Hmmmmm..........................
STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
A BIG MISTAKE
She's bis#xual and I knew this while we were in the university. The thing now is that she's been doing it with her sister in-law ( her elder brother's wife). Her big bro works with In an oil company and is in the oil rig 3weeks in a month. He stays with his family for just 1week.
He and his wife have just two kids who are in a boarding school, and so his wife and sister ( my friend ) are home alone most of the time. Well while gisting one day my friend told her sis in-law that she swings both ways and one thing led to the other and they started straffing.
Issue now is that my friend wants to stop cos her brother took a whole month off work and she's scared he might catch them since he's always home, but her sis in-law no wan hear oh. She sneaks into her room at midnight which my friend isn't too comfortable with. My friend told her to stop and now she's threatening to accuse her, and tell her husband to ask my friend to return to Lagos which is like hard life for her and my friend doesn't want to.
If she goes her brother will stop taking care of her. Now my friend is thinking of opening up to her bro before the wife accuses her. I've advised her but she refused to follow my advice. Please post so she can get some advice from bv's on how to handle this.
Stella pls your red pen is also needed. She'll be reading this as she's also a regular Bv.
*This is what they call gbege!!!...If she reports this matter to her brother,he will end up throwing both of them out nd crashin his Marriage...
So if the wife reports what will she say?your friend is caught between the devil and the red sea
Let her play along until she has a plan B
This is caught between the devil and the deep blue sea. Las las the two women would lose.
ReplyDeletePoster “ YOUR FRIEND “ side eyes. You shdnt ever mess with a lesbians feelings! They r crazy, dey love without care or consequences!
DeleteNow what u shd do is, go buy her gifts, give her a good head job , fuck her like u r raping her ( dey love that) then start PLAYING her like a Spanish guitar
This is a massive opportunity to milk her dry, collect enough money to set urself up, u b on d alert for ur bro, he not suspect or find out except u guys become careless with d door or noise.
Be smart , Mk ur moves now, don’t play stolen kisses good luck ♠️
The sister wont lose, she will always remain his sister but for the wife, marriage can end.
Delete15:41 About your first paragraph you are right. They love with craze because it's a demonic stuff. When the demon in them take over they don't care about the consequences. Poster we know it's you okay..run away from her and that house and never look back. Most importantly, desist from your abominable ways.
DeleteOf all the lesbians and bi's you could sleep with you chose your bro's wife. why cldnt you take it outside with someone else.
DeleteThank God the kids are in boarding school, its these kind aunties that abuse their nieces. I don't trust you cos if you can sleep with ur bros wife, means you can also sleep with ur niece. pls just keep away from d kids, I have heard of many kids abused by aunty and uncle living with them.
Anonymous 16:32. Not everything is demonic abeg. 90% of Nigerian ladies are bisexual and hiding because of people like you
DeletePoster I’d advice you to record a conversation of her admitting to luring you to having sex with her and threatening you because you are no longer interested.... Have that handy cos you would definitely need but for now you have to play along. Going forward never utter any statement that will implicate you.
DeleteVinasavvy or whatever your name is, please take me out of your 90% biko. It is extremely demonic, but how would you know when you lack discernment of the spirit. God is saying it is an abomination, ordinary human being is trying to tell me something else. Please know your place! Even a former lesbiandown in the comments if you scroll down admitted it's demonic.
DeleteI guess when you are indulging in your rubbish God is clapping for you ba? Please don't quote me next time. Reasoning with your likes is nerve-wrecking 🚶♂️🚶♂️🚶♂️🚶♂️.
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DeleteWhich 90%?Do you know the population of Nigerian women for you to draw such absurd conclusion.Even in countries where people have the freedom to express their sexuality, such a conclusion would still be silly.
Deletewhich foolish 90 percent? rubbish talk. please count me out of your imaginary 90 percent.
DeletePoster this is happening to you not your friend and I want to tell you, you are a horrible person for sleeping with your brother's wife. Repent now!
ReplyDeleteIf anyone is to b blamed here it is the wife
DeleteBut I know you won't agree
Gbam
Delete@Mamannuku, ever heard of the saying "blood is thicker than water "? Even if the poster's brother married a bad woman, the poster has no right joining the woman to destroy her brother. Does she know the consequences of her actions with the brother's wife? Why Moreover, we are not here to address the woman. The poster wrote to us not the wife.
DeletePoster for your own good, stop what you are doing with the woman no matter how she threatens. Stop hurting your brother further. I would have said move out but you are still dependent on your brother (even though you do not deserve his money). Kindly seek God at this moment.
@annon 16.00 write my I'd in full next time, don't let us fight o.
DeleteOn the poster wrote to us that's true, but it is said she mentioned she was bisexual
The wife on the other hand is bisexual, so why didn't she come clean with her husband from the begining
This is not just a case of bad wife.
record the next act and let her know afterwards you got evidence incase she still wanna go ahead with the accusation
Deleterecord the next act and let her know afterwards you got evidence incase she still wanna go ahead with the accusation
Delete🤣🤣🤣🤣 @ mama, we wont fight ooo but your I'd is too long to write na. Ok let's agree to disagree okay?
Deletehantie, tell us fess that you are the friend......anyway, dem no teach you say make you no de shit for where you de chop?? Deed has been done, fess up to your brother and be honest - dont try to paint yourself as the saint because las las, husband and wife go use you settle their matter
ReplyDeleteLet me borrow space here
DeleteDear posters friend congratulations,you have got yourself a crazy bi-chick on your tail.
Well the truth is she is only threatening you because she misses you and has fallen in love with you. When a bi-chick falls in love they fall too deep.so you have to be carefully of how you handle her heart or else things will go side ways fast(Talking from experience)
I can assure you this she won't report you to her brother.
so what you need to do now to calm her nerves is to re-assure her that you still care for her very much and that this is just a temporary break.
How to do this:
1)Buy her gifts,all women love gifts and it doesn't have to be expensive just something sentimental.
2)If you can afford it, take her out to somewhere nice where you too can hangout alone.Go to the movies or a restaurant.somewhere she can feel special
Note:AVOID GOING TO AN HOTEL
finally to ensure that she doesn't do something stupid out of her heightened need for intimacy from you try as much as you can to spend time with her.Things like hanging out with her in the kitchen or escorting her on errands surprising has a way of making people feel like they are loved.
Try the above mentioned and the two of you won't issues again.
As for your brother forget him,most men are blind to the relationships their wife's keep with their sisters so he won't suspect anything.
In all you do avoid having sex or flirting with her in the house while your brother is around.keep it casual and simple and everything will be fine.
LEP😛
LEP? Tell us you are no longer engaging in your lifestyle. Get closer to God and change your blog id. Christ loves you and he is calling, he won't come down from heaven to talk to you. The Bible is there, the blog visitors who keep pulling you to him. Tomorrow, may not be guarantee. We love you ❤
DeleteMy own question is, what was the advice you madam poster/friend gave to your friend/yourself, that you want us as BVs to add ours to??
DeleteEhn E goodie nah
ReplyDeleteMake them continue
Na wetin dey sweet dey kee
If u dont have advice why not just read comments, whats this one uve written?
DeleteAnnon u that have advice write your own and move na.
DeleteThem no use rope tie you under my comment abeg
Chaiii!!! Where is Recherche straightener of lesbians and bisexuals .I think it is you sha not your friend🙄🙄🙄
ReplyDeleteNo it's not recherch that is needed ooo she is too soft biko.Na ANG or CEASAR she need these ones will tell her what she needs to hear. Poster youmay think because of you are a woman the gravity of what you did is small. well e go shock you like shock absorber when you realise that some people have deep hatred for your kind. Your brother am sure would have prefer that it was his brother that slept with his wife not his sister. Anger is not the only thing he will feel ooo even disgust. See ehn...you don enter am. Someone like you can sleep with your friends husband and your husband friend. I fear youuuuu. Both of you will be sent out and your family will learn you are into abominable acts and might disown you. Whatever mehn
DeletePoster,your friend is wicked.How could she bear to betray her own brother?And now you are asking advice to cover up this evil so your friend can still be in her brother's goodwill.
DeleteWell,you too,you are evil.Your friend is undeserving of her brother's generosity. Responsibility and Accountability is my watchword.Something I believe should guide every action. Since your friend, an adult chose to stab her own brother in the back with her eyes wide open,a brother she is dependent on and one who takes his responsibilities to her seriously,then she should face whatever consequences that might arise from her actions. She can't think it is okay to be this despicable without any repercussions.
Hmmm...his about your friend plays her accusation game by threatening to open up to her brother? Who will lose more?
ReplyDeleteTell your friend to continue, the man will not catch them.. ��
ReplyDeleteAwon were meji
Everyday for the thief,one day for the owner , married woman respect your self .my dear there is no way out if you report you are going out if your brother wife report you are going out,so wait for your faith .sin always have wages ,carry your cross,so you don't want your brother to know why because you know it is not good what of God that has been seeing you and her for long, welcome to sufferness
ReplyDeleteThe brothers wife will not report anything...Does she want to loose her home
DeleteLEP😛
Okaaaaay....... Brb!
ReplyDeleteThings are happening o !! How can you be fucking your brothers wife. I don't have advice for anyone but please remember to give us gist of how the issue was settled cos I don't like stories without ending.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteThis is hard giving it a critical thought. I can't say.
ReplyDeleteMy goodness 😨😨
ReplyDeleteThis is very serious. If wifey reports to her hubby, he’ll throw her out.
His sister will always be family no matter what.
How do you women put yourselves in such a mess?
Either way, wifey will be the one to lowe out in all of this.
She couldn’t get someone else, she chose her sis in-law.
Wifey should tell her husband, whatever the outcome, she should be ready to accept it.
I pray he forgives her.
She has to free yourself of such evil spirit and ask God for his mercies.
I only pity her husband and other men whose wives swing both ways.
And to you sis in-law, you are a disgrace to yourself and family. You should have taken your tongue elsewhere, now you are about to ruin your brother’s home. I hope you are happy in the end.
How do you women enjoy licking yourselves when there are great veiny super dicks 💁🏿♂️
*Lose out on all sides 💅🏿
DeleteSlutty I tend to disagree with you on most things but your last sentence I agree with. Although I have been celibate for as long as I can remember, there is NOTHING and I mean NOTHING that is as sweet as a SVD!
DeleteLol @SVD 👍🏿 that’ll be our new word 😜
DeleteHow sisi go get legitimate come dey chop tohtoh eh?😢😢😢
ReplyDeleteLook at how you Naija girls just carry tohtoh chopping open door for devils to come and scatter beautiful legitimacy that Baba God instituted eh?
Na so he carry fire and sulphur born Sodom and Gomorrah o. Una no sabi say
hell dey burn eh?
If that Sisi tell her brother, how that one go believe am kwanu?
Won't he wifey deny ever chopping tohtoh?
It is game up. The best thing is for the initiator of this iniquity to
ask Jesus to save her from devil's clutches.
Eheeee, that time, she will be able to confess and be free of the guilt and shame of strange illegitimate
foolery...
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That reminds me, looks that tohtoh chopper wey dey this blog don dey miss for action tey tey.
This man should just record all these nonsense and give the tape to
ReplyDeletepolice so that you ladies will begin your 14 years early at kirikiri
Chia wicked you.
DeleteThe most complex
She should tell the brother abeg
ReplyDeleteThe truth will eventually come out someday
You think it is easy abi? Forget the fact that she is a woman her case is worse. Can a man tell his brother he slept with the wife?
Deleteimagine the sister in law not wanting to stop! Chai the spirit don possess am pass the person wey teach am..it is the devil pushing her so that the husband will catch them and throw her out. Her own will be worst because your friend is single.
ReplyDeleteLet your friend get a hidden camera to record them when strafing for the last time,then give you for safe keeping. Anytime she(in-law) threatens, she should send her a copy via watsapp. Since her in-law wants to play dirty, let your friend/you tell her that 2 can play d game
ReplyDeleteThis better be a LIE😤😤😤
ReplyDeleteTwo idiots.
ReplyDeletePoster are you bisexual?
ReplyDeletewhy do you want us to advise a sinner by telling her to continue with her sin to help her cover her sin.
tell her and her SIL to repent and confess their sin.
Chike, hope nobody hack ya account?
DeleteYou yarn sense. That word "repent/confess" no hard
Pls let them enjoy themselves but try not to be caught. As stella said, let her continue but devise an exit plan. They should just not do it when the Baba is home
ReplyDeleteThey have been straffing? How??? Abeg explain this part.
ReplyDeleteFirst of all, this is about you, not your friend. So i think you should keep your mouth shut and play along until you are able to move out, she will not tell your brother, and you guys won't staff while he is around, so he wont find out.
ReplyDeleteWhat exactly does the wife wants to tell the husband? That your friend is what exactly?
ReplyDeleteYour friend should get a video, WhatsApp or voice evidence of the sister in law begging her for sex and then hold on to it as a bargaining tool.
Confess and damn the consequences is your brother God. Be sincere and stop th3 act, move on and have a life. Live!
ReplyDeleteListen.. Tell your 'friend' to call her bluff. She won't do jack unless she's ready to say bye to her marriage.
ReplyDeleteIncase worse turns to worst ,you are at advantage if you go to your brother first and come clean stead of playing her silly game.
Threaten her right back if she comes for you again.. nonsense, ingredients and buhari.
Truth is the wife won't do jack...what I suspect is that since the Brother returned the wife has been feeling ignored and so missed the attention the posters friend had been giving her.
DeleteThe wife has fallen inlove and that is why she is misbehaving.
All the poster friend needs to do is to give her some attention and make her feel important again and all this fight will be over.
I get this nonsense threats from girls all time and all I can say is Bi-chicks do not like to be ignored.
if she does what i says all the threats and misbehavior will be over.
This i can say from experience
LEP😛
She aint gonna do shit.What exactly will she accuse you of?That you raped her or what?she has more to lose,so I can tell you she will no do anything that will make her husband fling her things outside.Men hate such nonsense oh.Stop this rubbish you are doing with her and be calm,she wont do jack!if she does,make sure you have enough evidence to nail her.Nonsense! Who is she to give such ultimatums?when she is also guilty.Damn her!
ReplyDeleteThey will both lose out big time please. Lesbianism in Nigeria. No be garri
DeleteWe are so in sync, exactly what I typed up there. ☝️
DeleteThere is no two ways about this, dear poster. It's obvious your friend knows that what she's doing is bad in man's sight, she should repent of it. God also frowns at it, so the best solution is for her to turn a new leaf, she really needs help but should first help herself by putting an end to this devilish act. There is a way that seems right to a man but the end of it is DEATH. Pls make hare while the sun shines. God is ever faithful
ReplyDeleteshe should just leave their house and relocate. then repent and face her life. even if she pays along for the period the husband is home, he'd still catch them one day. she should just leave their house and manage what comes out of it after
ReplyDeleteTell ur friend to tell her she maintains her stand.. Sooner or later her husband will catch them. It is not ur friend who will be the ONLY loser. Ur friend needs to remind her about this. Her brother's wife thinks she will go out of this if brought to the open UNSCATHED. Therein lies her error. So tell ur friend to remind her that if the ship sinks, they are both going down. Hmmmm Goodluck to ur friend, but plz tell her this should serve as a lesson for the future.
ReplyDeleteWhat's the meaning of all this?
ReplyDeleteAbeg o...how do dy do d straffing...is it with cucumber or morter pistle or yam tuber..some1 ansa o
ReplyDeleteI thought I'm the only one who has been asking how this lesbians do it.
DeleteLMAO 🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteNa scissors
Deletetell your friend to play along for now till she is able to raise something good for her. She should be careful so that her brother will not catch them, i don't even thing her sil is ready to tell her husband the truth.
ReplyDeleteTohtoh chopper wey dey this blog is back as Lolo ideato. Stella post my comment kwanu
ReplyDeleteMumu anonymous I am not ideato,why will i want to change my ID to someone else when I get tons of emails from BV's who love me and don't mind sharing their beds with me😂😂😂😂😂
DeleteLEP😛
wait for her to spill first then tell your brother she enticed you...if she eventually doesn't spill sha just stop already before someone who has nothing at stake will find you and share your story on Instablog naija...receive sense and stopeet or take your pussy licking to another state mbok...stop being lazy and depending on your brothers wealth, leave their house and go and hustle for yourself.
ReplyDeleteI no just fit imagine a woman like myself kissing, touching or riding me with clitoris. God wey make dick and pussy no kno wetin him dey do abi? Very disgusting thing.
ReplyDeleteLeave am na. People are saying she has an advantage because she is the sister.
Deletelike if it was the man's brother it would have been worse, please what is the difference if it was the sister or the brother? Are they both not his blood are you not his blood?Go and confess you hear? as the sister that you are, if your brother won't break your head. If the woman confess your brother will divorce her, take her to the cleaners. At the court if they ask reason for divorce and he mention it, you both are done for. Your family will disown you along with your brother. For your own good, stop listening to those telling you to confess. If you still have any dignity left stop depending on your brother. Tell him you want to be independent. Relocate and let him be sending money to you from afar. With Sisters like you, one don't need enemies. Your brother most have brought you home to help keep an eye on his wife while he is away but you ended up being the evil one. What sort of closeness even led you to tell your brothers' wife that you were a lesbian to begin with? What sort of discussion led to it, Fear did not catch you?.
It's girls like you that are very easy to catch,a little attention plus gifts and Boom all.your self righteousness is out through the window.
DeleteI know your type and this mouth you are making na wash😂😂😂😂
LEP😛
Very funny. I lived abroad where lesbianism thrived and I was able to convert a few, avoided dating because of premarital sex,Got married in my thirties as a full virgin and I don't commit all other sins you lesbians go to pick in the Bible to justify your own ways. Don't worry and don't bother telling me, I still know I am not perfect. Try to know the difference between self righteous people and people who are truly holy. But the problem is when you meet the latter ones you can tell the difference because you know and stylishly avoid them, you call them spirikoko or sanctimonious. There is always a silly Name you use to make yourself feel better. May you meet really really Godly people Amen .they truly exist.
DeleteI dey tell u @lep
DeleteSave and move out of the house.
ReplyDeletePoster poker players bluff a lot. That's the only advice I can give
ReplyDeleteBeing homosexual makes the conscience outrightly dead which is why you both are about destroying your lives.
ReplyDeleteListen, sister in law and wife need to have a decent concrete talk. Send her a text and suggest you both go to market but go elsewhere and have real talk.
Truth is this way of life is wrong. Whatever be the case, if this comes out, wife marriage is over and your relationship with your brother will be a difficult one. In fact you will be seen as an outcast in your family. So tell her you are taking a new live and you both should truly seek God's face and forgiveness.
Again as long as you are still in that house, the chance of going back to that life style is 99.9%. Would be better you move out of the house.
God still love you both if only you will truly seek him. Cheers
D. I. S. G. U. S. T. I. N. G!
ReplyDeleteEvil on rampage. Romans 1v26-32
He/she that sows to the flesh, shall of the flesh reap corruption. 😭🤮💔🔥
Every deed has a consequence. You cannot escape it.
Repent! Receive and confess Jesus Christ as your Lord and Saviour G. E. N. U. I. N.E.L.Y!
God is merciful - the blood of Jesus Christ cleanses sin.
Leave your brother's house and everything that lures you (flee sexual reprobacy)!! !🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️
Your Friend? Or you? I doubt a friend will tell you all this except you are a Lesbian too. Women making wrong choices
ReplyDeleteHow could the poster betray her brother ????
ReplyDeleteShe could have had more discipline ke?
The reason why the SIL can't let go is because she doesn't have a replacement.
My advice, don't give in to her demands anymore. Move out of the House and persuade your brother to keep helping you till you are on your feet .
She would lose her marriage if she tells her husband .
Poster,prayers does wonder!Happened to me and had to detach from her by going fr deliverance and after two weeks,we quarreled and parted ways.Its only God that can do it cos she's still fighting me and had to expose her in the office about her secret life and always look for my trouble. I sent a chronicle like this but was with my colleague, was satisfying her urge and suffering in spiritual realm.PRAY and go fr DELIVERANCE
ReplyDeleteGive that unfaithful wife a conditional ultimatum to rent a house for you nearby and fully furnish it to your taste, move in there to continue your vjay eating with her, at least if kasala finally burst you will not be homeless. Mind you all the receipts must be in your name because sooner or later you guys will fight dirty because of her indiscretion and unreasonableness.
ReplyDeleteKweke! You slept with your brothers wife? The same brother who is your 'salvation' right now. I feel so betrayed and 'sexually defrauded' on behalf of your brother. The two options before you will blow right in your face, if you call her bluff off or she calls your bluff off, the end result will still be "your relationship with your brother will never be the same." this is a clear case of 'shit hits the fan' and it seems you only feel awakened guilt because you depend on him, and the consequence on you when/if he finds out. Start thinking of leaving that house quickly, in the meantime beat her to her blackmail game, get concrete info/materials to manipulate her with while you plan your EXIT out of that house. Maybe much later, when you are better established and far away (and if you have an active conscience, confess to your brother). You nor try at all! Wetin you and your sister-in-law talk reach that kind talk self.
ReplyDeleteSome things destroy you and your entire generation. This thing might affect the husband and the children. If AI were the man I will never let that kind of woman stay in my house.
ReplyDeleteNot every Nigerian woman is bisexual (you can say some), biko. This is an abominable abomination. Sleeping with your own brother's wife means you are a home wrecker to start with and indirectly sleeping with your brother because his wife is him and he is his wife. Much more, whenever he returns, she still presents the same body you defiled to him to feed from. You and your sister-inlaw are not just digging your graves with your two hands but that of your innocent brother who is busy on the rigs for 3 weeks,giving his life and blood for both of you to have comfort. How more wicked can you be? From your story, you enjoy every bit of it and just afraid of being bursted and the shame that comes with it. As for your brother's wife, her heart just like those of her kind is already an impenetrable stone without fear of the consequences of her actions (lesbians don't care, ask ... with a lovely family of four boys until her husband threw her out, today, she is committed to blending nollywood chics into the fold). If you actually want to stop, you'll damn all cosequences and put a stop to this pleasurable evil. That means when you marry, you can also do your mother-inlaw, sister inlaw, housemaid, neice, cousin etc. How do people sleep at night? Please what is in sex that people cannot get enough of it? How do women who do women enjoy it? How can a woman prefer her fellow woman to a well endowed man even if he is short, poor or blind. How do machines do better jobs than human muscle? Ogaaa oooh. My eyes see plenty, plenty things for SE in those days. To imagine that most of these bisexual women are so 'holy and harmless and loving, respectful and well-respected'in public until you snatch their partner or their partner decides to move on. These are mothers of children, hands that rocks the cradle, please what kind of society are we building? Why do people keep enslaving themselves spiritually? I don't even have a problem with women+women or men+men. But when you see a woman that does men+women, just know that...
ReplyDeleteVery disgusting. Does it occur to you/your friend that this sister in law that is threatening can also go the extra mile to harm or eliminate her hubby in other to have her way and enjoy her disgusting lifestyle. By then your eye go clear. Better stop and repent from this evil acts.
ReplyDeleteYou are broke and bisexual 🤔🤔🤔!! You need to occupy your mind with things that are positive, a grown lady still looking for your bro to support you financially.
ReplyDeleteI'm not judging, but you reason am, how long have you stayed with them, what have you gained, shoes, clothes, hair, few box in your account and a whole lot of guilty conscience. If jobs aren't forthcoming register for a skill. Get busy!!!
As for your current dilemma I've got no
Advice to give.
give her one more chance as a set up and record the audio codedly as back up and stop that nonsense with immediate effect before garri go pass water ...
ReplyDeleteEwwww it's like sleeping with sisters husband. Ewwww.
ReplyDeleteWhatever you do make sure you have concrete evidence against her saved. Just in case she spills the beams first which I'm sure she won't u less she wants her marriage gone.
The mistake has been done but please do not allow her blackmail you. Stop that bullshit now before you get caught.
Lesbianism that people are doing to get Range Rover and play office politics. You are using to destroy your family. Shi shi you no even get. Some of you are so dense thats why you accuse smart runs babes of doing jazz. Better get out of that house and get a real life.
ReplyDelete"My friend" my foot. You commented about this in one SP a while back. I lie??
I'll read comments, this one pass me.
ReplyDeleteThe web some ppl weave for their own self. So of all the millions of women in Nigeria this was the only woman your 'friend' could find to dilly dally with? They have a saying, don't shit where you eat. This was unwise from the very beginning. I would not confess this foolishness to my husband. I would keep denying it to the grave. Tell your 'friend' to start practicing a very convincing poker game, to try some means of getting into the sister's phone and erasing any chat messages that may exist, to erase everything from her own phone and plan to deny and say it is a lie if this comes out, but not to confess.
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