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FRUSTRATED VIRGIN



Stella, nice content. Came to know about your blog from instagram and It has kept me company ever since. Help post this as a chronicle for I am desperate and tired. 

I hear women go through a lot just trying to find the "ONE". Does it have to be this hard? I've always wondered. Comments like... frequenting Shiloh, regular church services, going to the mall too and constant Evening strolls. Well I am now in the same dilemma, except...I am a man.

I was never one to mix business with pleasure and I strongly believed there's time for everything. Well, I still do. So while at the University, I was what you all would normally call " A nerd" or if you please, bookworm. From the library to church, to my apartment. I was fixated on my goal; which was to be the best graduating student and Alas! It happened at the expense of my social life. But I was not perturbed in the least. After all, I was still young and would meet someone pending when the need to settle, arise.


In all honesty, while furthering my studies, I met a few ladies but my timid self never approached anyone. A few never went past the friendship stage. The Friends I had too were like me. Overly engrossed in academic pursuit. How time flies!

I Became confused as I was approaching my thirties. What haven't I done? I went to the cinemas, alone! 

Went to four different churches on the Island. 

Changed location to another vicinity, Went down to a church on the mainland and It's still the same. Most churches don't even have singles and dating groups. 

I even went as far as going to the office on foot, with the hope of meeting someone on the way. I saw a few, some held eye contact with me, maybe that was my cue. Yet, I couldn't approach them.
Yes! I have been in a relationship before with a family friend, But it never went past eight months. Although it was strictly platonic, which she agreed but funny enough, I got to find out she wasn't abiding. 

I am a virgin. 

I have biblical values and I only want to share such an intimate part of me with just my wife. I also believe in the "two become one" statement in all its entirety. I go out and it seems there are no single ladies anymore that it's becoming tiring. I started checking my colleagues WhatsApp profile and showed an interest in a lady he had put up. Only for him to tell me she is engaged and even invited me to the wedding.

 Like what is happening here? Almost everyone I know within my age group is married. It seems they all got married straight out of the University. I feel like something is wrong with me. I have prayed and begged God to give me my bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh just as he did with Adam. I promised him I would be the best husband in the world and treat her well, but does she even exist? I know it's not every man that will get married but I desire marriage. 

Are there guys like me going through this, or am I the only one? Please, how did you find the one? Where and how did you go about it? It's frustrating and I am adding another year in a few months time.

*Oh wow!!!....I cannot contact you cos you dropped this in the comment section but your case nah moin moin for this Blog.We have plenty Ladies wiling to try with you...

WOW you are a Virgin?I am shocked and some what Impressed!!!

Please dont feel pressured,your wife will come at the right time....Trust the process!!..

Send me a mail and lets do you a special singles mingles post....