Akindele while speaking on TVC on Wednesday July 10th,said although she trusts her husband, she does not allow her female friends to call or visithim when she is away.
She said: “I trust my husband and anyone can be his friend but you cannot call my husband as my female friend to just say hi unless it is his birthday. And you want to wish him happy birthday.
You can only call him when you have been trying to reach me and can’t.
Why will you bring food, come and say hello to my husband, Helllllooooooo, I’m your friend not him. Only his male friends can visit him''.
The actress also added that when a married man cheats, the wife is not to be blamed, but that the character of the man that should be questioned.
*Well with the snatchings going on these days,who will blame her?
Yelz nau...... To avoid stories that tickle the heart and touch the bumbum. Sheybe na here we dey read super story every day.....
ReplyDeleteYvonne Open ur eye in ur nxt marriage biko
DeleteLesson to women. I will say this over and over. Your relationship, ur pain ur gain. No 2nd party shd know anything biko.
DeleteKeep a silent lips always, fight ur fight no one cares , 4K ur Fuck, it’s all urs, get ur gifts ( if asked make up a story) ur PAIN YOUR GAIN. When it ends cry , soak ur pillow
Nothing HURTS more than knowing someone u entrusted so much info in there hands used it against u. Na wa o! Mk una learn nah
My friend should respect my personal space, why should my friend call my husband?
ReplyDeleteUnless the said friend has a business deal or proposal for my husband and she must inform me before calling my husband!😎😎😎😎
Lady bug, good enough for contracts but not to say hi? Interesting.
DeleteWhat am I saying hi to my friend's husband for bikonu? When I visit them I will say hi.. Except for birthdays, christmas, Easter or Father's Day celebration, maybe bereavement but for one to just start chatting with a friend's husband unnecessarily or to say hi ??? I don't get it.
DeleteWhen u r married to a DOG. Like a stinking PUBLIC DOG. Insecurity sets in, when u r married to a REAL man that has control of himself and family, he will b d one to shun ur closeness to him, to redirect you to your friend ( his wife)
DeleteMost of u carry ring for hand dey shout, “ my husband my husband “ feeding a man like pple pple feed DOGS and come out to talk trash!
If your DOGBAND can’t control himself around pple pls HIDE UR FACE IN SHAME. Spits 🖤
The same FUNKE that married another person Husband o! Nigerians. Imagine. 🤦♀️ smh
DeleteI asked my married to give my nanny money while i was away and he did. I wasnt scared, its an insult to him if i questioned his intergrity.
DeleteFor 2nd hand husband????? Na wao.
ReplyDeleteyou must be utterly stupid...oloshi oshi...which one u don get? oponu ayerada
DeleteObviously you haven't taken your morning medication, 2nd hand yaba left escapee. Mttsshhheewww.
DeleteLmao!
DeleteAnd this is coming from you who has had to reinvent himself 3 different times for relevance sake and to compete with V and V! Thirsty clown!
DeleteIf you assume hes competing with VandV then you must agree they share something in common, ask urself what that is.
DeleteIm sure i didnt miss a post where he admitted to a new ID 3times as you said, youve been paying attention to his comments to conclude hes the same person, newly packaged, seems ure the clown that trying to keep up with his reinvention.
I support her
ReplyDeleteMost 'friends' are worse than enemies these days.
Gbam!!! Fully in support of what she said abeg.
DeleteYes o
ReplyDeleteYou can only be friends with me not with my husband, after all he has his own friends
She said what she said.🚶♀️🚶♀️🚶♀️
ReplyDeleteI wonder why you’d be calling someone’s partner in the first place are you the police or what are you looking for? The way I give my male friends space when they get in a relationship ehn you’d think they have Ebola. Abeg dey your dey.
ReplyDeleteExactly, dey your dey 👌
DeleteBut she also said he can have his female friends and they can visit that’s their own. But not he own friends
DeleteYour confidence too much doppelg, you day hungry me to date.
DeleteBut he can take other women to lunch.. He can also call other women to say hi when it isnt their birthday. Hbp is real sha
ReplyDeleteThat's fine. As long as she is also not friends with other people's husbands. No husband is more important than the other.
ReplyDeleteShe is stupid to say this rubbish
ReplyDeletestupid like your mama....she was asked and she answered...die already
DeleteWhy are you all so vile?
Delete12 51 you are very crass and uncouth.
DeleteFunke your right, but remember some men are just not loyal. Me I kuku keep a distance from married friends, I don’t want him say, she say I eye the husband.
ReplyDeleteYou are right*
DeletePet peeve!
For my church na so married women go pack face when they see you greeting their husbands. So I nor dey send dem. Shuo! I like my peace.
DeleteShes right
ReplyDeleteJust yesterday my friend i am housing went to tell a guy i was supposed to be dating everything i ever did from and the guy came to confront me
My friend claims she knows nothing about it but the guy even told me what i was doing e everyday at every time especially the ones i told my friend
I was never into the guy na this same girl tell me to just give it a try even if its for the money
The guy said its over i just dey look am like fool because left to me we never dated
Bottom line is this could have been my husband or someone i really love i even asked her to give me her phone let me see thier chat she was fidgeting yet shes swearing on her life she did not say anything of such up to the sickness i am battling that i did not tell my own mother
Sorry for my typos im just hurt beyond words and to think i house and feed this girl and i have no other friend in this town
God dey 😭😭😭😭😭😭
No wahala. Just learn your lesson.
DeleteThe good thing is now you know, you should be thanking God that He revealed her true self now. Imagine if this was a more serious relationship or marriage, so my dear just thank God and be wise from now going forward.
DeleteHope you're not housing her anymore. Now that she has shown her character , better believe her coa that one is jealous and can kill you
DeleteI like it. Some women are worse than viper, one has to be vigilant these days.
ReplyDeleteShe hasn't said anything out of the ordinary. She didn't even say don't be friends with my husband. Side eyes at Stella. She said don't call him to say hi, don't bring him food, don't hang out with him, which are not even normal in the first place. Why will u be hanging out with my husband or doing bestie with him? In the name of mutual friend. Wetin then dey call that wan? Mtchew
ReplyDeleteExactamente!!! 👌
DeleteAhhh that's how my friend taxed my husband twice without telling me simply cos she has his number! Hubby gave her and told me afterwards, the way I raked for him ehnnnn!any small thing she ll say ask hubby now, I be like u want me to kill him? He doesn't have now, he has lots of things to do with money atm.na from clap he dey take enter dance.some people really lack sense. All in the same of na my bestie husband.
ReplyDeleteYou need to sit your friend down and read her the riot act! Ogini di?!
Deletesit her down wella. a friend of mine will come to my house and be engaging my husband in gist and doing miss pkepkeye..i cut her off for like a year or so and we reconnected again. this same friend met my hubby outside the country and asked him for money. when he came back and told me he gave her money i told him straight up that i did not like that..some people have no proper home training and dont know how to comport themselves, while some are Jezebels who will sleep with any man regardless of how his spouse is connected to them. las las men should have self control, man wey go loss go loss
DeleteYou need to call her to order and re-examine that friendship.
DeleteBe very careful, her next step is to start saying things abt you to him. Lie join sef. Greedy ppl can do anything. Its obvious she's got no moral compass.
Choi fire on the mountain. Warn ya friend.
DeleteKnow your boundaries.
ReplyDeleteI totally agree with her.
ReplyDeleteRecently a friend told me about a crisis in her marriage and the caused was something that another friend (call her FB) had told me about her. Immediately I told my husband i hope its not my other friend who has told the husband this thing causing trouble in their marriage.
Long and short, fews weeks later FB called and in the gist I found that she had been friends with our friends husband and the husband had been confiding in her. Now I have been trying to tell my friend to be careful with 'that relationship but she doesnot seem to understand. I see them fraternizing everyday on FACEBOOK and i feel so sorry for her coz the crisis is really serious and you will know the guy has a good informant.
If I were you, I'll tell her the truth so as to save her marriage.
DeleteI don't understand people fraternity on social media or even in real life sef.
Na wetin I wan make you know you go know ooo
So you're seeing her inside fire and seeing the cause but you're not telling her. ...smh..but you're pitying her.smh
DeleteGuess they are not truly friends in the true sense of the word. I however find no fault with her line of reasoning. The world is going Gaga and so we must also watch our back.
ReplyDeleteShe is right. You are my friend not my husband’s friend, my husband isn’t even allowed to have female friend cos I have seen cases where husband is friends with benefit with his female friend and wifey doesn’t know. Everybody should respect their boundaries to avoid stories that touch.
ReplyDeleteLol HBP is real madam.
DeleteHave your own friends Male or female. Know where to draw the line too.
My husband has female friends. If he decides to take it further and I get to know, he wont believe what hit him.
Life is too short abeg
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DeleteStory story...my husband is an adult and should kbow what is right and wrong....a full grown man cannot be snatched....if it happens, he is to blame 100%.....my husband is allowed to have female friends but not my own friends......im not running after any adult biko
Delete@ayaoba true hpb is real but I don’t want to be sleeping on a bicycle while things are going on behind me.
DeleteMy husband is in his late thirties, the female friends he has that are still single and of the same age range will be looking for where to pitch their tent, and you can’t trust anyone, things are happening these days,if I find out he has a side chic sef, na wahala, now finding out the side chic is his female friend, I don’t even know what will happen. To avoid the ‘wahala’ he is not allowed to have female friends.
like I said up there I have seen cases(people close to me) having a secret affair(sexual) with their male/female friend even when they know their partner.
Madam Oby O, you don’t have to come under my comment with ‘story story’ if that is how you chose to run your home it’s fine. My own husband ISNT allowed to have female friends.
DeleteISN'T allowed bawo? Do you police him around 24-7?
DeleteAny friend who "forms bestie" with another woman's husband, visiting while wifey is away, bringing food, calling often and at odd hours is seriously planning to be VERY unfortunate. As as how na? Anyway, I trust my friends sha. Dem no go like use acid do mouthwash. I give people's husbands their space too, so I demand it.
ReplyDeleteRespect my space and know your boundaries. I support her opinion, some ladies can overdo things. Dey your lane biko.
ReplyDeleteShe might be speaking out of experience
ReplyDeleteFunke Akindele she have said it all😁
ReplyDeleteWhat's her husband's worth sef?
ReplyDeleteChoi! See kweshun ooo
Delete12;02 😂😂😂😂4 children Funke is feeding. The girl no wan add another mouth join
Delete😂😂😂... evil.
DeleteI am single and i support her. As i am, when my close male friends have a girlfriend and later wife, i give them space. It's called respecting boundaries abeg.
ReplyDeleteBuild up your self-esteem first and all will be okay.
ReplyDeleteThat is all.
DeleteThank you.
DeleteShe speaks truth, I only have my two bestie's husband number not even my regular friends and only call them when I cant reach their wives. One in particular doesn't pick her calls bcos of her twin babies and u cant enter their estate without calling, so I call the husbands phone when she's not picking.
ReplyDeleteI gist with the husbands very well while im there, one even got me an xmas present of a bag(wife chose it for me), through the wife. I just sent a WhatsApp saying thank-you. But to call and greet, NOOOO. For what? We relate in presence of ur wife. Same rltshp they have with my spouse too. Even my siblings husbands I hardly call. Don't like over-familiarity with ppls husbands, so I expect same from you.
And you think you are not over familiar with ur besties husbands already?
DeleteIf u claim all these,dont even go to their house , accept gifts gist CV with them freely or have their husbands number at all. Mtcheeeew. Hypocrite
Xmas present bi bawo? On what basis? Very odd.
DeleteSisters are on this table too.
ReplyDeleteMy sister is squarely sitting on this table. She would often call to know how he's doing, even went to the extent of asking him for money to sort family issues all without my knowledge.I only got to know cos hubby sent me some money and said it was for my sister.She was shocked when she got the credit through me. I called her later and had a talk.
It's very disrespectful. People should learn to respect boundaries! DO NOT call you friends/sisters husband just to say hi unless it's something important or you have tried reaching your friend unsuccessfully.
If you must say hi, call your person and have them pass the phone afterwards.
It's just COMMON SENSE!
Your husband get sense. Just like mine. If you ask my husband for money, na me go send am even to his own family.. 😜😜😜 the man's key phrase is 'transparency is key'.
DeleteLol, RELAX. Your sister is supposed to HAVE a relationship with yo husband. They are family! C'mon now.
DeletePerxian,that is so wrong
DeleteIt is so so wrong. The appropriate channel is going through the sister not the husband.
DeleteAbsolutely agree with Persian on this. I am really close to my sister's husband. And my sis is aware of this. Depends in what kind if family you are. We have plain minds in mine. It isn't a strange thing for us. I expect friends to respect boundaries. But family is family except you have jezebels as sisters
DeleteYou're all family now. See, you shouldn't be afraid (or feel bad) when your own siblings ask your dh for things behind your back. I'm not saying your preference of not wanting it is wrong. No 👐. Unless you don't trust them. Your husband even did the right thing for sending the money through you. Shows he respects you and that's very good. That's how my dh & I roll too.
DeleteI personally instructed my younger sis (who's still in the uni) that if she needs anything from my dh, she can freely ask him. Just yesterday she did (as usual) and this morning, I sent her the money. It's normal.
But if you talk about friends now ehen...not family.
Your family needs to sit down and sort out una issues for real! You guys should be close or what else is siblings there for?
DeleteWe are a tightly knitted family and everyone is unapologetically in each other's lives.
Thank you Jesus for my eldest sister oh! She's instrumental to our closeness and our lives are the best for it now. Nne you will live long inugo. Her husband is like a father to me and she stands like a 2nd mom because I can't be bothering them and they're the best ever. I can't imagine not picking up the phone and not calling her husband who we have nicknamed big daddy because of one thing one thing? Hian! I can't wrap my head around this your family dynamics oh. My sisters husbands are like big brothers to me and vice versa like wise the way my siblings treat my husband like their junior brother (the thing dey make am shy sef😀)
I don't envy you at all.
U r not serious. Ur sis and ur husband. R u sick? Or is she a dog u r preventing from shaggying ur hubby? U have a good man. That’s all that matters. Having a talk with her was ok but pls she is supposed to have a relationship with ur husband Biko
DeleteOK guys, some of you obviously misunderstood my points.
DeleteI absolutely do want my sister and hubby to have a fantastic relationship. I mean we are all family now. I was talking based on respecting boundaries and doing things the right way and not suspecting anything fishy, farrrrr from it. My sister is happily married with kids even if she was single that's not the point.Shes is my best friend and I love her to death.
I personally would not ask my sisters husband for financial help without first telling her. I just feel it's disrespectful.
The whole scenario made it look like I and sister lack good communication. I couldn't even thank hubby properly cos I didn't know what the money was all about... See my point?
It's not always about sex or cheating lol, Its just RESPECT.
Kisses*
True ideally a sister shouldn't be a threat. But that is not to say that it doesn't happen. In fact sisters sleeping with husbands and even snatching them is no longer rare.
DeleteThe issue is with your family. Sort THAT out!
DeletePeople should respect boundaries. Why will i call friend's partners? I don't even call inlaws. What for?
ReplyDeleteI just realize i have an entirely different perspective when it comes to marriage and boundaries. To each her own.
ReplyDeleteMy dear, I feel you. I am amazed in how people carry marriage for head as if the man is a baby, friend or no friend a disciplined man is a disciplined man. What is the big deal about calling to say hi, to think she was 4th word Ron her first marriage, after snatching another woman’s husband.
DeleteFor those that will come and vomit under my comment, married 19 years and the ultimate guide is Holy Spirit.
I don't think I'm far behind you, Perxian. I'm a bit taken aback by many responses on this post especially the one of siblings. Like, really? My sister is allowed to have a relationship with my husband. Let's not take things too hard please.
DeleteAnon 14:42,you said it all. Yoruba's will say'Apani,ko lo GBA ki won my idea koja in iwaju oun',meaning that an assassin will never allow any one with a weapon to come near him: l wonder what Femi Adebayo's first wife or the other wives of Funke's former husband will be thinking now. Irony!
DeleteShe was fourth wife in her first marriage
DeleteNobody is saying don't have a relationship but know your boundaries,its that simple. It's not right for a sister to go ask her brother in law for money behind his wife(ie her sister) back, its totally wrong.
DeleteThank you, Anon. The way my sister and her husband is, we are very close. I mean, really close but if I want financial help, I will discuss with my sister. Then she will usually tell me to call him. I will do so. Apparently, he wil then discuss with her cos she will end up sending me the money while I will call or text him to thank.
DeleteIt’s about respect and not anything nasty.
With the stories we hear about actresses, do you blame her? No. Their industry is notorious for husband snatching even with jazz. You know how many of her colleagues low-key envy her? Abeg, free Funke jor
ReplyDeleteLMAO! I really want to read from fonts in long distance relationship and 'abroad' partners cos y'all wilding rn. 🤣🤣
ReplyDeleteFonts ke? Are you on LSA?
DeleteFunke is a bird! Has always been a bird and will forever be a bird!
ReplyDeleteShe has poor taste in men because she stays picking men she can't trust. Long story short, she's a pick me.
Hold your own damn husband responsible for his choices! It's just like the women who hire ugly and fat nannies and househelps. LMAO! Forgetting that there are men who have raped mentally retarded women. You could literally lock your husband at home whenever your female friends come to visit and he would STILL climb outside through the window and go and chase other women.
Please Funke, enjoy your beatings peacefully and stop disturbing us with this bird logic.
Nigerian women are such Pick Mes! It's so bad!
Lovely comment. Love the Pick Me angle.
DeleteYour attitude stinks. Bad belle person
DeleteThen she needs to change friends because it's obvious her friends are not loyal. If I have to resort to reading the riot act to my so-called friends then they should dey their dey abeg.
ReplyDeleteWhy have friends you can't trust around your husband? unless she's referring to mogbomoya industry attachees who have absolutely no boundary. Her husband strikes me as a respectable man who won't tolerate gum body from whoever so she should get it straight with him and everything will fall into place. How many women will she monitor sef?
I mean..
DeleteRalu M and perxian so you mean you just pick up the phone and call your friends husbands and also send them food? For what reason exactly?
DeleteNo I don't pick up my phone to start calling anyone's husband for anything whatsoever when I never call my people finish.
DeleteI reacted to her saying that he's not allowed to be friends with her female friends that's why I said she needs new friends if she can't trust the ones she has to behave like responsible right thinking adults around him. She made them sound like thirsty hoes and who needs people like that around?
All of you over here talking about 'my husband can't have female friends, my husband can't do this, my husband can't do that" you all make me LAUGH!
ReplyDeleteCan't do kini? No, you follow him 24/7, abi? You monitor his every move, right? How do you know what he can and can't do? Or better yet, what he does and doesn't do? Let me tell you; unnecessary jealousy and restrictions will only make a man be more excited to CHEAT! He might not cheat with your friends or family, but he will find many random women to do so with.
See ehn, at the end of the day, as ADULTS, we are all responsible for our own actions! Y'all are acting like men are some directionless babies, when they ARE NOT. A man will do whatever he wants to do, same as a woman. This is why you MUST marry a man with INTEGRITY!! A man who truly respects you and holds his vows dear. At the same time, you must ALSO make it clear to a man from day 1 that if he fucks around, HE WILL LOSE YOU.
If you don't, however, and you marry a man you can't trust, you have two options! You can either right your wrongs and free yourself from such a bondage called marriage to a serial cheat. OR you can just accept your reality, live your life with your kids and let him do HIM.
👍👍👍👍👍. Don’t mind them. They will tolerate more and will be the ones begging the man, please don’t leave me, we can make it work, don’t put me to shame, people will laugh at me ,men will insult me without my ring 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Delete👍👍👍👍👍. Don’t mind them. They will tolerate more and will be the ones begging the man, please don’t leave me, we can make it work, don’t put me to shame, people will laugh at me ,men will insult me without my ring 🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteBest comments 🤣🤣🤣
DeleteAbeg make Funke shut up. After sleeping with my Aunt's husband years ago and milking him dry.Knowing fully well he was a married man. My aunt was seriously hurt. Now she dey form wife. Karma is a bitch.
ReplyDeleteI agree with her. I don’t give any of my friends my man’s number. From experience, when I have met my friends men they have chased me, from secondary school sef. I never told my friends though because I never betrayed them. when I meet the husbands now, I put a serious distance between us so that they don’t feel comfortable ever finding a way to contact me. I am a very good friend sha.
ReplyDeleteOne of my friends however has betrayed me. But then I was dating a big fool looking for gossip everywhere about me. This girl will tell him everything we talk about. I am sure she even used to forward our texts to him. I knew all the while and to test her I will even give her fake gist. Then the useless and idiotic ex will come and hint me the fake gist. I will just be laughing at both fools. I don’t even know how he and she got their numbers.
Anyway, one fortunate day, a gist about the useless betrayer of a friend broke the internet. I laughed my ass out and helped her spread it very well, I even added my own unknown gist to the mix. Karma is a bitch and I believe in revenge. I go just de look you till your day will come. LOL.
How can you TRUST your spouse and still be afraid of the opposite sex coming around him/her? How? As a matter of fact, you have no business trusting your friends around your spouse! What's their own if your spouse decides to be a dog? Are you supposed to cage him because he married you? Even if they flaunt their naked bodies before him, someone who upholds sound moral values will know when and where to draw the line. It's a matter of morality.
ReplyDeleteJoseph in the bible was also flesh & blood. He was a man! If your husband can't respect you enough to say "others may, I cannot" in the face of temptation, then that's on him! It's not by mounting road block 🚧🚧 against your female friends or other women.
In short, having these kind of friends sef that keep you restless around your spouse, shows the kind of person you are too. Y'all are birds of a feather biko...
Husband chaperones will soon come for you in 5 4 3 2 1 😀
DeleteHow many Josephs dey our generation? If you can find a man with integrity you are damn lucky.
DeleteThat is insecurity talking.
ReplyDeleteI think she is trying to avoid hurtful feelings if her husband cheats with her friend. At least she won’t have to blame herself for not setting boundaries between herself and her friends.
ReplyDeleteSome men wouldn’t know they are weak until a lady is constantly hanging around them. It makes sense to avoid such situations by helping each other as a couple.
This goes same way for women too. The more time you spend with another guy, feelings starts to develop.
Guard your heart and body, limit mutual conversations and contacts. It helps!