Monday, September 16, 2019
Actress Ifeoma Okeke Makes Inspirational Post To Those Being Body Shamed
Hmmmm..........Nollywood actress Ify Okeke is a strong woman who does not her her XXXXL size comments get to her......She is an inspiration.
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Ifeoma, you nailed it 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿
ReplyDeleteProudly big, bold and beautiful.
Nobody will love you if you don’t love yourself 🙌🏿🙌🏿
Slutty are you plus sized?
DeleteAbeg forget body shaming. Aunty ifeoma, you are overweight and grossly unhealthy. Can u walk a mile without gasping for breath? Can you eat greens and be satisfied? Are you sure you won't slump and die of heart failure one of these days?
DeleteIf you're on this blog and overweight from bad eating habits, it's a sin and you're greedy. Give the less privileged some food and start fasting. Take care of your health!! !
Anon 18:39...wee u kip quayet. U talk trash, so no slim man in ur village have ever died of heart attack?
Deleteyou 18.39 is the treason she talked about body shaming
DeleteAnon 17:48 👅
DeleteAnon 18:39, I hope you choke on your stupidity....you just don’t have sense.
All this is nonsense....go and exercise and loose weight. Its not body shaming but an advice from you someone who is working out now. There is something about exercising, you feel alive.
DeleteAdvicing someone to lose weight is different from body shaming.
DeleteThs way some people go about it is annoying.You can encourage someone to lose weight instead of ridiculing or reminding them they are fat.
The problem with fat is more often than not It comes with a lot of packages i.e high BP, cholesterol, diabetes etc. So let us try and stay healthy and have regular check up.
All this is nonsense....go and exercise and loose weight. Its not body shaming but an advice from you someone who is working out now. There is something about exercising, you feel alive.
DeleteAll these people saying go and exercise and live life... You have not heard of people who lost weight and died the next day or became very sick after the weight loss? Some people are overweight because of health and medicine, not food. Ifeoma, my jiggy jiggy, heavy heavy character, abeg, preach on. Love yourself and live your life. If you want to lose weight or add, let it be your decision. Be happy. This life is too short to come and live in misery
DeleteThis madam is ignorant AF! She doesn't even realize that she could be borderline diabetic, hypertensive, cancer prone, etc and she is celebrating fat. She looks disgusting and has to stop now. It is obvious she eats like a pig. Too many calories in a meal and zero exercise. Madam see you see cancer o. Go and get to a healthy weight!!! Am out.
DeleteWhere person go begin open these laps now for on top bed? Na wao
DeleteWhen people claim they are asking people to loose weight because they care about their health; I laugh! Majority of fat shamers do it from a place of pure hate! They are disgusted at your sight! You are not feeding their perverted sexual desires the way they want it; so you are of no use to them and deserve to be wiped off the face of earth or condemned to the backyard and never be seen again.
DeleteSo if you are fat; please fight for yourself and love yourself. You don't need their approval to exist. If anybody shames you; abuse them back terribly because it is never from a place of good interest; always pure hate.
They hate it so much that you all are trying to have a voice and going against societal standards of beauty to love yourself. Please keep it up.
If ever you wish to loose weight; please do it for you! Do it because you personally understand why you want to. And when you loose; shut the hell up and mind your business. I say this because I realised people that were big before are the biggest fat shamers on the internet. Just the way a lot of poor people claim poor people disgust them when they manage to see small money.
"Nobody will love you if you don't love yourself"
ReplyDeleteNice!
She full ground! Self love is the best thing ever! Own the body you have and nobody will ever be able to use it against you. I love her self confidence and she's pretty 😍
ReplyDeleteI'm chubby and i hate reading this kind of inspiration anything, be confidence blablabla, Losing weigh is among my target and i will achieve it, i refuse to let anyone makes me feel I'm OK with the way i am, no I'm not and i am working on it, tho it not easy, sometimes you just want to give up.. But i hate being fat and i love that i hate being fat, cos that the only way i will encourage myself from dying. I can't deceive myself, chubby is good but fat is damn bad, every fat person hate being fat, i hate being fat, i don't even want to be slim, but just chubby and shapely
ReplyDeleteThen this message is not for you. She's talking to the ones who love their weight but are been shamed about it.
DeleteGood luck on your weight loss journey.
Cut off carbs, eat more veggies, drink more water, cut off fizzy drinks and junk food and don't eat after 6pm. Snack on nuts if you feel hungry and start doing small small exercise. Will you feel hungry? Yes but you are a big girl and will be able to handle the hunger pangs.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I just had to laugh. Keep working on it, it’ll pay off soon. Weldone.
DeleteGod bless you for being honest.. you see that inspirational nonsense she is writing up there .diabetes wont read it neither will heart attack..ibhate it when fat people try to find a way out..acknowledge it first and then work on it ..I wish you the best and thanks for acknowledging you need a change..let these ones continue being a 25pound inspirational author!
DeleteNobody wants to he fat. If you see yourself in that situation, work on yourself but don't hate yourself. People will comment and some can be very harsh but let your self love lead you to do it right rather than kill yourself in the name of I hate fat.
DeleteNo body likes to be fat oo👍
DeleteStory for the gods. Ifeoma try and lose some weight. Advice is not body shaming. Being obese is not fun. I was once obese and i'm working hard to be healthy. Its not easy but it's achievable. People are doing it everyday. There are fundamental health issues. You can't run, climbing staircase is work. It's not about being slim or anything but you need to be healthy and that picture up there is not healthy at all. Eat less carbs, eat right and try to exercise my Sister. You cannot truthfully say that you don't overeat.
DeleteHelp yourself-o before it becomes late.
Enter your reply...reading this message made me appreciate God and applaud myself for a job welldone.I started this year at 132kg,same 4XL.. I fought,dieted and I'm 80kg now....was it easy,hell no!..was it worth it?,absolutely....the truth is the aches,discomforts aint worth shit...madam,enjoy ur "big body"..if you are really comfortable deep down with it....or make better health choices.
Deletebold and beautiful.
ReplyDelete'have' I have always...you can't sit speak good English, oya write nu! War. You are getting fatter / obsessed and it's a serious sickness. You better watch and weight and start Keto to live a long and healthy life o
ReplyDeleteBoth of you must have learnt good English from the same teacher.
DeleteKami, see me here wondering if the "Christopher Walken" was making jest of someone else, not knowing it's coming straight from the fountain of knowledge...
DeleteGo and lose weight and stop disturbing us, it’s for your own good not for anyone
ReplyDeleteI was still body shamed by an aunty on Sunday. Her junior brother died and I went to greet their mum. Next thing. What happened,i can't even recognise you,this is bad market,you won't see husband o. I am just a size UK 14 and I weigh 88kg. I use to weigh 70kg all my life but because of a medical condition. The drugs made me balloon in size. How many people will I explain to. I hate going to family functions. If it's not marriage it's my weight. And I am just 31.
ReplyDeleteI do try my best to excercise but because of the drugs I'm on. I need to eat plus they make you retain water. I am trying to get the doctor to change it but for now i need it for my every day living. I felt so embarrassed. Is it a sin to gain weight. My health is very paramount to me right now. Imagine telling me i am fat when your little brother just passed away unexpectedly. I felt embarrassed. And people were looking like it's not that bad. The last time this lady so me i was 22 and a size 10.
It’s okay dear. You are just perfect being a size 14. Your health is most important.
DeleteDon’t let anyone make you feel that way.
Take care of you and be well.
Hiannnn, see wahala, better be strong for your self oo. Loose weight because you want to not because someone said you are fat. Please concentrate on being healthy. People must talk oo. Someone once said to me that her nephew can't marry me because I am fat and fat people die early. I simply told her that slim people die too and walked out.
DeleteNo vex. Just try to maintain your current size. I am a size 14 too but my Doctor, wants me to lose 30 pounds. That will put me at size 10. It’s nit that easy.
DeleteMy dear,
DeleteI just had to reply to you. Sending you a BIG HUG right now; loads of love, strength, endurance, and light too. I was a size8/10 just before my wedding, but I got sick and had to be on steroids; i ballooned to a size12/14 within two weeks; I was soooo down and devastated eh it was not a joke. people kept thinking i Was pregnant and thats why I was even getting married; nasty comments left right centre; but I consciously enjoyed my wedding day and I kept exercising and doing what I could. I only explained to those I knew truly cared, and their love and acceptance was enough. I worked on my self-confidence and positivity and that steered me on. Drink loads of water to reduce the water retention and try and reduce salt and sugar intake, which will further increase the water retention. Reduce your portion of carbs and increase the veggies. But most importantly stay positive dear; you need it to stay healhy as you battle whatever condition. xx
Please concentrate on being healthy.Don't let people bring you down stop explaining yourself to people.Life is so much simpler when you stop explaining yourself to people and just do what works for you.E-hugs dear
DeleteIts good to love oneself. But this writeup looks like a consolation for ur xxxxl. See Ifeoma, they are even making it mild if they call u fat..you are nothing but OBESE. .Gosh! This is damn too much. Pls for God's sake and for the sake of your heart and health. .do everything possible to reduce ur weight. If you really lpve yourself.. U will shed those excess fats!
ReplyDeleteYou can't love her more than herself. It's because of people like you she wrote that.
DeleteImagine having someone like you around her daily vomiting this poison, she will just commit suicide.
Who told you she dosent know her size or know about diabetes and HBP.
Do you know her daily challenge, or her lifestyle, do you know what she goes through daily?
Do you even know if she is sick, etc?
Pls face the troubles in your life and let her be.
Nah fat she fat, she no kill person.
Sis leave long story. Lose weight and watch yourself become healthier and happier. All these body positivity rants are BS in my opinion. There is nothing healthy or attractive about being fat. If you truly love yourself, you wont come online to start screaming it. It's all just a defense mechanism for people who know the truth but want to continue to live in lies.
ReplyDeleteI went from 73kg to almost 80 kilos in a year and one day I happened to catch a proper glimpse of myself in a mirror and I was horrified at how grotesque I looked. I could have started chanting "I love my body at any size" and all that nonsense but nobody told me twice to lose the excess fat and more. I came down to 65kg and I have never felt healthier, lighter and so full of energy as before. I don increase small again sha. Being fat is nothing to be celebrated but at the same time, we shouldnt body shame people too.
Her life, her choice.
DeleteLeave her.
Highlyfavored, you are a wicked person. May God keep me far from your type! I appreciate friends who see the wrong in me,tell me then I correct it. simple.
DeleteSnarker dear, please what did you do to lose the weight??
DeletePlease help a sister. Thank you 😍🥰
Snarker pls help me .I need to lose weight biko
DeleteThe truth about weightloss is that it's 80% watching what you eat and 20% exercise. I count calories, the average female needs about 2000 calories a day but we tend to overshoot that figure. So what I do is to eat a a calorie deficit- keep my food intake between 1200 calories to 1600. It can be very difficult to do but it takes a lot of discipline.
DeleteI can burn about 300 calories in a typical one-hour work out session per day. I have low energy levels so I really can't do a very intensive routine. So I would rather eat at a calorie deficit to increase the number of calories I burn per day.
Also, I cut out a lot of unhealthy foods. Please don't starve yourself, just make healthier choices in eating.
That is the long and short of it. If you want to go my way, count calories and eat within a limit.
if to say u know u for no go greet am
ReplyDeleteThis life sha.. I'm always happy these days when people tell me I added, probably because of breastfeeding. It's not like I'm fat but I went from size 10 to 12, going on 14 sef. Nobody should just disturb me, let me fat this my fat in peace. Lol.. I love this my new size that I'm still breastfeeding mostly cos of it...
ReplyDelete#Uwaezuoke
Hahahahahaha you see world people. Enjoy
Delete😂😂😂😂😂😂@fat my fat in peace
DeleteAbeg, what is body shaming? If you are fat, lose weight. If you are malnourished, eat food. Moderation is the key word. Stop inspiration to the grave!
ReplyDeleteGood for her
ReplyDeleteI personally feel bad for myself.....I need to loose weight
ReplyDeleteThis one na berluga whale
ReplyDeleteLol at let me fat this fat in peace
ReplyDeleteThe truth is that no body knows this babe's struggles. No body knows if she is going through anything. She may not have left herself grow those fats without doing anything about it. She may have been dieting,doing exercises but still turns out fat. Let's not judge her hardshly. She may have been through a lot. Again, we were not all created to be slim.
ReplyDeleteIs she has been making an effort, she may still be big but not this big. Take a cue from Adele. Adele is still big but not as big as when she released her first album. Theres a difference btwn being big-bodied and being fat.
DeleteLol. People want to be allowed to do what they like, in the name of "love and no judgement". You will make stupid decisions but find a way to blame others, who are you fooling? This is how Eno went to attempt to chook fat into her bum bum and next thing we heard is that it was pressure from being fat-shamed. Nobody can talk cos they're afraid of being labelled a hater, bitter, judgemental. So, they make their decisions about you without saying anything.
ReplyDeleteThis one says she's an actress. I've never seen anything she's done but let me categorically state that her weight will prevent her from getting certain roles or even consideration. A lot of people won't tell you cos they don't even have the patience. But I look at her and cannot see how she can fit into any role (no pun intended), so won't ask for a reel. When you're not Ada Ameh, which producer will ask for you or which casting director will overlook your weight? Queen Nwokoye for instance and Ada are both comic actresses so they're really funny but there are some roles Ada won't get - because of her size. It's not fair or whatever but it is what it is. Unless weight is a crucial character trait, nobody is going to write you into a script. You're not Ada. You're not Chigurl who is an already established brand trying to act. So, where does that leave you? Unemployed.
For me, it's not even just about beauty cos that's subjective plus makeup can fix almost anything. But the first thing I see when I look at this ranter is a health risk.
Sorry to burst some bubbles but you can't be anyhow and think "they will take me like that". I cannot refuse to shower or brush my teeth and leave my nappy hair begging for love since morning and carry myself to a corporate dinner with my husband talmabout, "This is my true self so you will all take me like that. I love myself and nobody can beauty-shame me". How please? Yes, you must not be primped to within an inch of your life all the time. But you must be bringing something extraordinary to the table for anyone to ignore your anyhowness especially in a professional setting. And there's a time and place. Richard Branson can wear jeans with a shirt and blazer to an interview; he's Richard Branson. Simon Cowell can wear his uniform of black or white T-shirt with blue jeans to film all his reality TV shows but he wears a tux when he does the Royal Variety Show cos the queen will be there. Stella can blog in her pyjamas, but she will slay to an awards show. You can wear bathroom slippers in a Skype meeting, not to a physical AGM. Stop closing doors for yourself and annoying angels assigned to you.
And if you like, don't take care of your health, oh! Be there acting like anyone is beefing you, it's like we will lock you in a room with Tokunbo Idowu so we'll see who can win the battle of the self-consolatory, controlling the narrative hashtags.
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Wow!
DeleteYou are so correct!
Points well articulated.
Aunty Ifeoma, please go and loose this unhealthy weight. You are very obesed. And an inch from a cardiac arrest. Your friends are busy lying to you. This is why beyond body shaming. This is ludicrous And hope you have stopped gossiping?
ReplyDeleteThis girl I'm seeing up there is obese. Let's say it the way it is, she is not healthy.
ReplyDelete