Still rocking my lashes like its going outta fashion and re-introducing #cookiesandcream...
Kisses to you all.....
GIST DON LAND
Gist don land ooo... Stella Mama does you know that while the world is making noise about our Nigerian ladies following married men upandan, these oyinbo girls are not smiling either o?!
The rate at which these oyinbo gehz dem dey flirt and hassle our 'horsebands and bobos' them inside 'heloplane' and business meetings is not a joke.
While our Nigerian sisters dem are busy flaunting their acquired items on the gram, these oyinbo girls dem are collecting more contracts, extra bank zeros and weekend long trips in exotic hotels here in naija and the diaspora!
These hotels are too expensive and posh to have attendants with 'leaking mouths'. They are professional enough never to step out of line.
These oyinbo girls are now married women's nightmares as they don't settle for just any man! They do their findings to be sure the man has the right connections and they actually do not 'kiss and tell' or share their tales with fellow ladies like awa parrot naija aunties dem!
They somehow get away with it considering the calibre of men whose wives are 'too wealthy' to be bothered with his 'scrotum' activities.
Infact, some of these naija women no longer have any sexual drives and just focus on their married kids, grand children and strings of businesses.
They usually do not suspect anything as everything is under the guise of 'business partners and global conferences'.
Some of our aunties go to sleep so long as it is not 'Amaka or Bimbo' that's on his screen or call log. You see ' Cindy Reynolds or Amanda Wilsher' and conclude she's not looking for a husband. Issokay!
Invite her over for dinner somewhere nice, make her feel comfy and watch your man's body language. Oyinbo ladies cannot really hide their emotions. Their face and eyes na litmus paper!
These oyinbo ladies are not here to play at all o, they milk the men for what they need and move to the next level.
Some of these wealthy men have nothing to loose really and they care less when such oyinbo lady moves on.
Now in the era, where we have young MD's and CEO's. I hope our naija sisters will be on the look out. If oyinbo woman carry your young horseband or bobo go, the chances of recovery are very slim because the truth is, it would usually be a win-win for both career driven parties! From the harmless dinner date to business trips in the abroad.
You go sidon house dey watch yoruba fim instead make you sef dey discuss business ideas and strategies with him. Issokay! Is like you don't know that's the strategy in vogue now!
Who told you oyinbo gehz nor dey do jazz?!. With all their black magic, crystal balls, astrology and penchants in the abroad!
Na that astrology gan gan dem go use shek if your horseband or bobo geh bright fushor!
It will shock you when na fellow black woman with dreadlocks like you go help her do juju collect your man in the abroad!
You know say mixed- shidren dey fine weh weh ba?! Nor worry o!
Praying and interceeding on your Spouses behalf is very crucial o! You may think all punani na thesame! You lie! I hia the oyinbo sisters dem like our black stamina in the oza room!
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Please if you dropped this. Don't give up, death is not an option . Hell is real..please don't run away from your problems and spend eternity in pain.
God loves you, even if the situation around you says otherwise. There is hope for you in Christ Jesus. You matter to your world and you were created for a purpose.
John 3:16, Psalm 23, Jude 24, Isaiah 61:7, Isaiah 45: 1-6, Isaiah 43:1-7, Isaiah 41 :1-13, Isaiah 40 :1-2,
Please meditate on these verses, they talk about God's love and restoration and they really helped me too.....
Don't give up. Hang on, your deliverance is near. This doesn't rule out seeking medical help too..
I hope you are still alive?
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MONDAY CHRONICLE POSTER REPLIES
Thanks to u Stella and everyone that contributed on Monday's chronicle, sent that on sp on Friday didn't get to see it,didn't know that Darling Stella wanted to help me get better options. Well yesterday morning,I called her to express my displeasure as it made me loose sleep from Friday,told her that this wasn't the plan,and she asked me what is my plan presently, I answered simply that I can't accommodate them all plus mum.
I took time to explain to her all that is involved, she said its OK,that maybe they will follow maka down to the village till her husband gets a house,I said OK. The truth is that even if I had lied that hubby wants them out,she won't believe it because she knows my husband will never say that, so I had to do it myself. They are leaving by Thursday, and I want to go and buy them enough beverages and other things that they might be needing over there,and surprisingly she didn't pick offence when I told her my mind.
I can't ever try this type of thing again,I have learnt my lessons. Just that seeing her kids running around the church for me feeling bad,that was why I asked them to come stay with me,also I lost a childhood friend some weeks back,it kept ringing at the back of my mind what if this one dies out of frustration. But I can't keep up with how she wants to do it. Imagine 4bedroom bungalow housing up to 10people...God will help them
Well done for being truthful but still watch your back
Well done for being truthful but still watch your back
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COMMENT SECTION
SDK family advice needed pls. I clocked 40 yrs this year and i am single. A friend is trying to connect me with someone but i have to lie about my age. I am not comfortable with the age issue. I feel like saying the truth or should i go ahead and lie about my age?
You are asking us if you should lie when what you want to do is in your mind?You sound desperate and my dear,desperate measures call for desperate actions.......or how do they say it again...
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CAREER CHANGE
I have a first degree in Accounting, a masters degree in Risk Management and also a qualified Chartered Accountant (ICAN). I have worked for eight years as an Executive Assistant.
I am ready to change career to a field closely related to my field of study, preferably Risk Management. It's been tough deciding on the best way to go about this since i don't have any work experience in accounting or risk management. I am also considering getting PMP certification with the hope that it would be an easier route to change careers.
I would like to hear from BVs who have been in this type or a similar situation, that is changing careers from one field to an entirely different field. I will also appreciate the advise from HR professionals and anyone who has an idea.
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BAKING EQUIPMENT FOR SALE
Please I would like to sell off most of my baking tools since i am not using them for now.
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I would prefer someone in the baking business or someone starting the business afresh to buy this items.
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God sees all the heartache, the tears, what didn’t work out, who did you wrong. What you’re believing for may not have happened yet—it may be taking a long time—but God is a faithful God. He’s not only still going to bring it to pass. That would be good enough, you would be satisfied, but God is going to do more than you asked. He will surpass your expectations
ReplyDelete-Joel Osteen
How is Joel Osteen doing 🥴
DeleteI guess he's still in church
Delete@ Slutty,You is very wicked😎😎😎😎
Thanks Fluffy
DeleteThanks fluffy
DeleteRe:Career Change. You have very good professional qualifications. Pls drop your email address under my comments and I will reach you personally. By God's grace, you will get opportunities to prove yourself shortly. Regards.
DeleteAmen to this prayer
DeleteSanwo Olu God punish u o! When u first entered u were IGG now u have relaxed! Haba! See traffic everywhere! What’s the cause? Bad roads! Just bad roads! My shocks have turned to Agege bread! E don soft scatter! 😭 pls! Tar the roads! We are tired!
ReplyDeletePs: I hope those rocks I am seeing everywhere aren’t the new patches?
Kelvin Dat Edo Boi (Stellz Cousin)
Abeg add Wike and JDP to that punishment list. Wicked souls. Flood has destroyed all our properties cos of man (wike) made issues.
DeleteYou will lack sleep till you come create drainage and drain for this water ways you brought down to us in Egbelu here.
Planning on going into minor importation...I need tips please..
ReplyDeleteGod bless you so much Stellz momma 💋💋💋
ReplyDeleteYes o @ sign out. For my case is different.
ReplyDeleteAbeg how many bags of sugar person go chop before e finally become sugar daddy ?
ReplyDeleteYou go need to chop a truck load of sugar,after that you don arrive
DeleteMake you no try piss for area ooo bcos fly and ant go dey make public announcement and that one go make them babes dey rush you
Wetin I dey yarn sef,
Sebi na wetin you want be that
You did the right thing poster. Give them what you can, but don’t think she’s happy with you. Be careful.
ReplyDelete40 years old poster, please hide your age if you feel it might ruin your chances.
Age is just a number like they say, but for some, it matters.
Secure that guy first and if it eventually turns out well for you, you can then open up to him.
Some people doesn't even look their age. If you see me, you will take me to be in my late 20's but guy man is way above that Lol.... I have seen 45years woman who got married. It's all about the choice of a man. Don't tell him your age yet, rather build the love very strong.
DeleteT.J. some people don’t
DeleteOlori your ministry is moving very well. God bless the works of your hands.
ReplyDeleteSome of us don't have the best of life but we make the best of every opportunity that comes our way to succeed.
Slutty babyyyyyyy, how are you this lovely afternoon. Hope you are good.
Thanks bro.....I appreciate you
DeleteI am good. What’s up?
DeleteCool baby.... Just here thinking of what to eat ooh.
Deletewho has a half plot of land for sale in PH,areas rumuwhara,eneka or rupokwu,or egbelu....asking for a serious buyer
ReplyDeleteHi everyone,trust we having a good.
ReplyDeleteStella i just wanna take this time to thank you for putting up a platform like this where problems are shared and half solved. I have learnt a whole lot being a member of this blog. I know no one is perfect and as such,i can't say I'm perfe
My comment wasn't complete. I miss sent it. Anyways. Thanks thanks and thanks. May the God Lord continue to strengthen and bless you more and more for a job well done. Cheers to you.
ReplyDeleteHABA,people should fear God ooooo,how can u sell those ugly okirika bags for 5k....how much does a fine brand new one cost again?na wa ooo
ReplyDeletePeople are wicked
DeleteThey think bvs are money bags
Tueh
Haba, fear God o. How can you try and destroy someone's business because you are poor? How much does it cot your soul to run your mouth anyhow? Na wa o
DeleteGood afternoon my people, have a blessed day everyone. Stella nwanyioma, God bless your life
ReplyDeleteLoaded IHN
ReplyDeleteThis my network dey show me shege. It's just had to comment. Good afternoon all
ReplyDeleteHappy Tuesday my people...
ReplyDeleteWhen it comes to runs, the local sisters are learners compared to their white counterparts.
ReplyDeleteAm telling u!
DeleteGood afternoon people of SDK blog,how una dey?
ReplyDeleteMay buyers flood sellers.
Grateful for the gift of life.
Bvs please is there any hospital that does IVF gender selection in Nigeria? And pls how much? What's their success rate? Thanks
ReplyDeleteGo to nisa hospital abuja
DeleteThere's one at akowonjo road Egbeda. I heard they are very good but don't know how much it cost. Hospital name is called St.Ives.
DeleteHello guy,please help a sister,I am looking for a very good maternity hospital for antenal and delivery along Lekki and ajah axis.kindly recommend please.thanks
ReplyDeleteThere is a newly opened mother and child general hospital on Ogombo road. You can check it out. Or you go to akodo at ibeju
DeleteThe poster that wants to commit suicide. Pls don't do that, you will be causing many people pains. Pls think of something positive to live for.
ReplyDeleteThis is how my husband threatens to commit suicide in his low periods because of his joblessness, I would cry and beg him to keep the hope alive for our sake.
Monday chronicles Bv, well-done for coming out clean and telling her your mind as against lying with your husband's name. To think that your friend wasn't offended, shows that she isn't a bad person and she probably took your silence as acceptance to bring whosoever,into your home.
ReplyDeleteAs humans, we should always speak up when things are not going the way it is planned. Speak up!! Stop assuming for people. Stop thinking for them. Stop believing and hoping that they will see the handwriting on the wall.
The truth is, most people won't adjust until you address the issue.
BTW, sluttychic adopted bro, any update? Has your friend left? Have you moved out? All the best.
Beautiful items for sale. May customers locate you all.
The friend has left since now. He replied his chronicle may be you weren't online then. It was his friend(girl) that delivered him from them😂
DeleteThe friend was offended
DeleteBut she’s like me
The hard times have come and she has seen her friend didn’t stand by her
She won’t forget
Anony 16:56
DeleteSo the housing and feeding the friend provided isn’t enough, she should house the entire generation before you will know she stood by her at hard times.
Was she the one that drove her to hard times, or did the hard times cos her to loose her senses, someone housed you and 4kids...you brought your mom and sis. Abeg be considerate.
If the friend isn’t offended, who are you to still insist that she is.
May I never have an ungrateful friend like you in Jesus Name.
Of course the friend is offended. She is like BV 1656 who feels entitled to someone else's time, money, food and accommodation. Poster please seriously watch your back oooooo
DeleteSomeone is sleeping in a church. You host her and her kids for 3 weeks and send them out. Yes she is very happy with u. Families have moved to America and stayed with another family for months , up to a year sef. Yes some fight but 3 weeks is nothing to get a crown
DeleteHere goes the generation of people with entitlement mentality. 😏😏
DeleteHello from IB city...
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone. Enjoy the rest of your day
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon bvs.The rain here is everyday abi every minute,God we don tire for this o,l pray the rain relocates to another state.
ReplyDeleteI pray that the poster who want to OD had a change of heart. I really pray she did. Suicide is never the answer and I pray that you find the courage to hold unto God.
ReplyDeleteBeautiful wigs and stuff for sale. May you all sell well
ReplyDeleteOlori those shoes are so beautiful
ReplyDeleteThanks so much momma
Deleteu people can lie,tell her the truth so she can improve,olori those shoes no make am at all and are expensive for second hand that doesnt look so attractive..
DeleteThank you Stella for posting my wigs. God bless you.
ReplyDeleteNaija men and their craze for white, biracial or extremely light skinned girls. They will pay huge amount just to fork that kinda pussy. See the way they marry Egyptians or Moroccans because of their skin.
ReplyDeleteThey don’t have to pay
DeleteThe white womennwant them too
Naija men can have the white women abeg. We see them here every day. After a few years the white women strip them of everything. They will take the house and court ordered alimony join sef.
DeleteHello everyone.
ReplyDeleteTooth ache seriously dealt with me for the past few days.
There's a lot of catching up to to on the blog.
is alright thank God you old her the truth and you are willing to assist her with what you can afford.
ReplyDeleteHanty that has clocked 40 if you need to hide your age hide it very well bt make sure the guy is older than you and make sure you package your self to look your new age. Alot of people do some many things just to be with men/women if you do same and be happy why not.
Please do NOT lie about your age! Tell the truth, and the let the person make an informed decision. If he backs out after knowing the truth, then he was never the right one to begin with! Do not start off something on a lie!! A lot of relationships and marriages are currently suffering, in one form or the other, because of lies one or both partners initially thought was inconsequential!
ReplyDeleteI prefer to find guys that are very ok with my age. And there are plenty
DeleteI’m not sure but since suicide posted such identifying info as to location etc
ReplyDeleteShouldn’t the info be sent to the police? They might be able to find and prevent
Hello everyone, I need a little help o
ReplyDeleteI'm a natural brown skin babe, but my arms are really lighter than any other part of my body, so I'm never bothered, i don't use any cream, but original coconut oil, recently i had blood transfusion because of the fibroid surgery i was scheduled, after the transfusion, I noticed that my face was darker, but i did not pay any attention to that, I assumed its the normal reaction to blood transfusion, after my surgery, I was indoor for 6 weeks,I did not stress myself in any way.My last week before I resume work, my BF to tell me he's not interested in the relationship with no tangible reason.
I realise my face is way darker than it use to be, as in my face is now twice darker than it use to be.
I'm not a fan of cream, because I'm scared of all the bleaching cream on the shelf in store, can you help as sister on natural ways to get my face back to how it use to be, or even better than it was. I have an oily face, by the way.
Thanks in advance
Organic products are the best..... Feed your skin with the right stuff instead of chemicals.
DeleteThe process is slow so you'll need a lot of patience dear .
Poster with friend, pls be careful and watch your back
ReplyDeleteThe heart of man is deep.
@40 don't change your age. Don't bring it up till he ask. And if he does, pls say the truth. What will be will be.
They’ve already lied about the age
DeleteThey want her to play along
Probably find a guy with kids. He likely won’t care if you’re 40. The age mostly matters bc of child bearing
Dear career change lady, maybe you are aiming for positions you need experience for. When you want to switch careers, drop your ego small and start from the ground up. With time, your qualifications will speak for you and (usually) you will get promoted faster than the people you start with. Note that qualification and experience go hand-in-hand. One without the other is what makes people have half-baked careers. You have the qualification abi? Now sacrifice small to gain experience by taking a pay cut. When you have what you want then you can apply for a better job. Goodluck
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