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Dear Stella


We should really be mindful of the kind of friends we keep. I try my best to keep an open mind with people and though presently i have recoiled into my shell because of diverse hurtful experiences with so called friends in life.


I had a very close friend who was from a broken home. She would visit me and my mother did well to treat us as twins though our parents never met but we attended the same school.


She was a girl who liked to live on the high roads and would seldom wear a different look once outside the doors of her home. It took a long while before i actually realised the flashy life she began to live was not from her boyfriend or as a result of tips from her siblings.


I found out she kept numerous strings of 'sugar daddies'. I began wondering if this act was an effect of not having a father figure in her life.


I never shared my displeasure with her lifestyle, I simply asked her to beware of HIV/AIDS. It was not long after that, my parents had a huge fallout. I lost one of them in the process and the other moved on to remarry (I and bestie became even)


Fastforward to years later and she decided to date a young man who had the intents of settling with her but was unaware of her sexcapades. She would usually use my place as an excuse whenever she was on her runs without even informing me ahead of time. She knew her boyfriend had no way of contacting me to confirm.


I did well to keep her secrets secret even when she misbehaves i just take the maturity road calmly.


I did a project for a company and unknown to me, her elder brother worked there. He was the first to recognise me and we got talking. He mentioned how it had been years he last saw me and all.


We had lunch and soon i realised since i was not in a relationship, there's nothing wrong with having one with my best friends brother.
I was elated and told my best friend about my interest hoping she would help pave way and be happy for me.


I was suprised when she said I was not her brother's type!

She categorically said her brother likes ladies with massive backside and boobs. I know genetically that was impossible for me to achieve except through surgery which was out of the question!


I got to work the next day and her brother was even nicer in every way possible.

She was at my house with her spare keys and she saw her brother drop me off. I got upstairs and she was fumimg terribly asking if i had started 'seducing' her brother with my skinny bones. She opened her phone and showed me pictures of a voluptuous lady on instagram and said that was her brother's girlfriend. She said though they have issues but always come back together because her brother is addicted to the kind of wild sex she gives him. She made remarks on the lady's banging body.


I ignored her and she left in the morning without a word.

I checked her brother's instagram handle and did not see any picture of the lady. I went on to check his birthday post the previous year and saw how he thanked and tagged her for a cake she made for him.


There was a day her brother asked to visit me and wanted to know if i cared for pizza and what flavour of icecream i wanted. I wasn't expecting her at my place that night and she showed up. We three shared the chops while she took the larger part of everything.

I left two slices of pizza in my fridge and by morning when i returned from jogging, she had microwaved them and eaten.
I was so furious and she said 'how much is pizza'!.

She did not show up at my place for a long while and I was not bothered.


Honestly, I began to feel imperfect for her brother as the girl's image kept flashing in my head. He was so nice to me and never got physical or s#xual with me in any way.He had not asked me to be his woman and considering the disapproval from his younger sister, I saw no point in nurturing the friendship.


I am still unmarried while my friend recently got engaged to her young boo without inviting me. Her brother stays in touch with me but i maintain cordial relationship from a distance.

Be careful of friends!!!

*Hmmm i really dont know what to say....why keep such friends?