Lets discuss what happened and how it happened and preventive measures....
Remember that telling your story is part of healing and might save someone else going through same.
Is there anyone here willing to share their stories with us to learn from?
May you heal as you share!!!
May Comfort and healing be released upon grieving mothers.
ReplyDeleteWe had a church member then whose little daughter of two was kidnapped. She left her children in the care of another church member who had a kiosk where she sold her little wares. One day it was about to rain, so she sent the little children of four and two to quickly go home so that she can pack in her wares before the rain became intense. The little boy was taking his sister home when someone stopped him and told him to go buy sachet water for him while he looks after his sister. He left to buy the water, but by the time he came back the man and his sister were gone. He went back to the Aunty to tell her and she quickly shouted and started searching for the man and the little girl but they were never found. The girl's father later had the woman arrested for kidnapping even when he knew she was not the one. I guess grief made him act that way. It took a lot of effort from our pastor before she was released and that family never remained the same after that incident.
Of course twice was too much. Trauma is real. Traumatic occurrence creates a wound in the heart only God and time can heal.
DeleteMay God not allow us see what will make us question Him.
Am sorry I can’t read this my sweet is down with cold and serious cough,using my method , honey and lemon.
DeleteI don’t want to b scared or traumatized! Am a single mum staying alone. Biko
Light , healing and Gods replacement I pray on bereaved mums
What a horrible story, God !!!
DeleteHmmmmm, this post is really heartbreaking. I've been there so I understand.
DeleteMay God heal all that is still heartbroken and send you all your rainbows 🌈🌈🌈🌈
December 15 2016, I lost my son. I still visit him all the time at Yaba cemetery. I love you Richie ❤️ God let it jus be a long dream, can’t believe Richie is not here again 😭😭😭😭
DeleteAfter two miscartiages, GOD blessed me again and i had a beautiful baby boy july 8. I got married as a single mum and my husband such a precious guft from GOD.. was so happy to have finally given him another child from this our young marriage. Stella, due to Lasuth Negligence, we lost my son on the 9th of july. He had issue with his breath and they let my boy die just like that. Two families lost their babies same day. Stella, am in pains and still in pains.. its not easy for me.. I dont know what to do. Am thanking GOd am alive to share this.. I just wish Inioluwa js here with us all. Its painful.
ReplyDeletePlease take heart.This is so sad.
DeleteI don't think I can read this post.Only two comments and I'm already feeling somehow.
May God bless reward your tears with double portion of all you have lost in Jesus name
DeleteOh dear, so sorry for your pains.
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So sorry dear, be well.
DeleteOMG!! Heartbreaking. Merciful God, console your daughter.
DeleteMay God heal your aching heart and grant you Peace.
DeleteMay God heal you and your loved ones .
DeleteTake heart, my sis. God will comfort you with a testimony that sounds like a lie.
DeleteSorry dear,by sharing your story with us most of the grief will vanish.Take heart.
DeleteSo sorry for your loss,may God comfort you
DeleteMay God give you double for your trouble
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DeleteSo sorry for your loss.. I pray God heals you and your family
DeleteTake heart. May God heal you and your family. You will live to carry y6own baby soon. IJN.
DeleteStella this is terrible
ReplyDeleteI'm an old bv...I've written you a coupla times
I lost my son hrs to my EDD date
The doctors didn't figure out something was wrong I just felt he wasn't moving any longer....
So I decided to get an xray dome to check his heartbeat before getting back home to prepare for delivery
After the xray a stapled report was handed to me to give to the doctor I was curious so I stylishly ripped the report open
RIGOR MORTISE
A child I had carried to term?
Dead just like that...
Jesu
I still have his photos saved on my mobile. .They took him out 4 days after trying to induce labour and he wouldn't budge
1 year 6 months later I've been unable to conceive and the "humans "
I married into their family have resorted to coded name calling
God! My life was not planned to be this way
By the way why do humans resort to attacking ttcimg women without checking if problems could be from the male?
God will wipe away your tears soonest and all those who mock you will come to celebrate with you.
DeleteMy God!.. ❤️❤️❤️
DeleteAnonymous 14:27, may God heal you my dear. You have carried and you will carry many more and it will be from womb to your hands and your back in JESUS mighty name.
DeleteI have 2 beautiful children and I lost 4 pregnancies and had to wait but God beautified my life.
My inlaws made life unbearable for me but God put laughter in my mouth and joy in my heart and life.
Ignore all those negative people and focus on God because the more you let those people make you bitter, the more harm you will be doing to yourself and your relationship with your husband.
My inlaws are Muslims and my husband became a Christian so I went through hell, my MIL "3in1" is also fetish, she's an Alhaja that also adds white garment to her juju so you don't want to imagine what I went through.
When someone comes to spend some days in your house and after they leave you have to start searching the entire house because you know they've dropped something "jazz" which you will find. Or you have to count how many pants and hide them to be sure my underwear doesn't go missing. Make i no talk plenty because Olorun wa and He will judge and put abundance of sorrow into the lives of our enemies.
My dear concentrate on yourself and God will do it, you will carry and deliver and be alive to take care of your children in JESUS mighty name 🙏🏾.
Anonymous 20.56 thank you
DeleteI need to watch the bitterness bit....
God help me
Anon 20:56, you just comforted me. Our story is similar, I have lost 4 too, but lost my womb to the last one. My in-laws are already showing me oo.
DeleteUre welcome Anonymous 00:00, Anonymous 07:23, dont let your inlaws mess you up. If you can avoid them pls do because you don't need that stress.
Deletemy phone won't let me I would have shared how my niece passed on. She was just a yr and a month she would have been 4 now..it was heartbreaking at the time. Healing to all who have lost an infant
ReplyDeleteRip to your niece
DeleteO my God! I cant read this post.
DeleteDear lord pls console everyone going through pains.
My friend lost her daughter few days ago....
ReplyDeleteShe had been running temperature off and on for a while now,started stooling and vomiting on Saturday night,rushed to the hospital @4am on Sunday morning,she said she noticed her breathing changed around noon,she kept calling the nurses and they said it was normal,until it became really serious then they noticed she didnt seem to have blood running,they didn't check her pcv since the 4am o hmmm,so she was placed on oxygen and blood was being transfused at the same time, she died after 10pm same day...
My friend's job is not well paying,can't remember the last time she bought a single top,I go to her office and get sad cos of the way she looks but this baby hardly repeats dresses to church😩😩
She died @1year4months,I'm only her friend and the pain is still strong so i know she is trying to be brave,may God keep us and ours from ALL EVIL
So heart breaking. May the good Lord console her. I don't know what to say about those nurses
DeleteThis post will mess me up today, may the lord comfort your friend and may the lil one rest in peace, amen.
DeleteThe holy spirit himself will be her comfort,Rip to the little one.Some nurses are not worthy to be humans
DeleteEnter your comment...lost my first daughter at 9years in 2016, Had another daughter in2018 list her after 19days.May we never loose any of our children.The pain is inexplicable
ReplyDeleteIt is well with you
DeleteWarm hugs
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DeleteHmmmmm, may God heal you dear sis.. Ure brave 😘🤗
DeleteMay everyone who has lost his/her little angel be healed. And may God Almighty in His mercies give then double for their loss. It's heartbreaking really.
ReplyDeleteAmen. Thanks darling
DeleteThere was a Woman,who had 5 daughters and gave blessed her Naturally wit Triplets,2 boys/ a girl. Since it was multiple birth,the Doctor adviced that the Boys shld be Circumcised @ a Month Old.
ReplyDeleteThey took the Boys to a CAC owned Clinic and a Female Nurse did the Circumcision in the Morning.
When she got home,the Baby was still crying and he didn't want to take either Breast milk or Baby Formula.
He just kept crying and Crying. She decided to check his Diaper and she noticed blood was still seeping out from the Circumcised Penis
She told her Neighbour Friend and in the Friend's Word: Relax naaa a Normal thing,You know say you neva born boy before, e go stop" The baby continued Crying and refusing feeding ,towards evening when she couldn't stand the crying,she took the baby to another Hospital and the Doctor discovered that during Circumcision, the Penis Cap was cut off too much and it cut a Blood vein,The baby boy BLED TO DEATH!!
The Woman is My Mother and The Baby Boy was my Brother.
When the Nurse heard of the incidence, she came crying to our House,that " Devil wanted to Mar her Work and she has been circumcising plenty Boy child before my Baby brother
It's been 24years now but my Mother still fears circumcision but fortunately for her Technology has perfected New technique or Circumcising.
Very sad....may your bro continue to Rest In Peace.
DeleteRip to your brother.May God give fortitude to the living
DeleteOh come here...here are deep hug and a kiss. May God soothe your heart, your mum's and your entire family's. Goosebumps reading this. .
DeleteSo sorry darling
DeleteSay hi to your mum
The peace of God will be upon her
Bye...lemme jump this post.
ReplyDeleteMay God comfort the bereaved.
Had pre- eclamsia some years back and painfully lost my first daughter😭 😭 ... Cute baby girl with full hair....Couldnt stand the sight of babies nor attend baby dedication or naming for a long while.. Watching a movie and seeing a baby made me cry for days... Almost lost my life too but am so glad to be alive,well, and blessed with 2 sons. Wasn't easy to let go but God helped me.
ReplyDeleteAre you me? Had the same experience and almost lost my life twice. Thank God for some very good and dedicated doctors in Some Government hospitals I would have been a forgotten person. Have too very active boys now and I keep thanking God because they have both had very miraculous escape from death that leave me in tears each time I remember those incidents. Only God can heal the pain of losing a child.
DeleteGod has been good to us dearie... We escaped death by the grace of God... My kidneys and liver were already shutting down... I can't thank God enough
DeleteI hear my Dad list a daughter at a young age. I never knew her...but its been more than 20 years. I see the pain in his eyes sometimes. He still misses her. May no parent ever bury their child. Its just not right.
ReplyDeleteThis post be bringing back memories. So my aunt gave birth and died during child birth. As a result, my mummy agreed to take care of the baby who died three weeks exactly he was born. I still miss him badly as he grew on me. Still hurts a lot
ReplyDeleteTake heart dear
DeleteI remembered losing our 8 months niece to death, we dont even know who to blame as everything happened so fast. I cried from my house in public vehicle to my sis house. My mum was so devastated that she pleaded she should be buried in our house rather than in cemetery as we were in Lagos. Throughout that year we couldn't stop talking about her. The night she was buried, it rained heavily and all i was thinking was how she was left alone outside under the ground been beaten by rain. It was quiet a sad one for us and i dont wish it it for my enemy. May her soul cont to RIP. Amen!
ReplyDeleteRip to her
DeleteMay her beautiful soul Rip
DeleteMy mum's friend has lost atleast 5 children. Many of them in infancy but 2 were already grown men with children.
ReplyDeleteShe still lost one this election period violence. I think she has 3 living kids out of 8. The thing is not looking ordinary to us anymore. I just pity her when I see her.
Rip to them.Let her go into prayers dear,this life itself is warfare
DeleteRip to the dead.She should go into prayers if it doesn't look ordinary,this life itself is warfare
DeleteMarried for 8yrs+ without an issue. Then they discovered I have fibroids, I had it removed. After 40days I went for check up only for my doctor to open up that I won't be able to get pregnant cause my uterus was removed along with the fibroid! This world is cruel
ReplyDeleteYour doctor is not God,He alone has the final say
DeleteSo sorry for the pain and loss. But did they have a right to do so... Is your hubby aware?
DeleteI know it is painful but start saving up for adoption...and prayfully Go and adopt a baby. It is still the Gift of God.
Please sue the doctor that did the job. I lost a pregnancy at 4 months due to fibroid in 2017 and I have been waiting on God since then. But, I thank God everyday that God gave me a man that is a shield. He doesn't mind if it's just the two of us only or going the adoption route if that is what i desire.
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DeleteWhat are post!! May our God heal and console all the weeeping hearts. By his blood we cover all our children. Amen
ReplyDeleteHe should be 36years July 31st this year. But he traveled when he promised me he wouldn't . still missing you son with all your funny and sarcastic jokes. You created a big hole in the family. Still trying to forget because sometimes i laugh because i feel you are there telling the jokes. My psychologist said its in the sub conscious mind.
ReplyDeleteMay God heal you Aunty Amebo
DeleteMy condolences ma.
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DeleteMy family friend lost her daughter at 8months. The baby fell from her nannys back and she didn't tell her when she got back from work. Before she noticed anything and took her to the hospital it was too late. She lost her. It wasn't easy
ReplyDeleteIn 2014 i lost a pregnancy at 35 weeks,the child had formed properly to be delivered (a beautiful big baby), went for a scan before delivery and was told the baby is no longer viable. My world stopped for a moment my tears knew no bound, I was billed for an emergency C section to delver the baby. I cried all through the procedure, I even told one of the nurses to help me take a picture of the baby when she was brought out, I also pleaded with them to allow me hold her but I was denied. Imagine healing from a C section without a baby to show for it. I was latter informed by my sister that some security man of the hospital came to ask her if they could have the body (imagine that?) But she declined, her body was handed to the father who was also shaking and could not carry her, it was my driver that accompanied him to the cementry where she was laid to rest. Nothing beats the pain of loosing a child as a parent. May God console, heal and bless those of us who have experienced it and may we all never experience this in our life time in Jesus name Amen.
ReplyDeleteThey had no right denying you to hold your child. No right!
DeleteMtchew. ❤️❤️❤️
Why would they deny you right of holding on to your child? I'm sure that must be Nigeria, very pathetic.
DeleteMay God heal you.
May God continue to comfort all of us.
DeleteIn my own case, they gave me the whole time and space I needed to be with.
I lost my niece 3mth ago and till now I always feel sad,Rodiat was a beautiful gal and very lively,everybody is always willing to carry her,I always tell her parent to bring her and anytime dey don't I will fight wt dem dt is it bcos I dbt hv a child yet,dey will beg me and bring her,she always call me mummy...she was wt me thru out d day she died,dey came to pik her she slept off in d car and she never wake up,she was rushed to hospital and d nurses said maybe my Rodiat was poisoned, dt was wen her parent started asking question like wt did she eat I said she ate wt everyone ate,and she did nt leave my sight thru out dt day,Only God knows wt cause her death,her parent deleted all her pics from their phone but I cld not,i remembr forcing her to sleep in my house bt she refuse mayb u already knew u will die thru ur sleep,Rodiat Adesewa mi even though u are going to 2yrs everyone dt came in contact wt u adore u,cos u are a lovable gal may ur gentle soul continue to Rip,Aunty yemi love u whole heartedly
ReplyDeleteHmmm. God will continually comfort you all. I can't imagine the pain you're going through.
DeleteThis post messed up my day.
I pray God comforts everyone hurting. Beauty for ashes,strength for fear,gladness for mourning, race for despair be our portion. Its well
We lost my elder sister hen she was 19 years old, up till today my mum still talk about how she lost her. We too cannot forget about her especially when we see her friends or age group.
ReplyDeleteMy mother is a strong woman, she had 10 children, lost three we are now seven in number.
Our first born has already lost two children but thank God she still have another child.
Was dating this guy.got pregnant for him. He said abort it am not financially ready though he is working. He said I wish that when our kids are coming into the world they should have everything. He said again I wish for as to be married do things the right way and settle down. Guess what the moment I had the abortion guy changed towards and ended up breaking up with me that same month after the abortion. Currently healing and moving on. I only leave him to God
ReplyDeleteAbeg shift! This your story no join at all. Dont spoil this post with yeye chronicles that could have been avoided
Deletehey Chikito dont be like that! if you dont like the comment you ignore it, dont add more salt to the injury. dont be insensitive please
DeleteThis has got to be the most heartbreaking post I've read in a long while. May God comfort all of you who have lost babies or grownups. It is well with all of you.
ReplyDeleteMay Almighty God, comfort all who have lost babies/love ones.
ReplyDeleteWhere do I start from? My baby was brought out of my womb via C's when labor refused to progress after 6cm dilation.The sweetest looking boy you can ever imagine.I cried like my life was going to end.Monday will make 2 years that fate took him away from me.I remember you everyday ' oluwafirefunmi'. I am currently 10 weeks gone and diagnosed with subchorionic heamatoma.I am on a strict bed rest as I type.
ReplyDeleteMay the souls of all the faith full departed through the mercy of God rest in peace.
Amen.
DeleteI lost my twins , a boy and a girl the same month I gave birth to them. I was sick for 6months with low pcv as low as 11%.I was in coma for a while. I was so thin that everyone thought it was spiritual attack.How I overcame the pain was just God. The day of delivery was hell. Is the the hot drip to the horrible nurses at Ifako General Hospital ? It’s a year and 5 month. Keep resting in peace my dear children.
ReplyDeleteYou will be restored very soon in Jesus name
DeleteThe Lord will restore all and make your life a magnificent testimony.
DeleteMy friend lost her 8 years old son recently and everytime i see her i see sadness and grief all over her;and to think she lost her husband 5years ago..Dear friend if u see ds just know that God is always there with you.May his soul continue to rest in peace..Amen
ReplyDeleteAh. This is so painful. Well at least her husband and son are with God. I pray God will comfort her and surround her with his love. May God heal her heart, mind and spirit. It is well.
DeleteI lost my daughter on the 19 of August 2018 at 37weeks,i was bathing and preparing for church on Sunday when i saw my mucus plug.I called and Doctor and he said i should go straight to the hospital,on getting there i was checked and was just at 2cm then the heartbeat was checked and nothing no sound i lost my hope,i requested for scan immediately and it was the same.this was a baby i did IUI twice for, i jerked my husband and asked him where's God,why did he allow this to happen, did i not serve him enough,I did CS to deliver the baby.I dont know how i have survived this 1 year.That was the greastest pain i have ever experienced,When i came back from the hospital,i locked myself up in her decorated room and cried till i couldn't breath through.OLIVE is 1 year since you left, I know you are right there in Heaven, till we meet at Jesus feet
ReplyDeleteMay God heal you 😘🤗
DeleteSo sorry o. There is a saying that you get through it but you never get over it. God will give you more children who will be a light to their generation.
DeleteI think this post was for me,my baby died in my womb at 5months,i hv not gotten over it,the fact that i had gone to the hospital,to check for the sex of baby,to being told that baby wasnt moving,still remains the worst news ever in my life after the news of my moms death,last week sunday was supposed to be my due,i still hv my scan video,how strong he was,still makes me ask,wat went wrong,wat hapnd??i remember hvn to wait for 6months to get preggy,finally it was my best day,nd having to loose you..crashed my existence!! I miss you baby J
ReplyDeleteMay God heal you 😘🤗
DeleteGod will heal you and restore. Please be assured that you will be a mother of many children.
DeleteChia stella why?why this post I'm lost for words God please bring healing and restoration may we never have to bury own children we shall live to take care of them and reap the fruit of our Labour then in old age they will bury us.
ReplyDeleteEnter your comment...i lost my two month pregnancy, after 11 years of waiting God answer my prayer but the devil snatch
ReplyDeleteit away.
Awwww it's well dear.
DeleteGod that did it the first time will do it again. Double your faith. He is still on the throne. At least you still have a womb and age is still on your side.
DeleteThank God I did not open this post last night, I cried myself to sleep. I lost 4 and even my womb. Life has never been fair to me. How I wish I can see God and ask him what I have done to deserve this.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry o. We are in the same Whatsapp group. Life can be so unfair o. But it is well.
DeleteSad stories everywhere, may God heal u all n restore to u in a thousand folds
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