STANF ALONE NARRATIVE
CONFUSED ABOUT LIL SIS' SOURCE OF WEALTH..
Good day Stella!
Good day Stella!
I urgently need your red pen and your advice. I would appreciate if you post this as your Chronicle today. So I was helping my younger sister install something on her phone and mistakenly saw her bank details.
My younger sister of 23 has about 1.2 million naira in her account. This is a girl who works in a private company in Lekki and earns 50k monthly.
Her transportation expenses takes about 20k monthly and most times she's left with 30k. My dad even said nobody should ask money from her till she finds a better job. I don't know how she got this kind of cash and don't know if I should inform our parents.
I'm not a snitchy brother and I wouldn't want cause issues but I'm confused and I don't know what to do. Please advise me!
*You want to tell your parents for what?leave your sister alone please,it is none of your business how she got the money and the amount is not even much sef.....
So you dont have any money in your account?
Drink water and mind your business
ReplyDeleteNow let me go and finish reading.
Maybe Invictus Obi's siblings drank water and minded their business and that's why their whole family is suffering the shame and permanent damage to their reputation 🤔🤔🤔
DeleteThere is nothing like "...mind his own business"
DeleteA lot of you in his shoes will ask questions
Supposing this girl is a collaborator of kidnappers, robbers or ritualists?
This morning we read about the actor whose brother is indicted for fraud in
the USA. Should the actor have minded his own business instead of asking his
younger brother of the source of his wealth?
It is only among Nigerians that asking questions is equivalent to "not minding
ones business or judgment".
It's a pity! What a shame!
I am really worried on how we think and our double standard at times.
DeleteI feel he should have a word with his sister because, she’s saving or spending above what she earns.
We shouldn’t wait until she is implicated by her yahoo boyfriend before we blame him for keeping quiet. Just a word with his sister to be sure that the money is pure is not a bad idea.
If tomorrow someone implicates her now, the same stella here and other people will ask what he did when he noticed such amount in her account. Don’t involve parents but sit her down and ask her.
is like we have two-faced people on this blog. I can't believe these comments here. if this guy had come here to report that her sister is dead and was living lavishing even when her take home pay was less than 30k after transport expenses and she was killed in a hotel by unknown guys. I'm sure everyone will have blamed this guy and even the family for not finding out the source of her wealth.
Deletesomeone is saying there's something fishy about her little sis source of money and most comments are saying mind your business.
Bros please call out your little sis and let your parents know your little discovery, I bet you, you might just be quenching an inferno very early.
look out Nino, the actor that his brother scam people, now nobody is talking about the brother who is actually the fraud but Nino's name is all over the place. Don't allow your little sis soiled the name of your family over little porridge.
SDK nahhhhhhh he should be worried, guy pls use style to ask her, ask her with Love o o not like suspecting her, and maybe the money she told u guyz us not exactly what she is earning or she have a suggie/ dude that ain't stingy and i guess she isn't the extravagant type as well
DeleteAt times I SMH for Stella’s red pen
DeleteVery bad advice u gave up there.
She has a sugar daddy in lekki simple. She Don tear eye finish. Confront her n hear. She definitely won't want u to tell ur parents
DeleteAsk her about it!
DeleteHe should be worried in my own opinion. I disagree with you Stella. Hey bro! please do your best to know how she got that money to avoid future stories
ReplyDeleteWhich future story? Her sister is a 23 years old woman for Pete's sake. People should start moving out at least by 20 from home, so family members wont be treating a grownup woman like a baby.
DeleteMay be, she lied about salary to avoid begi begi. Did u see her employment letter where the salary stated
DeleteI agree he has to sit her down and ask her
DeleteSometimes when the heavens want to save you from yourself they expose you to someone one that can help you stop what you’re doing. I know most are saying say nothing bc they think she’s doing runs. But what if she’s stealing or scamming and they people are almost on to her but if her brother stops her they won’t catch her
What will you now say about me? 23 with over 19 million naira in fixed deposit, over 7,000 dollars in cash. I didn’t steal it sha! I got my first job at 21 (federal job in the finance sector) I was into catering while in school for two years and my boo is loaded .. so I save from all angles!
DeleteGo n hustle so another person account balance won't give you HBP.
ReplyDeleteTelling your parents won't deplete it anyway unless ya planning to start feeling entitled.
Well said blackberry... No mind this Hunkle wey won die on top younger sister account balance. Wetin carry ur eyes go there, why do u want to tell your parents? For your father to say no one should ask her for money simply means you people are poor and ready to depend on her if she makes it. And her salary may be above 50k and not want you people to be aware so you don't milk her dry..... Smart move your sister made, go and make your own millions bro.
DeleteAunty drink water and mind your business. Haba
ReplyDeleteHe should ask his sister o, this "mind your business "attitude have gotten alot of people killed without their parents knowing what led to their deaths
DeleteDear bro, ask her, but don't do it in an authoritative manner rather be her friend.
Stella which one it is not his business? Isn’t there a post on this blog or Ninilowa alongside his brother? Do you think if she gets into trouble, her family would be spared from the shame or disgrace.
ReplyDeleteMy brother, call her and question her very well about it. I can’t imagine my senior one’s “minding their business” when it concerns my safety. If she’s not forthcoming with tangible explanation then loop your parents in biko. Anyone heard any body bearing Anini? Na so entire family name go get wiped off because of one bad egg.
Gbam!
DeleteThat's the right thing to do, Ask questions now to avoid unnecessary drama or regrets tomorrow.
This horrible trend of minding one's business is just not cool, that's why so many people are unshamelessly involved in all manner of fraud and fraudulent activities, everyone is 'playing blindness' and minding their business!
No more holding anyone accountable for everything!
So because he(the brother) doesn't have such an amount yet in his account, he shouldn't be worried??
Please let's apply wisdom and understanding when making our views known.
Brother, leave your sister alone. It's her boyfriend that is giving her money. If your 23yr old sister no get boyfriend wey dey give her money you no go dey worried?
ReplyDeleteI would be worried if my sister is comfortable accepting monetary gifts from people.
DeleteHmmmm boyfriend or glucose guardian? Regardless, he should ask. If there was no need to be worried, he would be. She is his sister not a neighbor or friend.
Delete*wouldn't
DeleteDoppelganger which one is glucose guardian again?
DeleteThank you o doppelganger. Which one is mind your business? When she's not an outsider! What if she's doing something illegal?
DeleteLet her say it with her own mouth that the money is coming from a boyfriend.
DeleteThis nonsense talk about minding one's business should stop already.
So because she's 23 years she doesn't have to say how the amount flew into her account??
Hmmmmmmmmmmm!
I am truly learning so much nowadays!
A concerned brother 👊🏿
ReplyDeleteYou don’t have to tell your parents anything.
Talk to her and ask how she got all that money considering her job doesn’t pay well.
It could be she’s helping someone save some of it, could also be her boyfriend is doing well and he takes care of her needs.
But in all, just call her aside and ask her.
Agbaya Oshi..Lazy boy you see 1 million you dey hala.. have u bothered asking for if she is running any business.. how old are you sef..you are so immature...
ReplyDeleteA business the family doesn’t know about? Person go dey go office work still get side business wey dey generate 1m and the effort to run the business no go dey obvious?
DeleteIf na my sister I go ask am make I know where she get the money. If she no tell me na she sabi. Every mallam with him kettle. But I won’t be snitching. My own be say person wey for get 1m hide am no be small person again. Whether from a good or bad source, they are able to handle themselves. And nothing after that but to wish them good luck in their endeavors.
Are you for real @what else bitch? I doubt you have caring siblings if not you won't say this rubbish. You are actually the one sounding immature because.
DeleteSee how insultive you are. I won't be surprised where you came from
DeleteYou dey mind this mumu brother? ordinary one million you dey hala… Babe is unto big things. Make she siddon dey folo u they shine teeth naim you want? very soon now, u go start to go meet her to borrow you money, oniranu jati jati.
DeleteInsulting
DeleteHow about asking her how she got the money. I understand how you feel, you don't want anything bad happening to her. Please ask her and if she doesn't give you any convincing answer, report her to your parents before she falls into trouble.
ReplyDeleteAsk her how she got the money, which money bikonu? how much are we talking about here, na 100m?? Abeg bro. Give her your CV let her help u get a job, before u stay at home jobless and repairing phones for people..
DeleteTelling your parents is a no no.
ReplyDeleteBut your concern is commendable.
Openly confronting her about it too, would seem like you snooped, and she would start hiding...
I will suggest occasionally, you sit her down to advice her. About living godly, avoiding friends who are into runs, the consequences of living a bad life, etc.
Then keep praying for her to overcome such temptation.
Exactly! Well said!
DeleteJust subtle hints dont attack her!
How do you know it’s runs? It’s worrisome, yes. But women too know how to make money without laying on their back. She may have a side hustle and doesn’t want to share her money seeing as her dad already insist no one ask her for money out of her measly 50k, she may be working for/as a money laundry syndicate, or she may have a boyfriend. When we make all these assertions about every woman possibly sleeping with a man for money, jt bites you too
DeleteAnon 15: 28. I gave several things he should talk about
Delete"I will suggest occasionally, you sit her down to advice her. About living godly, avoiding friends who are into runs, the consequences of living a bad life, etc."
And added etc. How comes you jumped every other phrase and sentence and red only runs?
hahahahahaha
ReplyDeletePoster e bi like say her aza large pass your own and the thing shock you.... Lmao
you cam dan, drink water and mind a business that will pay you.
Drink water over such an outrageous amount in your lil sisters account?
DeleteYouve never been sensible Chike, this ur comment dsnt surprise me.
Maybe she has been saving for a very long time. Please she's an adult allow her.
ReplyDelete...maybe somwone entrusted it to her care for safe keeping. Did you even ask her? You want to run to your parents.... you think that would help? Lets assume its runs money, you think reporting her will stop it? She'd just up her game.
ReplyDeleteStella can make someone laugh enn..hahahahha..I just think he is being concerned for his sis tho. Poster do not tell your parents. Since it bothers you, you can ask her... It can even be for someone else self. I have three accounts. One of those account the money there belongs to my brother. He is keeping it there. He stays in another state and moves around. Not a dime in that account is mine. So poster do not jump to conclusions.
ReplyDeleteFunny reading you wanna tell your parents.
ReplyDeleteAbeg abeg free her Jor.
But if you wanna ask her fine but involving your parents is a no no for me.
I would lovingly talk to her.... it may just be the wake up call she needs. Don’t forget to let her know that the real money she needs is the one she makes herself. Discuss with her, legitimate ways to make money and let her know that money does not mean success. All the best. Be your Sister’s keeper....
ReplyDeleteYou already assumed it’s runs derived. It could very well be, but you never know. It could even be fraud. It could be sports betting.
DeleteI simply don’t believe it’s a side business because to generate that sort of revenue on the side, you have to be OBVIOUSLY engaged. People go see say you dey do extra work.
As a mummy GO that u is now, you already know how she got d money... You're even worse than the brother sef. Please keep ur opinion to yourself, no be everything wey stella post person must comment. There're a million and one factors that could make her have that money. Her salary may not be 50k, could be keeping d money for someone, maybe they are even doing a cooperative in d office and she's d treasurer. A lot of factors mummy GO. Everything no be asewo, fuck, prostitution biko..
DeleteYour guess is as good as mine🤣 🤣 🤣
ReplyDeleteBut I kid, I kid
Before you jump into any (erroneous) conclusion, why don't you ask her first? It might not be what we are thinking.
Imagine saying "my dad says no one should ask her for money until she starts working"..See entitlement mentality. This is how u all will finish this girl if she finds a proper job. She knows the kind of entitlement family she has,so she is probably saving for when u all start asking her for money. No shame. Leave that woman alone, and give and find your own 1.2 million. She is not a child.
ReplyDeleteGo...
DeleteAnon 15:16. You dont have sense.
DeleteIs it today that fortunate people have been helping their siblings? If nobody in your family gives to their less fortunate siblings that’s your problem. And the fact that their father has laid down that instruction shows they have wisdom in their home
DeleteCarry your Onugbu mentality and face your own family abeg
She’s living in the house. He might just mean she doesn’t need to contribute till she makes good money
DeletePoster, Your sis is following a man probably a much older big daddy. Na so life just be. If I had that amount I won't be typing this right now on this blog lol😂
ReplyDeleteStella he should leave her alone, then next we will be reading here that she died in a hotel? poster don't involve your parent but call her aside and ask her how she got the money, if she into runs believe me you will know
ReplyDeletemust everything be linked to runs? I can assure you d brother must have snooped her fone and found nothing incriminating apart from that balance. Madam, no one is dying in Hotel u hear. he should found out subtly how she got d money and mind his business. she's not a baby.
DeleteA fine girl once served in my company in 2017. She told me our oga had sent her over 1.5m and she did not open for him. I knew the latter was a lie
ReplyDeleteJesus Christ! Stella, how can you say it's not his business where someone who earns basic salary got an amount of money that doesn't make sense? I'm sure this is how Invictus started! Till he landed on the cover of Forbes talking of money he didn't have an explanation for. Tomorrow we'll criticise governors and others, while at the same time accusing people of envy when they mention certain things! On this same blog where we're shouting that people shouldn't be moved by Instagram lifestyle cos women do unthinkable things to be seen with stuff, is where you're telling a young man to "mind his own business"?! It's on this blog I first knew what porter potty was.
ReplyDeletePoster/chronicle sender, if you're reading this and you're sure it's not envy - tell your dad, please! Y'all need to know whether baby sis haf join bad gang, so you'll know how far. Barely an hour ago, the story of the brother of a Nollywood actor was posted on this blog and others. They have all dragged the Nollywood actor into the story that his brother is a thief. As if they're Siamese twins. It's bad enough that both men bear the same surname, they put their pics side by side so everyone can see the physical resemblance. Did the Nollywood actor send his brother message? No. After all the Nollywood actor has worked for, see the shame cos of a sibling that nobody even knew about. Ah! You better start calling your father! Before EFCC knocks on your father's door tomorrow and starts telling him story about his daughter that will send him to hospital. Tomorrow now, no family will want to give you their daughter to marry cos they'll say, "That one where their women do X,Y,Z will infect our own daughter!"
tell your parent what??? She enter bank go thief?? Are you ok?? Abeg mind ur bussiness biko! Is she holding you or stoping you from doing ur own hustle? ..pls shift.
ReplyDeleteI hope you would tell him to mind his business if police should knock on their door or his sister got infected with some disease.
DeleteIf it is legit, I think the family members should know about her source(s) of income.
I agree with comment @15:06.
Exactly 15:36. If I wanna as broke and I had a sibling doing a side business that leaves them with a million naira bank balance, I would be so interested in getting in on the action. Make me sef try my luck whether the business go pay me.
DeleteAnybody saying mind your business obviously believes it’s from runs and is trying to endorse it. Not that I have a problem with runs anyway. But it could also be fraud in the office which could have adverse consequences in future if she caught. It may be a windfall of some sort, but I think the brother should ask, but not tell their parents except if the source is blatantly criminal.
Rambo you just said what's on my mind.
Delete*If I was broke...bloody autocorrect. @QueenAmy, na my kind I talk so o. Not one to waste time
DeleteWhy not ask her how she came about the money. All you can do is sit her down and advise her, that’s if the money came through a cunny way
ReplyDeleteJust confront her dont involve ur parent..
ReplyDeleteStella I honestly don't understand how you can give that red pen advice you gave.
ReplyDeleteI don't recommend him telling their parents but saying it's none of his business how she made the money is totally wrong. If it's ill gotten and kasala bursts you will follow to blame him for minding same business.
How can I suspect my own sister source of wealth and the 1st thing I'm accused of is that it's because I'm broke that's why I'm chooking eye there? He's worried because he knows how much she earns and knows she doesn't have another source of income so why shouldn't he be worried? So he's now envious because he's poor? I'm really shocked at that reasoning. It's not a huge sum of money but knowing her work doesn't tally with it is the red flag. Everything is not out of envy or poverty,( he might have millions himself you don't know) but out of love and genuine concern.
Poster use style and get to know what she does in her spare time, her friends etc. It may be as simple as her been a runs girl or having a client spoiling her with money or her account may be used for Yahoo stuff or she running things with them with her getting a cut. Whatever you do, don't come across as antagonistic so that she doesn't cut you off totally.
Thank you for this statement. You are very wise.
Delete1000 likes for ur comment!
DeleteGod bless you.
Delete👍👍👍
DeleteAs in... Stella's advise was so unexpected.. Poster, no need telling ur parents but you should at least ask aw she came about such an amount.. You might end up regretting it if you don't.. This "Drink Water And Mind Ur Business" thing won't help in this case.. I doubt if it ever helps sef..
DeleteBest comment, what if she is stealing from the company she works for? This question is for those saying brother is jealous and should mind his business.
DeleteGood comment
DeleteMay God bless you
DeleteThank you👌👌
DeletePoster, I put it to you that u were not helping your sister install anything. You took her phone purposely to check her account balance. See the way u even know how much she uses for transportation, and how much she has left. You are a very entitled human being. Your whole family is sef, going by what your dad said. All these lazy big brothers sef. Leave that girl alone, and go and find a job. When u have these kind of lazy bros in your family, they will drain u until there is not a single drop of liquid in your body. See how u are all planning to finish that girl of she finds a good job someday.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm Uwa Mmebi!Stella even you????? Smh!
ReplyDeleteFoolish lazy boy! Mind your business brokeass
ReplyDeleteLazy people can not use their eyes to see other people's money. This brother just want that money.
ReplyDeleteShut up your mouth. That is his kid sister. Sorry you don't have a brother who love you. So nobody cares, if you like join inside fire.
DeleteDon't tell your parents about it. Sit her down one on one and ask her how she got that money. Nothing like drink water and mind your business when it involves a family member. She is your sister and you have every right to know what is going on so you can know how to protect her incase things go wrong or about to go wrong. I know you love her that is why you are worried. You are a goof brother. Keep it up
ReplyDeletePoster sit her down and talk to her
ReplyDeletePlease if you love your sister first confront her and if she doesn't listen take it to your folks. It may make no difference but at least you laid bare your mind. She's your sister so it's your job to protect her whether she wants it or not
ReplyDeleteYou can ask her but telling your parents is downright petty. She's an adult so you have to go about this maturely. There's concern then there's pokenosing.
ReplyDeleteIs an adult leaving with their Nigerian parents really an adult? Hehehehe
Deletesorry *living
DeleteOn average Most young women save more. they are more likely to get money they did not earn from people trying to woe them and all that jazz i once had a rich politician that saw me when I went to do my IT in Abuja he gave me 50k and an iPhone to woe me to come lets travel to south africa and he will buy me a car I took the one he gave me and ran oo to him it was nothing to me it was Christmas came early in fact I kept saving the little little money people where dashing(Abuja men are cheerful givers) me and i never slept with any one when I got back to school I started a buisness to me it's greed that makes people do runs.
ReplyDeleteSo bros 1.2 is not all that you must be really broke to see that amount and become suspicious. she must has been saving for a long time and I think you were snopping to be honest but I understand you're being protective of your sister just jokingly tell her ah sis you have lots of money o how far na don't harass her or anything.
Very broke guy
DeleteCall her aside and ask her how that sum came about,dont mind people asking you to ignore her,it takes little things to be roped in crimes these days,my cousin is still sorting himself out with police because of questionable transactions between him and a friend,confront her and damn the consequences, it is because most of our elders failed to ask us for our source of wealth that is why cyber crimes and all its vices are wrecking our youth's today.
ReplyDeletethis one na lack of work.
ReplyDeleteWe are the same set of people encouraging crime in our society,telling the guy to mind his business when the girl salary for two years cannot even accumulate to the amount seen in her account
ReplyDeleteomoyin o se agbafo,o ko aso wale
You dey mind them? They hate crime only when it is perpetuated against them. As long as they or those they support benefit off of it, they hate snitches.
DeleteHumans and hypocrisy are like 5 and 6. Myself included.
Nigerians and hypocrisy
DeleteAs in ehhhh kia
DeleteNigerians and hypocrisy are like 5&6. Our value system is so messed up,its sickening!
DeleteThe header says "confused about lil sis source of wealth" lol so 1.2m is making your head to turnoniown hahaha
ReplyDeleteOkay seriously So perhaps she's living lavish and you decided to snoop on her phone??
You don't seem like you genuinely care it sounds more like you want to rat her out because if you cared you wouldn't think of reporting her before discussing with her first and perhaps you came to stay with her in lekki what do you even do?
If you care about her and you've noticed anything questionable have a conversation with her!
I hope you know a 23 year old is a full blown adult and it may not be what you are thinking?
ReplyDeleteSenior bros,please ask your sis how she got that amount of money cos if tomorrow God forbid,she's discovered lifeless in a hotel with a piece of white material tied on her neck,you'll never forgive yourself,so ask her privately.
ReplyDeleteAhn Stella did not approve my first comment 🌝
ReplyDeletePoster please trust your instincts. Don't involve your parents yet but ask her. Ask! You are siblings not friends... don't turn your eyes away. Your sis could have been innocently lured into anything so find out. I am almost 40 and doing very well but still accountable to my siblings....at least they have an idea of my finances and all though not in details. Please if anything happens tomorrow to question her finance, who will stand by her....the faceless people saying mind your business? If you as her sibling is not sure would you be willing to take a stand for her? If the source of her income is not plausible or genuine and casala bust God forbid they will come for her family first not the advisers telling you to face front.
ReplyDelete"I am almost 40 and doing very well but still accountable to my siblings... at least they have an idea of my finances and all though not in details"
DeleteAre you for real? What is your siblings' business with your money at your age? The only reason that the poster's worry is valid in my opinion is because the girl is 23 years, probably new in her career and she's living with her family.
At your age, you should have gotten out of your family's house and independently taking care of your responsibilities either as a married or single woman.
Anon 17:16....you are amazing! Where did you read in my post that I am living in my family house? I did not mention my gender nor marital status but alas! You imagined and came up with your own fiction. In case you don't know, you don't have to share a roof with who you are accountable to. And to define accountability in this scenario, it means you have people you are answerable to. That said, you might be from the kind of family where you all are not doing well or competing which might be reason why you feel you can't be accountable to anyone, I am not from such family. We are all doing well so no big deal. As I am accountable to them, they are to me too...we are siblings and friends mixed. If you read well, I said they have an idea of my finances not in detail...this means they know my sources of income/rough idea of networth...they are too busy with their lives to be punching calculator for me. I hope this helps you understand better.
DeleteIf my elder bother found that kind of money in my account, he would cut me into pieces and fed me to lions.
ReplyDeleteTell her you know about the balance and ask her to open up to you. Also take her to the hospital for tests and necessary vaccinations. Make sure she is well educated about sex. Don’t take chances. All the best.
ReplyDeleteFor perspective, she would have to save every penny of her salary for 2 full years to arrive at a bank balance of 1.2m.
ReplyDeleteShe reportedly has 30k after transportation, after saving every penny of that 30k she will need 40months or 3 years and 4 months to arrive at 1.2m.
Just saying
Doesn't still make sense, esp if people dash her monies, which as a young unmarried lady, I had my bosses and friends and toasters dashing me money.
DeleteBia this boy leave ya sister alone o. So you would prefer she's dead broke abi....anyway you can ask her & see. If her answer isn't satisfactory you can only advice her & then drink water & MIMD your business .
ReplyDeleteMy dear have a heart to heart with your sister please to know the source of her income.I work in the hospital,each time I see young people with HIV because of careless life. My cousin die of AIDS at a young age.
ReplyDeleteNot every patient with HIV lived a careless life. Be careful when you comment at times. Some people are Virgins yet tested positive, some contacted it from their parents, even children test positive to HIV. that you work in the hospital maybe as a cleaner or gardener, does not make u a judge over anybody.
DeleteThank you very much anon 17:12
DeleteOga you dey madooo so because she has 1.2m in her acct you wan call family meeting for her, sit her down and have heart to heart talk with her she will tell you how she got the money. my cousin but a car at 24 we later found out she was dating a very wealthy guy.they got married November 2017
ReplyDeleteYou're just reinforcing the belief that the source of a lady's unexplained wealth is a man. Your cousin was able to buy a car because she was dating a wealthy guy, not because she saved for it from her salary or business.
DeleteYou were given a phone to install something and had to go into her account. Firstly that’s an invasion of privacy.
ReplyDeleteSecondly 1.2M isn’t anything mister.
Mind your business and go make money and stop invading privacy. Peeping Tom.
how can ordinary girl raised such money?she must be olosho or runz girl.raise alarm bro.woman must be below
ReplyDeleteYou're an idiot. There are women like me whose source of wealth is legitimate work, not runs.
DeleteSaying "Woman must be below". Mumu. There are women excelling in virtually every field. You must be a lazy fellow that is why you don't know.
Reminds me of some idiots who were questioning why ladies are getting jobs, trying to insinuate i slept with someone to get it. Me that was studious in school and prepared very hard to be able to get a job afterwards whereas they were doing big boys and dating the hot girls when they were supposed to study their books and prepare for the real world. Tomorrow, they'll marry a hardworking lady and be terrorizing her because they want to form "head"
I'm shaking my head at Stella's advice. Do you know how many young lives would have been saved if their families questioned the source of their wealth? Those of you insulting the poster and calling him "broke" because he saw 1.2 million in his sister's account are mad. How many of you have that kind of money in your account that you legitimately worked for?
ReplyDeleteIt's possible that the poster is still job hunting, still in school or possibly is saddled with family responsibilities (hence the father's demand that none disturb the sister). Even me that has been working for some 4 years now has not been able to have that kind of savings in my account because of all my family responsibilities.
Even if the girl saves all her 30k (which is not possible), it would take her 40 months, i.e. almost 4 years to save that kind of money. I doubt she has been working for that long. For all of you claiming side hustle, if the girl had one, her family would have known especially as she is still living with them.
My suggestion to the poster is that he calls the sister in private and ask her about the source of her savings. Sad to say but many ladies (especially in Lekki) are not adverse to runs. In that case, he should bring it to the notice of their parents.
Other likely possibilities are she's getting the extra money from a boyfriend, she lied about her salary and is actually paid higher, or the money is probably savings for her and other people. In that case, bros can keep his mouth shut. No need to involve parents.
Dear poster, for crying out loud, she is working and like you said she is'nt yet responsible to anyone in the family.....I feel thats the reason she has that kinda bulk money..Leave your parent outta this..if you still doubt her source of wealth...ask her questions..SHIKENA!!!
ReplyDeleteAll of those saying "Mind Your Business" are runs girls or girlfriends of fraudsters (former and present).
ReplyDeleteArgue with your ancestors.
This blog is brimming with the richest Nigerians, because according to NDIC, only 2% of Nigerians have a bank balance of 500k and above. I’m glad to be in good company. 😆
ReplyDeleteStella wdf are you saying now. Haba. This is his sister, this is his business. If anything happens to her he and his family would be the one running up and down trying to salvage the situation. It's their family name that will be tarnished if something negative happens and that affects him. Stella this is 100 percent his business and he should be worried.. very worried for someone earing 50k
ReplyDeleteDante
Just thought, would the advice be the same if genders were reversed and the sibling in concern was a 23year old boy with a 50k salary and no other obvious source of income?
ReplyDeleteWould your first thought be face front or perhaps an unknown side business or maybe a yahoo boy on the side?
Have read your comment, u make a lot of point. One should be careful of people here, their hypocrisy is out of this world.
DeleteDon is calling others hypocrites?
DeleteI am not a nosey sibling but any red flag i follow it up. My younger brother had a couple of new shoes + clothes, I had to ask him where he got them from he was honest and said "my guy init" and he explained leaving out details of how his "guy" got it. I still passed on whatever message i wanted to pass without being judgemental.
ReplyDeletePoster you dont need to report to your parents but talk to her like a older brother would. Leave that I will tell mommy and daddy that was when you were kids.
To a large extent there is nothing my younger brothers (23 & 25) cant tell me tho I can only advice from a female's perspective but this is because I try to cultivate that relationship with them
Thank you oh. Before police will come and knock on your door one day when you are jejely enjoying yourself. When you have siblings you look out for them. That is love.
DeleteSimply check the debits and credits. How is the money inflow coming ? What are the narration for the inflow and outflows.
ReplyDeleteIn the comaony name or names of individuals.
.please ignore the devilish ones asking you to ignore and insulting you .
They will be the same ones insulting women without explainable sources of income.
Shame on all of you without moral compass...
People saying 1.2 million is nothing no get reach that amount oo for their account and they are talking ...
ReplyDeleteDear Poster please dont mind all these people and there comment. And do not mind STELLA as well. Sometimes her responses are just a NO NO. Please call your sister and ask her. Take her to lunch and ask her. Explain you are only asking cos you care. You know that is the right thing to do.
ReplyDeleteTALK TO HER SHE MIGHT BE INTO ON LINE MARKETING
ReplyDeleteWhat if her salary is about 100-150k and she purposely told you guys 50k so she can save?
ReplyDeleteIf she earns within the figures I quoted and has been working for 1year. If she saves a 100k monthly then it’s explainable.
What if she does Ajo, which is a lump some money?
You didn’t say how long she has been working there.
Maybe she is earning a lot more than she told you guys or she has a "blesser"or boyfriend. But it's better you ask but in a nice and engaging way, not hostile abeg. Hopefully it's nothing or be worried about. You care for her and don't want her to get in trouble that's all.
ReplyDeletePoster, pls gently ask your sister. It shows genuine concern for her welfare. Don't mind all these people with poverty mentality telling you to mind your business. Anyone who is raised right and from a decent home should be worried as you are. There are so many possible source of that money and some of them may be illegitimate or downright dangerous and when the sh*t hits the fan, guess who'll get roped in for bail out?...her family. The same ones that are being asked to mind their business.
ReplyDeleteStella let him gently ask her sister. He is not begging for money he is just curious and has already calculated how her outgoings are? Just concerned.
ReplyDeleteWhether you are disappointed in me or not i stand by what i said...............HE SHOULD MIND HIS BUSINESS..ah ah!!!
ReplyDeletestop bringng invcitus obi and dead girls in hotek room here....how can my brother see my account balance and be coming to ask me how i get money when i work?soon they will borrow all the money till its gone.....
Yes ooooo @ your last sentence. Borrowed and never to return. The poor girl might just be doing Ajo o or earning more than she made them to believe.
DeleteLol.
DeleteWe are not disappointed in you. No one knows it all. But please he should ask. Alot of people have been saved from going too far in the wrong part cos someone close didn't mind his business when he noticed this. Just like seeing a brother who earns 50k with such an amount in his account. With the kind of stuffs happening presently in the country, won't you be worried? If not for anything but for your own self,cos if he's involved in something illegal and get caught, no be all of una go dey gather money to help.. money weh you dey save for better things.
When the issue of money is discussed, I have stopped being amazed with what I hear from women lol.. just like what men say when the issue of sex comes up.
Now oga poster.. if you borrow or collect any money from that girl na God go punish you oh. No man should be comfortable asking a lady for money even if she's your sister.. I have never understood how some guys do that.. "bby please can you loan me some money".. God forbid.
Remain blessed.
Dante
Gbam!
DeleteMind his business? His little sister who just started working and is still living at home with the family. God will punish you Stella.
DeleteAnin 5:30 God will punish you and anything you hold dear. Fool
DeleteEveryone is entitled to their opinion Stella.
DeleteFrom the majority of comments, you can see that your advice no follow at all.
Stella I'm not disappointed o even though i won't give the advice you gave 😂 but really some people here can't think for themselves and anything you say is right (which is not true) because no one is perfect. Broda please ask your sister, do not report her and do not be aggressive when asking her. But anon what's bringing God's punishment inside this talk now?. Abeg de mind how you de talk.
DeleteIf you want to know, ask her.
ReplyDeleteShe might be holding money for a friend or engaging in fraud or doing contribution or doing heavy runs.
You won't know until she tells you. But as long as she's not commiting a crime for the money, there's no need for sermons or anything else.
I am even shocked you didn't ask her immediately, you saw something that feels like big amount considering your family background and work entitlement and you kept mute to come ask for permission from a blog before you deal with a small family ish?? Nah... If you saw what doesn't feel right in your family, straight ahead ask the necessary questions but with love. Most especially if your family is knitted with love. The outcome will determine if you will take it to your parents or not.
ReplyDeleteThere's no harm in ensuring your siblings are doing the right thing.
she's into prostitution and that's what's invoke in Nigeria now tueh
ReplyDeletePoster please ignore anyone asking you to mind your business and ask your sister the source of her income. Most of the people saying 1.2m is not big money are the ones who are broke. Anyone who has worked hard in this country knows that for a 50k earner 1.2m savings is high. Just call her and calmly ask her the source of her money. Dont act like you are accusing her, just ask her to confide in you then you will know the way forward. The money might not be from illegitimate means because maybe she didn't declare her full salary to the family. If you perceive that the money is from an illegitimate means only then should you involve your parents. If not just move on. Again don't go asking to borrow from her when you lack because you now know of her savings.Look after your lil sis. Some people in this blog asking you to mind your business have never experienced the love a family so they will naturally imagine the worst of your intentions. Its a mental conditioning.Ignore their angst filled rants. Misery loves company.
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