Sharing his experience, RMD recounted how he often got requests from people who wanted to have relationship with him in different capacities.
“I never take it lightly, which is why I’m usually not quick to jump in on mentoring or being a father or brother figure, because I have been a victim of relationship abuse where people take their unlimited access to me for granted, forgetting that relationship is a currency.
“Relationships, irrespective of what type, have the power to serve as a capital. There are relationships that give you leverage, some people have gotten ahead in life because of who they married, who they worked with or for. One respected person’s endorsement could do more than financial capital, so it is important not to enter into relationship with the intent of giving nothing in return, there’s no way that would work, you must be willing to service whatever relationship you have,” he said.
RMD added: “Be skillful in relationship building by being selfless, unassuming and not feeling self-entitled. Respect boundaries, don’t be a user, be humble, accountable and have integrity. Have respect, more for yourself than the one you latch on to, because it is self-respect that restrains you from behaving in ways that put you in bad light.”
From Sunnews
RMD dated my old time university friend, they called it quit because she got married and relocated to the US.
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DeleteSomeone cannot even play with you ..
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DeleteSomeone cannot even play with you ..
Anon 12:49 Are you usually this foolish? Not gonna roll in the mud with you.
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DeleteThis STINGY Bros!!!!!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteDelta men are always stingy. Kwale nko? Can somebody tell me about kwale men before my sister make mistakes+
Delete12:06,I'm kwale and I know for a fact that they are stingy and disrespectful but they make great dads but not amazing husbands. She might be lucky though.
DeleteWhat do you mean delta men are always stingy?! My husband is delta and he open hand, too much self I dey fear and control his spending now.
DeleteI have one Kwale boyfriend. He is generous to a fault,.
DeleteThis uncle talks too much..
ReplyDeleteBecause he said the truth "he talks too much"?
DeleteFact is many ladies have abused relationship. I've seen cases where a man's only intention is to help a lady as a mentor or a big brother and the lady tries to convert it to a sexual relationship, even with full knowledge of the man's marital status. Do you know how many women including actresses have thrown themselves at him because of his status in the entertainment industry?
Yes o, he may be a cheat but don't exonerate the willing accomplices.
And in your head you think he(RMD) is clean?
DeleteMany entitled Nigerians won't like what he has to say, especially the takers. To many, a relationship should be all about you giving and getting nothing in return. Mention giveaway and they will swarm on you like flies on poo. Not many think to give, no matter how small.
ReplyDeleteVery true. Chop kiss jare.
DeleteNa wood Dem go abuse before? How many he abused?
ReplyDeleteRMD how govt house naa? Governor go fit you o make una act governance for delta people
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