Good Morning Everyone!!!
I apologise for falling to answer my own question in Thursday's Boredom eliminating post but i was doing that post and Juggling some motherhood duties and house chores,I had a really really hectic day and missed that question somehow...However it is not a crime and whoever was posting trash on how much of a failure I am should go and face their own hustle...
I didn't tell anyone that i am perfect and I didn't ask anyone to make me their role model...I am allowed mistakes and I am not ashamed,so please carry yourself out of here....I need you to know that every time it appears i have failed or you think i have,I win because i refuse to be a looser or have the mindset of a looser.....And dont expect me to be perfect,I am an original copy of who God created me to be with my flaws and imperfections!!!
I enjoyed that post greatly...Thank you to everyone who contributed and tried to cover up my mistake!!
Have a lovely day and don't forget to make it count!
God bless us as we groove through the day work wise...lol
Kisses!!!
Good morning everyone. Have a nice day.
ReplyDeleteTbabe, How Bayelsa?
DeleteIt's a cold morning in the city of Jos. The rain that fell yesterday was something else.
DeleteMorning. Any news from the other side?
DeleteMy neighbor has filed for divorce,he has 3kids, his wife moved back to her family house after so much please, the divorce rate in Nigeria is getting high.
DeleteGood morning Tbabe
DeleteAnnon 8:45 Bayelsa is fine. Thanks for asking. How are you?
DeleteAnon 9;25, So who will the children now stay with, i hope they are grown up sha.
DeleteI hope its not another case of adultery that caused it sha...
i so much hate the story of divorce.
He took his 3kids from her, I am sure the court will decide on the custody
DeleteGenesis 19:29
ReplyDeleteAnd it came to pass, when God destroyed the cities of the plain, that God REMEMBERED Abraham, and sent Lot out of the midst of the overthrow, when he overthrew the cities in the which Lot dwelt.
I MAKE DEMAND ON THE AUTHORITY OF THE WORD OF GOD;
Any powers and forces needed to be destroy for God to REMEMBER you for FAVOUR and OVERTHROW all your enemies will be destroyed today in the name of JESUS.
YOU ARE ENDORSED BY GRACE IN THE NAME OF JESUS.
Amen,Good mrng cutest pat
DeleteAMen
DeleteGood morning Slimzy.
DeleteAmen.
DeleteAmen!!!
DeleteAmen.
DeleteGood morning everyone!
Amen
DeleteGood money beeveeleons..🤗🤗🤗🤗
ReplyDeleteThank you Lord for today.🙌🙌🙌🙌
Never mistake knowledge for wisdom. One helps you make a living,the other helps you make a life. Sandra Carrey
ReplyDeleteHappy Friday to us all and do all have a lovely weekend!
Wisdom rides on the back of knowledge though, they work hand in hand...
DeleteIhu n Anya gi enweyi Njedebe , I kwesiri ntu kwasi Obi, Oji akwa e ti aki, oke osisi Na e pu Na korota chim, ikuku ama Na onya Onye oma, Onye ikuku Na ejelu ozi. By Jane Mmaduekwe
ReplyDeleteNice lyrics
DeleteGood morning viewers!.... I woke up with a heavy heart and loads of thoughts!
ReplyDeleteWhy do ladies without nyash back the camera and arch their flat nyash and turn their heads back (like a bird scratching it wigs) errrrrrm! U don't have it, u don't have it! Stop torturing my eyes!!!😢😜😚
Kelvin Dat Edo Boi (Stellz Cousin)
Oh lawd 😂😂😂😂
DeleteU woke with a heavy heart, indeed,..
DeleteStop corrupting your eyes then...
You are just a foolish pikin
DeleteIs that all🙄🙄🙄🙄.
DeleteKelvin🔫🔫🔫🔫
So thinking of yansh woke you up this morning? You have left boobies?
DeleteYoli yoli! If slap u ehn, u go turn one face!
DeleteDelta girl, no Na! Bwest is life!😚😚 I just had a heavy heart dazall
Bee10 y u shoot me 😢
Kelvin Dat Edo Boi (Stellz Cousin)
Hahaha Kelvin I have it ooo😎😎😎😎 ikebe super
DeleteYou see the most difficult thing in life is when you know how comfortable you were before,then suddenly things turn around and its even difficult for you to feed as a man.
ReplyDeleteDamn! that's my present predicament,made a terrible business decision after the company I worked with closed down.
Sold every of my things and had to rent a mini flat,when I walk through my sitting room to the bedroom I just laugh at myself every time you know why because I have just a fan and a mattress..my sitting room is just like a playground for kids or a football pitch..lmao.
No work to do just sitting home,even the side hustle is not really bringing that much but I'm managing as I'm typing this I'm just laughing at myself that I never believe things could get this worse for me,even my girlfriend is showing attitude but I don't blame her no body want to get married or even date a broke guy,so sometimes I ignore her calls and keep my distance before she takes the decision of ending things, cos I'm already seeing the signs, so my sanity can still be intact...lol
I'm grateful to just two people
1.GOD Almighty in heaven because some dont even have a place to sleep but I do.
Grateful to God because I strongly believe things we get better very soon,so my faith and hope will never get weary.
2.To all SDK BVS my God you guys are the best,I have fallen into depression and thought of suicide so many times but you all gave me reason to keep pushing it..make I do mistake just open the blog lasan,depression disappear.
I pray for you all may you find happiness in a place you never expect.May God continually bless and prosper you all.
Thank you very much to you all.
Stella I don't think you know how this platform you created has been such a wonderful blessing to people.
May God keep you alive for us all.
Good morning lovelies!
Just hang in there...u will bounce back...
DeleteAwwwww......Don't worry Olowogbogboro will turn things around for good. Keep your faith alive.👌
DeleteThank God for your sense of reasoning but why stay in a 1 bedroom apartment when you can opt for a self-contained
DeleteI pray it gets better for you soon dear
DeleteBy God's Grace
God gat you dear... Just keep trusting him,he will surely come through for you
DeleteTbabe, his choice of apartment is none of your business. Do you know if he was already living in the mini flat when life became difficult?
DeleteSorry anon, God will definitely come thru for you 🤗🤗
Awww! This really touched me. I'm happy you still believe in God to turn things around again for your good. And he sure will. Hang in there and continue to do right.
Delete@tbabe dont mind me ooo I rented the apartment last year after leaving a 3 bedroom thinking the business will bring profit and I can start up with that,but it did not work out as planned.
DeleteBlackBerry, olori,shuga girl I say amen to your prayers.
Pick her calls. Don’t think for her.
DeleteAll the best.
God knows your heart and He will bless you accordingly. @Shooter gyal may peace reign in your heart. We mustn't always react harshly to prove a point.
DeleteYou will not go lower, God will raise you high even before you know it.
DeleteI can relate
DeleteHang in there bro.
Anon 8:03 it’s well with you.
DeleteIt’s a phase and it will be over real soon ❤️❤️
Open up to former colleagues, friends and relatives about your joblessness. If you are a christian, tell your church members, if you don't attend church, join one big one now. If you are a Muslim, start attending assalatu every Sunday or join any other Muslim group and tell them about your condition. They may help.
DeleteAmen..God will do something new in your life.
DeleteAnon don't worry, the same God that gave u all before will give them to u nice more in a million and one fold. Remember the case of Jonah.
DeleteU re getting paranoid though, why ignore her calls?
DeleteThe best time to learn is when things re the hardest for U, your eyes will be opened to things U naturally overlooked...
Like Iphie said, don't think for her, I need U to think for yourself only...
If she breaks up with U now, then she's not supposed to be in your life @all... Allow yourself live through this with ease and finesse..
May the good Lord restore all that you have lost a million folds. E hugs
DeleteI totally understand you Anon 8:03. Hang in there bro, God will surprise you. Please don't hide from people, let them know what's happening as you never know where help will come from
DeleteIt is well with you, just keep up the good spirit. Please avoid staying home, whatever it is, still go to your side hustle everyday, it wards off depression too.
DeleteI know what you are passing through, I was suicidal when the chips came down, started selling Okrika and it wasn't moving still but I've made up my mind to keep my head up no matter what cos I believe God.
BVS make me laugh a lot when I stay up in the night cos sleep is always far.
God bless you for this platform Stella, God bless you for all you do.
You guys can be so amazing... What if she is trying to be there for you and you are busy shutting her out? Not taking calls? If she gets fed up with the cold attitude and moves on , the same you will turn around and accuse her of all sorts. If you can't cope with the relationship again due to other pressures@, how about you just tell her straight up? Na wa.
DeleteI pray you bounce back soon anyway.
People fail often because they put their trust, hope and confidence in their own ability or in other people. They forget who their Sustainer, Provider and Nourisher is! Put your trust in the Almighty. Seek Him. Depend on Him not on His creation who will often let you down!
ReplyDeleteI'm outtie
Loud it, dear...
Delete#word!
It was so hectic yesterday, finally my fear is over. Abuja be nice to me.
ReplyDeleteYour name here will bring good will your way, hun...
DeleteAbuja has never been mean to the happy and courageous, U re welcome!!
Stella, words get to you easily, no need apologising for missing the question & answering wrongly... world people will always talk, even the Pope in Vatican city has haters, Oprah also get picked on, its part of "everyday people"
ReplyDeleteplaying Evanescence this rainy morning. 🎵🎵🎼
Oh puhlease...
DeleteDon't take it away from her, she's human afteralll...
Stellz has got a healthy conscience, judging by her conduct since I started reading the blog...
There's always a need to apologize when a sheep misleads it's flock...
Makes her a great leader in humility!
Yes.words get to her easily.yesterday is gone.trolls will always exist.we love u like that mama Bambinos.ok
DeleteShe apologised yesterday in the comment session
Delete‘Immortal’ Still got my very soul😩😩😩
DeleteGood morning ❤ 😊 😘
ReplyDeleteAnonymous 18.47 and Emmanuel Simeon on BEP last night you guys made my day. I love una 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Still chuckling 😂 🤣
The cold here ehnnn has really affected my jaws and throat...home remedies available-honey,ginger,mentol candies,lemon tea...i feel better.
Splendid day y'all.
That is ehn!
DeleteEmmanuel is a special case, guy cracked me up real good last night...
Stellz, sometimes u surprise me with your rejoinder! Like why do u have to care? It's an honest mistake! Was it not these same BV's that mixed up what a one liner is? Sometimes u stress yourself when u really don't need to! It happened,and so? And i wonder why anyone will call u a failure, Hian!
ReplyDeleteKelvin Dat Edo Boi (Stellz Cousin)
A good leader lives by example, learn from this, U won't believe the wonders...
DeleteWeldone Stellz! that apology humbled me, U re a beautiful soul...
I love fridays 💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿
ReplyDeleteHave a great weekend y’all.
Ihu n Anya gi enweyi Njedebe , I kwesiri ntu kwasi Obi, Oji akwa e ti aki, oke osisi Na e pu Na korota chim, ikuku ama Na onya Onye oma, Onye ikuku Na ejelu ozi. By Jane Mmaduekwe
DeleteHello everyone,
ReplyDeleteCan't believe I've been away from SP for a week! Yours truly has been baking away.😊 I'm so happy,my madam said "she (me) has a steady hand for buttercream icing".🙈💃🏽 Hey God,I was all smiles 😀. Its been pleasantly tedious sha. My tests begin on Monday, moist chocolate cake and smooth red velvet cake. Wish me luck guys 😉. Off for training,gotta run now.
Cheers to the weekend!
~the trainee baker~
Goodluck baker
DeleteBest of luck.
Delete😘😘
DeleteCheers, babygirl...
DeleteKill it!
It will end in praise
Delete💋💋💋💋💋
DeleteI saw a disgusting video of 2 kids. A Boy and girl watching God knows what on a tv. The little girl of about 2 kept urging the boy to do whatever, she eventually took off her pants and d boy ard same age climbed her.
ReplyDeleteObviously they both don’t know what Dey were both doing, someone kept recording this silly act.
Parents check what ur kids r watching, even some cartoons, delete porn from ur locked and unlocked phones , cos this kids r very smart. Some cannopen ur “locked” phones. Good morning all
I saw it. Very disheartening.
DeleteThe recorder is evil.
I do not open all videos sent to me and I am happy I dont watch disgusting things. How can someone sit down and record those kids to what gain? Tueh!
DeleteI saw the video too.
DeleteI don't understand why a parent would leave porn on their phone though. These kids are smart. Sometimes when you lock your phone, they still find a way to unlock.
I think someone did that video and asked them to do it
DeleteWe don't need the graphic details. Jeez!
DeleteSo a married deeper life member must follow a single guy that is about to get married to his futures wife house if they are to see each other
ReplyDeleteNo calls, no meeting until after six month of courtship
Whoever you dreamt about is ur future husband
I was wowed at all this, my sis (deeper life) is bringing her husband home tomorrow and no extended family is allowed to see the guy or be there when he would come visiting, we had to lie to our family friend staying with us to excuse us for the weekend!!!
Is this their doctrine for every intending couple??
Abi my sis church is over doing it??
I just can't wrap my head around it all
That’s their doctrine. Very senseless
DeleteDid fibroid operation yesterday completed it one month. I did my monthly flow after the surgery, after some days my period stopped. I didn't have bleeding again till on Sunday the bleeding started again, I tot it could be my monthly bleeding only for me to see that the bleeding has refused to stop. I did scan a way ago in a good place and the result came out perfectly, no fibriod nothing nothing. Now why the bleeding and abdominal pains when there is no fibriod. God bless save me from this I promise to share my testimony, I cannot o through surgery and still be going through pains. Oluwa help me.
ReplyDeleteYou'll be fine dear
DeleteMay God's divine healing locate you😘
"Yesterday made it one month that I did my fibroid surgery"
DeleteI read up to three times before getting your first line.
My dear sister, you did a major surgery, don't do stressful jobs, dont lift heavy objects or bend down anyhow, one month is still, its the sore from the surgery that causes the pain. Are you still taking your painkillers?
By his stripes, you are healed.
DeleteAnon, you will be fine.
Me I had mine on Dec 23rd or 24th 2017 but there was no bleeding after I left the hospital arround 27th. I learnt that some people do bleed after the surgery but not a month after. Hope you have not been lifting heavy objects or doing things that you're not supposed to. You've to give yourself like 6 months. Be careful Be careful oooooh.
DeleteNo name please
It's a major surgery u did. Avoid any form of stress or heavy lifting. Take white Vitamin C regularly. Don't worry,u will be fine,ur body is still healing.
DeleteGood morning everyone....
ReplyDeleteTo all BVs that wants to Participate in the Sdk Single and Mingle June edition. This is a reminder. It has been scheduled for Saturday 29th June. It's gonna be late in the evening.
Then this is the list for the 9th batch Sdk data giveaway.
Your data has been sent. Check your balance. And Let me know if you haven't seen it but your name is here.
Bv BUXOMEBONY
BV OJAELBA
Bv Kim Nana
Bv Cutest Pat
Bv Bigbanty
Bv Shining Longrich
Bv Oge Amaka
Bv Nenem
Bv Bumblebee
Bv Strawberry
Bv Zeexa love
Bv tenth
Bv Unfair life
Bv Modupeola
Bv MercyBee
Bv African Duchess
Bv Moma Ella
Bv Straw LLB Hons
Bv Est
Bv Juliet Godwin
Bv Abies
Bv Sandybliss
Bv Drinkwater
Bv Something light
BV Ms tee
Bv Bekkee
Bv Kokobella
Bv Kokoinsurance
Bv Fine Country
Bv Jadakiss
Bv I AM
Bv Adepeju
Bv Omajenny
Bv Leo Peridot
Bv Cynthia Iyede
Bv LuluA
Bv Mummy J
Bv Bosschicj
Bv Yori Yori
Bv I'm Blessed
Bv Super V
Bv Bibilomo
Bv Anne K
Bv Tbabe
BV Brant
Bv Precious
Bv Olori Orente
.....that's all. Have a fantastic day y'all.
Nawa oo blog PA. .Wetin I do you nah.. You dinnor wantu gimme abi..issorai..BV Yosola
DeleteThanks blog PA.. I got My data... Thank you Stella.. I really appreciate.
DeleteThanks love .got mine.
DeleteThat name bv unfair life got me LMAO!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.SERIOUSLY...
Congrats to the winners
DeleteGood Morning Beloved PA. I was excited in anticipation of being gifted something on SM but you didn't include me. Why beloved why? *sad face*. All the same well done and have a fantastic day.
DeleteYes! Got mine. Tanks.
DeleteEse gan ni
DeleteGod will u bless you
Please how do I check etisalat data balance
Thanks, received,
DeleteGod blessings Beloved and the Queen herself, Stella😘
Got mine. Thanks Beloved. Thanks Stella for being an angel. God will replenish you.
Delete#Dataislife
Thank you beloved and Stella. God bless you all. Beloved, I checked my data balance I noticed nothing reflect there but I'm browsing. What could be the cause because the data balance suppose to appear.
DeleteThank you Beloved, I saw it.
DeleteThank you Beloved, I saw it.
DeleteThanks beloved, i got mine.
DeleteStella God bless you
Kim Nana make use of *229*9#
DeleteI got mine Beloved, thanks very much
DeleteBeloved
DeleteCongratulations on your passing out of NYSC
May doors of favour open for you as you enter the job market
Good morning house.
ReplyDeleteMay the good Lord bless our day,in Jesus Name!
Stella ooo,biko forget all these dem "I too know gang". Na their own worst pass!
Much 💞💓💖
The things I read on IG scares the living day out of me...
ReplyDeleteRead one saying she used tightening sugar for him and he was just screaming oh baby I must marry you,oh baby what have you done to me.
This is how uncle will be scammed and cry tomorrow. Nawa
I also learnt one woman’s own yesterday:
DeleteShe uses her urine to boil egg for her husband whenever he’s ‘misbehaving’. Next thing, he’s back to being pliant and easily controlled by her.
It’s getting worse by the day, this need to manipulate and subdue another but what do I know 🤷♀️
You think men dont do fetish things to keep their women from straying too?
Delete@Rhod3s,you have just given women with cheating husbands and side chicks who want to be main chicks a tip on how to subdue their men.😂🤣😋.
They will do it and still go to church and act like saints!
Chai!
Good morning everyone 😘😘😘
ReplyDeleteThank you Lord for the month of June.... You have been faithful despite all odds. 😇😇😇
Good morning olori
Delete😘
Good morning darling.
DeleteMimi love and Shuga girl 💕💕
DeleteGood morning house. Happy wèkend
ReplyDelete"Anonymous27 June 2019 at 15:13
ReplyDeleteI have been watching lesbian porn all day,God please deliver me. Is solo sex a very terrible thing?"
By "solo sex" I assume you're referring to masturbation. There's absolutely nothing wrong with it. It is the safest and purest form of sexual gratification. It is very healthy. It is not harmful, and this is from a health science perspective. Zero expectations from anyone. You mortgage nobody's emotions. No pregnancy fears. No herpes, HIV, gono, etc. Nobody to force you to perform orals if you aren't up to it. There's nobody to please and cajole. You run it on a zero budget. When you masturbate, it helps you release stress. It makes you a lot more happier and healthier. When you miss out on regular orgasms, there's a tendency you'll have an increase in stress levels; this can ultimately add to frustration, mental health issues,and general unhappiness. If you see any priest or nun that is always genuinely happy, suspect them. They're not being real. It's either they're having solo sex or getting scraffed by someone- somewhere. Lack of orgasm is a major source of anger and unreasonable irritation. Why else do you think that genuine born-again aunty is always frowning? Why do you think she's always quick to make trouble? It's purely conji. Give her a dildo and watch that frown transform to open joy.
What should one do if their partner has a lesser sex drive than them, sick or pregnant? Augment it with masturbation. Take it or leave it, just like hunger, we must get horny. What do we do about it if our partners are unavailable or if we don't even have any? Masturbation to the rescue. It's so irrational to think praying will make that horniness go away. Na lie. E no dey happen. The only cure to that horny feeling you MUST have, is having incredible sessions of orgasms. Bury that religious pettiness today and stop being a security risk to the society with your pent-up agro.
I hope I answered your question Miss Anonymous 15:30.
This is a serious something......
DeleteAaahhh!
DeleteSo u are saying there are no genuinely happy priests and nuns except they are being straffed' or masturbating?
DeleteO Chi m,anukwa m ozo taata from the great Ceasar himself.
Yes you did Caesar, thank you.
DeleteHow are you people good morning yard people.
ReplyDeleteMehek people how far na so that love go soon and😁😁😁
Good morning BVs
ReplyDeleteIf you were selected in the just concluded data giveaway and you are yet to receive your data kindly contact me or BV beloved so it is sorted out immediately thanks
IsaacBaba, when are you getting an Airtel data supplier? I haven't received my data giveaway cos that's the network I use😢
DeleteGood morning everyone.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations to beloved on your POP. May you find favour in the labour market
Good morning Stella, abeg no mind bad belle people they must always talk! Nobody is perfect we all make mistakes. Abeg make them dey their dey make I dey my dey! Lol!
ReplyDeleteNJ momma, good morning, how are u doing?
DeleteMnwh, How come no one told me how interesting HOW TO GET AWAY WITH MURDER is??!! Why was I late to this party? Abi na my workaholic years cause am? Cos for Lagos my eye no dey see TV. Me ayam am enjoying this temporary vacation (as my people here call it 🤣) Almost rounding up season 4 and gosh I even dream it now.
ReplyDeleteSo aunty Venita said uncle dinor used to beat her? Abi she doesnt want uncle to say his own side that may become a Tontohill case? Please its okay cos I cant with that back and forth. Case closed, we move on.
Abeg I'm going to bed. Na HTGAWM make me do compulsory vigil. Hehehehehehe
TGIF people!!
If you love "How to get away with murder" then you should also watch Scandal.
DeleteI for don tell you but u are fighting me na
DeleteIt’s very interesting.
Delete@yle scandal is really nice.
Side eyes at Eka finding peace.
DeleteThat serie is da bomb!
DeleteMade me fall in love with Law...
Attitude toh badt!
Chiki, it's interesting according to hubby
DeleteHe follows it bumper to bumper
Enjoy!
Eka chikito will not talk to you if you dont apologise properly. That your watery apology laced with pride and sarcasm did not do anything
DeleteScandal - Olivia Pope
DeleteWho has watched 'Playing with fire' - A Mexican series in 02tvseries. Its simply captivating!!!!!!!
Dealing with chikito in anonymous for years & now this?
DeleteChiki sweetie forgive her okays.💅🙍
Anon 9:01 You people just don’t like peace here whyyyyy???? You won’t come out with your chest to fight, but you will blow the fire from the side🙄
DeleteChikito!!! Hustle of life will not let one. I saw it with enough gra gra. There are a lot you should see❤️
DeleteThat series can keep u awake for days baby geh. i am in the laat season and boy annalise be making me shake my head uncontrolably.
@flamingo, I’ll check it out later. Thanks.
DeleteAmbitions is new and very nice.
Irritating piece of shit called iphie dearie tot u said u don't comment on spontaneous posts anymore.
DeleteGerrahere sly mofo
Hmmmmmmmm Chiki is like you are the queen of SDKB 😋
DeleteGood morning
ReplyDeleteFriday has come and I am so glad to be alive.
ReplyDeleteLOL, I enjoyed BEP. 😂😂😂 Stella, you re good. I too didn't get it at first.
ReplyDeleteShout out to all the anons, I had y'all. 😁😁
Na follow follow cause ur own.
DeleteStella didnt get it, which is quite alright..... but u followed blindly
*I heart y'all. 😣
DeleteQueen Perx!
DeleteAs original as they come...
Anon baibay, 😘😘😘.
DeleteOkay, 08:41. No vex
DeleteHey God! I'm sure I embarrass. Y friends 😂😂😂😂
ReplyDeleteKaraoke last night was lit. I'm still slightly hung over. The children should understand, na sleep get me today.
Make dem go do sports or something
U were at Pub 1 ystday yh!? I saw u! With blue Jeans, braided hair, and glasses, with a sleeveless printed top that flows to the knee yh?
DeleteKelvin Dat Edo Boi (Stellz Cousin)
Lips sealed @kelvin 🤐🤐🤐🤐🤐
DeleteWhy didn't u come say hi?
DeleteFunny enough I passed u!I wld have but I wasnt really sure!(can u remember one orobo guy opening a car booth, before u entered while u were adjusting ur purse?) Not until now u said u went for Karaoke, then it clicked!... Oh well!
DeleteKelvin Dat Edo Boi (Stellz Cousin)
😂😂😂 Orobo guy ke.
DeleteOh yea, I remember now. I was making a call yea???
Small world indeed
Good morning BVs, pls who has an old baby car seat carrier they no longer need? Pls I'm in dire need of it. Thanks and Godbless.
ReplyDeleteOh Stellz, I haven't laughed as hard as I did last night in a very long time...
ReplyDeleteThat was indeed a boredom eliminating post! Weldone!!
Onto another news... Pinklady, sending big teddy hugs your way, baby girl...
Good morning, everyone! May your day be as good as U feel today...
Thanks dear!
DeleteI am sending bigger teddy hugs to you.🤗🤗🤗
Thank God for a new day.
ReplyDeleteIt is raining here, may God prosper us in Jesus name.
when fail to take risk, you put your life at risk
ReplyDeleteGood morning everyone,
ReplyDeleteAfter reading the story of the guy that uses stolen Sims to empty victims account and the BV who fell victim to her friends similar antics some weeks back. I recalled my experience sometime in April. I was at the market having a last minute shopping, for things needed for my father-in-laws burial. And just as I was done, I realise my phone was missing. I wouldn't know the exact moment but I was in the market for at least 3hrs. It occurred to me that that's a phone I seldom go out it, because it houses the Sim affiliated to my accounts. I called my husband immediately, he suggested I go to or call my banks and ask them to block my accounts. So I hurried together with my sister-in-law, who was with me at that point. On our way, suggested I use her phone and call my network customers service and ask them to block my sim. We tried that to no avail.
But on getting to the bank, they were already closed. All pleading didn't get me in, so we went home.
By morning, I and this my sister-in-law, was at one of my bank, sadly it was too late. 90% of my money was gone. I fainted at their premises, I didn't know what happened but woke up on the hospital bed. I was 8months and a week gone then. Unknown to me I was already being prepared for a CS. Cause the doctor said the baby's life was in danger. Coupled with the fact that my blood pressure was high. To cut the long story, the operation was successful but I was in coma for a further 8days. My husband had to travel for his father's burial on the day on the burial. Cause he refused to leave until I am very conscious. That was two months and some weeks ago.
That's not the reason for my morning post. Please BVs I need your opinion and suggestions on my husband. He is too giving (an incurable one at that) at the detriment of his immediate family. He is an unrepentant giver.
He gave out the last food stuff we had at home, to our neighbour. Whose wife is of the habit of embarrassing him. He did that with no recourse to the fact that I can no longer contribute to the housekeep as we agreed to (65%:35%). Ordinarily, I would have stepped in to take the burden off him, as I've always done since we got married. But I am incapitated firstly by motherhood and primarily by my financial loss. Something I think he hasn't come to terms with. For the past 3weeks plus, we entirely lived from hand to mouth, as we are financially constraint all round at the moment, until they pay him for jobs done - (elections, hand overs and settling down of newly elected or appointed, has been the cause of him been owed). From which he was going to fund my new business.
We've been married for 4yrs plus now with 2kids. And a plus to SDK, and that's why I am posting this with my ID, we got connected on your blog. And he has been a fantastic husband, very impeccable and outrightly irreplaceable. Hooking up wasn't all smooth but it was worth all the troubles and worries. I will chose him over and over, again and again.
But how do I and the children cope with him this way. To think that I'm still breast feeding my baby and needed to be eating well.
Please house tell me what best to do and approach this with love. We are both orphans, and an only son. I only have a sister who is also struggling with her own family, like every other persons.
Thank you all as you direct me accordingly.
Giveaway plea loading.....
DeleteYou can only get quality reply from IHN, let Stellz post on IHN, so you will get answers and weigh it.
Deleteas it is, Y not sit your husband down with you and let him see that there are some give out that causes harm than good.
seriously as a nursing mother, you need more food in the house and money sef to cater for you and your child.
there is no other way than making him realize that its hurting you as hes doing some giving and should most times inform you before giving out foodstuff especially.
Anon 9:59, not everything is about giveaways. Jeezzz
Delete@ Ann 09*59
DeleteSo fxck what??????
Is it a crime to seek for help????
Stop the bullying
Good morning everyone. Have a great day. Moms in the house, please o how can I wean my baby in 3 months time
ReplyDeleteSumone asked a similar question few days ago on SP.
DeleteAnyways y not wait till then and ask again so that you will not forget and also repost on IHN so that Stella can put it up as headline.
NO 1- is your baby taking other food part from breastmilk.
2- do you have someone living with you or is your mum living nearby ?
YOU have to be sure your baby eats opther food and you must have introduce him/her to it by now, at night dont breatsfeed all the time he/she crys, pap, tea or water should be introduced 1st and if hes not satisfied then you can let him suck.
for no 2-get someone trusted most times your mum is the best, midnight sucking is probably the most difficult , let him stay with your mum at night while you stay in separate room, see teh cry might get to your head oo, dont freak out, just sleep if you can and if not ,dont ever go see him.
no 3- buy cabbage, put in fridge, to make it cool wash it thoroughly, and open the leaf, make sure its not in pieces, use your hand to unwrap it, place it on you breast,make sure it covers all the upper region and wear bra with it day and night..this soothes the pain and bra also helps to breast not to sag at all or not too much.
tired of typing, will continue later....
Good morning to you all..A blessed day ahead.
ReplyDeleteTGIF
Goodmorning everyone, its a rainy mornin here in lagos.God bless us all this friday.and Happy Delivery to all the new moms.
ReplyDeleteThey said you should add your location to your business blog id. Or they should be calling you to ask of location? Hian!
DeleteAt long last, the wait is over!
ReplyDeleteGearing up for Big Brother Naija4...
Thanks June, U were cool...
unfortunately we online viewers can not watch it on IG.
Deleteits only the posted information from their page that we can only follow.
It happened again after so many years. I started hearing voices, I couldn't sleep. Even a newscaster reading news plus children talking and laughing. I thought I would run mad. Woke up with a banging headache.
ReplyDeleteIt's a phase of sleep paralysis, nothing to worry about. Just surrender to it, don't be scared, don't try to fight it off and it'll eventually stop.
DeleteWhat a nightmare!
DeleteGood Morning my neighbors. How are you all doing today?Thank God Its FRIDAY!!!
ReplyDeleteU don't get the kinda attention U need by carrying negative enery around...
ReplyDeleteThat BEP last night was quite relieving, learn to appreciate the beauty in humor every chance U get..
Don't go about cussing people out for trying to be funny!
This is for U, Shooter gyal... Sending positive vibes your way..
🙄
Delete*energy...
DeleteDear Stella, we all make mistakes, that's what makes us human.
ReplyDeleteHugssss....
Gosh! I love U all, great BVs of SDK ville...
ReplyDeleteY'all have a beautiful weekend!
This morning as i wan commot house, i wear my tight Jean and i no too like to dey wear boxer under tight jean, e no dey give me joy. So as usual, i no wear boxer or pant, just my tight jean.
ReplyDeleteRain fall well well for Ikoyi this morning and una know as island be, water everywhere...everybody dey find where to hide make rain no touch dem...i see one bank Atm shade for the other side of the road, na dia people stay and space still dey.
But water dey infront of the place so you go need walk down the end of the water to cross the water...me sef bin wan walk to the end of the water oh...naso i see say na fine fine girls dey inside the ATM place...e go make sense if fine boy like me jump the water instead now. Actually, the water no too wide, na something wey person fit jump but nobody just wan take the risk...me i go take am, if i jump am, this fine girls go trip..
Naso i move backwards small....the babes dey look me, me sef cut eye for them come lick lips...i move back well well...come run..as i reach the water, naso i spread leg finish take jump...na ontop the water i dey when i hear Kpraaaaaaa!..my brother, i hear kpraaaa
...i think say na clap, my head swell...i spread legs wider..i come notice say fresh air dey enter my body from under, both front andto back....i look down see Oga-Landlord AjigiJaga Outside dey sing Rain Rain go away...What is your problem u this preeq, did i buy you nursery rhymes book
E tear reach back, my yansh black well well for under light..i no even know which one to cover, front or back and
My people, i use hand hold my problem front and back...come fall yakata inside water siddon dia oh
...these babes dey look me dey laugh..why do bad things happen to the good ones? ....I need a towel ...Mooomooo Miii
How i wan even take off am give tailor sew? . Heaven i need a hug
. God console me, i am a tax payer
I'm depressed.
#Copied.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteHahahahahahahaha
DeleteHahahahhaha
DeleteAt a time I thought it was Ebuka the graduate that is writing.
Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha...my belle o, I don laugh tire
Deletehahahhahaaa... funny you
DeleteThe way I'm laughing right now ehn, Lord help me 🤣
DeleteOh Emmanuel Simeon, U re a special somebody! Lol
ReplyDeletePatrick's protege...
Let me go and read that BEP
DeleteHave a nice weekend everyone. I have a naming ceremony to attend tomorrow
DeleteBeautiful morning all. Thought we will have small change for weather as yesterday was cool but no need arguing. It is God doing so it is marvelous, only that some people's compound are water logged and some are now co tenants.
ReplyDeleteIf you are looking for accommodation, now is the time to go and check where to live. No mimind caretakers, they are after their 10%.
I came back and read BEP, very lovely. Good at times to laugh when you think the chips are down.
Stella self, seems you are emotional like some of us. Me i laugh and move forward. I dont have time explaining because you will continue explaining and pepple knows how to tackel.
Lovely day all. Once again thanks for the data. Enjoying mine.
Love you all. One love my friendsf
Good morning everyone,did you rest well?
ReplyDeleteCalm weather it is over here.
Grateful for the gift of life.
Good morning Stellz and BVs, Stella humbling people since 1900. Anons you don't get it? Leave Stella ALONE, I wish people will learn from this blog, time to fight you fight, time to make up, you make up. Love and sanity lives here. I hope Stellz apology just humbled you anons.
ReplyDeleteThe rain isn't funny anymore. June 2019 Singles and Mingles, i must participate but some of us prefer older guys.
Going to look for Nigeria burger for breakfast...
Good morning everyone here
ReplyDeleteThank God it's Friday 💕💕💕💕
Stella, honestly you are a very humble person. Really surprised to see your apology. As in you are a gentle soul. God bless you
ReplyDeleteGood morning all
ReplyDeleteHappy weekend 😍
Let me go and read this BEP na ESE okwu.
ReplyDeleteGood morning all.
ReplyDeleteBeen settling quarrel here since I got to the place of my business. Ladies can use your problems to curse you o. Come And see tears as one of them tore the other person down with all the things she told her in confidence.
Given this Biola Dakolo's ( Timi's wife) report of a pastor who sexually assaulted her as a kid.
ReplyDeleteNigeria is long over to have a Sex Offenders registry!!! And National criminal database required for all citizens & visitors within the country.
Because no one should risk the ignorance of having a sex offender, convicted criminal or even someone currently under a police investigation like that, coming near their kids, wife, elderly parents, sick & helpless people or vulnerable citizens to work or socialize with. Churches, NGOs, hospitals, all public & government services employers & employees working with vulnerable people need to carry and update record search for their workers!!!
Nigerian govt must do ABOUT RAPE!!!
This is now #1 menance for the country Nigeria!!!
Thanks beloved I got mine. God bless you richly Stella.
ReplyDelete