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THE FRENEMY WITHIN



This life Ehn

Last week I had classes late into the day and by the time I finished, we couldn't get a bus (myself and 2 other friends) so we decided to hitch a ride that day as our destination was really far (about an hour journey). On entering the car, the man who helped us was really pleasant and was always initiating conversations. On alighting he collected our numbers but gave me his own specifically. On getting home, we wanted to thank him but I was out of call card and decided to use my friends phone (considering he has her number since he collected all our numbers) to call him.

 He picked and that was it. Then the next day, he called me but this time with a different number and said this was his other line in case I couldn't reach him on the main line. I said okay and they overheard my conversation with him (my phone speaker is bad so I had to put it on loudspeaker and it requires me shouting).


He then called and asked if we could chat but I told him I'm not on WhatsApp because I am using a small phone and he sounded disappointed and said guess he'll continue to call me then. Prior to that, I noticed my friend looks changed whenever I was on the phone with him and even when the other friend spoke and said "I hope this one lasts with you", she didn't say Amen because according to her "she can't say Amen because she wants him for herself and jokingly said "we are going to share him." 

This is someone with more than 5 boyfriends and yours truly with none. I just waved it off but it bothered me. The man was always calling me at intervals saying he was checking on me and all through the calls she was always there listening to our conversation and going out meant I had to shout before he could hear me as the phone is really faulty. Then this past weekend, I was in school reading when she called me and said she's going out so I just told her to drop the keys somewhere but then I had the urge to use the toilet and school toilets were closed so I had to go to the hostel. 

On getting there, I saw the man's car parked outside the hostel and was even surprised he came without telling me. I approached him and asked why he didn't call me before coming (I did this so my friend won't feel jealous) but you can imagine the pain I felt when she said "it's me he came to see". I was shocked and asked how she had his number and said she didn't delete it when we called him the other day and she had taken the other line from my phone while I slept so she called him because she wanted to hang out with him." I was hurt but I masked it and said Okay. She went out with him, got to the hostel and started talking about how she said she'll have him and she did, that she likes him and all. 

Later on in the night, he called and I picked and went outside (she was still able to hear much of our conversation as I have to shout when talking on the phone), he said she told him I have a boyfriend but I was looking for someone who can buy me a new phone and settle my bills because I'm just a broke girl but she wanted to save him from being duped by me hence she telling him she wanted to see him. He then apologized for asking me out and said "I'm sorry but I don't think I want to to be played by you, look for someone else to get you what you want forward because that's how you girls are. 

You're a gold digger." I wanted to cry but I couldn't. On getting inside she told me he asked her out and was wondering if she should accept his proposal. I told her to do whatever she likes and she said "that's why you're my friend."


I should have known she wouldn't change after calling my ex boyfriend behind my back because I used her phone to call him when I didn't have one and to think she would shoit at me about telling him not to call her phone because he wants to talk to me and if he's serious, he should get me a phone. Till today, I do not know whatever conversation they had. I only noticed we broke up 3 weeks after the call but I got to know few months after.

I really don't know what to do anymore but I'm definitely cutting her off from my life.

Just few months until graduation so lemme just endure till then because no way I can start thinking of renting an apartment when I have expenses (exams, project and getting a new phone) in my head.

I want to know if I'm overreacting by not talking to her again or should I just pretend and talk to her till we graduate as I'm a squatter in her place so you can see how bad things are as I dont want to be thrown out and I don't have much friends because I'm very shy.

Thanks in response you guys. Please, Perxie, iphie, doppelganger, Mrs A and all, I really need your input.

*You dont even know what God saved you from with this last one.....The man is not even worth it abeg...He heard from someone else and believed?what is even wrong in buying you a phone?how much is a phone sef?.........And that your friend?I wish you can move out like RIGHT NOW!!!

people like that can kill,ah ah...I am so upset,i dont know what else to say.