NARRATIVE 1
CONFRONT OR NOT
One smallie is getting comfortable with my dogband, they are obviously shagging, all his call logs is full of her calls and it’s scary. Does she not know he is married? I have been monitoring them for a while now and I see she is loving up.
I even had series of dreams where he had impregnated her and I was always angry in my dream, this disturbing dreams is making me worried. I’dont want to confront hubby about it coz he is a liar!
I feel like calling or texting this girl but I’m also thinking it will look like I am descending so low, but another part of me really feel like I should call her to order especially because of the repeated pregnancy dreams. Pls advice me BVs......
Hmmmmm you might get really insulting for attempting a confrontation....why dont you let hings unfold?No use worrinying over what you dreamt and using it to cause chaos....huh?
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NARRATIVE 2
IN LOVE WITH ROYALTY
please I need your advice. There's this guy I love so much, he's a Prince and doing very well for himself and I'm from a very poor background.
He doesn't know that I love him though I'm working very hard stand well before showing my interest(which I don't know if it's right tho). It's being 7 years already and now he's getting married. I have been down since and I'm considering calling him to just tell him that I've loved him and I still do, may be that way my heart will be at rest.
I know it may not change a thing on his part but I just think I should pour my heart out to him.
Please guys what do you think?
Dont tell him anything,forget him and move on...If you do tell him,you might give him a reason to toy with your heart and body!
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NARRATIVE 3
THE MASQUARADE
I always dreamt that masqurade or a mad man is chasing me in my dream but my late Mum will apear to block the masqurade from hitting me while at times its my age Grand Ma (she is alive) that used to block him from hitting me. It use to be so scary.... And it used to occur more often, infact time without number.
The last masqurade that chased me in my dream was just 4days ago and that same dream repeated itself again tonight. Today own was so scary, the first dream today was a female spirit that want to possess me but i fired her with prayer, the battle was lenghty for over an hour, to the extend that i woke up to met myself reciting the same prayer verse i used to fought the lady in the dream. I was so weak that i could not even lifted up my hands to wake my hubby that slept by my side.
It was after this first battle in the dream with spirit, i slept back again and that was when the masqurade dream started. I noticed whenever am suspecting myself to be Pregnant is when the masqurade and mad man will start chasing me in my dream. pls what does that mean?
I Am TTCING...
Na wah...Are you sure you dont magine these things?
@poster 3. You are under serious demonic attack
ReplyDeleteIt is either an issue with your foundation or witchcraft probably from your mother's house, but you will overcome. Pray mfm prayers. They really work. Do it at midnight and also fast along. You can do the prayers yourself, you don't need to go to any pastor. Get any of the books, it could be prayer rain or woman thou art loosed.
Poster 1:
DeleteI was in your exact same shoes last year
If you know your husband is a habitual liar its NO USE CONFRONTING HIM OR THE GIRL
Here's what I did:
My husbands cheating ways changed me to a mean hard woman
I married naïve virginic and trusting and he would cheat blatantly without a care in the world
The first thing I did was discreetly share the girls telephone number to my family driver alongside 20k for drinks
The mandate was to make sure men keep caling her number and requesting for her nudes 24-7 on whatsapp ...shared her insta and fb handles
The nudes she sent to him were equally distributed to all these guys ...NA SO FIGHT START!!!
Me I just dey one corner dey watch 2 of them!
3 can play the game
Anonymous 16:27 I love you scatter!!!!!
DeletePoster 3 if u snore and u wake up gasping for breathe then u might have sleep apnea. It just means that while asleep you have moments when u run out of breath n ur subconscious interprets those moments like something is chasing you. See an ENT or ur Gp for a check up to be done to determine y u snore n then treat it so DAT u can sleep soundly again
DeletePoster 3 please seek for spiritual help. I was trying to have a baby and every month I’ll dream of a man coming to have sex with me. Sometimes it appeared like my husband. I always wake up to see my period or knowing that my period will surely come that month. I was so embarrassed I couldn’t tell anyone. I never had such dreams even as a single lady then suddenly after my first baby the same thing every month while I was believing for my next child.
DeleteI got vexed in my spirit one day and started declaring the word of God to my body and my husband’s body. I attended a program in Christ Embassy and when the pastor called for the sick I went out. I told myself I’m not ill or anything but the hands of anointing the man of God will lay on me will break any yoke that’s responsible for this situation. A week after this happened, I had the dream again and I remember telling the man, I’m already pregnant. I called a brother who had earlier prayed with me concerning my heart desire and he told me that I shouldn’t be moved and even if I see my period I should believe I’ll have my baby in 9 months. A week later my period didn’t show and that was it. I was pregnant.
Please find the promises of God concerning children in the scriptures and make war with them. Don’t take it lying low.
🤣😂 @16:27
Delete@No 1
ReplyDeleteIf you call him a dogband, they you are probably a bitch because dogs marry dogs. They are not like humans who rape animals. You will not see a dog crave for a goat.
If the above is not the case, then
sit down and tell your husband your
mind and findings instead of peddling suspicions and feeding your mind with
mistrusts.
Are u sure you are not the husband? Poster 1 come and see ooo, he is here.
DeleteThat poster 2 sef.So if you call him and tell him,so he should leave his fiance to come and date/marry you.some girls are funny oh.All these while you didn't tell him.It is now you want to tell him.He won't love you ar marry you my dear.In this part of the world telling a man such thing is just settling yourself up,especially if the feeling is not mutual.Stop watching Korean movies and SeaWorld,this is the real world.If a man loves you or want you,nothing on the surface of this earth can stop him from telling you and marrying you,unless you as a girl no want.
Delete@ anon 17.39... kiikikkikiki... you guys wont kee person here! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteToday's chronicle pattern sweet.
ReplyDeletePoster 1: confront your dogband.
Poster 2: find someone else.
Poster 3: Go for deliverance and do midnight prayer.
@narrative 1: Don’t call the lady
ReplyDelete@narrative 2:Follow Stella advice,don't tell him
@narrative 3:Pray Pray Pray.
Narrative(poster) 3,you need serious deliverance prayers. The masquerade are ancestral spirit blocking your conception. God sometimes uses our dreams to reveal things to us. Dont take it lightly. Pray yourself free and testimonies shall be your lot in Jesus name. Amen
ReplyDeletePoster one, face your husband and leave the girl alone, if you can't confront your husband, that's your fucking problem. You have no right to call the girl unless you're ready to be insulted.
ReplyDeleteThat No 2 (Naija sisi)
ReplyDelete😯😯😯😯😯😯😯
Seven years, and you were probably rejecting suitors?
Abeg no carry ya nyansh scatter wetin God don join together o.
If the man no dey disciplined/godly, your kind fit "drag in and fork" like the other desperate girl we read in one of the chronicles the other day.
Please seek God for your own husband and above all for eternal life inugo?
Judgemental swine
Delete@17:18
DeleteYou call a human created in the image of God a swine and you are bothered about judgment?
Poster 1, in all you do, DO NOT confront that girl. Your husband is the one you have issues with, not her.
ReplyDeleteIf she’s the type that doesn’t care and you confront her, she’d go all out on you and tell you stuff you might never recover from.
Deal with your husband madam.
Poster 2, what do you mean by you want to call him and tell him you have always loved him? He doesn’t need that information dear. Kill whatever feelings you have for him and move on just like he is about to do.
I know how you feel, trust me, it’s not worth it.
Dont mind her..she wants to see if she can fcuk him to change his mind..mtsheww na dem
DeleteNarrative 2...that ship has sailed, don't be a sucker or you think he'll back track? Sorry!
ReplyDeleteNarrative 1...DAT girl knows your man is married, 98% don't care.
Leave narrative 1 let her disgrace herself. Oga wants to eat his cake and have it..next chic, he would save her name as Thomas Mechanic and you will be thinking you have driven side chics away.
Deletevery true..my dogband saved his side chic as peter and i usually pass his phone to him to pick the calls unknowingly to me it was a female not until i hacked his phone my mouth went wide...
Deletemay the next generation of mothers do well by the kind of men they raise
Deleteraise good sons and do away with this generation of dogs
Today own pass my power.
ReplyDelete@ Number 3:
ReplyDeleteIt is time to chase those masquerades.
These are spirits from the realm of death. See 1 Samuel 28.
How do you chase them?
Begin to fast and pray daily (drinking a lot of water) for like a month and praying in the nights for at least one hour (sing praises to God, pray, meditate on the Scriptures) -Matthew 26:40.
Take it up from there. But learn to live a life of fasting afterwards, like thrice a week. Jesus will set you free, You will chase them and be free indeed.
3 in 1 chronicle
ReplyDeleteIst chronicle.. talk to your hubby and leave the girl out of it
2nd chronicle... let him go since he is getting married, your own Prince Charming will find you
3rd chronicle.. don’t know what to say but I’ll advise you pray more and go for deliverance
Thanks for your good heart and prayers.
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Poster one:
ReplyDeleteYoure here askin questions, confront the bitch ASAP... shes trespassing, you deal with both sides, its your union shes shitting on, shes disrespecting your home & threatening it with potential diseases, and ure here asking questions... deal with outside & inside threats, thats how u do it... politely or violently, thats ur choosin, i cant tell you how to pick your weapon in a war.
Poster 2: Keep walking !
If he had the slightest feelings for you, you'd have known, youve been dying in silence for toooo long, keep it that way.
Thanks dear, I will not only walk, I will run. Thanks a bunch.
DeletePoster 2: if he was from a poor home, will you be soooooo in love with him???
ReplyDeleteYou are a BIG GOLD DIGGER!!! It's annoying
Poster 1..... if the girl is a small girl, chances are that she's a student and still staying with her parents. Right? If so, please get their number and tell them to caution their daughter since she might not know he's married. Send them the messages as proof. Don't go calling the girl, that's low and she might insult you.
ReplyDeletePoster 2.... please don't tell him anything. Tell yourself your own prince charming will come. Some people are evil, if you reveal that to him and he's one, he will use you.
Poster 2 is d one that is evil here! It's toO annoying mbok.. she never told him for 7 fuckn years, now he's about getting married,you feel it's right to tell him??? U are toooO WICKED!!
DeleteAnd u will NEVER MAKE HEAVEN!!😡😡
Thanks dear @anonymous.
Delete@unknown there's no evil intent, I promise. Thanks for your admonition.
Poster 1 you should confront your husband with your facts, find a way to screen munch his chat with her, involve family members. Tell him about the dream you had first and ask him if he is cheating, I know he will never agree to cheating. From there you show him your findings, do it before the lady get pregnant. Is very possible your husband told her he is single, be wise.
ReplyDeletePoster 2 you want me to give you an e-slap? What is wrong with you? You have been in love with a guy for seven years you never said anything to him, now he want to marry you are trying to break them up. Repent sister before thunder with destroy you. Put your self in that lady's shoe how will feel if he dump you for another woman.
Poster 3 you need prayer and deliverance. You need to watch those you talk to about missing your period. If you miss your period do not talk to anyone including your husband, keep it to your self first and see how it goes.
Omo the slap enter o. Thanks for this piece.
DeletePoster2
I used to dream of masquerade chasing me like almost every week.. I really don't knw the meaning of that dream.i told one of my friend she said in some village that means pregnancy but there own is snake, when u dream of snake chasing u that means pregnancy.
ReplyDeleteMadam crush, pls move on and don't bring urself too low.
Such a village has probably been surrendered to a fertility deity that has operates as a snake in the realm of the spirit. Dont accept such as your norm.
DeleteNARRATIVE 2 ÷ So after calling him what will happen, will you be his sidechic or will he abandon his bride and marry you. Baby girl that guy don't even notice you talk less of loving you the way you love him pls move on love will find you someday.
ReplyDeleteThanks dear. I appreciate
DeleteIt looks like Stella some bv on your blog are given good advice especially poster2 : you want the prince to leave another woman for you or you want to turn into baby mama ,put yourself in her shoe? I have always been saying the greatest problem of women in relationship are not yoruba demons,nor wife materials nor economic consideration but women themselves anyway I won't blame you ,you want good life why not call on God like jabeez did and not look to another person's husband
ReplyDeleteI am a woman but I concluded not too long ago that some women are the cause of the problem/problems in the world. From my personal experience at the workplace a few months ago. I couldn't sleep well at night and when I woke up o arrived at that conclusion and decided to avoid such women. N.a. wa
DeleteI didn't call anymore. Thanks for this piece.
DeletePoster2
Poster one confront your husband nao
ReplyDeleteYou can't confront your husband but you want to confront the girl.
You don't want to confront your husband cos he's a liar......yinmu
"Does she not know he is married?"
Does your husband not know that he is a married man?
May God settle your marriage.
Poster 2 :Seven years? God will give you your life partner too. I'm sure you'll open your eyes and give chance to other toasters now that he's getting married.
Poster 3:Prayer is the key,don't get tired.
Always pray against those bad dreams and believe they can't harm you.
Lol @ "Does your husband not k ow hes married " Stupid men everywhere
DeleteAmen. Poster2 saying thanks for your prayers and advice.
DeletePoster two, move on
ReplyDeleteI just did. Thanks Don
DeleteYou pray with scriptures. U have to remove fear when going to bed bcos the devil knows when u r afraid. I have been a victim and since I got wind of it. I don't stay angry,sad or afraid when going to bed. There are bible confessions that affirm your stand in christ. Repeat them. The bible says who ever the son of man has set free is free indeed. Sorry to say, it is easier to fight when you are a Pentecostal than if u r catholic or other religion because we r thought at the early stage our rights as believers. Sorry if this offends anyone
ReplyDeleteThanks very much ma'am i truly appreciate you for posting my story... I am poster No 3, and its not imagination. I have been battling with the masqurade and the lunatic dream for long but just that my Late Mum or my Grand mother do appear in my dream to rescued me. But the two does'nt come for the rescue mission at the same time. Its either my mum comes or my GMum. I have been praying, i cant to bed without praying in the night no matter how tired i am.
ReplyDeleteBut what surprise me most was woken up to see my self reciting the same prayer verse i used to concour the battle in my dream.
Thanks very much to all bvs for ur contributions, God bless you all.
You have to continue to ground yourself in the Scriptures. Victory is yours in Jesus name Amen.
Delete- 2 Corinthians 10:3-5
- Ephesians 1:18-23
My dear, you have a faulty foundation. Your fore father must have dedicated you all to the shrine and some one somewhere is servicing that shrine that is working agaibst you. They are pursuing you because you all have not sacrificed to it. If your maternal uncle or aunty or anyonr in the family, find out what you guys were dedicated to. Just look for a strong bible believing church where they wull help you in defeating this. Most parents dont like to tell the truth.
DeleteBe strong in prayers ooo n
Thank you @Yori yori. Clear case of faulty foundation. I dont know why she is still confused.
DeleteNormally, you shouldn't even be seeing a dead person in your dreams - mother, best friend, sibling, NONE. Them for you to recite in the dream and wake up to it, that means it's not an ordinary dream. Forget these people telling you 'imagination'. LIFE IS SPIRITUAL!! Since you cant go the witchcraft route, please fight firmly from the Jesus route. The problem with us Christian's is that our religion encourages love so we take things liberally. An idol worshipper won't see a bad dream and take it for granted; (s)he will take it up in so many ways until it phases out.
Poster 3 you are fine. Change the way your sleep and the dreams will stop.
ReplyDeletePoster two is not happy because she must have turned down a lot of suitors, please stay away from the prince, take your love and keep it intact for your future be love and don't ever feel bad about your decisions, poster 1 ; never you confront the girl, if you can't speak to your husband then you keep quiet because it takes two to tangle, poster 3 ; be more prayerful and nothing 'll hinder you from carry your beautiful babies. Goodluck to posters!
ReplyDeleteThanks madam koin-koin. From poster2😘😘
DeleteTTC: dreams are signs of an overactive imagination. Dont let the ttc make you so anxious that u get ill. i allowed anxiety and unmet expectations, make me very ill now am battling on so many fronts.
ReplyDeletePrince: Everyone went through the crush phase, live prince alone, deliberately take time to be friendly, cnsierate, great personality, go for events,socialise more, my point is leave prince alone and focus on your own interesting life journey
dogsband: the situation get as e be, but ur actions may make the smallie seem so desirable to your partner, (forbidden love tinz ) but at least now you know. focus on your children (if any) take very good care of yourself, health is truly wealth, and AGGRESSIVELY start saving money!
introduce condoms for now if he asks why, use style to ask him about other girls, even discuss how STI and STD are destroying families..
Thanks dear. I'm poster2 and I appreciate.
DeleteAww, you sound so sweet, dont worry, a handsome, successful, nurturing, God fearing mam was created for you. He will find you.
Deletekeep up your sweet nature
Madam with a cheating husband,if you have her number kindly call and explain things to her and also get her own side of the story,most times this men pretend they are single..if she stops seeing him good but if she doesn't there are very many ways to treat a stubborn fly... light fire in their camps,sit and watch the flames burn them down.
ReplyDeleteAll u saying don't talk to the girls no vex,world is wicked if you know the length most of this girls go to get a man notice them,you will guard wats yours jealously.i can't come and drag a home I built from the scratch with a stranger.
Most of them are fetish,so it's better you calmly talk and settle it up peacefully if that's what they want but if otherwise flush Dem out.cage the dog of a husband help him chop all his money,invest in yourself and your kids selfishly while at it.
If the man is a serial cheat how many do you want to address or fight. It is best to address your husband so he can change his cheating ways. Afterall he is the one that made a commitment to you.
DeleteRead the last sentence of anon
DeletePoster 1, you should confront your husband. Let him know you know what he is up to and he should put an end.
ReplyDeletePoster 2 please leave the guy alone. Are you expecting him to leave this woman he is getting married to for you? You only want to let him know you are inlove with him because you found out he is getting married to another lady. Why didn't you tell him all these years? He will just end up sleeping with you and going back to his wife. Better stay away from him because it won't end well.
Poster 3, you need to be more prayerful and also do some fasting. You will carry your baby.
Poster2 saying thank you😘😘
Delete1. Confront your husband
ReplyDelete2. Infatuation and love are two different things. If he could not notice you in seven whole years why do you think he will notice you just as he is about to tie the knot? If he was attracted to you and had any feelings at all for you he would have expressed them because that is what men do. Nothing will stop a man who really wants a woman. Let your infatuation go, wish him well in his new marriage and the man that is for you will come. God only knows how many decent men you allowed to pass you by because of this unholy infatuation and obsession with this one. Never waste time 'loving' a man who has shown no interest in you. NEVER!
3. You fear being a mother. Until you can get over your fear of motherhood you will not conceive. I am not sure what is driving your fear of motherhood, perhaps you feel you will fail, something bad will happen or you have some resentment towards your husband. Please do the inner work to see why you have such strong and dark emotions around having a child. When you let that go you will be able to conceive.
I'm poster2 and I agree with you. I was just clouded with emotions when I got to know he's getting marred. Thanks dear.
Deleteposter 1,side chick is normal for we men.dont kill ursef
ReplyDeleteMtcheeewwww
DeleteHahahaha you are just a foolish man. I pray your wife get her own side piece and let's see how it goes
Delete@poster 1 - please join the VERY LONG line of delusional wives who will take rubbish from their dogbands and be fighting the one they didnt make a vow with. I stopped advicing some of you married women on this blog about handling side chicks, because once a person doesn't get entrapped in your emotional naivity "She is a side-chic". Oh pls!!! Tame your dog or leave his sorry cheating ass. LEAVE THE GIRL ALONE!! She never took you to the altar, she doesn't know you, she owes you nothing. Trouble the one who is breaking a covenant. That's how you people keep yourselves low everytime fighting side chics. Cant wait to get married and show y'all how it's done. No miserable SOB will turn me to a mad woman on the street. I will make the house unbearably hot for him, and if he wants to walk, FINE!! He can take his cheating a** to the next one.
ReplyDelete@poster 2 - my dear, my mum says: as you keep your slippers, na so person go wear am. You're not the first person to have feelings for man. If he didnt notice you, he doesn't have feelings for you. The worst mistake you will make is going to tell him how you feel, cos I promise you that you are so irrelevant to that guy. NEVER EVER love a guy more that he loves you, okay?? I don't care if you are rich or poor, you deserve someone who will ask "how high" when you say "jump". A man should be the one chasing you, or (if he is the shy type) giving you green light to make a move. If he has done neither, leave him to go where his heart is. You will be just fine 👌🏽
@Poster 3 - it seems there is an ancestral spirit on your matter. It comes from your grandmother, to your mother and is now trying to attack you. If you are a Christian, your prayers are holding it back from having it's full effect in your life but because there might be a convenant, it is creeping in. Maybe your mums death is part of the plot. Bottom line is, You need deliverance - especially as you're TTC. Now, note that such deliverance can go really nasty I.e. the person responsible for the entry into the family could die.
The bible says, if the foundations be destroyed what shall the righteous do? Answer: the righteous can take action and rebuild the foundations. So, take a fast - say 3 days. Talk to your pastor (if you have one) and have him/her pray over you. Alternatively, join a prayer/deliverance/intercessors group in church and let them know what the dreams are. While at it, go and have a sit-down with your grandmother. Tell her your dreams, and respectably ask her to tell you what she might know. Ask her very very well. If she knows and is honest, she will give you information to use as prayer ammunition. But, if she isnt honest or doesn't know then you need to pray as the Spirit leads.
Now, you also need to pray on your own between the 3rd and 4th watch (google this). Use Psalm 91, Isa. 49 (esp. 24-26), isa. 43. Ask the Holy Spirit to reveal more things to you as you go along. Chances are, you will experience more warfare as you begin these prayers and more (as you are led) but dont relent. It just means you are shaking something up in the realm of the spirit.
Also, get on youtube and watch videos from Perry Stone on demonic oppression. Also watch videos from Erica Mukisa who was bewitched by her grandmother. You will not only understand how demons operate, but you may be able to connect dots in your own life and know how to channel prayers. Goodluck!!
Chikito thank you. I hold my husband responsible for anything I consider disrespectful to my marriage. Wetin concern me with outsider?
DeleteChikito thanks a lot dear, I'm poster2 and I appreciate this. 😘😘
Delete@ Chikito the seer I hail o. inukwa ancestral spirit from the grandmother lol
ReplyDeleteYou obviously don't know jack!! You dont know that some of our forefathers establish convenants with deities to protect them in those days. And those deities still trouble some generations after, if they havent been properly dealt with, spiritually? Please wallow in your ignorance quietly and leave those of us who have seen and unseen to deliver.
DeletePoster 1: You must confront your husband. First sit down and write down all your points since you know he lies and would likely try to twist your words. Also be ready to make a decision if he dares you. Many men do not like accountability, and will rebuff your attempts, if he threatens to walk, you too be ready to walk. And please believe your man is NOT using condoms with this girl, so you now have to think are you ok to leaving your life in the hands of this girl and hope she doesn't sleep around too?
ReplyDeletePoster 2. Watch Africa Magic Epic, lots of poor girl falls in love with the prince stories there, you can get advice for this Nollywood film you are writing.
Poster 3: You sound extremely anxious. Many will say spiritual attack, but I recommend a therapist too. Pray and takee care of your mental health too
I'm poster2 and this your reply funny die😂😂😂I'm rolling on the floor right now. Thanks anyways.
DeleteThanks mummy Stelz for the advice. I'm poster number 2. I'm glad I sent it here, just needed someone to talk sense into me. Thank you so much ma.
ReplyDeleteBVs, I appreciate your suggestions and admonitions.
To someone asking if I would love him if he isn't a Prince, my dear, I never even knew he was a prince until later that was more reason I didn't even let him know cos I don't want to be a gold digger.
All in all, thanks everyone.
You are such a sweet person and the respectful manner you responded to everyone. Just be calm, God is preparing your very own man for you, he will be better than what you expected.
DeletePoster 3:Download apostle Joshua Selman messages,on spiritual intelligence and the mystery of deliverance,listen to the audios from 11:45pm,redeicate your life to christ,annoint yourself before going to bed and read your bible first and last thing befor going to bed.Poster 3, nothing pass God
ReplyDeleteposter 3 I think you should check yourself just maybe there is something you are not doing right I mean "sin".
ReplyDeletethere was a time I kept having this dream where I bath naked outside with people around, I kept on praying until somehow I was able to link it to the fact that I watch porn. since I stopped watching porn more than a year now I have not had that dream.