Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative -UPDATE

Remember the guy whose Friend,wife and their new born baby movied into his Apartment?The story has ended....................OMG!!!

RE -RE-AT A CROSSROAD

I thought of going to my grandma's place and I realized if I do so many questions will come up about what's going on,so to avoid that,I stayed back from going to my grandma's place.

So I went back home to see if I can continue staying with them.
I have never see someone who is so entitled like my friend,he gave orders like he pleases.he changed up the way my sitting room was,got back and I asked why did you have to reset my sitting room,he told me because of some people,coming to visit him so as to accommodate them and make the sitting room looks comfortable.




I told him so my sitting room is not comfortable enough,like is there something missing in the sitting room that should make it comfortable and I told him he should have talk to me first before doing that.he moved the water dispenser to the bedroom I asked why he said because of the baby if he needs water at midnight so it will be so easy to get water.I couldn't take it anymore I was furious,angry and I realized I lost my home.
I just made up my mind to stay in a hotel for the main time or sleep at work sometimes.


One night while I was in the hotel,i was chatting with my best friend who is a female and we were catching up cos she travelled down to one of the state in the south.so she asked me where I was I told her I'm presently in an hotel,she was like you carry babe go,I told her no,that I'm staying in the hotel for some time,the next is what happened to your apartment I was trying to dodge the question but she knew something was off,immediately my phone ranged and it was her and I had to explain everything to her.she was so mad gave me so many insults,she said she has always told me not to allow people take advantage of my meekness and kindheartedness for granted.then the advice I got from the blog especially from slutty chick struck me immediately and I told her about it if I can get a female who can act as my GF would be better, the next thing she said search no more I'm coming back tomorrow, I was like are you serious,she said yes.



I thought she was joking,the following day I forgot about it,the next thing I got a call that she is in Lagos and on her way to my place i told her I will meet her after I'm done at work.Na so gbege start to happen.

After some hours I got a call from my friend saying there is lady here in the house claiming to be my gf and he told me her name I said yes she is and I told my friend that she is the lady I use to talk about,I already told my friend about her,he knew the name but he hasn't met her until that day,he said I thought you said you guys are besties se una don dey date ni,I told him I just say I should give love a chance jare,he said its okay that hope she is not staying long, I said I don't know until I get home to discuss it with her.my bestie comes to my place frequently and she knows how my sitting room and kitchen was,I got back and I noticed she has changed everything back to the way it was,I just said in my mind war is brewing,nollywood movie go happen for my apartment. 

I was already feeling bad like what I was doing was wrong, I called my bestie aside and I said you are taking it too far babe,omo she almost gave me a slap that I should not say anything to her.


That girl she is a drama queen,she took control of the house,she made them see life from another angle,she is blunt,selfless and resilient. When my friend gives order she quickly response and gave him a polite reply with small insult.she noticed I was the one fuelling the generator since she came,she told me i should stop that we all should be in the dark.if he can not do a single thing of fuelling the generator after you accommodated them then leave it,little things like that counts.


One day we were all in the sitting room the next thing she asked was why are you sleeping in the sitting room sef you know we need our privacy,my eyes opened wide like is this girl normal I was just smiling like someone who is being controlled remotely,because I knew she was up to something.My friend and the wife looked at each other.



When it was at night bestie was already in the bedroom sleeping the wife was murmuring to the husband, so I asked what's going on,my friend told me your babe don sleep for bedroom and my wife wan sleep,I knew my bestie was faking it so I told them let me wake her up,I got to the bedroom her eyes was like don't just try it,I just stood there for a minute and I don't know what to do next.so I summoned courage to go back to the sitting room to tell my friend that she was fast asleep,that's how my friend start vexing ooo saying she was not suppose to behave that way,at least she knew they are married why will she just invade there privacy like that.

I apologised to both of them and we all both slept in the sitting room.


The following morning they went to church,so I and my bestie was left alone in the house another round of insult start from her,she said you are stupid oo that she heard everything my friend was saying last night so he can not stand someone invading his privacy and inconveniencing him but he can do otherwise to people, he said this is not a friend,that just 4 days she is here they are already feeling the heat,the same heat I have been enduring for over 3 weeks.

We heard a knock on the door she opened,it was her fiancé,he is also a friend thank God we have been able to build a strong bond and trust,she asked him what he was doing here,he said someone told him that you are staying in guy's place and when he got to the street he knew it was me(he always comes visiting too with her).so he said he should just check up on us.

That's how she narrated what's going on to her fiance next thing that one will say e dey do me make I slap you,I say you wan slap your in law..lol.
He said make we all gather dey here until dey get sense to leave, I told him not to worry your babe is doing a great job.after catching up he left.


I did not see my friend and the wife until past 8 in the night when they got back I asked what happened,he told me they were out, looking for house,I was so shocked I said hope I'm not the one pursuing you he said no ooo that since your girlfriend is here that he thinks its best to leave,the following day I got back he told me they have gotten an apartment,I just thought to myself that so you had the money with you all this while and you couldn't get an apartment.


I told my bestie about it she squeezed my ear and said always learn to stand up for yourself and tell people no is no.
My friend and the wife moved from my apartment last Friday and no bad blood from me to him even though I sensed he is not pleased with me but I still tried reaching out.


Slutty chick my adopted sister thank you so much for the advice and to all BVs you all at the best.


Stella thank you for not sending that slap you wanted to send the other day to reset my brain.

Your blog really saved me in thrashing out this issue


1.if I did not post it here I will still be leaving with them or maybe I would have left the apartment finally.


2.I won't even have the courage to open up to my bestie cos I will be scared of bashing from her.


3.You all taught me to be able to stand up for myself and learn to say NO.
I love you all.

*Next time speak up,if it is NO say NO!!!