Good Morning! May your Monday rock!!! The Amebo column i introduced on Saturday will run twice a week on unspecified days......Did you guys enjoy the first one?lol Thinking of what to eat for breakfast.......Not Nigerian food oh...lol Kisses to everyone!!
I'm here for all those 'Mind your business' people.... Y'all are hypocrites ooh(Including me before i left the WhatsApp group)!!
Do you really know what Mind Your Business is? You come on a post, give your unsolicited 'Mind your Business' opinion, how's it that you don't even practice what you preach by actually 'Minding your business'??
Oh well, I'm here to say I'M NOT MINDING MY BUSINESS, that's why I'm here to read gossips and what not and also give my opinion!! To mind your business is to read and not comment.... Thanks!!!
I have said a couple of times here that I really do not understand this mind your business thing. Till something happens to you and u realise where was everybody else...oh they were busy minding their business.
Bini, i am telling u...i so much hate that slogan. I think dey use it wen its convenient for them cuz the people who make that statement are the ones who actually never mind their business...u wld see them here askin chronicles posters for updates, askin Stella to bring gist about celebrities and i wld be like, wait i thought we were all supposed to be minding our businesses
You can pass your message across without being so insulting..its too much...how dare you go that far?you should face what is discussed and not start with personal issue....i find it really low.....because people applaud ur commnts does not mean you are always correct...if someone goes gutter you bring them back with love....try it
Don't waste your time on someone who leaves her brain behind when typing. Always spewing rubbish rubbish and rubbish! The most proudly ignorant person I know. Rubbish rubbish and rubbish!
Ms A is linguistically competent but lacks communicative competence which is a trait found in little children learning to converse. They say it as it comes into their mind without filtering. As adults, we need to use tact and sometimes learn to be diplomatic when passing our messages in order not to incur the wrath of those such messages is directed at. The blog is like a market place and we don't need to keep showing everybody how we were brought up at home.
Okay castle, I didn't even know that we have lived together in the same house, ate from the same plates and drank from the same cup.
Like seriously, you know me? Don't mistake me for your fellow cliques (I am not a member of your clique and I don't know you from anywhere) Good riddance to bad rubbish.
I didn't get to read the comment but I think I understand it now going with what Castle wrote. Ceaser, calm down. I have always known you to be educated and highly intelligent here. You can do better when passing your message without the degrading words. I don't like your comment being flagged down by SDK as a result of the wordings.
you should have commented on the post yesterday instead of bringing it to sp for further bashing..even though what ms A said is wrong for generalizing,she's not completely wrong..you should have focused on what she said instead of draging her personal life into it..the first that occured to me was 'stella even posted this'?
Since Ms A said hoo ha she hates babymammas, this Castle has been trolling her day in day out. Stop fornicating she won't hear, aunty all the underground moves from your blog clique are not secret o. Eheeeeennn the day fowl nyarsh will blow e go do u like film
I don't know what Caeser wrote up there but I will have to say that Mrs A can be quite tactless and judgmental. You don't know people's stories of what made them took whatever decision thru did but that doesn't give you the right to make such harsh and generalizing judgment about their situation. Her comments in recent times have been quite sad and disappointing.
You can attain true peace when you finally realize that everything happens for a reason; by the will of the Almighty. He is the One in total control. You can bear any hardship with patience if you learn to trust Him. Don’t be sad or weakened by it. Relax, He’s got your back!
Pls kindly advice me my fellow bv, the company where my bf friend work have been deducting tax and pension funds from his salary, only for him to start getting his pension alert 2 mths ago and the money there is just for d 2mths and this is a company he has been working with for 5yrs. Pls advice and do HMO carry malaria and thyroid test?
He needs to get the details of the bank or institution he is registered with. Does he have a RSA pin. He should get the contact of the officer in charge from his account department. 5years is too much to lose o
For the Hmo, yes Although it depends on his package but malaria test will still be covered.
Regarding the pension issue, let your boyfriend write to PenCom (info@pencom.gov.ng) providing details and documentary evidence of his appointment letter, last three months pays lip and last RSA statement. His name will be protected and his company made to remit all outstanding pension contributions plus interests. Company will also be sanctioned. PenCom loves to handle such cases. Nigerians should learn to make official complaints and test the efficiency of public institutions - use social media to drag them if they don't perform.
Your bf waited till now before he could omplain of his pension and tax deduction from is salary, who does that? He should complain to his company HR,bsend them a mail and also send a mail o his pension people, he should write o those in charge of tax in his company, my new office every six months they present everyone with their tax certificate to see what you have done so far. If if I don't get my pension alrt in a month i call them or write to them. No time
Sweetie how are you this morning? Hope your weekend was cool. I read you talked about not lowering your standard for anyone yesterday. That's okay, good and fine by me. In fact, I am gonna upgrade my doings so I can catch up with your standard you know. You are a darling. I pray today favour you in everything you do. Have a nice day.
TeeJay, this is the type of posts you should make comments on. Not technical stuff (monetary and fiscal policy issues) that you have very limited knowledge.
Anon 9:29, shush 🤫 We all are here to learn one way or the other. Teejay will comment on any post he feels like, there’s nothing you can do about it. You woke up with so much bitterness in your heart, you need a truck load of honey. Next time, scroll past his comments.
Just make sure that each day you can shout a joyous shout and speak light to your life if you cannot pray. Make sure you declare positive things into your ife before leaving your house every day. God will keep the fire burning in you.
In this group. I am beginning to understand though that I have to try to fight it and ask for God's grace. It is a battle because not praying is exactly what the enemy wants you to do, so he frustrates your efforts to get answers to your prayers. God will help us.
Congrats Men n sex Na wa,battling hyperemesis gravidium with spotting and on IV fluid almost every other day but hubby manages to stay one week and keep begging for sex like his life depends on it and if you refuse he can carry face for Africa to even say he is gynaecologist u can't even manipulate with d health issues.i tire
08:55 sex is a good thing you know. Even the strongest of men, kings and presidents begs for it before their women. You see men on their kneels just for it especially when the woman isn't in the mood.
Dear God, Thank you for your amazing power and work in our lives, thank you for your goodness and for your blessings over us. Thank you for your great love and care. Forgive us for when we don't thank you enough, for who you are, for all that you do, for all that you've given. Renew our spirits, fill us with your peace and joy. We love you and we need you, this day and every day. We give you praise and thanks, for You alone are worthy! In Jesus Name, Amen. . #Gratitude #Thanksgiving #NewWeek #GoodMorning
I hate accepting invitations to go to people's church, except for weddings or child dedications. In Nigeria, once you honour such invite, they begin to plot your conversion (not like you belong to another faith o).
My neighbor invited me to her church and after so much persuasion, I agreed to go for one of their thanksgivings. After the service, I was welcomed as a visitor, I made it clear to the man who was asked to take my details I belonged to another denomination and not looking to change and so was totally not necessary taking my details. He said no problem, it's just protocol.
That was the beginning of my tribulation.
I attend a semi orthodox church, the type people call old school. It's my parents'church, I was born and brought up in it. And although I deviated and still deviate for its doctrines and precepts; dressing, lifestyle etc, it's still the only church I feel comfortable in. They tell me I'm a sinner and would go to hell if I die eventually. And these are the things I like to hear on Sundays, not the usual you know...
My neighbors church is the typical new generation church. I'm not a fan! These people started persecuting me with calls, messages etc. She'd come to my apartment when she's about to leave to church, mind you I'm preparing too, to take me along. Her excuse being that her church is closer, why do I need to spend money on transport going to mine? Yeah my church is far from my house, but I don't mind spending 1k every Sunday on transportation. How is it her or anyone's business?
The last one that got me mad was last Sunday. I was besieged by the pastor and his wife in the morning, I reluctantly went with. Is that not madness? I wasn't happy and it was written all over my face throughout. I hurriedly left after their 'drama'. I've not seen my neighbor since yesterday but I plan on telling her my mind when I do. Problem is I don't know how to tell her without hurting her and her pastor's feelings. I don't like their church! I want to be left alone!
Winners people have been on my case, so I understand that feelings. Funny things is that, they usually do that with beautiful sisters with angelic voice. Most times I can't say no and will sheepishly go with sister like a sheep about to be slaughter.
My goodness this is not how to win people to Christ! Why are people doing the job of the holy spirit for God’s sake. Holy Spirit convinces people not us human being! You better tell them today and damn their feelings!!!! This is about you. If you don’t like it then you don’t period. If their feelings are hurt then oh the hell well. Put on your girl pants on and let them know your feelings todayyyy! This brings back memories of deeper life days and their forceful ways of winning people to Christ. Ahn ahn na by force?? Talk to your neighbor asap!
of course you will like your parents church. they tell you you will go to hell but do nothing to make you see the need for salvation...alot of you there being just bench warmers and truly having a relationship with Christ...except a man be born again he will not see the kingdom of God. stop exaggerating cos they cant force you. if you dont want to go simple. evangelism is an active word, if the person doesnt want fine. do not see anything wrong in what they are doing, if you dont want to go with them say so period
Next time, tell them to go look for the Fulani Herdsmen and convert them. How does one convert a Christian again? Point is, it's the unbelievers that really need to hear the message of the cross and NOT people who already believe. You know what'am sayin?
Nice one. This is really talking to me. I have worked and worked yet my efforts never gets appreciated, rather I will get surcharges. You work like an elephant but your salary becomes peanuts. The take home is nothing to write home about.
It is either you support good or you support evil... You can't be cold, warm and hot at the same time (the only time this might be possible is when one is sick)
Your opinion about me does not matter to me. What you think of me is how you see yourself.
Sorry dear, with time you will.. Engage yourself in something that'll take your mind off it,after work you can start watching a comedy series(I recommend 'how I met your mother,girlfriends or modern family ),you'll laugh so hard...you can also read novels, go out with friends and before you know it, you'll be on the next phase of your life and forget about these moments . 😘😘
Time to read more book and focus n things that makes you happy.
Write out 10 things you dislike about the person that broke your heart. Every time you feel the pain is coming just read up their bad side and laugh over it. Tell yourself i deserve a better fellow and trust God for a better person.
# Dear_Parents_Guardians A child will go to school by 7am and close by 5pm for five days out of the seven days in a week. During weekends that child comes home with many assignments in all the subjects he or she is offering in school and at such, there won't be time to rest and play at the weekends. The child does that for almost four months hoping to enjoy the holidays only for the school (in collaboration with the parents) to come up with a scam in the name of holidays lesson. What exactly do you want to teach that child again at this period? Is it what he or she learnt in the just concluded session or what they will learn next term? Dear Nigerian parents, summer holiday is a period you allow a child to experience other things in life apart from formal education. Allow them to travel for the vacation and if you don't have money for that, take them to places where they will learn new skills. Let them go and learn drawing, computer coding, how to play football, martial art, business, catering, tie and dye, foreign languages, Barbing, sewing, hairdressing, how about music classes? Etc. Everytime Book!! book!!!book!!!! .This is why most of our youths are unemployed. They only had FORMAL education; no FINANCIAL education. They can't do any other thing apart from white collar jobs. We learn how to discover a whole lot of things in school but not how to discover ourselves "SCHOOL IS NOT ENOUGH"!!! Dear beloved parents/guardians, please avail these little ones the opportunities to explore life!!! Yes...... Let them in into the world of self-discovery. True happiness and contentment comes from doing what you have passion for. Copied
Nice. I guess because i refuse my grandkids from going to summer classes that was why they brought them to my home. They are all learning new language and cooking. They are also learning the act of SAFETY and FIRST AID
lol....i remember during one of our long holidays,I and my brother were sent to stay with one of our uncle's that was a busines man in mushin market....chai...we learnt a lot during that period..we were only like 11 or 12 years old then. every morning we would wake up early to go the shop..it gave us an experience on the other side of life. we started handling transactions at that age and we eventually learnt the trade (leather business). we learnt that for like 3 months before school resumed... Now, doing business doesn't scare me I guess it's beacause we were exposed to that life very early.
Castle stop giving Miss A your energy as in NO COMMENT towards her again.
I hate to bring back her past but wasn't she married and now divorced and a single mum yet looks down on 'baby mothers' who are also single mums. Na same category she dey so leave am.
Please keep quiet!! She doesn't look down on babymamas, she doesn't like them... Y'all should direct your anger to God and leave that woman alone!! If she didn't bring her story here, you won't know she's divorced.... Huge difference from being a babymama!!
Whether we like it or not, pre-marital sex is bad... You think you can give God an excuse for that?? Shior!!
Maybe she communicated wrongly, i don't know but you people should stop bringing up her divorce whenever any little issue arise!!
Good morning people of SDK. I pray this week brings us only good, amen.
I read comments yesterday about losing a child. I couldn't bring myself to type that yesterday so old bear with me.
I became pregnant last year November with our third child. Everyone was happy, it was the easiest pregnancy I have ever had, no morning sickness, no nothing at all. I was just glowing. My girls were overjoyed when we discovered they were having a brother.
On Saturday 13th July 2019 around to 7 in the morning we left for the hospital . Gothe to hospital around 7.15 by 8 o'clock I delivered a bouncing baby boy. He came out and was screaming. 3kg and healthy.
He lived for only 4 hours. He died of negligence. the suctioning wasn't done well My baby developed a breathing problem I was complaining and both the docs and nurses were telling me and the hubs to calm down. Madam you just gave birth relax o. And just like that when I started screaming and the hubs had punched a doc in the face, they came to see the baby and started running up and down but it was too late.
My baby died. The worst pain ever I don't wish my enemy this kind of pain.
I look at my girls and am consoled. Will I be able to go through another pregnancy, am not sure. The hubs said he is done. That burying our boy was the most painful thing ever.
Now to every woman out there, you will never experience losing a child. To the ttc you will conceive and bring forth a healthy child, to those already pregnant, fret not the Lord is with you and it will surely end in praise.
Lastly always listen to your instinct, pray and look up to God. It's well with us all, amen
Awwwwww..... So sorry about your loss All this stupid hospitals with negligence May God comfort you and yours and Amen to your prayers. Stay strong ma'am. 😘😘😘
Good morning BVs ! Thanks Stella for bringing on Ekweremadu's post. I would say you help some people let out biles that could have cholef if not released . Kai! So much hatredfor the Igbo race. I read comments and was like how did we hate ourselves so much yet we shout the " one Nigeria" sligan. Pls condemn the act not the People. Someone. The Igbos are cancerous Abi? Bcos they kill their hosts or what. Pls let's check our utterances. Not even saying some but all, Kai! DONT condemn an entire tribe. We have good friends among various people, we inter marry n do business within our. PLEASE STOP THE BILE AND HATRED!!. "Person wey we don't live for house together don be our neighbor"
As an inquisitive person, I wanted to observe and then ask questions about how to remain lovey dovey after many years of marriage. My Observations: My social media marriage made in heaven "would have been mentor" talks to her hubby like a maid,no respect ooo,not minding the presence of an outsider (me). Her hubby asked for food and she said there was no food at home, meanwhile I was offered food. Her personal room was looking the best but masters bedroom looked like a deserted room with clothes, papers littered everywhere and smelling. Infact I didn't want to see more so found my voice to ask my question. And the answer was "my dear it's just to feel not left out ooo" all her friends keeps posting lovely pictures and she didn't want to be left out...her marital relationship with her hubby has broken down so much that she cooks noodles when hubby leaves and gives her children and washes her pot afterwards giving the impression that there is no food at home. She eats out to her satisfaction according to her and so many other things which I don't want to talk about. Reason for the write up...believe everything you see on social media to your own peril.... I went back home knelt down and said 'God I thank you for my Family.
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ReplyDeleteGood morning lovelies 😘 😘😘 😘
I'm here for all those 'Mind your business' people.... Y'all are hypocrites ooh(Including me before i left the WhatsApp group)!!
ReplyDeleteDo you really know what Mind Your Business is? You come on a post, give your unsolicited 'Mind your Business' opinion, how's it that you don't even practice what you preach by actually 'Minding your business'??
Oh well, I'm here to say I'M NOT MINDING MY BUSINESS, that's why I'm here to read gossips and what not and also give my opinion!! To mind your business is to read and not comment.... Thanks!!!
Good Morning guys!!!
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DeleteI have said a couple of times here that I really do not understand this mind your business thing. Till something happens to you and u realise where was everybody else...oh they were busy minding their business.
DeleteBini, i am telling u...i so much hate that slogan. I think dey use it wen its convenient for them cuz the people who make that statement are the ones who actually never mind their business...u wld see them here askin chronicles posters for updates, askin Stella to bring gist about celebrities and i wld be like, wait i thought we were all supposed to be minding our businesses
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You can pass your message across without being so insulting..its too much...how dare you go that far?you should face what is discussed and not start with personal issue....i find it really low.....because people applaud ur commnts does not mean you are always correct...if someone goes gutter you bring them back with love....try it
DeleteDon't waste your time on someone who leaves her brain behind when typing. Always spewing rubbish rubbish and rubbish! The most proudly ignorant person I know. Rubbish rubbish and rubbish!
DeleteWhat could Ceaser have posted for SDK to delete. This could be brutal. Anyone has an idea?
DeleteI like your comments ceaser but try to listen to Stella.you can still pass your message without been mean.
DeleteGood morning stella God bless all bvs, I read Ceaser's comment not nice at all, thank you Stella for doing the right thing.
DeleteMs A is linguistically competent but lacks communicative competence which is a trait found in little children learning to converse. They say it as it comes into their mind without filtering. As adults, we need to use tact and sometimes learn to be diplomatic when passing our messages in order not to incur the wrath of those such messages is directed at.
DeleteThe blog is like a market place and we don't need to keep showing everybody how we were brought up at home.
Okay castle, I didn't even know that we have lived together in the same house, ate from the same plates and drank from the same cup.
DeleteLike seriously, you know me?
Don't mistake me for your fellow cliques (I am not a member of your clique and I don't know you from anywhere)
Good riddance to bad rubbish.
I didn't get to read the comment but I think I understand it now going with what Castle wrote. Ceaser, calm down. I have always known you to be educated and highly intelligent here. You can do better when passing your message without the degrading words. I don't like your comment being flagged down by SDK as a result of the wordings.
DeleteDo I blame him??? No! I blame those that urge him on by even commenting under his comments. Mtsheew. Anything for clout
Deleteyou should have commented on the post yesterday instead of bringing it to sp for further bashing..even though what ms A said is wrong for generalizing,she's not completely wrong..you should have focused on what she said instead of draging her personal life into it..the first that occured to me was 'stella even posted this'?
DeleteI didn't get to read your comment before it was removed, but if the comment was directed to ms a then I endorse it. More of such please!!!!
DeleteOya, everybody move on.
DeleteSince Ms A said hoo ha she hates babymammas, this Castle has been trolling her day in day out. Stop fornicating she won't hear, aunty all the underground moves from your blog clique are not secret o. Eheeeeennn the day fowl nyarsh will blow e go do u like film
DeleteGood riddance to bad rubbish. That is it!!!!
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Ms A 🙌 thank you for dumping Castle's ass, she isn't worth your friendship
I don't know what Caeser wrote up there but I will have to say that Mrs A can be quite tactless and judgmental. You don't know people's stories of what made them took whatever decision thru did but that doesn't give you the right to make such harsh and generalizing judgment about their situation. Her comments in recent times have been quite sad and disappointing.
Delete9:27 usu susuo gi onu. That fowl nyash will swallow you and your blog clique. Satan
DeleteGood morning to you all.... Have a mind blowing week ahead!
ReplyDeleteGood morning lovelies,on my way to work.have a blessed week ooo.
ReplyDeleteYou can attain true peace when you finally realize that everything happens for a reason; by the will of the Almighty. He is the One in total control. You can bear any hardship with patience if you learn to trust Him. Don’t be sad or weakened by it. Relax, He’s got your back!
ReplyDeleteGOOD MORNING EVERYONE😊
Good morning to you too..... Nothing inner peace and joy
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ReplyDeleteBlessed week for everyone as we step out today.
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DeleteWhere have you been?
His colleague is using his phone.
DeleteGood morning Bigbanty.
DeleteHello Bigbanty, how are you doing?
DeleteSlutty chick have been busy plus typhoid do me shege.
DeleteJaunty I no get strength for wahala atleast you still remember me for something,I'm honored, thank you
Beautiful morning castle how is baby doing.
Blessed princess I'm very well thank you ma
Pls kindly advice me my fellow bv, the company where my bf friend work have been deducting tax and pension funds from his salary, only for him to start getting his pension alert 2 mths ago and the money there is just for d 2mths and this is a company he has been working with for 5yrs. Pls advice and do HMO carry malaria and thyroid test?
ReplyDeleteOdikwa very serious,lawyers and insurance people in the house come o
DeleteHe needs to get the details of the bank or institution he is registered with. Does he have a RSA pin. He should get the contact of the officer in charge from his account department.
Delete5years is too much to lose o
For the Hmo, yes
Although it depends on his package but malaria test will still be covered.
Regarding the pension issue, let your boyfriend write to PenCom (info@pencom.gov.ng) providing details and documentary evidence of his appointment letter, last three months pays lip and last RSA statement. His name will be protected and his company made to remit all outstanding pension contributions plus interests. Company will also be sanctioned. PenCom loves to handle such cases. Nigerians should learn to make official complaints and test the efficiency of public institutions - use social media to drag them if they don't perform.
DeleteYour bf waited till now before he could omplain of his pension and tax deduction from is salary, who does that? He should complain to his company HR,bsend them a mail and also send a mail o his pension people, he should write o those in charge of tax in his company, my new office every six months they present everyone with their tax certificate to see what you have done so far. If if I don't get my pension alrt in a month i call them or write to them. No time
DeleteDid you read what she wrote up there?
DeleteY’alls leave my SVD for me 🙄
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Sweetie how are you this morning? Hope your weekend was cool. I read you talked about not lowering your standard for anyone yesterday. That's okay, good and fine by me. In fact, I am gonna upgrade my doings so I can catch up with your standard you know. You are a darling. I pray today favour you in everything you do. Have a nice day.
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DeleteTeeJay, this is the type of posts you should make comments on. Not technical stuff (monetary and fiscal policy issues) that you have very limited knowledge.
DeleteAwwwwwwww sweet teejay, I am fine.
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DeleteWe all are here to learn one way or the other.
Teejay will comment on any post he feels like, there’s nothing you can do about it.
You woke up with so much bitterness in your heart, you need a truck load of honey.
Next time, scroll past his comments.
Slutty and TeeJay - two of a kind SMH
DeleteAnon 11:52, yes we are, get gone 👅
DeleteLMFAO..... @Anonymous 11:52. Baby see as people dey jealous our love. Na waaa ooh.
DeleteSee them...come and take his phone and help him comment on the posts you feel is appropriate for him. Ndi ara
DeleteGod , give me the strength to get closer to you daily.
ReplyDeleteI keep finding it very difficult to pray these days and I am fighting the urge so bad. God sees my heart... enjoy your day people!
Me too!!
DeleteGod help us
Just make sure that each day you can shout a joyous shout and speak light to your life if you cannot pray. Make sure you declare positive things into your ife before leaving your house every day. God will keep the fire burning in you.
DeleteIn this group. I am beginning to understand though that I have to try to fight it and ask for God's grace. It is a battle because not praying is exactly what the enemy wants you to do, so he frustrates your efforts to get answers to your prayers. God will help us.
DeleteAnd it was a success, thank you Lord for making it perfect and more than I ever expected.
ReplyDeleteThanks to you all for your prayers, I'm so grateful, may God answer all your prayers too.
My wedding was a great success, it was far more than my dreamed wedding, new age with new status. May God make my home a heaven on earth.
Body aches is real, yet someone still wants show despite all the serious stress 🚶♀🚶♀🚶♀🚶♀🚶♀🚶♀🚶♀🚶♀, na where men get their strength from?
*Larry was here*
If he's 40 secs you Will still complain
DeleteCongratulations God bless your marriage, all your hearth desire shall come to pass.
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DeleteWow! Congratulations Larry. May God bless your new home with every good thing.
DeleteCongrats Larry. God bless your home
DeleteCongrats Larry.. God bless your home
DeleteAmen! God bless your marriage.
DeleteHappy married life Larry.
DeleteCongratulations Iyawo, God bless your new home
DeleteCongrats babe, I wish you all the best😘
DeleteCongrats Larry. God bless your new home. Your moniker sometimes sounds like a guy to me even when I know you are a lady.
DeleteCongrats
DeleteMen n sex Na wa,battling hyperemesis gravidium with spotting and on IV fluid almost every other day but hubby manages to stay one week and keep begging for sex like his life depends on it and if you refuse he can carry face for Africa to even say he is gynaecologist u can't even manipulate with d health issues.i tire
Congratulations Larry, after this Na ibeji oooo, when it reach that matter, men strength dey fly come
Delete08:55 sex is a good thing you know. Even the strongest of men, kings and presidents begs for it before their women. You see men on their kneels just for it especially when the woman isn't in the mood.
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DeleteMay the love and peace of the lord reign Supreme in your home. Amen
Congratulations Larry, May God bless your new home
DeleteCongratulations Larry
DeleteGod bless your new home...
Belated birthday dear..
Congratulations to you Mrs. Larry, may God keep adding spices to your home.
DeleteSex no Sabi I am tired, except you don't like the person. Is sex that will calm all your bones, body when you are ired. Enjoy your marriage.
congrats.
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DeleteAmen to all your prayers, may we always have reasons to celebrate. Ibeji is the next agenda @Zingykreations.
DeleteTEEJAY, I'm always a she. @Anon 8:55 you mean he can stay a week with 'do'? he's a really nice man o, mine can't do that o
*Larry was here*
Congrats. Happy married life.
DeleteCongrats Larry, I wish you a happy married life
DeleteCongratulations Larry. God bless your home
DeleteCongratulations Starry! God bless your marriage.
DeleteCongratulations. God bless your home.
DeleteCongrats Larry. God bless your home.
DeleteToday was a sleep and Lazy around type of Sunday. I deserved it tho!!!
ReplyDeletePls how is mama triplet?
ReplyDeleteDear God, Thank you for your amazing power and work in our lives, thank you for your goodness and for your blessings over us. Thank you for your great love and care. Forgive us for when we don't thank you enough, for who you are, for all that you do, for all that you've given. Renew our spirits, fill us with your peace and joy. We love you and we need you, this day and every day. We give you praise and thanks, for You alone are worthy! In Jesus Name, Amen.
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#Gratitude
#Thanksgiving
#NewWeek
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I hate accepting invitations to go to people's church, except for weddings or child dedications. In Nigeria, once you honour such invite, they begin to plot your conversion (not like you belong to another faith o).
ReplyDeleteMy neighbor invited me to her church and after so much persuasion, I agreed to go for one of their thanksgivings. After the service, I was welcomed as a visitor, I made it clear to the man who was asked to take my details I belonged to another denomination and not looking to change and so was totally not necessary taking my details. He said no problem, it's just protocol.
That was the beginning of my tribulation.
I attend a semi orthodox church, the type people call old school. It's my parents'church, I was born and brought up in it. And although I deviated and still deviate for its doctrines and precepts; dressing, lifestyle etc, it's still the only church I feel comfortable in. They tell me I'm a sinner and would go to hell if I die eventually. And these are the things I like to hear on Sundays, not the usual you know...
My neighbors church is the typical new generation church. I'm not a fan!
These people started persecuting me with calls, messages etc. She'd come to my apartment when she's about to leave to church, mind you I'm preparing too, to take me along. Her excuse being that her church is closer, why do I need to spend money on transport going to mine? Yeah my church is far from my house, but I don't mind spending 1k every Sunday on transportation. How is it her or anyone's business?
The last one that got me mad was last Sunday. I was besieged by the pastor and his wife in the morning, I reluctantly went with. Is that not madness? I wasn't happy and it was written all over my face throughout. I hurriedly left after their 'drama'. I've not seen my neighbor since yesterday but I plan on telling her my mind when I do.
Problem is I don't know how to tell her without hurting her and her pastor's feelings.
I don't like their church! I want to be left alone!
Good morning Stella and BVs.
Listen to your spirit my dear.
DeleteWinners people have been on my case, so I understand that feelings. Funny things is that, they usually do that with beautiful sisters with angelic voice. Most times I can't say no and will sheepishly go with sister like a sheep about to be slaughter.
DeleteChoose your words carefully.
DeleteIt is not by force to change your place of worship.
Nice write up. Speak your mind. I have been there, it is really something! Mtchew
DeleteMy goodness this is not how to win people to Christ! Why are people doing the job of the holy spirit for God’s sake. Holy Spirit convinces people not us human being! You better tell them today and damn their feelings!!!! This is about you. If you don’t like it then you don’t period. If their feelings are hurt then oh the hell well. Put on your girl pants on and let them know your feelings todayyyy! This brings back memories of deeper life days and their forceful ways of winning people to Christ. Ahn ahn na by force?? Talk to your neighbor asap!
DeleteLeading people to Christ is totally different from invitation to Church. Your neighbor doesn't understand that.
DeleteThanks all.
Deleteof course you will like your parents church. they tell you you will go to hell but do nothing to make you see the need for salvation...alot of you there being just bench warmers and truly having a relationship with Christ...except a man be born again he will not see the kingdom of God. stop exaggerating cos they cant force you. if you dont want to go simple. evangelism is an active word, if the person doesnt want fine. do not see anything wrong in what they are doing, if you dont want to go with them say so period
DeleteNext time, tell them to go look for the Fulani Herdsmen and convert them. How does one convert a Christian again? Point is, it's the unbelievers that really need to hear the message of the cross and NOT people who already believe. You know what'am sayin?
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ReplyDeleteEarly Morning doggy be making me come like onye akwukwu di.
ReplyDeleteMorning ndi SDK blog visitors.
😂😂😂 As the giver or receiver? Akwukwu adogbukwala gi.
DeleteBikò akwùkwù adògbùkwala gi Nwanne mmadu..😀😀..Nwayò bu ijè
Delete@MARTINS ABOY
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Delete@Martin please how do you get to add this vowel signs?
DeletePrincess dear, it's called tone mark.
DeleteLol @ like onye akwukwu do. Anonymous 08:16 you are a clown 🙊🙊🙊🙊🙊🙊🙊🙊
DeleteBiko nwannem akwukwu agaghi adogbu GI o. Jiri nwayo Rachael ofe di oku. Okwa odoghi GI too much?
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DeleteThanks @Castle
DeleteBad shildren on this blog 😂😂.
DeleteGood morning beautiful people
ReplyDeleteGood morning lovelies
ReplyDeleteMay our week be successful
Olori how are you. And how was your friend's wedding. Thank God for safe trip. #fellowvirgo
DeleteFellow Virgo Dearie, I am fine thank you
DeleteIt was a great event... Thank God
Wishing you a great day 😘😘😘
Should I quit my job? Before you do answer the following questions.
ReplyDeleteDo you think about quitting nearly everyday?
Is your heath (emotional or physical) being affected?
Do you feel like you’re selling your soul for your paycheck as you head into work each day?
Are you being bullied or discriminated at work?
Are you being demoralized by the everyday "I will sack you" by your employees?
Do your coworkers create a negative environment?
Do you feel sick to your stomach every Sunday night thinking about the next work week?
Is the company unstable (experiencing reductions in force and/or closing locations)?
Were you passed over for a promotion?
Are you no longer challenged in your current role and see no potential to change positions?
Have you reached the breaking point and a job search feels better than going to your workplace another day?
If your answer is YES, then I recommend you begin a proactive job search ASAP.
Prepare your resume, update your LinkedIn profile, head to networking events, and find professional growth opportunities to take on.
Nice one. This is really talking to me. I have worked and worked yet my efforts never gets appreciated, rather I will get surcharges. You work like an elephant but your salary becomes peanuts. The take home is nothing to write home about.
DeleteGood morning to you all...
ReplyDeleteIt is either you support good or you support evil... You can't be cold, warm and hot at the same time (the only time this might be possible is when one is sick)
Your opinion about me does not matter to me. What you think of me is how you see yourself.
Resting day for me.
Yes na. You don kuku build duplex here.
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ReplyDeleteHow do I overcome this heart break. My heart aches,can't sleep all night.
ReplyDeleteSorry dear, with time you will..
DeleteEngage yourself in something that'll take your mind off it,after work you can start watching a comedy series(I recommend 'how I met your mother,girlfriends or modern family ),you'll laugh so hard...you can also read novels, go out with friends and before you know it, you'll be on the next phase of your life and forget about these moments .
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Time will heal u unless you are d clingy type.
DeleteTime to read more book and focus n things that makes you happy.
DeleteWrite out 10 things you dislike about the person that broke your heart. Every time you feel the pain is coming just read up their bad side and laugh over it. Tell yourself i deserve a better fellow and trust God for a better person.
You must try to get your mind off it by focusing on other things.
DeleteIt's a beautiful week already.... I love Jesus and he loves you too much.
ReplyDeleteI love Him too and He loves me and gives me hope.
Deletegood morning BVs
ReplyDelete# Dear_Parents_Guardians
ReplyDeleteA child will go to school by 7am and close by 5pm for five days out of the seven days in a week.
During weekends that child comes home with many assignments in all the subjects he or she is offering in school and at such, there won't be time to rest and play at the weekends.
The child does that for almost four months hoping to enjoy the holidays only for the school (in collaboration with the parents) to come up with a scam in the name of holidays lesson.
What exactly do you want to teach that child again at this period? Is it what he or she learnt in the just concluded session or what they will learn next term?
Dear Nigerian parents, summer holiday is a period you allow a child to experience other things in life apart from formal education.
Allow them to travel for the vacation and if you don't have money for that, take them to places where they will learn new skills.
Let them go and learn drawing, computer coding, how to play football, martial art, business, catering, tie and dye, foreign languages, Barbing, sewing, hairdressing, how about music classes? Etc.
Everytime Book!! book!!!book!!!!
.This is why most of our youths are unemployed. They only had FORMAL education; no FINANCIAL education.
They can't do any other thing apart from white collar jobs.
We learn how to discover a whole lot of things in school but not how to discover ourselves
"SCHOOL IS NOT ENOUGH"!!!
Dear beloved parents/guardians, please avail these little ones the opportunities to explore life!!! Yes...... Let them in into the world of self-discovery. True happiness and contentment comes from doing what you have passion for.
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Nice. I guess because i refuse my grandkids from going to summer classes that was why they brought them to my home. They are all learning new language and cooking. They are also learning the act of SAFETY and FIRST AID
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Deletelol....i remember during one of our long holidays,I and my brother were sent to stay with one of our uncle's that was a busines man in mushin market....chai...we learnt a lot during that period..we were only like 11 or 12 years old then.
Deleteevery morning we would wake up early to go the shop..it gave us an experience on the other side of life.
we started handling transactions at that age and we eventually learnt the trade (leather business).
we learnt that for like 3 months before school resumed...
Now, doing business doesn't scare me I guess it's beacause we were exposed to that life very early.
School is really not enough.
DeleteYou won't be taught everything in school.Experience is the best teacher.
May this week be better than last week.
ReplyDeleteGood morning everyone
A resounding Amen
DeleteCastle stop giving Miss A your energy as in NO COMMENT towards her again.
ReplyDeleteI hate to bring back her past but wasn't she married and now divorced and a single mum yet looks down on 'baby mothers' who are also single mums. Na same category she dey so leave am.
Kisses castle from a secret fan
Miss A pele
Good for her. You can never escape karma no matter how long. The man ran obviously because of her sanctimonious self.
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DeleteWhy use anon mode??
DeletePlease keep quiet!! She doesn't look down on babymamas, she doesn't like them... Y'all should direct your anger to God and leave that woman alone!! If she didn't bring her story here, you won't know she's divorced.... Huge difference from being a babymama!!
DeleteWhether we like it or not, pre-marital sex is bad... You think you can give God an excuse for that?? Shior!!
Maybe she communicated wrongly, i don't know but you people should stop bringing up her divorce whenever any little issue arise!!
Cookie I got love for you too so I won't reply you on this occasion but next time I will
DeleteJust remember life happens ok kisses
Anon, i get.... But the truth still stands!!
DeleteIf you don't have premarital sex, you won't get pregnant right? Or use protection!!
Life happens is not an excuse we can tender before God, I'm just saying though
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Ok sis oya catch these kisses darling
DeleteGood morning everyone
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday in advance
ReplyDeleteGood Morning beautiful hearts
ReplyDeleteNew Week
New Grace
God's blessings all the way...
Raining day, still at home waiting for the rain to stop.
ReplyDeleteGood morning people of SDK. I pray this week brings us only good, amen.
ReplyDeleteI read comments yesterday about losing a child. I couldn't bring myself to type that yesterday so old bear with me.
I became pregnant last year November with our third child. Everyone was happy, it was the easiest pregnancy I have ever had, no morning sickness, no nothing at all. I was just glowing. My girls were overjoyed when we discovered they were having a brother.
On Saturday 13th July 2019 around to 7 in the morning we left for the hospital . Gothe to hospital around 7.15 by 8 o'clock I delivered a bouncing baby boy. He came out and was screaming. 3kg and healthy.
He lived for only 4 hours.
He died of negligence.
the suctioning wasn't done well
My baby developed a breathing problem
I was complaining and both the docs and nurses were telling me and the hubs to calm down. Madam you just gave birth relax o. And just like that when I started screaming and the hubs had punched a doc in the face, they came to see the baby and started running up and down but it was too late.
My baby died.
The worst pain ever
I don't wish my enemy this kind of pain.
I look at my girls and am consoled. Will I be able to go through another pregnancy, am not sure. The hubs said he is done. That burying our boy was the most painful thing ever.
Now to every woman out there, you will never experience losing a child. To the ttc you will conceive and bring forth a healthy child, to those already pregnant, fret not the Lord is with you and it will surely end in praise.
Lastly always listen to your instinct, pray and look up to God. It's well with us all, amen
Awwwwww..... So sorry about your loss
DeleteAll this stupid hospitals with negligence
May God comfort you and yours and Amen to your prayers. Stay strong ma'am. 😘😘😘
Sorry for your loss dear.. may his soul continue to rest in peace...
DeleteHugs and lots of love.😘😘😘😘😘
OMG!! Hugs to u dearieee...Gosh praying for u !
DeleteSorry about your loss. This is so painful.
DeleteOh dear 😢.
DeleteYou'll be fine 😘
Sorry darling. May God comfort you and huby. He is resting in the Lord.
DeleteSo sorry for your lost. May God comfort your family
Delete😘😘😘😘 Take heart.
DeleteYou will have a rainbow baby when you least expect and HE will give y’all so much joy.
Good morning BVs ! Thanks Stella for bringing on Ekweremadu's post. I would say you help some people let out biles that could have cholef if not released . Kai! So much hatredfor the Igbo race. I read comments and was like how did we hate ourselves so much yet we shout the " one Nigeria" sligan. Pls condemn the act not the People. Someone. The Igbos are cancerous Abi? Bcos they kill their hosts or what. Pls let's check our utterances. Not even saying some but all, Kai! DONT condemn an entire tribe. We have good friends among various people, we inter marry n do business within our. PLEASE STOP THE BILE AND HATRED!!. "Person wey we don't live for house together don be our neighbor"
ReplyDeleteAs an inquisitive person, I wanted to observe and then ask questions about how to remain lovey dovey after many years of marriage.
ReplyDeleteMy Observations:
My social media marriage made in heaven "would have been mentor" talks to her hubby like a maid,no respect ooo,not minding the presence of an outsider (me).
Her hubby asked for food and she said there was no food at home, meanwhile I was offered food.
Her personal room was looking the best but masters bedroom looked like a deserted room with clothes, papers littered everywhere and smelling. Infact I didn't want to see more so found my voice to ask my question. And the answer was "my dear it's just to feel not left out ooo" all her friends keeps posting lovely pictures and she didn't want to be left out...her marital relationship with her hubby has broken down so much that she cooks noodles when hubby leaves and gives her children and washes her pot afterwards giving the impression that there is no food at home.
She eats out to her satisfaction according to her and so many other things which I don't want to talk about.
Reason for the write up...believe everything you see on social media to your own peril....
I went back home knelt down and said 'God I thank you for my Family.
Nice one with lessons. Thanks.
DeleteTruly not all we see on social media is real.
DeleteGood morning to everyone.
ReplyDeleteMrs Korkus Good morning ma! Good morning Bvees. Let us show empathy to other people this week pls. life can be hard. I love you all!
ReplyDeleteNo condition is permanent. Life is turn by turn.
DeleteGood morning lovelies.
ReplyDeleteThank God for another week.
God bless our day
Good morning BVs. beautiful week to y'all
ReplyDeleteWhy do people countdown to their birthdays? throwing a party, have an engagement or function on that day ? Na question i ask oo
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