:52 very hungry for SM attention. Lousy thing. He should shift abeg. So all of us who dont have men with these tendencies, so what should we do? If a man calls you 'babe' its okay. No one should call me 'my wife's or 'wifey' if we haven't married. Dont come and block my path for nothing.
DeleteThe rest are normal things in a relationship. Who wont spend time nd money on a babe he likes, or reconcile with her after an argument? Those are normal things even among family and friend love.
It's amazing how many stupid adults are in Nigeria, so you really think this union is time stamped by God and it'll be heavily ever after. Blinded by riches. God match makes so does Satan.
DeleteThey've been fcking each other all this while living in fornication and yall think this is a blessed union.
Big joke
Trillion dollar wedding won't sustain this union unless they repent. God is no fool
You should get a prize for this comment.thumbs up
DeleteWill it still count as love if he cheats on her while married? Do you really think Nigerian big men don’t do these and more for their wives yet have mistresses all over the world? There’s no manual to love and marriage o.
ReplyDeleteBrad and Angelina failed
Some top religious leaders failed
Charly boy and his wife are still standing
Pray for God’s mercy on everything that concerns you and do your best.
14:10, end of.
DeleteI had a good laugh after reading the post. I was about to type my response when I read through yours.
This institution called marriage really has no manual. Another school of thought will tell you based on their own experiences that when man puts in too much effort to show how much he loves you, then he is definitely cheating on you! Or she's cheating on him!
There's really no list of what and how to get it right. Do your best, be pure of heart and PRAY, PRAY, PRAY.
Valid points raised here. A man who truly loves his woman often gift her things without her even asking. He spend quality time with her and is also protective. He entrust things to her as a better half to be and more also a real man will never hurt his woman feelings and will always make up if he does. He's proud of her at all time even in her flaws.
ReplyDeleteAnd what if he is unable to get her gifts due to financial contraints? Love and gifts go hand in hand?
Delete@TeeJay
DeleteIf your sister is one of this guy's baby mama, will you be praising valid points raised?
@SluttyChic, before a man start dating a woman he must have a means of livelihood. Financial constraints mustn't be all the time and beside a gift could be anything. It mustn't be that expensive. Most little things means a lot to genuine women when it's done from the heart. I remember when I bought pads in roll for my then friend, I know how happy she was. She can actually afford double of it but she was so happy about the gesture.
Delete@ Anon 14:22, that isn't the point of discussion here. Beside if my sister becomes a babymama, it doesn't make her less a woman or change the narrative above.
@TeeJay, I agree that a man should have a means of livelihood before he thinks of dating. But what is paining me is now adding love to the mix. If you cannot love me with my poverty, please what kind of love do you have for me? How does a woman show love? By receiving gifts and money?
DeleteIMHO, the moment the pre-condition of money is set, forget any talk of love. It is now chop your own and when I’m tired it’s bye bye.
Yesterday we read of a woman depriving her husband of love and affection because of no money. She can’t wait to leave his poverty-stricken ass, but will want to die there if he was loses, but you think men are blind?
@TeeJay
Deletehas seen truth and is running away for anon.14:22
Is it by gifts? I abhor gifts. My love language is attention. I hate luxury... My prayer is for us women to end up with men that love and appreciate us. Simple! P.s I am married
DeleteRambo, lets be realistic here. True love needs money, gift and affection from both parties to survive. No woman will walk into a poverty stricken relationship with their two eyes wide open even if they are that desperate. Its not an issue of being materialistic but they need a guarantee of a better tomorrow.
DeleteYes a woman also must have what to bring to the table as well and mustn't be all dependent. I can understand for an average man with a good prospect but for a man without anything going into relationship isn't the best for him at the moment. You must find yourself and feet before finding a woman.
@Rambo, don't be poverty-stricken ooo!
DeleteHow would you buy deodorant and perfumes for yourself?
You need money for personal hygiene. Body-odour is a turn-off! It repels love. 🤣
Lol. Anon18:10, is it not a turn off if a woman can’t afford deodorant herself? Isn’t that deep poverty?
DeleteTeeJay, you’re missing my point. I have absolutely no qualms with the idea of having money before thinking of having a love interest, but let’s not call it love when conditions, especially minimum financial conditions are attached.
I can say he has some valid points..
ReplyDeleteIt's true
ReplyDeleteForget that thing
ReplyDeleteDid he not buy bags, watches, show off all those baby mamas?
Davido is not the yardstick to measure love
He had disappointed ladies in the past. You only know of two.
There are a lot.
So stop all these please.
I wish them all the best in their intended marriage
but the damage to the lives of these women had been done!
Valid points raised
DeleteThe women enabled the damage cuz they saw money and celebrity. He might have loved them or probably just having a fling but the pregnancies could have been avoided but your dear sisters were thinking that being a baby mama to a celebrity is an automatic meal ticket for life. Some people have no shame nor dignity these days. Smh!
DeleteAn apt response @Anony 15:18.
DeletePeople should let David breathe! These ladies wanted to get pregnant and they did!
A woman knows her cycle and how to avoid unwanted pregnancy.
Why get pregnant for a guy who hasn't wed you regardless of what he promised you? Why allow him eat your cake and have it?
Some women get to keep their cake, the pregnancy and the man but many get left in the lurch.
Ladies, raise your standards and guys will become gentlemen.
Chi gambled it as well
DeleteShe could have so easily become a babymama
Davido is standard less and incredibly fickle
Abeg what damage to what women? The first one was a rock star groupie, she didn’t have any education or a job and wanted to force herself on him, even used her uncle dele ovation to threaten him. It didn’t work. He accepted the child and loved and lavished her. The 2nd babymama, beautiful educated lady in Yankee. She knew what she was getting into, especially going by the experience of previous BM. But she too leave child. I doubt he promised her anything. It is this Chioma girl that had driven him crazy right from day one. He always expressed it, made it clear this was his best friend and woman. She too get belle, he quickly did the needful, send high powered delegation to her family. She closed the deal the minute they set eyes on each other. When you meet your partner, you will know. There is no science or complexity to it. His lavishing gifts on her, is you share whatever you have or can afford with your real person. That is his soul mate. How can he buy a Rolex and his better half will not have one too? Don’t you know he had accepted a long time ago she is part of “him”. Even if he was poor, if he can afford a wrap of Eba, he will leave half for her too. That my friends is love. Sharing things and experiences.
DeleteDamage what?? Its the mumu women who allowed themselves be damaged that I blame. They were thinking they would be his meal ticket for life. Baba now disappointed them they are crying.
DeleteYour head has oil.
ReplyDeleteLIES!!!!!
ReplyDeleteA man can do all that and youre the side chick.
The amazing sex or material benefits will keep him doing all listed and more. Yimu
Thank you. Most side chicks are enjoying this including the showing off on social media.
DeleteThank you o
Delete@YLE
DeleteGod bless you.
any lady lady that believe all that can believe any nonsense.
it is only a man that knows who he truly want.
Loud it
DeleteIt just means he married the wrong woman and the SC is his true soul mate. But he already has a wife...question is will the SC stay to enjoy this or would she move on and find another man instead of wasting her life waiting for a divorce that would never happen?
DeleteA man can love you and still side chicks....I am not going by the above points but still when you love a guy, you love with everything you own and spending on her won't be a task
DeleteIF THE LADY THAT WROTE THIS THING IS ONE OF DAVIDO'S BABY MAMAS,
ReplyDeleteWILL SHE SPEW THAT THING THERE?
OR MAYBE HER SISTER IS ONE?
Lady dey get wife? You dey shout on top matter wey you no comprehend
DeleteThe truth is, if my daughter made the choices that Chioma made, I would've disowned her!
ReplyDeleteChioma reeks of low self-esteem, just like Annie. Honestly the days of teaching women to "wait" and "endure" are over. Aren't women deserving of good, faithful men who will not disrespect them by openly having children with other women? Or Chioma doesn't think she's worthy of good and HONEST men? Only God knows the number of STDs she's been managing. No daughter of mine will make her education come second to a man-child like this! As women, education is more beneficial to us than men are and that is the truth. If during courtship, he had two kids with two different women, what makes you think he will respect you during marriage? That's if the marriage even comes on, with how immature Davido seems.
Anyway, a man who truly loves you will never publicly disrespect you like this. Let's learn to stop rationalizing and stop settling (and this also goes to the young ladies who opened their legs for him to impregnate them).
Well said.
DeleteNo decent girl will want to be associated with davido....
Thank you!!! I made a comment echoing your exact sentiments. Can’t seem to find it.
DeleteIvannah
What you call disrespectf they call love because of shoes and bags, smh.
DeleteIt is Chioma’s parents that I am so ashamed for.Their daughter abandoned school,completely relocated into her boyfriend’s house and started following the guy up and down all over the world,becoming the female member of the 30billion gang.She most likely smokes weed too.If not for David’s Pedigree,would they ordinarily have allowed such? They made fame and money their lord and closed eyes to their daughter’s waywardness.
DeleteChioma is not a specimen of a disciplined,focused child but I congratulate her on getting the ring.Hope it gives her joy and bliss.
By the way,I am not a hater.I love David so much,even with his baggage of weaknesses,cos I see some good sides to him,but it doesn’t mean I won’t speak the truth when need be.
Get the record straight! I get the education part but not everyone will go to school so calm down.
DeleteIn terms of him getting other girls pregnant I don’t think they were dating during those times. The relationship was Ona me off and he eventually saw that she was the woman that suited him more than the rest.
Chioma is a lucky girl and David is lucky to have her too cos she’s not stupid even though she might look it. I strongly feel the spirit of David’s mother is following him and she guided him to make the best choices in terms of career and marriage. It’s now up to him to do the rest, build a happy stable home with Chioma, the love of his life.
Honestly speaking there are not enough honest and faithful men to go around so let’s also keep that in mind. Some women really don’t mind the cheating as long as they are number one. We are all different and measure success and happiness with different yardsticks.
Mother spirit ko mother ghost ni, most men wife the dumb one who will stay to take all shit they have to offer, only low self esteem will a man have two babies while dating you will still stay, how low can our standard be as women, please we have better couples who we will use a role model, not annie or chioma
DeleteChop kisses😚😚😚😚
DeleteThere are no perfect human beings. Only God is perfect. Davido is a fine young man stop condemning him. Unlike some guys that will have asked their babes to abort the pregnancies.
DeleteMay their marriage last in Jesus name. I love Chioma and her parents did a good job in raising her.
Anon 16; 18; If you are married to a man with many women in his life, what makes you number 1? Is it the ring or the "wife" title? LOL you haven't heard of stories where the side chick is better known and benefiting more than the so called "legally wedded wife," abi? Stories where the mistress and her kids inherited all the wealth and the "legal wife" and her "legal kids" got nothing? Please oh! The "wife" title NEVER guarantees that you're #1. And also, how is Chioma lucky? What exactly has she gained that she couldn't have gotten before him? An expensive diamond ring? Bags? Shoes? Trips? I mean, if you think goods that will go out of style are worth your self-respect, dignity and the peace that comes with being married to a responsible man, more power to you. I agree with Anon 14; 29, education will benefit most women way more than a cheating man will. BTW, you sound like one of the pick mes you described. Because it's only a pick me that will say "there are not enough faithful men around." Faithfulness is a choice. If we as women hold men to higher standards and stop accepting dregs, more men WILL make the effort to be faithful. People say white men treat their women better than African men, why is that? It's not because white men have two heads oh! It's because for years, their women have held them to higher standards. They have been socialized to do better and they do! Whereas we African women have coddled men into thinking the barest minimum is enough.
Delete@Anonymous 16:18 I pray you are not a lady because if you are, it is finished. Seriously, mother's spirit following him up and down, but that spirit never warned him about safe sex, wetin Musa no go read for sdk blog, not every one will go to school, but She was in school, what stops her from completing her degree, or didn't She want to empower herself but looking up to him for sustainance all her life, is this what you want for her, the way people think at times
DeleteLife is not as ideal as we might like it to be. What works for one may not work for another. The funny side of life is when those who we think shouldn't make it, do and those who we are sure would make it because they have all their Is dotted and Ts crossed, don't. I believe in grace.
Delete@15:30 disowning a child or calling Chioma wayward or saying she has low self-esteem does not mean her life might not turn out better than the life of a good girl.
DeleteThat's the irony of life.
(I have seen this play out time and again)
Davido got two ladies pregnant because they were willing to be unwed mothers for their own reasons.
(It is still a lady that Davido and Tu Baba would marry - coincendentally, none of their babymamas).
These are young people growing up and making mistakes along the way. That does not mean they are the worst people.
Whatever made Chioma leave her education and go with Davido is obviously not known to us but it's keeping them together.
Chioma could always go back to complete her education.
Sometimes young people in love do crazy things. Their parents might have tried but not all children would toe that straight-line of parental guidance.
In such cases, they draw them close and love them through all the exuberance and turbulence of their youth.
No parent wants to lose a child to the vagaries of the world.
Now that Davido has proposed to Chioma, why are some people still so mad at them?
18:51, Annie was a baby mama before marriage. What are you saying? Chioma is heavily pregnant before marriage. Are you living in rewind?
Delete@Broomstick why so upset?
DeleteYes, Annie was a baby mama anch Chioma pregnant before marriage. The difference is that the men in their lives chose to be with them instead of the other baby mamas. Why? It's because they love them.
It's not the ideal way but they are making the best of it.
It's arguable that not all marriages that follow the ideal process work out best.
Life is unpredictable.
We need to learn to forgive people their mistakes or not living up to our expectations. In many ways, we also fail and fall short of expectations. Why crucify these people?
Chioma, Davido, Annie, Tu Baba need a rest from all you Pharisees.
Story for the gods. Different strokes for different folks.
ReplyDeleteHe is correct!
ReplyDeleteMen consistently endeavor to dazzle ladies they really love.
A man who is smitten with you will be consitent. He calls when he says he will. His action coordinates his words.
He compliments you and you know it's authentic. Not your body but rather your insight, the manner in which your nose twist up when you grin or the way you smack your lips. He loves your quirk and your weirdness
He recalls each and every subtleties even the insignificant ones.
He remembers every little details even the unimportant ones.
He doesn't make you feel bad for feeling a particular way nor does He try to make you feel guilty for it. He also makes excuses for you.
He doesn't pressure you to do what you aren't comfortable with,for he is okay moving at your pace. He does this to prove himself worthy of you.
He goes all out for you. From talking about his feelings to making plans ahead. Constantly checking on you in a bid to remind you to keep a spot for him in your heart.
Well you simply know.
I like your points better if he had written this up there☝i would have agreed sef but he is not 100% correct biko if the man doesn't have money to buy gift does that mean he doesn't love his grilfriend or if he doesn't do pda. Using davido and china to talk about how love should be is somehow
Delete16:43 I understand.
DeleteMy comment was in support of his statement only in relation to instances I had come across. I am not keen on his point of reference either. Hence why I drew from experiences around me also, not just going alone by what we are being bolstered with in terms of what love should be from the web.
People will call me a hater but if it’s Chioma and Davido you’re using as a reference point for love something must be fundamentally wrong with you. I’m not even going to read the article.
ReplyDeleteWhat is love without value and respect? A man that sleeps with everything and everyone available (sometimes even rumored to be unwilling), even when people know he’s in a relationship does not value/respect you in the least bit. I mean, this is a man that when he goes for concerts and tours part of his terms is babes for knacks. A woman that agrees to marry a man that is promiscuous does not value/respect herself in the least bit.
When people celebrate this relationship I shake my head. Chioma is not from a poor home so what exactly did she win? The attention of a superstar? Davido is the true winner because the hype from his romance has helped him get his long awaited simba, sell music and keep his name on people’s lips.
Like I said I’m open to being called a hater and other names but if this mess is what we’re using as a reference point for love, something must be fundamentally wrong with us.
And for all who say all men cheat or it rains everywhere, please spare me your consolation story. You can use it to make yourself happy in your messy relationships but some of us can call bullshit when we see it.
Ivannah
You are not a hater. You stated the obvious truth.
DeleteAgain I say thank you!!!!!! Their story is NOT close to being a yardstick for measuring love at all.
DeleteJealousy jealousy
DeleteI don't care, I don't care 🎼🎶🎵🎸🎤
DeleteGbas gbos
DeleteGbam
God bless you Ivanah.
DeleteDear women,please dont dump a good man who really loves you if he fails to do one of these things above.
ReplyDeleteA man can love his woman so dearly that he would protect her by keeping her away from even his own people.
Using Davido and chioma as an example ruined this write up!
this is the total opposite of my ex boyfriend
ReplyDeleteDavido is still way better than alooooooooooooottt of men. 🚶🏽♀️🚶🏽♀️🚶🏽♀️🚶♂️
DeleteSo on point👌.but where can I see such a Paragon?
ReplyDeleteSadly, Davido will still cheat on Chioma. I guess the end goal for anyone following this list is just to get the ring.
ReplyDeleteAnd you know this because?
DeleteSadly your partner is also cheating on you 14;44.
DeleteWhat are you going to do about yours?
And the davido fckd till he impregnated 3 ladies.
ReplyDeleteDon't use him as case study. There are a few other celeb men who did not blatantly embarrasstheir partners.
Use them as case study not davido
Give give give. What does a woman bring them? How can you love all these women when their legs no dey stay one place? A typical Nigerian girl has atleast 3 boyfriends. So it is better to play the devil's advocate and be just a partner in enjoyment. I can't be washing while others be driving.
ReplyDeleteValid points, but it doesn't guarantee a lasting relationship/union. Some started with those and more but where are they today. No relationship or marriage should be used as a standard.
ReplyDeleteWell well well
ReplyDeleteRubbish nonsense. Do all these to a Nigeria girl and you'll have yourself to blame. They'll come here to deny and insult me but deep down in their mind they know I'm saying the truth. Wale is only playing to the gallery to win women's heart cos women are good business.
ReplyDeleteDante
Buying gifts and spending on woman arecwomen's ideas of love, but very far from the truth.
ReplyDeleteIn my relationship with my wife, I didn't know how much I loved her until I had to leave her (she was then a girl friend) in Nigeria and travelled to America.
I cried through the eight hour journey from Murtala Muhammad Airport to School in Amsterdam, Holland.
I refused to eat onboard. And throughout the nine hour period of transit in Holland, I was so hungry but could not stop crying. I did not eat in Holland.
From Holland to New York took about nine hours, I managed to eat but still cried throughout the trip.
In America, I made attempts thrice to bring her over but to no avail.
I did not go on dates in America. Not once.
I did not do arrangee marriage for residence permit - to hell with green or yellow card.
Eventually, I packed my loads and relocated to Nigeria to marry my friend, my lover, my backbone, my encourager, my motivator and well wisher in 2004 after living apart for nine and a half years.
I have been tempted several times, but God's grace has been my saving grace.
Recently, a childhood friend
showed up and I fell in love with her. I got distracted and fought hard for heart with serious prayers.
God simply told me to cut off communications with her. It helped a little, but what actually delivered me was a confession of love interests, not cheating, to my wife.
She advised me to be careful.
So what is my point?
Love is hard to measure in/with tangibles.
A man who truly loves a woman will not think of cheating on her.
I cannot and will never cross boundaries drink from another cistern.
My wife is enough for me.
You are a good person and you really know what true love is.
DeleteMay God continue to uphold your marriage sir. 👏👏👏👌
DeleteYour first line is total nonsense. You know why? You generalised. Bye
Delete@Broomstick, take a chill. You are embittered. It's not that serious.
DeleteGod bless you.
DeleteThanks for sharing. But you are a cry baby sha 😂
Delete16:23 if rejecting what he wrote because I'm not like that is being embittered, then I'm glad I'm that kind of embittered. Someone is saying that women's idea of love is getting gifts and you're calling me embittered. You're probably like that, so I don't blame you
DeleteChoi! Man that will be crying...
Deleteso my boyfriend doesn't spend money(guy is not rich, he's trying), doesn't name me(he loves my name, pet name is secondary) and doesn't show me off on social media (always introduces me properly to his family members and friends)... so he doesn't love me??? Tell me something
ReplyDeleteThe way people use Davido and Chioma as a yardstick when talking about love is really funny. Like Davido that had two kids while in a relationship with chioma abi another one? What's love without respect,abi is money now the new love
ReplyDeleteMoney and fame that's all..Nigerian girls worship money and Instagram followers and likes.That's why they marry and send chronicles.
DeleteI bet you id she was pregnant with a girl child he wouldn't wife her, dont tell me Davido never loved sophie or the other side chick, most likely he will still be sleeping with mama hailey anyway ladies close ya legs we are already at disadvantaged position
DeleteA man can do all these and still not love you
ReplyDeleteThank you poo his points are too superficial and rigid.
DeleteThank you ooo his points are too superficial and rigid.
DeleteStella,you are WRONG. There is no template for love. A man can do all that and still use a lady and dump her.Tell wat a man can't do to get between cookies? he can even abuse his mother. most ladies become Lord of the ring today cos they told guys you must engage me to get all of me and guys gave them ring and eat the cookies as they like and when they are done,guys dump that them. And who tell you davido will not impregnate another woman,let's keep finger crossed. na here we dey
ReplyDeleteTrue there are other ways to know. More subtle ways I like some points have read up there
ReplyDeleteNot entirely true. A guy can call you his wife, his friends will ad "our wife" to it and more and still look the other way. Na today?
ReplyDeleteFriends are the worst! 😂
DeleteNo 3 is not always true ...the rest I concur.....My Joe is da best
ReplyDeleteA lady doesn't even need to expect the man to give
ReplyDeleteher money in the first place, common sense
should tell the guy he should give her without
asking!!!! I hate when guys try justifying stinginess
to their women!!
Kaii we have suffered with this David’s and Chioma engagement Even street journalists don turn love expert
ReplyDeleteWow, the many responses of ladies on this topic is rather instructive and refreshing. Naija women are the real deal o, bar none. Kai, I wanna be like OPRAH: the one and only woman who can buy her own handbags, jewelry plus mansions and estates. Then CHOOSE a man of her own and untop of that, refuse marriage as defined by society bcos she knows herself too well. Talk about a powerful woman turning the table on its head. Thanks Ms. Oprah.
ReplyDeleteAll these panadol for a billionaire’s son’s love life and his new woman wey God don bless to enter rich family with bouncing baby boy. Na wa o!
ReplyDeleteMy dear...This may not all be entirely true...Some times Men are looking for something in a woman and once he sees it, he will want to marry you quickly because he does not want another man to be smart enough to take you away..I must tell you any man who marries after dating 5 years or more, is because he could not find what he was looking for so he settled for what he already has and most times such unions do not always stand the test of time..
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