Good Morning people!!!
Who is working today?...I am!..lol
I have an issue to address..............I may be wrong but i will say it anyway..
Some of you come here for free advert and I oblige without batting an eyelid but when i want to buy your goods for someone and i price it,they outrightly refuse and i am like surprised...So if i beg for 5k less or beg for the product to be refused you say its not possible?If i was to collect money for advert,it costs 50k and this particular person that made me really surprised has benefited immensely from free advert........
I will not be advertising for this person again unless they pay for advert,i cant stand people who do stuff like this,you take someones sacrifice but refuse to give yours..naaaah,it doesn't work like that.#rantover
Please send in your adverts with good photos and text that is not like a small book....
I wish you all a good day........
Kisses!!!
In HIS presence there is fullness of joy. Come, let's go to Church.
ReplyDeleteI am 2 months pregnant and spitting has been giving me headache. I work in an organization where I have to give presentations and intearcat with people. Pls bvs how do I cope cos if I dare try to swallow, I will vommit everything in my stomach.
DeleteEat garden eggs, not the white ones but those tiny green ones that are bitter but have a sweet after- taste. Put it in your mouth and chew on it intermittently. Thank me later
DeleteHave you tried chewing gum or bitter kola. Google about it,you might get a solution that will work for you before your presentation.
DeleteGod is your strength.
Please can someone give me tips on how to improve my presentation skills?
DeleteDon't even try chewing gum, it will make your spitting worse.
DeleteYou can try bitter Kola and that eggplant 🍆.
You can also try eating dried bagel crackers.
In short dried bagel crackers with sesame seeds or any other seeds on them, will help keep your mouth dry for a while.
I wish you strength and courage 🤗 🤗 😘😘
Always have a bitter kola handy
DeleteCut small and put in your mouth everytime, spitting will run away
Stella you are not wrong with your decision. That is how most of us Nigerians behave. They’re getting more from you but cannot give you a little consideration with what you’re doing for them.
DeleteGood morning and happy Sunday to you all
ReplyDeleteGood morning dear
DeleteStella, don't be like that abeg.
DeleteYou do free adverts to help people and you do it for God so let it go.
You never know what that person is going through, probably in debt so please do not take that harsh decision.
The bv in question isn't a very wise person. Business is not always about making profits, you must be prepared to make strategic business decisions and sacrifices which will benefit your overall business.
Some people give out their products free or at a discounted price to those they know can promote their business.
What could the person be going through That stella's free advert isn't helping to relieve them of to an extent? Is it the little discount that will make the issue the person is going through to increase? If you are ungrateful in smaller things you wi ll be in bigger things. So stop that excuse. The discount stella is asking for is it for herself? Is it not for the betterment of fellow blog visitors? What ever you are going through she has already helped in reducing your burden by giving free advert and making people patronize you immensely on this blog and through referral again from this blog. That person is just not smart.
Delete10:49 Stella is right with her decision. This will teach the bv that sometimes relationship is more valuable than money in business.
DeleteGood morning, and happy Sunday to you all.
ReplyDeleteGood morning dear
DeleteSluttychic I wanted to take you out yesterday but I wasn't online and don't know how I could reach you.
ReplyDeleteLet see how today will turn out
I'm really looking forward to it
Sluttychic adopted brother.
Wonderful morning to you all
I want this ship to sail.
DeleteHi Slutty🖐
Hello brother 🙋🏿♂️
DeleteHow are you?
Maybe you should drop your contact with Stella.
Sluttychic don't let us disturb Stella with our issue jare...lol
DeleteCan you please drop your contact to olori Orente I will get it from her.
Sluttychic adopted brother
Good morning nelly 👋🏿
DeleteSo I am entering this ship
DeleteOkay oo
Olori😂😂😂
DeleteHappy happy Sunday everyone 🙋🏿♂️
ReplyDeleteI support that move Stella, some people are selfish like that.
They receive always but never give even the tiniest.
How’s my adopted brother doing?
Anyone heard from mumi triplets?
Enjoy your day y’alls ❤️❤️
I'm very well oooo my sister.
DeleteHow can I get your contact like this
Sluttychic adopted brother
I hate such people,
Delete* The past cannot be changed.
ReplyDelete* Opinions don't define your reality.
* Everyone's journey is different.
* Things get better with time.
* Positive thought create positive things.
* What goes around comes around.
* You fail only if you quit.
*Judgement are a confession of character.
*Over thinking will lead to sadness.
* Kindness is free.
* Smiles are contagious.
* Happiness is found within.
TeeJay leave quote and look up. ndi mgbaji aka have come... Lol
DeleteBe here dulling Teejay. Look up there. Someone us about to commit thievery. You are about to lose Slutty. Open your eyes oo
DeleteHahahahaha...... Chike nna, no be small thing. As giveaway never reach me from the blog, this one I tried hustle for myself, them still want take am from me.
DeleteAnon, my eyes are open ooh. Watching closely Lol...
Hahahahahahahahaha
DeleteYou people will not kill me
Teejay dont worry just relax
Nothing is impossible for God to do
Sluttychic adopted brother
Lol
DeleteHahaha Chike and Tjay so funny.kno b small as giveaway never reach your side and na tru o.Someone should just offer Tjay a very big contract or work naw if the persob can.i always love his spirit
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ReplyDeleteGood morning peeps and happy Sunday to you. Blessings!!!
ReplyDeleteGood morning dear
DeleteHappy Sunday to you all!
ReplyDeleteOne good turn deserve another.... But, it seems many people are not aware of this saying, or maybe they are aware and they just decide to turn a blind eye.
I come to You Lord with a grateful heart 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Good morning Ms. A 🙋🏿♂️
DeleteGood morning dear @sluttychic 😘
DeleteStella: Be sincere, when last did you visit your village?
ReplyDeleteMost answers: during my dad's burial.
That was what most people answered! Dad's burial! Why is it always the dad? Why do fathers mostly die first in this country? Why are Nigerian women killing their husbands with pressure and unnecessary burdens? One man is expected to carry every shit on his head. The average Nigerian young woman is craftily waiting to grab somebody's son and make him her slave - for life. She targets him, shows him "love", and skillfully nudges him into making a decision to marry her. That is where his problem begins. The moment he delves into that institution of slavery called marriage, he realises he's been scammed. She takes a back seat to watch him engage in an unending tread of slavery. He's fooled to believe he's the 'head of the home' without realising he's been conned into servitude. Foolish man.
Tremendous pressure is heaped on him on an hourly arrangement. He is called upon to do the 'undoable' if he wants to be seen as a " real man". No mercy is shown him. He is so burdened with what he knows nothing about, and yet, expected to slave on without complaints as a REAL MAN. He has high blood pressure without even knowing it until his health deteriorates.
Young man, listen to me, do not kill yourself over your wife and kids. While taking care of your family, do not allow it affect the state of your health. As you're slaving for them, remember to plan your old age. Most women ignore their men at old age. That is the time she plans trips for a year to see her children. Yes, at this point, she sees them as her children, not 'our' children. It is only "our" children when they're still young and depending on your finance. If you doubt me, look at your father. He's mostly home alone and abandoned while your mum is either in Amsterdam, Texas or Lagos chiling and having the best time of her life with 'her' children. You're left alone to eat boiled yam and palm oil. Remember to plan your old age young man. Remember.
Just as Forbes & the world failed to see Invictus Obi for who he really is, i failed to see how shallow you think atimes.
DeleteCaesar!!! Who caused all this pain and anger you carry against the Nigerian woman? Must Men gallivant with their girlfriends and concubines while the wife stays home, cooks and takes care of the kids. God makes a way and the kids make it out of the country and Mother gets invited for Omungwo. So, because the husband is now a lot older and mostly retired with no money to throw around, the mother should sit idly with him whilst her kids need her.
DeleteCaesar, Men mostly die before their wives due to their ego. They refuse to go to the hospital even when ill. When last did you go to an check up? Have you had a bloodwork done this year? Have you checked your prostate? Blood pressure? Do you drink? Do you exercise? Some of our fathers were very inactive. That kills faster than anything else. That akpu mama pounds in the villa, etc is her cardio. Make l go sleep.
Caesar!!! Who caused all this pain and anger you carry against the Nigerian woman? Must Men gallivant with their girlfriends and concubines while the wife stays home, cooks and takes care of the kids. God makes a way and the kids make it out of the country and Mother gets invited for Omungwo. So, because the husband is now a lot older and mostly retired with no money to throw around, the mother should sit idly with him whilst her kids need her.
DeleteCaesar, Men mostly die before their wives due to their ego. They refuse to go to the hospital even when ill. When last did you go to an check up? Have you had a bloodwork done this year? Have you checked your prostate? Blood pressure? Do you drink? Do you exercise? Some of our fathers were very inactive. That kills faster than anything else. That akpu mama pounds in the villa, etc is her cardio. Make l go sleep.
😂😂😂😂😂😂 Ceasar you write this from Canal mind but you are 70% right.
DeleteYou have a good point here bro... Nice message to the men. I also want to say, children should also extend quality time, love and affection to their fathers as well and not just the mother alone.
DeleteCaeser, my mum died long before my father. My mum paid my first school fees not my father. My dad got married after my mum died. My mum planted the seed of our success but it was my dad that lived to harvest all my mum planted. I could go on. Most women died before their husbands but death to me is not a competition. God chooses whom He wishes to take home.
DeleteSometimes you hit the nail on the head and most times you type like you need some prescriptions from YLE but yaba sef don well small.
I didn't even finish reading. You are an idiot.
DeleteCeaser
DeleteI think the reason is because men marry ladies they senior with 5-20 years.
mana nwanne, all men are not Osuofia n'eje omugwo.
Who the heck is the lady that dumped Caesar. Dude is so bitter. You have now accused Nigerian women of killing their husbands. The men that sit, eat, drink and go to bed. I hope you do not have Sisters. Who do you this thing? Let go of all this bitterness against the Nigerian woman. Go look for a dude and make yourself happy.
DeleteSo in your tiny mind, Nigerian women are killing their husbands? Whoever did this to u no try, d chic do u strong thing..please don't married, marry a man like you.
DeleteThe stinky misogynist fag has spoken....
DeleteIt is a woman's issue that will still kill you some day 🙄🙄🙄
Stella's dad is still alive Mr Caesar. Leave Stella out of your ramblings biko.
DeleteWhich kain wahala be this Kwa?
Ceasar so why you call my name put inside this your writeup?na wah!!!
DeleteStella, he will call your name cos you're a Nigerian woman. Ceasar's hatred for the Nigerian woman extends towards you, too.
Delete😂😂😂😂😂😂This thread is so funny.
DeleteStella, I don't think he called your name. He used the punctuation : after your name showing it was a question you asked bvs on BEP.
Delete@Elegant,what is funny about someone calling our mothers murderers?
DeleteAnd..... Some people are still applauding him.
God, I pray for the woman that dumped Ceasar. Bless her and recompense her, oh Lord for every second of her life she wasted on Ceasar. Bless her because she didn't inflict the entity that calls himself Ceasar, on her future children as a father. Imagine the fate of the children! The people that prayed for her to be delivered, God bless them till they're confused at why they're being blessed. Even if the woman that dumped Ceasar will commit a sin in future, Lord forgive her in advance - that she dated Ceasar is penance enough. Like You did for me when I left a toxic situationship, give her love and happiness that will wipe out all memories and traces of bitter Ceasar from her life. Peradventure she is still single, Father do a Ciara on her - give her a man and life upgrade that will cause her to level up beyond her wildest imagination. In Jesus' Name, Amen.
Delete08:51 you are right. Most Nigerian men spend their best years with their girlfriends while leaving their wives to fend and nurture the children. These kids grow up seeing the struggles, tears and support from their mothers and determine to make them happy when they’ve made it in life. They end up being closer and having a real relationship with their mothers who are the only parents they really had.
DeleteAh!Ms.A please calm down.That a person chose to generalize doesn't mean the statement is accurate.
DeleteMost generalizations are so ridiculous you can't help but laugh.☻
As much as u all are screaming ceaser ceaser there is some truth in what he says. Are u all claiming he is wring 100%
DeleteBeautiful day 😘😘😘
ReplyDeleteHappy sunday ya'all
ReplyDeleteStay blessed
what? couldn't believe my eyes last night! A good looking lady have a d*ck and a pussy same time? she told me her whole stories, really felt for her
ReplyDeleteThis Abuja am done doing call girls
😂😂😂😂😂 no go carry spirit one day
DeleteGod don catch you. You are even lucky she’s a hermaphrodite. You got served. Nor be ashawo you de find? You aren’t done. Go back again.
DeleteY get mind
DeleteNo please, continue
DeleteShe tell u so u can choose the one I want,weda na dick abi pussy,u come carry her mata dey narrate here
DeleteGood morning all.. Stella don't mind them greedy people everywhere, their greed won't allow them think properly...Even in family, that's how my sister I helped financially with her frozen food business, started cheating me seriously, started adding 3k,for every carton of frozen food I buy then, until her friend exposed her in my present.. Her friend actually said she has even begged her behind my back to stop but she refused.. Since then I just ghosted her and it's the end of patronage from me, is that not witch craft,after giving you money for business, you started cheating me again, because na only you like money...
ReplyDeleteThat na witch craft
DeleteI hate that kind of behavior
DeletePlease this is important , bvs who stay in portharcourt can u tell me about the place , im about relocating there for a job purpose. I heard there is always riot all the time. I'll sincerely appreciate your responses , I await , thank u. 😊😊
ReplyDeleteRiot where?
DeleteAbeg leave lie....
If ure a fine girl, plenty married men will want to chop you sha, thats all i can say.
I am PH born and bred. PH is not as exciting as Lagos in terms of fun as you can run out of fun places to visit very quickly but we no get their type of traffic. The major problem with PH is insecurity. You have to make sure you don't do late night waka, please be as private as possible and don't show off publicly because you may never know who is who. Apart from this issue I welcome you to the Garden City of the nation and I hope you can see and enjoy the positives PH offers..
DeleteThe riot of a thing is false. Which area do you intend to stay will help in giving some precautions to you.
DeleteNo fun here, riots hardly occur, in fact I've never experienced one, avoid night movement no matter how safe your area be, be private, don't make hordes of friends oo,hit n run plenty, jyst be careful sha....insecurity abound depending on your area.
DeleteKidnapping is rampant there. Hope you are not rich?
DeleteIf you are rich hide yourself well because they rape and kill some of the kidnap victims
Good morning all.. Stella don't mind them greedy people everywhere, their greed won't allow them think properly...Even in family, that's how my sister I helped financially with her frozen food business, started cheating me seriously, started adding 3k,for every carton of frozen food I buy then, until her friend exposed her in my present.. Her friend actually said she has even begged her behind my back to stop but she refused.. Since then I just ghosted her and it's the end of patronage from me, is that not witch craft,after giving you money for business, you started cheating me again, because na only you like money...
ReplyDeleteI feel happy, relaxed and excited this morning not because I have it all going smoothly but for the singular fact that I have understand the real purpose of living. My purpose is my driving force and forms my passion.
ReplyDeleteGood Morning and happy Sunday to you all.
How many times will u post? Why didnt u join this to ur post up there?
DeleteAnon, did you sleep well at all?
DeleteIs the comment section your private property? Unbelievable 💁🏿♂️
I feel so sorry for you.
Happy Sunday.
Stella abeg employe this dude as errand boy! so before he come back from market where you send am uwgu post go done full, for him to comment kikik na Joke ooo
DeleteStop acting like a woman
DeleteHe can post as many times as he wants. What’s wrong with you this morning? Is there an embargo on posts? Breathe in and out.
DeleteWhat do you mean 'stop acting like a woman?'.He is obviously acting like the man he is. Wetin concern woman for this talk?
DeleteStella, it’s your blog and all so you can do what you like really but you’re not supposed to expect something in return from someone you helped.
ReplyDeleteIt would be nice if things turned out that way but you know that any service rendered to humanity is really service unto God (Matthew 25:35-40).
*Whatever ye do for the least of my brethren, ye do for me...*
Also, you don’t know what people’s profit margins are, even if they’re making sales, their margins might be thin so there might be no room for extra reduction... and what if they’re broke because they had unexpected expenses?
No, I’m not the person in question, have never advertised on this blog even...
My point is, you’re being utilised as a conduit of blessings to others and God blesses you in the process, don’t stop the flow as long as you’re not being harmed.
If you stop though and God still wants to bless that person, it’ll come through someone else and you’ll lose the grace that comes from being God’s channel to THAT person.
You get my drift, right?... but in all, follow your intuition.
A happy Sunday to everyone.
Please let's stop this attitude of because she helps she should not expect anything in return.
DeleteI dont like it when people are trying to justify someone's action...let's call a spade a spade.
Even if you carry something give Stella for free she has paid her dues for every single person who advertise on her blog...
The person should explain to her then sponatoenously suprised her.
DeleteIf you have had lot of gains from this blog,on your own u do something in the blog that is the way to show appreciation.
You don't have to wait,that is how I was brought up.
On her birthday see what Isaac did.
Remember the story of the ten lepers also the one who came to appreciate, Jesus made whole .
Please don't try to minimise or make her feel guilty for her feelings. She is right to feel the way she did abegii. That was how my friend I took in for free gave accommodation, if I buy clothes I will buy for her, buy hair I will buy for her. We eat the same thing I bought with my money throughout her stay at my house. I paid for light bill, water, everything bill just name it. Gave her pocket money sometimes too. Started selling attachment. She increased the price of her own thrice of the normal price in my presence. Chaii I couldn't go outside she will say I don't want to patronize her market. So I told her, sister how much for this wig? Thinking she would call the normal price because she knows I also know she increased the prices. The next thing she called the same price for me I became dizzy. No problem I gave her the money she collected it without looking me in the eye. Pretending to be uncomfortable. Later she started nagging about having a financial problem. I liked the other side. I am not a fool biko. After some time I pleaded for her to leave and find another place. I don't care what anyone thinks but I can't kill myself. I was struggling with my small salary but felt compassion for her. Sometimes because of her, I starve before the middle of the month because of feeding two mouths. Paying double for everything. Sometimes when she gets little money she will cook for herself alone and buy things for herself alone. Not even one biro to give me. The tenth is right about giving back. When Stella does a free advert for you, you don't need anyone to tell you to give something back to the blog as Isaac did. I am not Stella but that generous act of his made my head swell and I have noticed him. You people will come here and say this blog is like a family but you leave only Stella to be the only one doing give always. You don't try to add something. Even Windsor castle cook food for someone ones and filled it with ponmo and went to that person house to deliver it for free to show concern. You don't have to give the same way Stella gives but give in your own little ways. Stella do whatever you like I support you👌
DeleteP.S is actually right.
Deletesometimes just help people without expecting anything ..cus if you expect anything you might end up being disappointed..just continue what you are doing so far as you not being harmed or being used in a bad way...it's actually a grace to be in a position to help people,not everybody has that Grace.
@tenth...no be everybody fit show appreciation o
Deletesome people even if you give them the whole world they won't still show appreciation.
She is being used why is everyone pretending she is not. This her blog is not a charity vendor but she makes it look like one most times. She gives free advert not because she knows you or owe you anything. This is her business page for crying out loud but she overlooks that to help. Now, What is the point if you can't return the favor by helping her to help others? I am sure the product she priced was for someone else not even herself she probably wants to bless that person by buying from the buyer. But to do that favor sef you making it difficult for her.
Delete@ man's not nice. Forgerrit everyone has the grace to give. You don't have to be a millionaire before you give something. People are just stingym no matter what position you are in life there is someone around you who still look at you like a king or queen. No matter how broke you are the is someone you have more than that your little can still go a long way to help them in a big way.
DeleteNobody should come here and make Stella feel guilty. If the bv knew the amount he/she would have been spending on advertising on a platform with a wide reach as this blog, he/she would have known that a discount was a little price to pay for it. All of you advising Stella to overlook this will never take it if it happens to you. Let the bv learn her lesson. God will not stop blessing Stella if she withdraws her support because she’s true to herself and whatever is done without faith is sin. Stella if your heart is not in it anymore don’t do it.
DeleteHappy Sunday BV's. Thank you you Tushmom, Ugegbeotega and anonymous for responding to my qstn yesterday. Pls anymore ideas. Here is the question:
ReplyDeleteMorning BV's, I am a nursing Mum. About to resume doing the do with hubby. Pls advise me on the best condoms hubby can use. I don't want to use any birth control for now. Age is not on my side and I don't want to have any issue when trying for our second child. Hubby is fine with using CD but said we should get the one that will feel like he is not wearing any. BV Pink Lady aka Veteran side chick, you mentioned one on a post sometime back. I made a screenshot of it but can't find it anymore pls help!!!
Thanks..
Someone said carex
DeleteCarex or fetherlite....but rubber is rubber..
DeleteThanks BlackBerry and Tenth.
DeleteTrojan
DeleteGood morning and happy Sunday everyone...
ReplyDeleteMorning Stella
ReplyDeleteMorning bvs. A beautiful sunday to us all.
Happy Thanksgiving Sunday
ReplyDeleteThankful to God for life. I'm also working today. Infact I have been working everyday for the past two weeks (Rig things). Stella biko no vex. Let the person know how you feel and give the person one last chance. I keep thinking how quickly my life changed this year but I know my life changed for the very best. When is the next SnM. I told my friend about it and she's interested in participating.
ReplyDeleteAnon pls how can I get this kind of job? I hope you see this though
DeleteYou keep rewarding bad behavior and spoiling your country then you want to relocate to countries were people are held responsible for their actions. If she’s a good learner she’ll reach out to Stella after this and apologize then take corrections
DeleteAnon 10:11 it is not easy getting this rig work oh. Only a few get into it on merit. The majority get in through man know man but with the relevant skills and experience required for the job. But I will advice u if u studied Engineering bcos I'm guessing you don't have the experience submit ur CV to as many oil related companies as possible through online means then try and know a few pple in the industry because they can tell you when their is a vacancy that is not made known to the general public. Also know that rig work is not what it used to be in terms of money so let ur expectations not be too high.The pple mking the money are the ones working in the IOCs. The rest will just over work u and pay u less.. Good luck in ur search
DeletePlease I know it's sunday, but I need the composition of how to increase libido, blending of dates, ginger, tigernuts etc what quantity of each do I need? do I seive after blending? should the water be much or should it be thick? what other ingredients should I add? make Una no abuse me o. can hubby drink as well? or If you have any other formula kindly share. stella please post o
ReplyDeleteAdd coconut, yes you sieve after blending, yes your husband can also drink it and yes it has to be thick.. The ingredients must be soaked over night for best results..
DeleteAdd coconut, yes you sieve after blending, yes your husband can also drink it and yes it has to be thick.. The ingredients must be soaked over night for best results..
DeleteLet the ingredients be the same quantity except ginger. Don't put ginger or put Tiny one.
DeleteRemove the seeds from the dates
Soak only the dates and tigernut (if it is the dried one) for only one hour or less. Don't soak coconut or fresh tigernut. They will lose their fresh taste.
I'll advice you to use fresh tigernut as it tastes nicer but when using the dry one, soak for some hours. Wash well to remove sand. Then chop the coconut into tiny bits and remove seed from the dates. Add the quantity of ginger you want and blend. Sieve with very small water(cold) and always keep refrigerated.
DeleteGood morning everyone. But Stella you should know better na. We do good not because we expect it to be reciprocated but because it's the right thing to do. But with that being said,we all Should know that it's is written; Eat no man's food for nought. So you thinking you're cheating your neighbor is only doing that to your financial growth. Learn to reciprocate for any good done to you.
ReplyDeleteHave a fun filled Sunday everyone.
Tbabe, leave this thing. Na monkey sense dem wan use for Stella. I am very much with Stella on this. Dem nor know say the fowl wry dem carry go market, the mama de for house. If they got free ad, it makes sense to give her a little discount without her asking. Greedy mbata.
DeleteBut Stella didn't say she expected to get the items free.She only bargained for a reduction in price. Seriously,even if you have never advertised anything here but you are a frequent commenter and stella wants to buy from you and asks for a discount,wouldn't you consider?
DeleteThat seller would be a fool to come seeking free adverts again.Now she has lost much more than the little she could have discounted.
And for those who can afford to payou advert fees but are taking advantage of Stella's magnanimity ,your time is coming.
I woke up feeling thankful to God this morning.... It should have been a lifetime of mistake and regret but God showed it will never be...forever thankful Jehovah.
ReplyDelete#feelingblessed#feelinggrateful#feelingthankful
Banty are you JW?
DeleteJW ke no ooooo....dont really have a particular church though, but I'm not a JW
DeleteJW ke no ooooo....dont really have a particular church though, but I'm not a JW
Delete😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣Anon gone wrong abi na your colleague borrow your phone too😂😂😂😂
DeleteAnonymous did not kuku go wrong...it was done on purpose oooo abi you go kill me ontop am
DeleteThis blog 🤣🤣🤣
DeleteWhat dyou mean it was done on purpose? No dey lie abeg.
DeleteWhy do i believe bantu is d anonymous adopted brother of slutty who made comment anonymously above
DeleteNawa o!
DeleteLooooooooool 🤣🤣🤣 banty banty 🙌🏾
DeletePls can I use kichen blender to make soomthie?.
ReplyDeletePls which smoothie easiest?
Yes tenth, try cucumber and pineapple first if you'll like the taste.
DeleteGood morning lovelies and Happy Sunday
ReplyDeleteThank you Jah for the gift of life.
So men still cry at wedding. A groom and his dad cried so much that people joined them. Really emotional seeing men do that. They know where they are coming from. He is the only child and the mom died young and the dad never remarried. Such a good father.
All SDK sellers are enjoying. I don't think there is any blogger who can be doing free advert.maybe blood sha. Let's be appreciative of this platform because paying 50k for advert.....so many businesses won't survive. Stella is a great person and we should not be ungrateful or misuse opportunity given.
Na Dem😏😏😏😏😏
DeleteIt's only brides I've seen crying oh..
DeleteNice to see an exception.
My brother cried on his wedding day.
DeleteWell, Stella, thats one of the rational themed human imperfections; The drive to taking rational decisions more often than not imbues ones unbenighted awareness to ethical candid privileges.
ReplyDeleteThat shouldn't be taken seriously if I must say though.
Please, when you write, always try to be explicit. I know you are trying to sound smart but this is not how you talk in real life, right? Your comment does get lost in translation most times and it seems you are talking gibberish.
DeleteI know a lot of people here who write big grammar and still get their messages across and you can tell they are truly posh and well-travelled.
Uncle, yours seems forced.🤦♀️
Hahahahahahaha....Annon 10:25 thank you for this lol.
DeleteAnon😂😂😂😂😂
DeleteThis blog!
Anon 😂😂😂💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋
DeleteDear Stella,
ReplyDeleteYou have the right to feel the way you do, anyone who tells you otherwise does not understand the feeling. Anyone who tells you to do good without expecting anything in return hasn't gone through the same hurt.
Indeed, even Almighty God anticipates thanks and love as a type of appreciation. Not that not accepting it from us make him less of what his identity is or takes anything or add anything to what his identity is or his greatness, yet he asks us generally to always give thanks.
The main reason there is "appreciation, and I believe that was was simply what you expected too. You want to feel appreciated and trust me it's a justified feeling coming from a place of healthy self-esteem.
I understand you perfectly well. When I was in school, I helped a friend with school projects for free, wrote their essays and helped in the exam so they could have good grades, bought food every break hour for this person for two years. Then things picked up for his parents and I no longer had to help out. One day I forgot my wallet at home and I was really thirsty, so I saw my friend walking towards me. I was thrilled because I felt not only will he buy me water but also food. He walked straight to the canteen without sighting me, so I went to meet him and ask him to help me with a bottle of water. You needed to see the way he shouted, he seemed upset and I couldn't understand why. Then he said he will buy the water on the condition I follow him to meet the teacher. That was the day the friendship got spoilt and I felt like a fool all along.
My designer would come to meet me and cry about his youngster's school expenses, spouse's medical bill after delivery which I assisted him all with. At that point, I gave him my fabric and he gave me a value more exorbitant than what others gave outside. I paid yet deducted only 500. He was furious and for my self-esteem, I gave him the total change before he could hurl insults at me. Just for him to return on a month later to tell me about his house rent. To say I was disgusted is an understatement.
My electrician did the same thing too. I think his father died and as the first son, he had enough responsibility on his shoulders so I helped out. Then he saw me washing my car, took it from me but before he left I noticed his countenance changed. But I felt I was imagining things at the time. Till he stretched his hands forth and asked for a tip for washing the cars. Even if I wanted to give him something at first, I believe he ought to refuse it.
With all these, I realised people are unappreciative. They believe saying thank you, solves everything. Saying thank you doesn't cost you anything but when you do something in return that cost you a little it shows how grateful you are and this stops the other person from feeling used or looking like a fool.
People need to stop saying give without expecting anything in return. Look here! I have tried it and it drains you. When you give and give and you don't get anything back, what sort of life is that? If not necessarily in cash, because you do not have to give the same thing you received but show reciprocity so the others won't feel cheated and stupid. This is what spoils friendships and even relationships. When one person keeps giving and the other just says thank you and keeps receiving without being reciprocal. Imagine you keep giving everyone you meet in life and the only thing they say is "thank you" How will you grow?
Hmmmmm..... Gates, this are words of wisdom👌
DeleteGoing extra mile to show appreciation open other doors of blessing. 👏👏👏
This is me gates,it has drained me.
DeleteI posted it on Facebook
@gates I asked you yesterday to marry me but you didn't reply. ARE YOU SINGLE?
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ReplyDeleteSorry you are hurt and aching.That was the only sentence I understood.
DeleteThe smileys too.I got those.
Good morning everyone and happy Sunday.
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