''My experience in one church the other day (name of the church withheld) a female church member refused to hold my hand because am an amputee,
we were asked by the pastor to hold each other’s hands in prayer, so I held the hand of the person sitting next to me, after the first round of paryer we were asked to hold another person’s hand and I gave this fine sister my hand, 😂😂😂she was like bring the second hand and I told her I have problem with my hand, OMO na so the sisi quickly dropped my hand,and I asked her what the problem was?
She said my hands were not complete and she left and went in search of a complete hand, I was heart broken though but I can't come and kill myself, I believe am going to hug thousands of people maybe not with two hands but with a Golden heart...
Moral! No man can LOVE YOU LIKE GOD👍 #Superwoman''
Moral! No man can LOVE YOU LIKE GOD👍 #Superwoman''
I follow this girl and she does seem very hardworking. God bless her.
ReplyDeleteShe must have felt bad at this experience. People need to be more accepting of others..basics of humanity.
Exactly like my younger brother that his left hand was amputated last year, very painful thing 😥😥😥😥😥😥😥
DeleteChai! Imagine that woman!
ReplyDeleteEyah
ReplyDeleteGOD bless you lady. You are complete in the eyes of our maker.
ReplyDeleteGrace got you pretty woman.
Eeyah! God's love is unconditional. Be strong.
ReplyDeleteImagine! Inside the church. God bless you beautiful
ReplyDeleteWomen! Even in the church?? We are our own worst enemies. 😒
ReplyDeleteYou can say that again!!! I fear church women more than anything in this world
DeleteInside the church! And am sure her prayers included seeking for God's blessings. How does God bless u when you rejected ur neighbour for not‘beinv complete’....Gosh
ReplyDeleteThis lady sounds so upbeat
God bless her
It happens o. I attended one of these fire fire branches. We were asked to hold each other's hands. The sister looked at the weavon showing under my scarf. Light makeup, she just ignored me n I was lyk sista oya now, for where, she was just looking for s frllow hypo.. Another day in same church, one usher asked if I was a member, I looked at her straight in the eyes n said " na una know o. Shebi una day person wey rub cortex no be one of una, so I no even know weda I be member" She was taken aback at my response. Look at a handmaid of that Lord being discriminated against. When we don't even know what befalls Us tomorrow. e-hug to you beautiful one.
ReplyDeleteI don't think asking if you are a member of a church is bad, some people are just coming for the first time
DeleteNo dear. This particular woman had seen me severally. It was bcos of my makeup and or polished nails. No mind
DeleteAbeg, when going to fire church just do their style. Even Toke knows this. Shebi na prayer you go pray? Kuku remove the makeup na
DeleteNa wa...o people get mind sha,Inside church for that matter
ReplyDeleteMy story is slightly different, i was born without 3 fingers on my left hand(just the pink finger and the thumb) nd whenever this hold ur neighbors hands ish come up, i give my hands to anyone beside me only for them to reject it nd give me that sorry look (I hate sympathy so much) some prefer to hold my shoulders instead. I do feel bad but not most of the time because i really do what most of them cannot do. That has been my only consolidation.
ReplyDeleteThey are just retarded. E hugs dear
DeletePls be confident of your hand. I have a colleague with missing fingers like you. We all shake him with this hand and he relates with pple well with it. I once worked with a company where a vitiligo candidate was disqualified from a recruitment process cos my boss felt the guy's look was offensive. Information is power and it's unfortunate that some educated pple lack knowledge and empathy.
Delete*hugs***
DeleteBackward Nigerians.. Africans and religion, na dem call God pass
ReplyDeleteMy Thought exactly
DeleteAnd they expect God to bless them.
DeleteYou are absolutely right!
DeleteNo atom of humanity in them.
You should have named and shamed her so that will teach her a lesson from the pulpit.
ReplyDeleteSomehow I think she fabricated this story to seek attention, no one would do that..in the church?..I don't buy this,get a prostrate arm and build your confidence. One love😘
ReplyDeleteThis is one of them. You dnt buy it but you can sell your daft advice online. What’s with the hypocritical one love at the end of your sentence. If you want to be a bitch, be a complete one.
DeletePlease type with sense anon 18:10.
DeleteYou will be shocked at what people made up for clout! I don’t believe this story too! Name the church please! Some people just play the pity card all the time! Nobody will say that in church! Church is where people go to pretend the most, they can say that in their minds but to voice it out! Nah! This story is made up!
DeleteAnon 18:10 you are a goat.
DeleteThis story is not made up. I believe her. You don't know what people are capable of. If only you knew. What does she need your pity or sympathy for? She can't Change the fact that she has one hand by no fault of hers.
DeleteI met a lady who had cerebral palsy so she is not like normal healthy...if you get. Her speech is slurred but very intelligent. We met at a seminar and she talked about the discrimination she faces. Some taxi's won't pick her...
This story is not made up. I believe her. You don't know what people are capable of. If only you knew. What does she need your pity or sympathy for? She can't Change the fact that she has one hand by no fault of hers.
DeleteI met a lady who had cerebral palsy so she is not like normal healthy...if you get. Her speech is slurred but very intelligent. We met at a seminar and she talked about the discrimination she faces. Some taxi's won't pick her...
Olivia fabricate lies for you??? She cant that story is true!! I remeber posting her pics on my status during her bday,and a frnd syd that she doesnt knw y these type of ppl sacres her....i asked her how?? Cos i was confused,so if dis frnd can say dis,then that story up there is true,nd yes i knw her nd shes my frnd!!!
DeleteI remember going to my cousin's house last year, as a tailor i wore my fine top to there, only for the wife to snap it and wants to give it to her tailor.
ReplyDeleteMy cousin told her i made it and can make for her, i took her measurements oh, only to ask for her number so I can call when i'm done, she started carrying shoulder oh, "people wey get my number ehn.." she didn't give me oh
Then after a while my cousin came and scream at the way i'm living, like he no believe am. My friend says how i'm living, i pass am for level, and I didn't even know, yet the wife was carrying shoulder for me.
Moral of the story, most people that look down on you no reach you sef for level.
Girl, I glad you love yourself. Some people who have all parts of their bodies complete but still have low self-esteem.
ReplyDeleteSome Nigerians and Africans should let go of their biases and Superstition against physically challenged people, people with vitiligo or albinos etc. They have feelings and are just like everyone else.
For the two anonymous BVs that disputed this story, you are just pretending you don't know there are many church attendees who do not know Christ at all. Whitewashed sepulchre.
Aww so sad. Why such discrimination?
ReplyDeleteonly in Nigeria
ReplyDeleteMy greatest advice to u sister all of us in this life are in what I call different time zone,some die @ birth some @10,no wife no sex no children while some@20 others @100 with nothing. Some suffere for 100years,some were born armless while some lost theirs in accident, some money every where no child, some used for ritual while other use themselves for it.so on and so on.So you have one hand to praise God others have two but were born cripple. Some hands and legs are OK but born HIV inherited from a mistake by either of the parents. Pls I wish I can feel this ur beautiful face I am not jealous though, may be I was born ugly.
ReplyDeleteThey go to Church. But their heart is full OE bitterness and hate.
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