Tuesday, June 25, 2019
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The only Strength to weather through is GOD
ReplyDeleteEvery other thing empty
Please don't end up selling your soul. That's if you haven't done that already. Even with the level you have come, you know there are times you are sad. That shows that money can't solve every problem. Only God can give you that peace.
DeleteYou can’t eat your cake and have it. Just be thankful and stop whining
ReplyDeleteDon’t mind her.
DeleteTrue. It’s the price of ambition and success. You can’t have it all at the same time.
DeleteAlways be thankful even when it’s hard.
If it will be worth it in the end.....
ReplyDeleteYou win some, you lose some
ReplyDeleteDem force you?
ReplyDeleteHmmmm Tiwa i wishi can be like you. My marriage and kids are limiting me from achieving my dreams. Pls ladies always mary a man on the same level with you or higher than your level. Dont ever marry a man lower than you. Whenever i say i want to add to my education or learn a skill, he will say he wants to get a degree too or learn a skill and that i should relax cos i already have HND and he is an SSCE holder. He will tell me that hnd is enough and i should leave the remaining education for our child, a six year old. I regret marrying down. Is this enough reason to leave aa marriage?
ReplyDeleteDo you need aproval from anyone to register for a course? You see , informing someone of your plan is different from seeking permission from that person.
DeleteDon't get me wrong, there are things that you should discuss as a couple but when it comes to self development, please take the bull by the horn less life passes you by and you become bitter.
When I relocated to join my husband, na so I sit down dey roast. Everything he promised he didn't do. Oh well, I just dusted myself, enrolled for driving lessons which I passed, did some online courses, did some voluntary work, gbam I got a good job.
Don't leave your marriage Sweetheart. Encourage him to start his degree immediately even if it is open university. After then, you both can do PG and masters together if you desire.
DeleteYou are still young, you can learn a skill for now as he studies to level up with you. Men are egoistic, they should be encouraged to be ahead in everything to massage their ego. Fight for your home on your knees. God's favor.
I am not married yet and I don't think I should tell you whether that is enough to leave a marriage or not but what I know is.
DeleteI had a relative who married a SSCE holder with her HND certificate. That man has little value for education and wouldn't care if the kids don't buy textbooks, his thinking is archaic and he went ahead to build a house at her back while his wife lives in a rented apartment. He doesn't give a hoot about his family just his extended family, his thinking as I said again is stupid.
Do you sis. Flourish and chase after your dreams. You can never go wrong. For the sake of your baby pls.
LADIES, NEVER MARRY DOWN.
DeleteDo I need to repeat it again?
LADIES, NEVER MARRY DOWN!!
Everything you do will be termed as pride and insubordination.
Your eyes will be open only after the tragedy has occurred.
Na she send herself on this journey cos impatience. She had tried so hard and so long to break the US and the UK to no avail. So, she compromised and took what was offered, she was so discouraged and beaten down that she believed the lie that time was running out. There are things God will NEVER require a person to do; it's just not in His character. The thing she thinks she's chasing will NOT be worth it in the end cos the dreams she's talking about are hers, they were NOT God-inspired. The problem with having your own dreams is that YOU will have to fulfil them yourself. And God will just be looking at you till you recognise that awards, magazine and billboard covers, multi-million Naira or even dollar endorsements and massive Instagram followership do NOT satisfy. Tiwa, I hope you find the help you're crying out for now that some aren't hearing, cos heartbreak and emptiness are at the end of this road you've chosen to go by yourself.
ReplyDelete10:56 and others like you, the way you confidently dissect what others are perceived to be thinking or want is shocking.
DeleteYou wrote this long epistle all from watching her and reading her posts or you and her had a long soul emptying conversation? Wow wow!
Na wa o. You people know people better than they know themselves, wehdone ma
DeleteO ga ó, how can you know her this much so much to know what she want and how failed trying to have them. ITK lórí SDK.
DeleteI truly understand your plight my soul sister. Life is very tough especially for career women. Remain resolute!
ReplyDeleteI totally agree with her. Some friends & families can pull u backwards & by d time u realize what’s up, it might be too late. Just do d much u can to assist d indigent ones ( family & friends) & face ur ambition & hustles. When u eventually get there, u can make up for everything, if need b. I ‘m way backwards from where i’m supposed to b bcos of trying to please my family. Every one of them is doing pretty well now without remembering & giving credit to me. Go Tiwa, wish I knew what u know now.
ReplyDeleteAre you me? This is also my story. Your advice is correct.
Delete11:18, I read her post again and can't seem to find the part where she said her friends /family pulled her back.
DeleteBe strong. It will surely end in praise
ReplyDeleteHow does someone cope when all hopes seems lost and it seems God does not want to listen to one's plea?
ReplyDeleteHe is listening and will answer you in his own time ❤️
DeleteFirst be sure you have a father-child relationship with God. Strengthene the relationship in the study of the word, praying and fasting. Also serve in God's house. Practice all the covenant principles,Gid is too faithful to fail. He will surely come through for you.
DeleteAlso be sure that what you are asking is according to His will.
You have to dig even deeper and remember all your blessings even the littlest ones. God is still on the throne and He is still able no matter what Just continue to hold on and praise him.
Delete11:29, this someone has already started the healing process and GOD has already started HIS work. HE hears your plea. HE is working. Exercise a little more patience and trust me, trust HIM,it will end in praise. Hold on! Don't let go!
DeleteEasy....do midnight prayers for 7 days. Have a spiritual bath first before you pray. Trust me, it works.
DeleteOf course that is if only you are praying to the Most high God through Jesus Christ.
This is the hallmark of illuminati -"further apart from family and friends"
ReplyDeleteThis lady is subtly lamenting already but people do not understand.
😯😯😯😯😯
DeleteI hope its worth it at the end of the day and that your soul will still be intact. And I hope you will still have your family and friends to run back to, if there is no longer a way forward.
ReplyDeleteI wish you luck in your pursuit of success.
Yeah. Sometimes, u really have to choose. Career or family. Especially if it requires leaving your location.
ReplyDeleteIt is very lonely at the top.
ReplyDeleteJust make sure that the height you are gunning for is that which will truly satisfy you and help you achieve your purpose. Once that is set, get ready to leave many people behind as you work towards attaining your goals.
We all make sacrifices everyday.
ReplyDeleteStay strong my darling.
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