Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative -UPDATE

This is an update from the Lady whose hubby wanted to Gbensh 24/7....

The day it was put on the blog,I was so down.
I had talked to him before now, most times he will say OK and we will still have s#x.......so I avoided cuddle;having discussions especially at night.


To those who talked of lub.yes we do have at home and in the office but sometimes i get tired of it all.i have always had to take body pain relief due to body aches...


That day I sent him a text to do something about his libido,
he did not reply.he got home early.
when I had put the kids to sleep and was about to go to bed; he asked me what kind of stupid text i had sent to him...
He told so many married are women are been s#x starved and I am here saying rubbish.

I felt so hurt; he said hence forth I should never send the driver to bring his lunch that i should always bring it myself that he is a man and I should adjust my body to his demands because he will do same for me.

I flared up and we had a heated quarrel which resulted to insults.
Well he left the house and came back late.

Trying to touch me at night I refused because honestly I am tired of body pains.i am tired of it all!!.for the first time my hubby slapped me twice because I kept refusing his advances,which led to an argument...

i was shocked.i told him out rightly I will file for a divorce.he said I was mad and I should watch him file for custody;
I will tell the court where I will get the means to give the kids the lives they are already used to.
After some hours we still had s#x or I will say he had s#x...


He left for work the next day .
I did not take his lunch to him neither did he disturb me.

I was so hurt, in the afternoon I got a surprise visit from my MIL
she said she had dreamt I walked away with my children and her spirit kept telling her I was not happy with her son.


She kept asking me if anything was wrong and I continually said no.
On the third day of her visit;she asked me if I was pregnant .I said no.which I am not.

She asked me if I had done family planning!I said yes;
then she said because three kids under four years of marriage was too quick .
well I have had two failed family planning.
She kept pushing that she noticed I did things sluggishly and was always lost in thought; i looked always tired...


She insisted that i should please talk to her ;i did not know when I spilled it all in tears.i told her every detail and how hurt I was .she consoled me and told me not to worry.
She called my hubby to come home early that she needed him to take her some where.

As soon as he walked in;i was sacred because I did not know what she had in mind.i hid and watched from upstairs.she locked the parlour door;my hubby was asking her why she was locking it she said he should be patient;
Then she took mopstick she hid at the back of the chair and started using the mop stick to hit him continually asking him how it felt???

My hubby ran upstairs to the room and i quickly entered another room.
I avoided my hubby because I was afraid.
after he had refreshed and eaten,my mil called us for a meeting.

The first thing she did;she asked my hubby to tell me his greatest fear. He replied after about five minutes of silence "never to be a polygamist".
she said he had always said it for years.

She talked about my job and the s#x issue and told him his late dad was like that;she told him it was in his mind;his mindset that was playing on him not been able to control himself;she told him how selfish he had being to his wife; using so many things as example that has happened in her own family .

Now he should imagine if his fears comes to pass.
would he ever forgive himself!??
Will he live for pleasure sake or live a fulfilled life.she asked me to excuse them.

They spoke for almost two hours and that night my hubby came to the room;he prayed;cried and read the Bible for straight 3 hours.
He said my down was so tight and it turned him on....he married me a virgin.


There has been improvement.i am trying for it not to be lengthy
It's still everyday but now we cuddle without s#x;we kiss passionately.he has given out my CV to 3 DG's he knows because I declined doing business....
he said he will do anything never to have a broken home.

if I drop his food.sometimes we just play and no penetration.he prays lots now .
he engages his mind...
he threw away the aphrodisiacs.he said it is a thing of the mind.
He deleted all the porn in his phone....

The mom has gone.
he is trying so hard to change; sometimes he has an erection and i help him out.
he does not masturbate....
He bought books and chess game.
He is now working on going a straight day without it.
I feel peace...
I hug him tightly now...
I play with him regularly.
I am happy .
we bath each other without s#x just touching our bodies.
He has ordered they set up a Lil basket ball pitch at the back of the house....
he is really working on it and I am glad he sees the Essence of marriage.....

*WOW....so he even used to gbensh you when you visited him in the Office?Kaiiiiiiiiiii.

Please send in any update to your chronicles so we can know how far!!!