I am off briefly with the Bambinis (side eyes @ that BV) to eat some Ice cream!!!#BRB
IN HOUSE MEMO
If i see comments anywhere that is ignored,I will bring it into IHN to get the person the needed attention o their comments...Many of you do not know this but most of the ''From comment section'' posts i bring here are posted in wrong posts and if you have been following this Blog,you will attest to the fact that i try to keep the comment section clean...All responses must tally with post or i delete...I used to read and delete but recently got the idea to be bringing them inside here....
If you are posting in the wrong place and don't want me bringing it here,then indicate and once i read,i will delete or you post inside SP in the Morning and i see it inside spam two hours later but you still don't want it here,please indicate alongside what you post and i will enable it so and move on....The jackass that was complaining on behalf of others over the weekend cos i told someone i was bringing her gist here today...keep shut please and stop trying to cause confusion.
If you are posting in the wrong place and don't want me bringing it here,then indicate and once i read,i will delete or you post inside SP in the Morning and i see it inside spam two hours later but you still don't want it here,please indicate alongside what you post and i will enable it so and move on....The jackass that was complaining on behalf of others over the weekend cos i told someone i was bringing her gist here today...keep shut please and stop trying to cause confusion.
Those always complaining of my Gbagaun,there is no website that they don't make mistakes and go back to correct,I see a lot of the...I am not chimamanda and i don't want to be....read and move on if you understand,if you wanna correct me,fine but don't come here insulting me......
I am out!!!!
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TESTIMONY
Stella I have heard of God's goodness but now I have seen it...
You remember me? That was duped by a man and lost everything. I couldn't feed. I lost all my businesses due to depression and I almost took sniper one midnight...
Stella God has restored me... I am healed now, I am happy now and I am financially restored now...
I got a contract where I feed over 1200 people every day! Every day Stella. I have over 50 people on my payroll... Start of April 2019 I couldn't afford pure water, I was drinking tap water and couldn't feed. By mid April God arose for me. Today my story has changed. I have sales of over ₦1m a day...
God indeed is alive and answers prayers... I am a living example ...
One million naira every day?WOW testimony that sounds like a lie!!!...congratulations to you Babe!!!
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COMMENT SECTION
I need help bvs. I am a new member. I need solution. I always get rejected by men in my relationships. They always accuse me of what I don't know and will later end the relationship. I am approaching 40.... I have gone to white garment church, MFM, etc prayed and fasted but to no avail. I am depressed and feel like committing suicide. Help me wonderful bvs.
You feel like committing suicide because of man matter?I AM OUT!!!
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COMMENT SECTION
BVs oo...I love my boyfriend, but I hate his car. Whenever we hang out, the car will just be giving us issues on the road, like its really ugly. He is serious with me tho, buys me things and really thoughtful. But I am very shy hanging out with him in his old car. How do I convince him to change his car? Is this enough reason to leave him? Am I being vain?
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COMMENT SECTION
Please, I need BV opinion....
I have been talking to someone for almost 6months, through phone calls,audio and video calls. He invited me to his base recently so we can see in person..
After I left i asked him what he wants from me, he said it is too early... Though, he told me he has a GF initially...
Am I over reacting asking him such question
Once beaten twice shy, have once fallen victim of such situation, only to realise the guy was married already
Nice way to stall you until he chops belleful...when he wants to discharge you,he will remind you that he told you that he already has a girlfriend..6months is enough time to know what he wants from you
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COMMENT SECTION
What do you call a roommate/friend that absolutely refuses to take anything from you? This girl would rather go out to buy milk if she wants to take tea than take milk from me.
I am not stingy. I am very free with things, food and material things. I am also very calm an quiet. Whenever this girl complains of being hungry or not having bread, eggs, etc, I offer her mine and all of a sudden she says no, that she's not hungry or she says no and then goes out to buy the same thing I offered her.
Whenever I come back and I decide to stop and get fruits or snacks and bring home, I offer this girl. She says no. Or she hesitates for a really long time before taking them very reluctantly.
The last straw happened few days ago. She had taken her foodstuff to the kitchen and was about to cook when she realized she forgot to buy onion. She came to me and very, very reluctantly, as if she was being forced, asked me if I had onion. I told her to pick herself and she said no, that I should give her one. I gave her of course and forgot about it. Only for me to wake up in the morning and I decided to tidy up my corner.
COMMENT SECTION
BVs oo...I love my boyfriend, but I hate his car. Whenever we hang out, the car will just be giving us issues on the road, like its really ugly. He is serious with me tho, buys me things and really thoughtful. But I am very shy hanging out with him in his old car. How do I convince him to change his car? Is this enough reason to leave him? Am I being vain?
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COMMENT SECTION
Please, I need BV opinion....
I have been talking to someone for almost 6months, through phone calls,audio and video calls. He invited me to his base recently so we can see in person..
After I left i asked him what he wants from me, he said it is too early... Though, he told me he has a GF initially...
Am I over reacting asking him such question
Once beaten twice shy, have once fallen victim of such situation, only to realise the guy was married already
Nice way to stall you until he chops belleful...when he wants to discharge you,he will remind you that he told you that he already has a girlfriend..6months is enough time to know what he wants from you
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COMMENT SECTION
What do you call a roommate/friend that absolutely refuses to take anything from you? This girl would rather go out to buy milk if she wants to take tea than take milk from me.
I am not stingy. I am very free with things, food and material things. I am also very calm an quiet. Whenever this girl complains of being hungry or not having bread, eggs, etc, I offer her mine and all of a sudden she says no, that she's not hungry or she says no and then goes out to buy the same thing I offered her.
Whenever I come back and I decide to stop and get fruits or snacks and bring home, I offer this girl. She says no. Or she hesitates for a really long time before taking them very reluctantly.
The last straw happened few days ago. She had taken her foodstuff to the kitchen and was about to cook when she realized she forgot to buy onion. She came to me and very, very reluctantly, as if she was being forced, asked me if I had onion. I told her to pick herself and she said no, that I should give her one. I gave her of course and forgot about it. Only for me to wake up in the morning and I decided to tidy up my corner.
I saw two onions tied In a nylon just there. I was surprised because I know it wasn't me that kept them. I asked her if they were for her and she told me that she's returning the onions she borrowed from me. My mouth hung open. I actually stared at her for a few seconds. Like, you're returning onion. Onion of all things. How much is onion? And the painful part was that she even returned double. It's like she told herself, I don't want to be indebted in any way or form to this girl. And kept it silently when I wasn't in the room or when I was asleep. And didn't say anything. So I kept quiet.
Later that day, I met a friend of mine and told her everything. I asked my friend if I was so mean or wicked to the extent that someone doesn't want to take anything at all from me. I was so sad. My friend said to me, I know you. Whatever she does is related to who she is, and
And not you.
When I got back, I took out one of the onion and put it silently, the same way she kept mine, in her corner. Since you don't want to take anything from me. Me too I don't want anything from you. So why give me two onion when I gave you just one? (since we're both being petty). She saw it but she hasn't said a word to me. I also haven't said a word to her.
I will just stop offering things. You complain of not having food. I will listen and face my front. It's not my concern. I also won't take anything from you,since you can't take from me. Will buy my own iron and leave hers for her.
Funny thing is that she came and met me in the room. The fridge and the microwave I bought with my own money. If she doesn't want to take anything from me, she should also not use my fridge, okwaya??
I am tired. My motto now is, Drink water and mind your business.
And to think that this girl doesn't talk to me in the room o, but when she sees me outside, especially in the midst of others she comes and starts laughing and chatting with me as if we're best of friends. I just laugh.
Why not respect that she does not want to take anything from you?Maybe she has been bitten before and does not want the same thing to happen.....Isnt it better you are room mates with someone like this than the other way round?I think that you are taking this too far please...give her a break,i think she is so cool...So she sees you with people who knows you are room mates and even though you both are so chatty chatty she tries to cover it up in public...I think you are the problem and you need to change oh...As a room mate,i prefer her to you...
you dont mind your business and you want to force friendship...two of you can live together in peace without being friends or getting in each others way...
This is the same attitude some people take to the work place and expect their colleagues to be their private friends and when it does not happen,they begin to cause beef.....Change the way you see things and you will be fine...
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INVESTMENT ADVICE NEEDED
Please good people I need advice . Its my third year in England , but God has been so gracious to me, I am able to save almost £30,000.kindly advise me, do I deposit for a mortgage here in England or build a house in Nigeria. Please no insults, its just your sincere advice that I need.
Why do you wanna build a house in Nigeria when you dont have a personal house where you live?Get the house in London first and then you can save and start the one in Nigeria later
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COMMENT SECTION
I am sorry I know I need deliverance, I hole any ripe and mature female,I get more horny from cheating and my wife is about getting a divorce,I told her instead of helping me she is doing me.You know what she said?if you are aware of your problem then you are capable of dealing with it. Chaiii I will not beg her and good news we dont have any child.go and I will get help from a supportive spouse.
Your wife is right!!!!!...Deal with the problem you have!!!
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For sale
*Mini buses:750k
*LexusEs 330 :2.5m negotiable
*Highlander (08):5m negotiable
*Honda sport:6m negotiable
*Ford buses(07,08,2010) can be used for school bus also
*Glk Benz (SUV 2010)
For more information contact:08188861083 or check out our IG page @karrhub
Also available are :
*bicycles
*Smoothie machine
*Mixers
*AC's
*Juice extractors
*Food processors
*Blenders etc
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BEAUTIFUL WINDOW BLINDS FOR SALE
Are you moving into a new home? You want your home beautified? For all
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Vertical blind
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PVC
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Location : Port Harcourt/ Nationwide
Call / Whatsapp/ : 07032481566
Instagram : chevaintegratedservices
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RELOCATION SALES
1. Haier Thermocool Deep Freezer - 85k
2. Six seater Glass Dinning set - 140k
3. Four Seater Sofa. 160k
4. 6*6 Queen size bed with two side drawer, and dressing mirrow. 200k
All the items are as good as brand new.
Location: Abuja
07011121868
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Get any of these beautiful laces at an affordable price.
Price : N2,500/ yard
Instagram : glam_fashionplus
Call/WhatsApp : +2348189559079
Available for bulk/wholesale and retail.
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Are you moving into a new home? You want your home beautified? For all kinds of window blinds and whatever designs you want, we have you covered.
Day and night blind
Roller blind
Wooden blind
Vertical blind
Venetian blind
PVC
Installation
Location : Port Harcourt/ Nationwide
Call / Whatsapp/ : 07032481566
Instagram : chevaintegratedservices
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Prices start from N3,000.
Location is Lagos.
Call/whatsapp 07017108022.
Instagram @ankarakulture.
Delivery is nationwide.
Available for asoebi, wholesale, retail, etc.
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PROMO!!! PROMO!!! PROMO!!
Ressas_Indulgence is having a 20% off discount on some of our selected cakes for our mid year sales, do take advantage of this wonderful opportunity and enjoy our amazing cakes at their best prices. Don’t miss out on this wonderful offer.
Call/WhatsApp 08132495986 or send a dm to @Ressas_Indulgence on Instagram.
We await your orders.
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Scrap Metals Needed...
We are currently in need of scrap metals in Lagos, Delta and Port
Harcout. It must be in a motorable location.
please kindly contact and whatsapp with photo 08071725880
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FUMIGATION/CLEANING SERVICES AVAILABLE
Are you moving into a new house? You want your home to be sparkling clean, pest and rodent free? then look no further.
We clean your home to be as good as new. Even old houses are cleaned and made to look new. You don’t have to lift a finger, leave it for us to do. Just pack in to a fresh and clean home.
We also pack debris.
Location- Lagos but can work nationwide.
Contact- 09082493557
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ELECTRIC STOVES AND ELECTRIC KETTLES FOR SALE
These glass top aluminium trimmed electric stoves are the best. They are very fast to cook with, they don't shock and they don't rust or get stained. Clean the glass and the sides regularly and they remain new. Get one today.
Two burners goes for 7000 while one burner goes for 4000.
Our electric kettles too are of high quality. Cut costs by getting one for yourself and boil water with ease. Price is 5000 only.
Prices are slightly negotiable.
Location Ibadan.
Nationwide delivery
Call/whatsapp 09067046632
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Later that day, I met a friend of mine and told her everything. I asked my friend if I was so mean or wicked to the extent that someone doesn't want to take anything at all from me. I was so sad. My friend said to me, I know you. Whatever she does is related to who she is, and
And not you.
When I got back, I took out one of the onion and put it silently, the same way she kept mine, in her corner. Since you don't want to take anything from me. Me too I don't want anything from you. So why give me two onion when I gave you just one? (since we're both being petty). She saw it but she hasn't said a word to me. I also haven't said a word to her.
I will just stop offering things. You complain of not having food. I will listen and face my front. It's not my concern. I also won't take anything from you,since you can't take from me. Will buy my own iron and leave hers for her.
Funny thing is that she came and met me in the room. The fridge and the microwave I bought with my own money. If she doesn't want to take anything from me, she should also not use my fridge, okwaya??
I am tired. My motto now is, Drink water and mind your business.
And to think that this girl doesn't talk to me in the room o, but when she sees me outside, especially in the midst of others she comes and starts laughing and chatting with me as if we're best of friends. I just laugh.
Why not respect that she does not want to take anything from you?Maybe she has been bitten before and does not want the same thing to happen.....Isnt it better you are room mates with someone like this than the other way round?I think that you are taking this too far please...give her a break,i think she is so cool...So she sees you with people who knows you are room mates and even though you both are so chatty chatty she tries to cover it up in public...I think you are the problem and you need to change oh...As a room mate,i prefer her to you...
you dont mind your business and you want to force friendship...two of you can live together in peace without being friends or getting in each others way...
This is the same attitude some people take to the work place and expect their colleagues to be their private friends and when it does not happen,they begin to cause beef.....Change the way you see things and you will be fine...
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INVESTMENT ADVICE NEEDED
Please good people I need advice . Its my third year in England , but God has been so gracious to me, I am able to save almost £30,000.kindly advise me, do I deposit for a mortgage here in England or build a house in Nigeria. Please no insults, its just your sincere advice that I need.
Why do you wanna build a house in Nigeria when you dont have a personal house where you live?Get the house in London first and then you can save and start the one in Nigeria later
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COMMENT SECTION
I am sorry I know I need deliverance, I hole any ripe and mature female,I get more horny from cheating and my wife is about getting a divorce,I told her instead of helping me she is doing me.You know what she said?if you are aware of your problem then you are capable of dealing with it. Chaiii I will not beg her and good news we dont have any child.go and I will get help from a supportive spouse.
Your wife is right!!!!!...Deal with the problem you have!!!
............................................................................................................
For sale
*Mini buses:750k
*LexusEs 330 :2.5m negotiable
*Highlander (08):5m negotiable
*Honda sport:6m negotiable
*Ford buses(07,08,2010) can be used for school bus also
*Glk Benz (SUV 2010)
For more information contact:08188861083 or check out our IG page @karrhub
Also available are :
*bicycles
*Smoothie machine
*Mixers
*AC's
*Juice extractors
*Food processors
*Blenders etc
Contact:08188861083
..........................................................................................................
Are you moving into a new home? You want your home beautified? For all
kinds of window blinds and whatever designs you want, we have you
covered.
Day and night blind
Roller blind
Wooden blind
Vertical blind
Venetian blind
PVC
Installation
Location : Port Harcourt/ Nationwide
Call / Whatsapp/ : 07032481566
Instagram : chevaintegratedservices
...........................................................................................................
RELOCATION SALES
1. Haier Thermocool Deep Freezer - 85k
2. Six seater Glass Dinning set - 140k
3. Four Seater Sofa. 160k
4. 6*6 Queen size bed with two side drawer, and dressing mirrow. 200k
All the items are as good as brand new.
Location: Abuja
07011121868
............................................................................................................
Get any of these beautiful laces at an affordable price.
Price : N2,500/ yard
Instagram : glam_fashionplus
Call/WhatsApp : +2348189559079
Available for bulk/wholesale and retail.
.........................................................................................................
Are you moving into a new home? You want your home beautified? For all kinds of window blinds and whatever designs you want, we have you covered.
Day and night blind
Roller blind
Wooden blind
Vertical blind
Venetian blind
PVC
Installation
Location : Port Harcourt/ Nationwide
Call / Whatsapp/ : 07032481566
Instagram : chevaintegratedservices
.............................................................................................................
.............................................................................................................
Prices start from N3,000.
Location is Lagos.
Call/whatsapp 07017108022.
Instagram @ankarakulture.
Delivery is nationwide.
Available for asoebi, wholesale, retail, etc.
.............................................................................................................
.............................................................................................................
PROMO!!! PROMO!!! PROMO!!
Ressas_Indulgence is having a 20% off discount on some of our selected cakes for our mid year sales, do take advantage of this wonderful opportunity and enjoy our amazing cakes at their best prices. Don’t miss out on this wonderful offer.
Call/WhatsApp 08132495986 or send a dm to @Ressas_Indulgence on Instagram.
We await your orders.
..........................................................................................................
Scrap Metals Needed...
We are currently in need of scrap metals in Lagos, Delta and Port
Harcout. It must be in a motorable location.
please kindly contact and whatsapp with photo 08071725880
..........................................................................................................
FUMIGATION/CLEANING SERVICES AVAILABLE
Are you moving into a new house? You want your home to be sparkling clean, pest and rodent free? then look no further.
We clean your home to be as good as new. Even old houses are cleaned and made to look new. You don’t have to lift a finger, leave it for us to do. Just pack in to a fresh and clean home.
We also pack debris.
Location- Lagos but can work nationwide.
Contact- 09082493557
..........................................................................................................
ELECTRIC STOVES AND ELECTRIC KETTLES FOR SALE
These glass top aluminium trimmed electric stoves are the best. They are very fast to cook with, they don't shock and they don't rust or get stained. Clean the glass and the sides regularly and they remain new. Get one today.
Two burners goes for 7000 while one burner goes for 4000.
Our electric kettles too are of high quality. Cut costs by getting one for yourself and boil water with ease. Price is 5000 only.
Prices are slightly negotiable.
Location Ibadan.
Nationwide delivery
Call/whatsapp 09067046632
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IHN is here. Beautiful weather today.
ReplyDeleteThat glass dinning table for 140k?????poster fear God.
DeleteStella thank you o. You're too much!
DeleteThanks Stella!
DeleteGod bless the givers and the receivers
DeleteCheers
The lady with the room mate, U re a nice person, no doubt! and i think U wanna create a friendly environment where U stay, its not necessarily a force of friendship. I'm also like that, but U must know that not everyone is like us dear...
DeleteIf i were U, i'd have asked her politely why she does that instead of worrying your head too much about it... Whatever her response is about the matter, please respect it..
Personally, i hate fake friendship, U cant not talk to me indoors and form close friends outdoors. I'm very weary of such people. I believe in honest communication and once i get that out of the way, i'd quickly adjust for the sake of peace.
How come no blog or any news site have reported about the gun shot @ D/line Okomoko street precisely killing a man in his car.. Police came after sometime and carried his body away. His car is still packed here.....peeps with details let us know.
Deleteis he your friend? brother, relative, who exactly someone @ least who know got information about him. heard his from Omoku in Rivers state here, got involved in an argument with the unknown gun men about money also a drug dealer.
Note: Nobody should quote me only saying what happened/what my eye saw. Fear didn't let me go aside plus my Oga been dey office lol.
Lady with the roommate, leave her like that. Don't offer her anything anymore. I know her type. They won't ask you majorly because they don't want you to ask them too. It's how they were raised. Leave her be.
DeleteLady with the strange roommate, listen to me: she is envious of you and actually resents you deeply. Continue being nice to her but watch your back. You need to be very careful. I know what I'm saying. May God protect you.
DeleteINVESTMENT ADVICE NEEDED
DeleteStella gave you bad advice. It's best to build in Nigeria first. Once you settle in with a mortgage in the UK, you won't have as much disposable income due to maintenance, home insurance and taxes. Build something in Nigeria first but be careful who you use, or better yet buy an existing build. Goodluck
I live abroad and well aware of what you are saying. I will encourage you to invest in London first, because you live there and can monitor your finances. If possible when you move in, ensure you rent out a room or two so you can get an income while sorting out your mortgage before you start thinking of investing in Nigeria..
DeleteDon’t trust your money with anyone in Nigeria, most Nigerians think you pluck your money from the trees abroad hence will dupe you outright.
I HOPE YOU NEVER HAVE TO RUSH ANYTHING BECAUSE OF TIME.
ReplyDeleteI hope you never take a wrong leap of faith because you think that if you don’t do it now, you’ll never do it. I hope you don’t let people who pretend to live their life to the fullest make you feel like yours is not fulfilling enough and that you need to jump on the bandwagon now or else you’ll miss the train.
I hope you don’t fall for the wrong person and settle because the clock is ticking and you’re held back because of your age or your culture or family pressure. I hope you realize that love is the only thing you can’t rush. Love is the only thing you can’t force.
I hope you never feel like you have to meet certain expectations just because time is slipping by and everyone around you seems to meet them. I hope you don’t try so hard to match someone’s life or dream that you forget your own. I hope you don’t let the world fool you into believing that your journey is insignificant or that you’re behind just because you’re not doing what everyone else is doing.
I hope you never let time be the main factor that navigates your life. I hope you don’t let it ruin the present for you. I hope you don’t rush into major life decisions just so you could be ahead in a race that’s not even yours. Maybe your path is slower or more difficult. Maybe it’s not as appealing as others for now. Maybe it’s not part of the majority but at least it’s original. It’s authentic. At least it’s yours. You’re not trying to live someone else’s story. You’re not desperately trying so hard to prove something to others. You’re living your own truth. You’re following your own pace. You trust in divine timing.
It’s so easy nowadays to feel less accomplished or behind or late to the party but I hope you use that as motivation rather than turning into the theme of your life. I hope you never feel ashamed of your differences or your journey. I hope you realize that sometimes things don’t happen to us when we want them to but they happen when we’re truly ready for them or when the time is right.
I hope you never have to rush big things because of time. I hope you take your time enjoying every moment, learning from every setback, finding strength and wisdom after every heartbreak and I hope you learn how to give yourself a break, how to give yourself time to bloom and time to shine.
I hope time doesn’t become your enemy. I hope you don’t waste your time trying to be on everyone else’s timing or trying to race people when you don’t know where the finish line is or where it will take you. And I hope you let time heal you because it may take a while for things to make sense but once they do, you’ll be glad you waited. You’ll be glad you embraced your journey instead of trying to change it. You’ll be glad you took your time.
Movie Alert: Y’all go see BrightBurn! Lovely movie, nice ending!... The new X-men was so so! I give it a 5 outta 10!
ReplyDeleteKelvin Dat Edo Boi (Stellz Cousin)
The movie boy😎😎😎😎😎
DeleteHas anyone seen the movie, Nigerian Prince? It's a really nice movie and I enjoyed watching every part of it; but I'm concerned it really portrays (basically all) Nigerians as scammers.
DeleteYou should see creed 2 and stardust too.
DeleteLady Bug yes ooo! I am a movie buff! Can’t help it! 😝
DeleteSapio: I have seen Creed 2 and like I said before, wasn’t really impressed! Part 1 was waaay better...Will check out Statdust as u said, Thanks!
Kelvin Dat Edo Boi (Stellz Cousin)
You should see Beats and limitless if you have Netflix
DeleteWelcome
ReplyDeleteWho are you welcoming?😎😎😎😎😎
Delete😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣
DeleteLadybugsis😎😎😎😎😎😎
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DeleteLadybug brother
That problem you think will never turn around; He’s already set up the answer. It’s not a surprise to God. He had the solution before you had the problem.@JoelOsteen
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon. God please let my testimony be like the one shared above. The lady that don't like old car, I will advise you to leave him and wait for the person that has Benz. If I say I wan slap you now Dem go say I dey insult person.
ReplyDeleteStella better youbaddres the issue cos I don vex tire of posting comments where it falls .have noted now.cos you have not been posting my comments.i have been opening the anumudu wedding story for how many times now chai..indeed money is good
Delete...the lady that the friend doesn't take things from don't mind stellas advice pls she doesn't understand .your friend na inferiority complex that is doing her so that itvwont be as if you will subject her to obeying u.i no den very well pls mind your buisness and leave her she will still realize and say she's sorry .cheers !!!!
Nwanne fan Emmanuel aka..😎😎😎😎😎
Your begging is seriously blocking your testimony to manifest😎😎😎😎
DeleteNot done the do in almost 5 months now. Won't my thing close?
DeleteBia nwnnem wetin you mean by inferiority complex?
DeletePoster with my roommate experience I will never allow my child to have roommate when she enters Uni. Or I will teach her to be like this your roommate that will always mind her business.
I had a roommate while in school that acted like a good sister when she came until we both started cooking together. . This girl stoped contributing anything for the feeding yet when I cook with my money she will invite her friends and they will finish my food before I come back..
She lives with her parents in Lagos but whenever she travels she will ONLY come back with onions while I will come back from the village with garri,yams,oil,rice okporoko crayfish and lots of them...
Okay, bring money let's go and buy vegetable and little things to cook she will always tell me I don't have money I don't have money"... If I get angry and say I won't cook this girl will go to Crunches and buy food only for her self. .kai, I mumu ooo
I will get angry, shout,threaten her yet she knows how to give me fake jists and I will forgive her...
There was this gown that my boyfriend bought for me few days to the valentine's day,and ask me to wear it on the valentine day but I came back on the eve of val and met this girl wearing my vals gown and was busy jisting with her friends. . Someone I don't wear her clothes! Which one will I even talk about? Abeg I will never support anything called roommate with my experience!.
I like to be your roommate to some extent and I like your roommate to some extent, that she dislikes begging or collecting Stuffs from you.i hate people that can't be contented with what the have .
DeleteChinwe Uba
Yes..oh. I'm that kind of roommate who will never take from u, nor beg u or depend upon another person for my basic needs. I also hate sharing things. I love to have my own private things & today I'm glad & very grateful that God have blessed me in ( over)abundance.. sef. I have surplus of all that I could ever want in my life & happily contented (single & independent) woman. So I don't even accept things offered to me by others & I'm so terrified & very cautious to accept free things from people. Rather I'm the giver always who is very generous & thoughtful towards the people close to me.
DeleteI don't hate people..oh!!! It is just that SELF SUFFICIENCY have taken over my life & a mantra to me!
Sniper because of a man?
ReplyDeletePlease seek God because you love him and
want to know and have a relationship with him.
Do not seek him to give you a husband so that you go back to a life of sin...for all have sinned..
Old car:
You are being vain, you are pursuing vanities! If you lose a "good man"
because of a car, you might end up with
a "snake" with a posh car.
What is wrong with Naija girls. Are you marrying a car?
If the car is giving problems, why not get a taxi and go to your hangout
places?
😯😯😯😯😯
That's what happens when they put too much expectations on another person's struggle, why didn't she hustle to get herself a car instead of depending on boyfriend's car, mtsheeeewwwww 😎😎😎😎😎
DeleteEveryone must not have a car
DeleteIs it that people who don't have cars don't date?
I am married for more than ten years and I dated my husband
without any car for years. We were happy, very happy.
In fact we boarded the bus to our dates.
Very yeye someborri
DeletePls we understand the lady
DeleteSometimes no car is better than stop and start. It’s ok to advise him to get another or enter public transport with u
It’s official! Some ladies these days don’t know what they want! So bcos of motor u want to leave someone who cares for u? Errrm young greedy lady! What are u offering in the relationship? I hope it isn’t just sex? If u are shy about it, why not playfully yap him and say u will always pay for Uber! Since that “outing” is so important and you want to appear in “style”!? Do u think to buy a car is N10,000?? Chai! I blame that ur Bf who hasn’t seen the signs yet!... you better start helping your Man! Utter rubbish!
ReplyDeleteKelvin Dat Edo Boi (Stellz Cousin)
Are you minding the foolish girl😎😎😎😎
DeleteShe didnt say she wants to leave him...
DeleteI support you on this. Reminds me of an ex that wanted to get back at me and went ahead to ask an acquaintance out. Chic plainly told him she won't be seen dead entering his tuketuke car, that the next time they'd hangout, it better be in a cleaner car. The relationship didn't survive the light of the day. Chic was vain.
DeleteIf someone doesn’t want to take stuff from you, please let them be and know that it has nothing to do with you. It could be from personal experience, maybe someone has insulted the poor girl in the past after helping her or it’s just her upbringing to not accept things from people.
ReplyDeletePersonally, there are certain people I don’t take things from no matter how I pressed I am for that thing especially people who announce when they do anything for someone. I know this because even one of my bosses had to blurt it out one day that “every time I give you something you’d say no so I’d stop offering”, I just smiled and said thank you. Unlike your room mate, what I say when offered anything especially food is “oh no I don’t know how to eat it or I don’t eat this and that” that’s my way of letting them down easy. Please respect her decision to not jump at your offers and you too offer other people who need it.
@Doppelganger...look if we live together and I complain to you that I am hungry or broke and then YOU OFFER WILLINGLY without me pressuring you and I say NO and then go out to buy the same food I rejected or borrow same from somewhere else, YOU WILL FEEL BAD.
DeleteThe poster has a right to feel concerned when her roomate rejects all her kind gestures.
If we live together and you reject every kind harmless gesture of mine, I will feel like I have offended you in a way and so if she feels that she can't take from her roomate AT ALL then she shouldn't stay with her in the same room.
You can reject once in a while but when you take reluctantly in a way that makes me feel bad for even giving you, then we have a problem and you might as well move out of the room to go be by yourself.
LEP😛
LEP, “world is not war” and I’m assuming they are in a school hostel. They both have the right to be in that room, the poster of the comment doesn’t own the room. Like I said, the poster can feel bad but she can’t force an adult to take offerings and going by my reality I’m sure the roommate has a reason best known to her for doing that.
DeleteNo, I won’t feel bad if you say you are hungry and I offer you food only for you to refuse. What if what I’m offering you is not what you want to it? Do I insist you eat it because you’re hungry? No. What will make me feel bad is actually asking someone for
Something they have and they refuse to give me. So let’s not use our realities to judge others. The lady has great respect for boundaries and I won’t fault her for it. In fact, more people should be like that and stop feeling entitled to people’s personal effect because you live together. You may be giving me something out of the goodness of your heart but I can’t see your heart to determine if it’s good or evil, there’s no need for unnecessary back and forth on a non-issue.
*what you want to eat?
DeleteGreat respect for boundaries yet she sees the need to first share her problems with her room mate before her brain tells her to go find a solution. Why not shut the fuck up if you are broke? You don't have eggs then you don't need to tell me. Poster free the girl, you seem to have plenty time on your hands. Stop offering her nothing.
DeleteDoppel are u saying if u cook jollof rice and you offer your roommate and she declines and later she goes out to buy same jollof rice to eat, are u saying you won’t feel bad?
DeleteIf it’s a school hostel, I will kinda feel better but if we rent an apartment off campus together and I keep rejecting and not touching anything that belongs to me, we won’t stay more than one semester together.
Anyone with a free mind or pure heart won’t behave that way. If I don’t want u to insult me with what u give to me, I will give u things too not just being at d recieving end.
If u give me rice today, tomorrow I give u garri or something else u need.
I for one can’t stay with the type of roommate that writer described up there. I will lose weight by force because I’ll always be thinking if I’ve wronged her.
Anon 16:59, this is why I said you people should stop projecting or making it seem like life is either black or white.
DeleteTo answer your question, I won’t cook jollof rice because I don’t cook and if I do I won’t offer my food to anyone. If we are room mates and you’re interested in my food or my personal effect I’d expect you to ask. I don’t like people touching my stuff without my permission and that’s how we were raised.
Let me burst your head, I had a friend squat with me once. As in I was paying rent and she was living with me for me, then one day I had bread with no butter or jam and asked this my friend to give me some of her mayonnaise, she said No. I thought it was a joke but it wasn’t. I had to step out to buy what I wanted. I didn’t chase her out and we are still friends till today, I told her my mind though but that hasn’t made me ‘unfriend’ her. She lived with me free for an extra hour year until she graduated after that incidence.
I prefer her roommate 100 times to the parasitic type that takes unnecessary advantage of the giving type of person. They will use their money to buy clothes and useful things and be depending on their kind roommate for food, soap etc, not even considering the needs or convenience of the person. She is OK abeg, just stay ya lane.
DeleteAunty Stella Good morning. I've found solace in your group for Seven years now. Sent a chronicle ones. Well done.
ReplyDeleteI wake at each night, for the past three weeks I have found it difficult to sleep, because of what is happening to me. I have dated a lot of guys some for years but they leave. Some leave because I'm a virgin that won't open my legs before marriage and they want to taste before marriage, some don't eben want a virgin and others vain reasons. But one thing is sure, most guys that leave get married and of course I ask God 'why'. I was trained in a descent home, brought up with much discipline but here am I at the age of 30 without a husband. Currently am not dating.
Now to what scares me the most .......am very used to being alone that I've been 'comfortable' being alone, save for the last three weeks I became comfortable in my skin. I have always prayed to settle down early in life, have my kids....but here am I. I get depressed, sometimes I give up. I went to a very good school, I have degrees but it took me time to have a job. Now the job is not very good but I'm able to save little, thank God.
I want to leave the country, it I'm equally scared, that it may take a longer while for me to settle and get to know people there before marriage. Most of my friends have 2kids, what scares me is the fact that I'm not even dating. Now here is the situation. There is this boss of mine he is
-God fearing
- Our genotype matches
- All people that know him give good report about him
- I've known him for a while, even before getting the job.
But I've been scared of him before as my spirit refused to accept his. Getting to start talking to him now, he has shown interest and wants marriage but my fear
- I'm not attracted to him in any way, i have tried and tried but nothing
- sorry to say but he easily gets me disgusted, when I visit him I find it difficult to eat in his house. Yes he is not scattered but he does disgusting things like he doesn't wash plated well and some how all the things he does disgusts me
- he is 13 years older and has virtually nothing to his name as he has been helping in paying his younger ones fees and they are still on ground. Meaning more years to pay school fees so at this old age, when do we build?
- most times I feel, just like many of my ex's he wants me now that he has nothing because my family is quite stable(bless God). But his eyes are on my family name and money. Sometimes I feel he doesn't love me, but he sees me as a trophy. That's what happened to many of my ex- boy friends, when they get on their feet with Gods help through me , then I realise they were not who I thought they were.
- stella and bv's , he isn't exposed at alllllll, so we reason on different levels and it's quite tiring and draining.
- Then the annoying thing is as I have not agreed to date him, he has made sure he has become a monitoring spirit over my life. His house is close to mine. If he sees me going out he begins to call me, sometimes he dresses to follow me, he can call me morning, afternoon evening. I'm tired, he is choking me. When I try to reduce taking his call (cos I don't call him) he starts emotional blackmail. When I'm travelling and I mention it, he will dress and cone to the park with me (as if to block other suitors). Please am I seeing this differently or advice on on what to do. Cos I don't feel attracted to him after marriage I can't even let him touch me, he has noticed I have never eaten in his house. We work Mondays to Saturdays and that is how he chocks me at work, people think we are dating but we aren't . I'm tired and drained. I feel time is sooooo much against me, yes he is a good man but i don't love him. Please Advice me. Thank you
SO WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU DOING WITH HIM??? Jeez.
DeleteThis should be a chronicle. My dear your umbilical cord is not tied to him, put your foot down and disengage totally before he blocks other suitors or one day mistake fit happen and you will feel forced to tie the knot.
DeleteWhy are you allowing this man choke you at your age? One chance.
DeletePlease the lady with the room mate issues please drink water and mind your business.
ReplyDeleteSo everything is now 'drink water and mind your business', if you have no advice to give her, keep it moving!
DeleteUna no go ready until that phrase becomes stale😎😎😎
Cute pat see lady bug u dey ask of
DeleteLadybugsis😎😎😎😎😎😎
Drink water na advise na
DeleteThat dude with wandering rod...
ReplyDeleteHumble yourself and beg your wife and tell her that you are ready to seek for help.
It is not deliverance that is first step, it is REPENTANCE. Then learn to
fast to discipline your flesh. Fill your
life with God's word and not (probably) porn.
Cut off bad company.
Tufiakwa for his kind of person. He is looking for someone to support his cheating, looking for another man's daughter to suffer abi? Mtchew, that is not a serious person. The wife has done well.
DeleteGood afternoon lovelies ♥♥
ReplyDeleteCongratulations, may that testimony be permanent in Jesus name. God I also want a testimony that sounds like a lie.
Lol..... So far You love your Bf, love the car too 😂😂
The lady with the testimony, I remember you. So happy for you.
ReplyDeleteSurprise me oh lord.
Why won't you remember her😎😎😎
DeleteI tell you, I remember that lady. Baba God, pls answer my prayers, pick my call. This hustle no be here ooo. Remember the children you gave me.
DeleteLol nne tell him to sell it so u both can use cab.
ReplyDeleteI bet the girl can't even buy a toy car let alone a bicycle wheel being ashamed of another person's struggle and hustle, nonsense 😎😎😎😎😎
DeleteGoodafteroon everyone.
ReplyDeleteHello IHN. Good day ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls looool. it rained this morning and since the its been cold.
ReplyDeleteKeep your kids dry during this raining season by getting them our lovely cartoon character raincoats.
Stella please that advise you gave on the lady and her room mate no follow at all.
ReplyDeleteStella there is no big deal in developing a friendship with someone you live with in the same room.
Madam poster I understand why you are worried on your roomates very funny lifestyle but the truth is that she might have had a bad experience before with someone else and may just be scared of developing a friendship with you.
I suggest you call her and ask her some questions, ask her if maybe she heard some negative things about you and so she is scared of mingling with you.
Tell her your mind and make her understand that you have no evil planned toward her and so she should not be afraid to ask for things from you.
Poster don't change your attitude towards her, keep showing her love as a good roomate and whatever bad notion she may have of you will fade away...don't become mean to her just keep being your good self and if she never reciprocates your love for her then just let her be.
LEP😛
Honestly, humans are insatiable indeed! Would you rather prefer a pliferer, or covetous roommate?unless there is more to it though ... Massive sales to all sellers.
ReplyDeleteCan you read what you wrote?,we all don't have it all, there are times you forgot to buy something and you need it almost immediately, just like the onion case, it's bad she even had to replace it in her absence!
DeleteThat kind of attitude Vis common mostly with the spirikoko sister, useless attitude, I can understand cooked food but something as little as onion hian!😎😎😎😎
Seems like what my sprikoko sister can do, it just reminded me if what happened yesterday!!
DeleteI posted pictures on my whatsapp status, the cloth I had on kinda shows cleavage a bit, I knew I was in for it when I saw her msg..
Aunty:- hmmm u no dey Cherish ur body again
Me:- ignored the msg
Aunty:- how much be this breast wey u pack put outside make we come buy...
The nuts in my head looses immediately cos that wasn’t the first time she would comment such on pics and I would ignored completely..
me:- aunty E, please don’t form deputy Jesus ontop my matter,I’m not a kid!! U can’t be imposing what to wear for me at this age(25)
Na so aunty open bible verse begin dey preach oo
Aunty:- Come on girl,b what God wants u b .Not what u wish to b
Me:- Abeg spare me the sermon, I don’t want wahala oo
Aunty:- Proverbs 3:11 My son, despise not the chastening of the Lord ; neither be weary of his correction:
Proverbs 3:12 For whom the Lord loveth he correcteth; even as a father the son in whom he delighteth.
Me:- holy holy people makes the worst sins, sheybi I will block u soon
Aunty-Pls ooooo my sister don't blocky mi ooo😊u know I love uuuuu😍
Proverbs 23:23 Buy the truth, and sell it not; also wisdom, and instruction, and understanding.
No don't worry abt that Even everything self.Its d work of Holyspirit not my work.He's d one that can transform .Me na just to correct when I c d truth but d rest ,na Holyspirit get d work... take care finest kid sis
Me:- “I just dey laugh”
Her matter don tire me, Na only she deeper life amongst us all!!! If she wan chop, she go pray!! If she carry second round of food instantly, she will pray!!
If u Met her halfway into food, sh will tell u to pray ur prayer before joining her...
Sounds like an Oyibo roommate. They will return one cube of Maggie sef. Return 5 cents. The tin tire me. Me sef Dey return to them
Delete@15:40
DeleteYou have an auntie that is a diamond and you are despising her
If you don't follow her pieces of advice, you will regret both here
and in eternity.
😁😁😁 ,honestly Ladybug I get your drift. Infact ,the poster strike me like someone with a good heart, I like people like her but I don't like how she's taking it to heart. Rather, I feel should tell the lady how she feels . I remember how my room mate during NYSC almost made me looked like a thief because I used little outta of her condiments... I laughed at the spirikoko part ,sadly but true they usually exhibit that "Sanctimonious" attitude. Above all, I feel they should talk about it .
DeleteLadybug I’m with u on this
DeleteCongratulations on your testimony, thank God you never took the sniper.
ReplyDeleteYou want to commit suicide because of a man,... Madam, you need Jesus Christ who gives freely every good thing in your life.
Your mentality is very wrong. So, having a flashy or luxurious car is important to you, why don't you get yourself one and also get your boyfriend one too. Small children brain dey vex me sometimes.
If your roommate refuses to accept anything from you, ignore them. Give to them that need it.
Okay, I'm done with this heat. I can't take it anymore, let me go and stay under the shower 🚿.
That glass dinning table for 140k???fairly used for that matter, poster fear God
ReplyDeleteWe wicked Person.
DeleteHaba you are selling your fairly used items almost or evn same price as New items.
There is a Reason it is called Fairly used.
I saw Brand new king sized bed( wit Modern settings for #160k and it was evn Negotiable.
Thank God Household items,I prefer Brand new,before you will use Ur Money and Buy Evil.
Relocation BV,Your price is 3high
Some BVs. Please know that there is God. How can you be selling old Haier Thermocool freezer for 85k. How much is latest designs brand new one with VAT inclusive. Its a wow
ReplyDeleteCheating bv, is it the excitement of been divorced that's making u type like a drunkard or what? U have a problem, deal with it, na she send u make u dey fuck like bingo? Mtcheww...your supportive spouse will even be cheating n helping u, u never jam! Nonsense n menses.
ReplyDeleteI prefer that kinda roommate, we won't have any beef ever.
ReplyDeleteThe lady with the testimony, I am so happy for you. May your testimony be permanent
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon beautiful people
Pls chat me up on 08145916811 to get the plus size thrift clothing advertised above. Thank you Stella.
ReplyDeleteMartins Pls help me. I can no longer comment with my blog id since I edited the name.
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That cheating man is not serious
ReplyDelete"supporting spouse?". You mean a spouse that will support your
cheating?
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Don't mind The bingo😁😁😁
DeleteLady in the uk, you should have given more info eg do you plan to relocate to Nigeria or are you in the uk for good.
DeleteIf you are in the uk for good, forget about buying or building a property in Nigeria for now, total waste of money. Except maybe you want your parents to live in it.
Buy a house in the uk, you can always sell it off when you desire to.You can also buy a property in the uk and rent it out, but get all those agents involved so they can manage it for you.
Congratulations to the testifier. May God bless you more and more. To the lady that her boy friend has an ugly car. I laugh in Ghana. I can relate very well. Please don't tell him. It might reduce his ego and he might not find you worthy of friendship again.Pray to God to give him more money to buy a new car.
ReplyDeleteLet me just rant.
ReplyDeleteAll ye people that stand like deer, how do y'all do it, especially men?
How do y'all push your calf all the way back?
That standing position freaks me out, as in it scares the living day light out of me. I can't deal.
Aswear it freaks me out big time wen i see it especially by women
DeleteLmao! I do it with ease.....
Delete🤣😂🤣😂🤣funny Stella, so you had to give me a side eyes for taking correction. But you still ain't getting it yet...its BAMBINI no S(🙄🤷♀️).
ReplyDeleteAnd you also asked why I didnt correct you all this while if I just learnt it.
Well, I've been learning Italian on my own for almost 3 months now, so yes I just learnt it.
I got a job with an Italian Company as an international staff and I will be going to Bari in Southern Italy in November for 1 month training. I'm consciously learning how to speak Italian so as to blend well and enjoy my stay, even though I will be going there all the time after my training, so it's a conscious effort to also learn a foreign language.
I am excited to correct you as well 🤗😜.
Mogbe
DeletePlease how did you get the job?
DeleteAny more vacancies.
To the lady that her roommate refuse collecting things from her, just see it that it could be the way she was brought up. It's even better than a person who has eyes for everything you have. Then to the lady ashamed of her guy's car should know that change is the only constant thing in life. There's someone I know who had a very rickety car when he was got married newly but is driving one of the best cars in town today. So don't jeopardize your future happiness because of what you see today.
ReplyDeleteYou obviously have a spiritual problem and all those places you went to dont have a solution to your problem.
ReplyDeleteHave you tried a native means?
Good luck.
dear poster with the roommate you're the one being petty. Your roommate is being respectful of your boundaries. My mum would always say "he who goes borrowing goes sorrowing" and maybe she believes that too. Believe it or not, there are people who hate feeling indebted and she's probably one of them. Respect her decision or move out.
ReplyDeleteBut the girl has got issues abeg! why fake friendship outside of the room?
DeleteMy dear I wouldn’t want a pest as a roommate but this one dat returns onions? Mbanu
DeleteI once had one that will carry my perfume and do shraaaa fuuuuuu pshiiiiii every morning before going out. As in she will use every thing u got but wen small money enters her hand, see her see boutique.
Every thing should be minimal Biko
I can’t live with someone who doesn’t take anything from me still I won’t take it when u want to over do it.
Which useless boundaries are you people even talking about? Is that how to create boundaries? By putting 2 onions in a nylon and returning it when your room mate is not around? What a weird human being. Why not wait till a week or 2 after and just give her something else if you don't want it to be like you are indebted to her.
DeleteSome of you need to learn interpersonal skills. Even in the work place you need to relate to your colleagues well. Nobody wants to hire somebody who acts like an island and doesn't relate at all with others.
My advise to you, just start treating her exactly the way she treats you. Stop being unnecessarily nice.
What of those that will be friendly with you in person but in public will snub you in the presence of others. Her roommate is better jor.
DeletePlease, house agents in ikorodu, pls a friend of mine is in need of a one room self contain apartment in ikorodu. Pls if you have anyone for rent, pls let me know
ReplyDeleteAre you looking for a house in Ikorodu? Houses full Ikorodu wella
DeleteChinwe
Congratulations on your testimony.
ReplyDeleteThank God for this rain...
Dear God,
ReplyDeletePlease give me a miracle job that will sound like a lie when I come here to testify. Amen
Your beloved Daughter
Amin
DeleteThe person relocating from Abuja, ain't you greedy? I don't think you are ready to sell those things or you dash them out since your greed will not let you to put the actual price. how is six seater dinning table? how much is thermocool deep freezer? I dont want to talk about bed and sofa that a good carpenter will do a cheaper rate. Abeg!shift for corner.
ReplyDeleteBeautiful mouth mumbling testimony up there. God is ever faithful. I recieve my own testimony In Jesus name Amen!
ReplyDeleteThank God for your testimony lady 1m monthly. God's blessings will be permanent.
ReplyDeleteRoomate lady, it's obvious you're the friendly and generous type but your roommate isn't like you. We all can't be the same. Accept her for who she is and allow her do her things.
Gooduck to the buyers and sellers.
poster i had same kind of room mate,he said we shouldn't cook together or even buy water together. if i use his salt that's war but e no concern me cos i am always ready,my roomate didnt talk to me in the room but does outside.Her problem is from her growing up,her parents must her fed her all those idealogy,they might have told her that her room mate is capable of doing her wrong things.....just avoid her
ReplyDeleteStella take correction well na
ReplyDeleteThe young ones here are learning from you
In fact we are all learning from you
Lady with the roommate, allow her to continue using your fridge and microwave and please just respect her way of doing things. It's not by force to collect things from a roommate na. When she complains of not having food,don't offer her anything until she asks you for the food. When next she returns double just tell her you prefer only what you gave out not extra. Allow peace to reign biko not this war you want to start..
ReplyDeletebut the roommate is an hypocrite though. why use her fridge and microwave if you don't want anything from her.She has very big issues
DeleteThe lady with a roommate doesn't know what God have done for her. I used to have a roommate who was my friend way back after high school. Few months before we became roommates, I noticed somethings in her but I decided to overlook. First she's a graduate and I'm not yet. She actually came to serve in my state of residence and have no place to stay and since I was staying in a temporary place I accepted we rent a house together. Then she would come to my work place and tell me how she hasn't eaten since morning because she doesn't have money and how the woman she was squatting with didn't give her breakfast. Our of love, I would give her my lunch and some cash to hold. Sometimes if she stays till closing hour, we'd both hangout and bills always on me including transport and I wouldn't mind cos I felt she doesn't have. I would buy her fruits, yoghurts, suya and beverages to be holding up till we get our apartment.
ReplyDeleteWhen she was looking for a PPA, I would refer her or may be someone else referred her to places but she would call me that she doesn't have transport fare and I will either send her or pick a cab from where I was to meet her.
We later got an apartment and luckily she also got a PPA. She uses my stuff ranging from toiletries to kitchen stuff and basically anything one can share and I never cared because I took her as my sis. I'm not the indomie type but I buy a carton(super pack) of it nevertheless, she would finish it under two weeks when I had eaten only about 3 packs or less from it.
Sometimes we do go to work together and on those days I pay our fare.
So one day, I was about paying the t-fare but had no change and since she had change she paid. To my utmost surprise, two days after that, hanti told me that I was owing her. I didn't know what I bought from her so I jokingly asked her if I bought pepper from her. She said I shouldn't pretend I didn't know what she was talking about, that she paid for my transport the other day. I took it for a joke and I told her that I would pay on her wedding day but she wouldn't have it. She said I should please pay her that in fact, the money was in her weekly budget and she can't go and start withdrawing another money (I'm talking about 100 but I've spent more than 40k on hanti). When I saw the seriousness in her, I asked if she had change as I don't have 100 atm or she wait when I come back from the market I would give her. She collected it went outside and bought biscuits and then dropped my change on the cart without saying a word. Me being that I hate wronging the people I love met her later and asked if I have wronged her in any way, and she was like, what kind of question was that? That don't I feel it when I have wronged people? I responded that I couldn't remember anything but if she reminds me, I woulddefinitely apologise. She refused to say anything but later on I realised that it was the day I suggested she stopped pegging her unwashed pants on the hanger as it brought ants which circulated to other washed pants. She was used to pegging her unwashed pants in my hanger during the weekend, she would gather them and wash and still peg them same place.
Yuck! Anon 15:46 I have experienced same. Poster is worried over nothing. Your roommate type is far worse, the parasitic type. They will suck you dry but kobo you will not see from them.
DeleteThe lady with a roommate doesn't know what God have done for her. I used to have a roommate who was my friend way back after high school. Few months before we became roommates, I noticed somethings in her but I decided to overlook. First she's a graduate and I'm not yet. She actually came to serve in my state of residence and have no place to stay and since I was staying in a temporary place I accepted we rent a house together. Then she would come to my work place and tell me how she hasn't eaten since morning because she doesn't have money and how the woman she was squatting with didn't give her breakfast. Our of love, I would give her my lunch and some cash to hold. Sometimes if she stays till closing hour, we'd both hangout and bills always on me including transport and I wouldn't mind cos I felt she doesn't have. I would buy her fruits, yoghurts, suya and beverages to be holding up till we get our apartment.
ReplyDeleteWhen she was looking for a PPA, I would refer her or may be someone else referred her to places but she would call me that she doesn't have transport fare and I will either send her or pick a cab from where I was to meet her.
We later got an apartment and luckily she also got a PPA. She uses my stuff ranging from toiletries to kitchen stuff and basically anything one can share and I never cared because I took her as my sis. I'm not the indomie type but I buy a carton(super pack) of it nevertheless, she would finish it under two weeks when I had eaten only about 3 packs or less from it.
Sometimes we do go to work together and on those days I pay our fare.
So one day, I was about paying the t-fare but had no change and since she had change she paid. To my utmost surprise, two days after that, hanti told me that I was owing her. I didn't know what I bought from her so I jokingly asked her if I bought pepper from her. She said I shouldn't pretend I didn't know what she was talking about, that she paid for my transport the other day. I took it for a joke and I told her that I would pay on her wedding day but she wouldn't have it. She said I should please pay her that in fact, the money was in her weekly budget and she can't go and start withdrawing another money (I'm talking about 100 but I've spent more than 40k on hanti). When I saw the seriousness in her, I asked if she had change as I don't have 100 atm or she wait when I come back from the market I would give her. She collected it went outside and bought biscuits and then dropped my change on the cart without saying a word. Me being that I hate wronging the people I love met her later and asked if I have wronged her in any way, and she was like, what kind of question was that? That don't I feel it when I have wronged people? I responded that I couldn't remember anything but if she reminds me, I woulddefinitely apologise. She refused to say anything but later on I realised that it was the day I suggested she stopped pegging her unwashed pants on the hanger as it brought ants which circulated to other washed pants. She was used to pegging her unwashed pants in my hanger during the weekend, she would gather them and wash and still peg them same place.
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DeleteAfter I realised that it was the problem, I told her that I didn't mean it the way she understood it then she burst out laughing, telling me that I'm jealous that her toht** is sweet and mine isn't and that was why ants goes to her and not mine. And that's why she has a boyfriend and I had none. That was when the respect I had for her just diminished. I found myself dumbfounded for about a minute or so. This was someone I shared my story with.
I started making plans to get my own apartment but along the line I lost my job and she couldn't wait for any opportunity to insult me. I promised myself that I would never retaliate in whatever she was doing ot saying to me and I kept to that, though she termed me weak but I cared less.
One of those days, her phone damaged and being tgat she goes to work, I lent her mine to be using till she gets a new one. When she finally have me back, lo and behold! Hanti has been close to a millionaire all this while and she has been telling me of how she doesn't have shishi. How did I know this, when she returned my phone, she forgot to delete some of her messages. She has accounts in 3 banks and I also bank with one of the banks. I deleted all other messages including the alerts from the other banks I don't bank with living the other one thinking it was mine. After some days, I was going through My messages and came across the bank alert, reluctant opening just to see my balance again and all and I realised it wasn't mine cos of the balance. The account was almost 900k. And I borrowed her 10k few weeks before I lost my job cos she was complaining that they haven't paid their allawee and her PPA doesn't pay her. I later realised that it was all lies at least that of her PPA was a complete lie. It was one of the alert I saw and I overheard her one day discussing with her sis about that too.
Long story short, we don't live together any more. And at a point, I regretted how I started with her. But I give God the glory cos I'm a better person today.
RE U KIDDING?! JEEEZZZ!
DeleteI don gerrit, how can U love and be friends with such a person and not see these signs?!
Dont worry my dear, she go hear am for life, if she thinks she's gon jam only people like U in life, then she's on a very long thing!
Just imagine this bikonu?! This person heart go wickedt ehn! SMH!
i hope u no longer have such person around you anymore,,,or if u stll do..keep her t armslength..no spendin at all cuz u no be hermama..what nonsense...u can't be doing "Monkey dey work;Baboon dey chop" for 2019..
Deletei hope u no longer have such person around you anymore,,,or if u stll do..keep her at armslength..no spendin at all cuz u no be her mama..what nonsense...u can't be doing "Monkey dey work;Baboon dey chop" for 2019..
DeleteLady wit the bf with an ugly car.Ur not alone.I have one guy hitting on me..we"ve been out a couple of times...but his car is ugly...Camry but an old model...front managable,back uuugly...he is young n trying..don't know why he can't get a fine car.....and this is someone who claims he just gifted his mum his 2nd car...smh
DeleteGood afternoon poster that has E30,000.There is a business you can do yourself with that can give you close to N1,000,000 monthly (guaranteed). Why build a house when you can do business that will build a house for you and still have the principal intact?
ReplyDeleteScammer. Thunder fire you there.
DeleteDid she tell you she wants to do business? Mstchew, armed robber.
DeletePoster with the savings. First of all, well done, it takes someone with discipline to save up that much. What's your long term plan? If you plan to remain in the UK then that money can be used for a deposit rather than throwing away money on rent. Do you have your ILR yet? As that will determine a lot of things. Explore Help to buy etc. Good luck.
ReplyDeleteThat testimony is all I see, God bless and continue to uplift you ma'am.
ReplyDeleteBeautiful things for sale, God bless you all and more customers fall on you.
If you have trustworthy people then build in Nigeria and sell or rent and make solid money. If not, then put it toward your house in uk
ReplyDeleteCome and eat fresh hot maize🌽🌽. My first this season.
ReplyDeleteLocation plssss!!!
DeleteI Love boiled soft Corn like Kilode
Relocation seller, those things are damn expensive, you cannot sell used items for the price of new one. That dinning set is same price as brand new online o, including your other stuffs.
ReplyDeleteYou were told the same thing when you tried selling on Nairaland, instead of you to amend prices, you Carry your market come here.
White witches everywhere following the seller of those used items from Nairaland.com to SDK. Lol
DeleteChinwe Uba
Relocation Sales,you are so Horrible. 6×6 Queens sized Bed for 200k.
ReplyDeleteSee your Mouth!!!!.
Haba carry Gun enter road naaaaa
Lol
DeleteI came very late to this post. poster with the roommate. you are not in the wrong. Your room mate has issues and it's got nothing to do with you. please stop offering her things. if she complains to you, listen to her but mind your business. she doesn't want to be indebted to you and she probably isn't a very nice person and wouldn't want you to take from her as well so ignore her. please let her be. She's actually an hypocrite. why use your fridge and microwave if she doesn't want to accept anything from you? she's not well. please get your own iron and stop using her's. I repeat again, Face front and mind your business.
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