STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
DISTRACTION NEEDED ASAP FOR 24/7 LIBIDO
Good day Stella,
I'm the lady that sent you a mail sometime about hubby and I infertility issue(PCOS and low sperm count)...
Stella the issue now is i need a distraction from my husband. Please he is a very nice man, very nice and honest but my libido is too high for him , too too high. He even bought me a dildo but it doesn't work for me. I Am the type of woman that can gbensh 24/7 ...
Please how do i handle myself. I no wan do wetin i go regret tomorrow but at the same time this is how i feel at the moment.
I need advice on what to do and how to curb this libodo....
WOW....did you say 24/7?And the other Lady was complaining her man was also 24/7!!!....I dont know what to advice you,please take it easy ooooooooooh;This one wey your husband surrender buy you dildo...Odikwa serious.Please someone should advice her quick...
Please how do i handle myself. I no wan do wetin i go regret tomorrow but at the same time this is how i feel at the moment.
I need advice on what to do and how to curb this libodo....
WOW....did you say 24/7?And the other Lady was complaining her man was also 24/7!!!....I dont know what to advice you,please take it easy ooooooooooh;This one wey your husband surrender buy you dildo...Odikwa serious.Please someone should advice her quick...
So even a dildo can not satisfy you ?choi! Ikpu agbara
ReplyDeleteexchange mode activated... you need to try that other woman's hubby so you all and bang yourselves until you are satisfied.😅😅
DeleteMy dear, just try occupying your mind with something else, read your bible, start exercising, something else.
Fan nwannem ooooo🤣😂
DeletePlease come and take my husband.. The man libido is something else..
DeleteEya some women, sometimes I just wish I like it so much, I even pity for my dh, I always give one excuses. Sometime I pray that don't let my dh touch me. It just me everything is perfect with him, he has no choice than to say ok, if u don't want I will leave, you have to consent to it before I can. For my mind I go dey pity for am. Na woo this life sha.
DeleteI'm donating my own too. I left home three days ago to have some rest. Dreading going home today.
DeleteAll this zero to brain women. How can only what you think is gbenshing. Find something doing throw yourself a new challenge
DeleteThat's why we like whites, they would just swap, no time better libido go exchange with same sexual appetite.
DeleteLol @ Ikpu Agbara
DeleteYou want the truth?
ReplyDeleteBegin fasting and praying to discipline your flesh. Do it daily till evening.
If you have never fasted before, eat fruits till dinner, you eat you main
course of regular meal.
And begin to meditate on the New Testament teachings of Jesus while at it.
You will come back and testify to us how you have overcome.
Must everything be about fasting, any gbararam, una advise na to fast.
DeleteThis is ANG! Today she spoke correct English not pidgin.
DeleteLet me ask, na only New Testament dey for bible, you are always advising people to read New Testament as if they should discard the old. Ajuju ka m juru o.
@anon, everything has to do with fasting cos its a way to put ur body under subjection! Please boost it up with prayers.
DeleteOvercome a natural feeling that God himself put in every person....clap for your righteous self.
Delete@Pretty
DeleteIt is easier for the person that is not used to reading the Bible to read the New Testament and understand.
Whenever I see serious cases involving the life of a child or marriage, I switch to English.
And that IHN of the lady that is going to Norway to marry "a second husband" (actually a strange man)
affected my humorous mood today.
It is well.
@Blackberry
The poster herself knows that it is not a natural thing to have intercourse 24/7
It is not natural at all.
It has to do with fasting oo. How can u be thinking of fuck 247.. Learn a new skill and leave that your fuck net
DeleteANG you are point, poster follow ANG's advice.
DeleteWhat you are going through is not natural, you need the help of the holy spirit.
blackberry stop being stupid and use your brain sometimes...God did not put sex for you to have it 24/7...if she is complaining then it has become a burden and a problem. her libido is extra high thus she needs a solution and yes prayer and fasting will do it.. note however that prayer and fasting without commitment to Christ is waste of time. God aint a babalawo
DeleteYou need a job that will keep you busy 24/7.
ReplyDeleteGet busy!!!
U want make she begin share fork to male colleagues for work, okwa ya? This one no be solution oo!
DeleteIt has nothing to do with being jobless biko. I'm a stay at home mum. There are lots of stay at home mums too without this high libido. It's just her personality...
Delete😛😜😝
DeleteU no get work?
ReplyDeleteNa wa oh... And the other woman was complaining, maybe you two can exchange husband... It's well
ReplyDeleteMadam poster, get a job and a hobby. I bet you your libido will reduce.
ReplyDeleteBury yourself in the word in God. Commune with the holy spirit always. I assure you that hose feelings will give way.
ReplyDeleteAh Stellz, don't give up on these women oo! They need ur help here...
ReplyDeleteBiko connect the two women, make them exchange husband's for the sake of peace. We all need satisfaction in our homes na, to the max sef!
Nne, if that doesn't work, U need to seek medical help, inugo?
I'm wondering... maybe I should work towards rendering services like this, men & women constantly servicing the Ogas & Madams wey no dey belle full for the other room.lol... Na joke oo!
na wa!! Aunty you are perfectly normal however your hubby needs to up his game to meet your needs - its your right in matrimony -
ReplyDeleteSlyvia😂😂😂😂😂 cmon🙄🙄
Delete🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂
DeleteKill him..and tommrw he will go about fending for the family. Kil him you hear
DeleteExactly!
DeleteWhen the other woman complained, everyone advised her to up her game, now it's a woman and people are telling her to get busy. This world is not favourable to women sha
Madam, na high libido you get, you no kill person. I wish i could get horny on my own, i will be very happy. I have a very low libido and i often feel bad for my husband... Tried all manner of libido boosters but they don't work for me �� please anyone with ideas on foods/drinks/drugs to help my situation, kindly drop a comment.
Its a mans world...
DeleteThat woman wants to kill him in his own world again... Godforbid
Get busy, engage yourself in some more positive stuffs, avoid watching or reading porn related stuffs.. and anytime you wanna do the do, do it to your satisfaction with hubby. before you know it, you Will get use to your new sef. But please dnt ever think of cheating cos you will become more insatiable and miserable. yea I know wat I'm saying. Beheading isn't the treatment for headache.. KUTI'sOPINION
ReplyDeleteOne man's food,another man's poison. What an irony of life
ReplyDeleteGet busy,start something or go get a job if you don't have one,or you. Can go do free charity work in an orphanage or idp camps,if there is any around you.it will take your mind off sex
ReplyDeletePoster, are you a housewife for you to always have this feeling/urge???You need deliverance biko cos you might cheat one day.Meet a good gynae and check what you eat or drugs u take.
ReplyDeleteMumu. She can be a working class and still have high libido. No be pple dey cheat with colleagues?
DeleteNonentity15:41...go get a job dear if the word *housewife*dey pain u too much.Oya run along
DeleteHow do you people marry partners who you are not sexually compatible with?
ReplyDeleteThis is frightening cos with this libido of yours, I don’t see how you won’t cheat on your husband.
Dildo won’t even do much.
Maybe you should go for drugs that will reduce your sexual urge.
How can someone be horny 24/7?
Libido changes too. Mine changed after childbirth . Skyrockets during pregnancy . Am pregnant now and all I dream of is a large black dick with angry veins. It reduces after pregnancy though but still higher than when I got married.
DeleteMy dear I married who I thought we were compatible, he told me thank God that I was his full package, that we are so compatible even sexual...6 months everything changed, my dear no longer want sex like before. I didn't add weight, he has not given me any reason to suspect he's cheating on me though I can't vouch for any man...the only thing that takes him out of the house is work 8-2pm he buys everything that he might need later before coming back home, his colleagues are always telling me how lucky I am cos oga is always rushing to go home after work, u will never see him outside in the night. I've asked him what the problem is but he is insisting there's no problem, if I initiate sex he will respond very well but if I don't we can stay for one month or more without sex. We dated for close to 3years so it's not always about how compatible u both were before marriage but do u people remain that way even after marriage
Delete@Annon 15:46 something must have reduced your husband urge for sex. Please find out. Again make sure you are always clean, including the children, the house and the environment.cheers
DeletePlease nothing reduced..he is who he is..when he doesn't ask he is resting. In as much as scheduling sex is unfashionable you put it in your mind to have sex with him atleast twice a week. Sex can be draining for guys especially men that a very busy upstairs not and don't do drugs. It takes 21 days to fully recover so you check it. A man can't be gbenshing you everyday
Delete15:46, you just described my situation but it's the other way round.
DeleteYou need a Job Ma;you can't wake up by 4-5am to prepare for work and be thinking of s*x always when you are having a hectic day..
ReplyDeleteIf you have a job and you happen to be the Boss,get a side hustle and take care of it alone;or assign yourself some added task..
If the above doesn't work for you;get an online course to study..The next thing after studying would be to sleep..
@MARTINS ABOY
Martin, you don't understand. In my case I was working and will be fingering myself under the desk.
DeleteAlways wore skirts and no underpants. And as soon as my husband finished eating,
I will swoop on him. This is after multiple orgasms in the office.
What saved me were; 1. My faith in Christ/word of God. 2. Fasting/praying
After I was free, I still fast like 2-three days in a week which actually is what
is practiced in the scriptures.
Shege jagwa!😯😯😯
DeleteLakuli jalailu!!!!!
DeleteHeyyyy!!! People carry problems for this life oh!
DeleteSkuuu ske skuuu..nkpo na-nii🤔🤔🤔🤔
Delete😳 so it’s real.
Delete😂😂😂😂 fummy...... gaskia, sege jagwa.
DeleteSweetie
ReplyDeleteI had a similar problem and solved it by fasting and praying. My husband wasn't complaining but I knew he was
enduring a lot and was always exhausted during the day.
I am a Christian and I knew that
If I did not do something to my desires, it will destroy me.
See scriptures: Galatians 5:16-21,
James 1:14 etc.
A person is a slave to whatever masters him/her 1 Peter 2:19
Thank you. You are reasonable. In as much as sex is good there is limit. You can't see your husband so exhausted you are demanding sex. Give him a break.
DeleteWill just read comments, this 1 pass me
ReplyDeleteMadam no need to worry. Just contact that poster the husband who is like you. Both of you fits each other.
ReplyDeleteIf you need a distraction, go and join a working NGO that will take away some hours from you
ikpu di oku������
ReplyDelete@Aboki Nyarinya
DeleteI talk am say na Igbo girl wey??? grew up in the North
You shak chilled kai kai, ya ikpu come dey dey hot okwa ya?
Ajuju n' ese okwu
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So Aboki you are Igbo afterall???? Shege jagwa!
Deleteyou are justifying Ur lack of self control. Ur problem is lack of self control. let me advice you,Get a rough stick instead of the dildo use it to screw urself very well and you will feel the pleasure and it will enable you to stay like 2 weeks out of sex cos of the bruise you will suffer from it. Asewo oloshi.....I'm sure you are the one feeding Ur husband and you kill his self esteem cos that is the only way a man will buy dildo for his wife.
ReplyDeleteYou are not even her husband but your self esteem is already in the gutter. Men have been buying dildos for their women since inception, stop projecting. 😬😬
DeleteNa fight?
Delete@perxian,why you carry the matter for head nah. I'm sure you are the sender. onidokudo Oshi.....@annoymous,you too take it easy. people fuck for pleasure. she might be an addiction on the side of the poster.
DeleteTaking it too personal.
DeleteAre you working?Or into biz ?if no get your self busy before you kill your husband what can of stupid libodo is this that you can't control yourself,if you are busy I don't think you will remember such, with your behavior you want to destroy your home think wisely good luck.
ReplyDeleteGet busy if you're not ATM
ReplyDeleteHian!Nobody is telling her that her husband is enjoying and that this is what other men want???
ReplyDelete😞
Lmao
DeleteLol, clown. 😆
DeleteIf you go and deep your hand into a honey pot its enjoyment, if the honey pot comes to you, na bee sting be that oh
DeleteNobody he's saying her husband should always give it to her anytime she want rather they are telling her to fast pray and all sort. The truth is most Nigerian women are just seen as slave to men who don't deserve anything in life just keep serving the men till you get old, worn out, depress and die and the circle continues. Except few who have taken it upon themselves to break out from this.
DeleteAbi o, don't mind them, they want that other woman's hubby to kill her with sex. They always put so much pressure on women.
DeleteThe chronicle where a woman complained that her husband likes sex 24/7 machine almost everyone told her to enjoy and give her husband his right now it’s a lady almost everyone is saying she’s not okay, she needs help, she should fast and co. Why didn’t you all mention to that man whose wife complained the other day to that she should tell her husband to fast and pray? So it’s a mans right to get sex anytime he wants it from the wife but it’s wrong for the wife to desire and want sex anytime any day! I wonder how we see things at times. Sexual issues favour men, a woman can’t open her mouth and discuss sexual stuff, the next thing is for her to be condemned and called names. What do I even know? Anyways, how do you know your partner sexual libido before getting married without having sex? It’s confusing because of tales like this. (Forgive any typos, I just chop finish, belle heavy)
DeleteSee why I love You! No one told the man from last week's chronicle to get busy, now everyone here is either chanting get busy or fast and pray. Mtschewww.
DeleteAre you a housewife? Having a high sex drive is not a bad thing but you have to stop thinking about sex all the time.
ReplyDeleteGet busy, sis. If you are already busy, double your effort. Put that energy towards something else.. Go to church activities, join active groups, cooking or act classes.
If all fails, service yourself. 😒
At least most of us can deduce she needs to get busy. 🤣
DeleteHow many times a day does your husband have sex with you
ReplyDeleteHe may need to step up and do more. Maybe do more styles where you are the more active participant so he doesn’t work as hard
Exactly, once he's aroused , be on top. I've never heard a man complain of sore penis , I think it's women that get sore. He might just be having back pain and all, so let him lay down while you do the work. However, this your 24/7 stance na long thing.
DeleteYou are not a man how will you know. Yes men do have sore penis
DeleteMen get sore tooo
DeleteAbeg Men dey get sore jare. When we dey uni dey fork anyhow, sometimes our onu amu bin dey get bruises too.
DeleteDear Poster, I was in your shoes some years ago. I looked for solution everywhere even bought sex enhancing drugs for my drugs but I was never satisfied. I became frustrated and took my case to God. I told God to help me because I could not help myself. God listened. First I just thought of getting recognised certifications. For two years I was busy with reading and writing exams....Those exams were expensive and difficult for someone like me to pass. I passed and got new certifications. What I am trying to say is that you should try to occupy your mind with something challenging or try out new things that would bring positive result for you. Above all, pray always.
ReplyDeleteGood comment... . There's is 24/7 high libido stella, I only spent 4 Month with him, I thought I could cope but when i notice brown discharge something like blood during sex, I Japaa for my Dear life, it bin 6years I left him .. High libido is bad Jaree I thought I was lucky to met such man but na bad luck
DeleteKpele o madam
ReplyDeleteI've learnt my lesson with issues like this,when we got married newly, I will complain of sex,since I was just at home doing nothing.. One day, I told my husband that I didn't marry an old man o..biggest mistake, that man also kill me with sex,morning, midmorning, noon,midnoon*evening, nights,midnight.. Jesus,I have to apologized😀😁😂
some people came to the world to fuck. Sorry poster, that's your portion. You need to learn how to make do with your husband and the dildo and probably buy more. Surely , you were not expecting us to suggest you get a sidekick?
ReplyDeleteYou said you are having fertility issues and I guess you are also taking some form of treatment? May be you should start by looking into what you are taking in through the mouth. Most supplements and smoothies for treatment of infertility are usually silent aphrodisiacs.
ReplyDeleteThen as cliché as it may sound try praying and fasting. Concentrate fully on your goal which is to be helped by the Lord.
You made a very valid point! Either her PCOS is producing too much androgens or her medication is causing her to have high livido
DeleteYou said you are taking some form of treatment for infertility? May be you should start by looking into what you are taking in through the mouth. This is because some types of supplements and smoothies for treatment of infertility are usually silent aphrodisiacs.
ReplyDeleteThen as cliché as it may sound try praying and fasting. Concentrate fully on your goal which is to be helped by the Lord.
Poster... Pls take this advice... This is d best advice here...
DeleteWant to read comments.
ReplyDeleteYou guys should calm dan na... she’s only exaggerating that she can have sex 24/7 haba!
ReplyDeleteHmmm... please get busy and get your mind off sex
ReplyDeleteYou guys don't understand, this is a psychologically disorder and not the result of an idle mind. It's not a matter of keeping busy. I had a colleague with a similar issue. Even when we are working overtime at the chambers because we have a deadline to meet, she had to keep taking bathroom breaks to go pleasure herself. She had this vibrator that was as tiny as a keyholder that she uses whether or not she is alone in her office. It was a nightmare! She didn't discriminate, she could get down with male or female just so she satisfies the urge. I have walked in on her grinding on the edge of an abandoned photocopier in the store at the office. Guess what? she saw me and the bewildered look on my face but she kept on moaning and humping away. That was when I realized " Houston, we have a problem".
ReplyDeleteThe next day she came to my office to pour out her heart and she ended up breaking mine. She said she's always wet and must use pantyliners. That once the urge comes, if she doesn't find a way to pleasure herself, it feels like she will go crazy. She has slept with all sorts, both men and women. She can't keep a steady relationship because of her crazy libido. Her last relationship crashed because she spent the night at her boyfriend's house, after having marathon sex that wore the guy out, she was still feeling restless but he had passed out, so she got up and decided to take a walk. She got to the parlour and met her guy's brother watching a movie. She practically grabbed his dick and mounted him after the sex romp, she came back to the room where her guy was still fast asleep. She said she had to masturbate TWICE before she could fall asleep. Her guy got to know after his brother confessed some days later and the rest, like they say, is history. Unfortunately she was fired from the firm because of this problem, people kept walking in on her doing stuff to herself but the last straw was when she was caught having sex with one of our clients right on her desk! Very sad indeed.
Poster honey, that case is way worse than yours so know that you are not alone, people have gone through worse. At least you can control yourself for now and you don't have to embarrass yourself publicly because of your urges. I think there's a medical solution, perhaps see a doctor for evaluation. I know prayer always helps but you must be desperate enough for divine intervention. If you just pray because people are suggesting it, it may not work for you. You really have to key into the spirit and really crave God's help. I suggest you tackle it medically as well as spiritually.
Please take this seriously so you don't mess up a good marriage. Let your hubby go with you, it makes it easier. If he is broad minded enough to buy you a dildo, he will be supportive and be with you as you seek a solution to this problem. I pray you get the help you need.
e-hugs and kisses.
Spirit husband gat your colleague not libido, abeg. The only libido that rocks is 24/7 raw cash. How can one be horny 24/7, like how? Go for deliverance. Study a sex toy well, it can never replace a man.
DeleteOmg😮😮😮😮 things are happening in this life ooo
DeleteI was looking up to your comment. So did that your colleague get help? Finish the story now.
DeleteChinwe Uba
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DeleteChinwe baby, unfortunately I don't know if she sought help. I didn't keep in touch. I just wanted the poster to know that there are worse cases out there.
Delete@Ronalda
DeleteI always like your comments but there is nothing "psychological" in what you mentioned up there.
It is always easy to classify anything we don't understand as psychological. Medical science has
nothing to offer this lady. It is purely a case of demonic possession and a regression into
destruction by a very wicked spirit. I pity any man or woman that has a dalliance with this lady.
That's automatic transfer of spirits and the person begins to feel same hunger for sex.
Solution is deliverance in Jesus name. Any step toward God no matter how small is progress.
I know you won't disappoint. I just came back to look for your comment
Deleteronalda this case is so not medical. its a demonic manifestation of the spirit of lust.. she needs deliverance and I hope she has gotten it.
Deleteget a fucking machine from amazon or ebay
ReplyDeleteCheck the drugs your taking. Learn self discipline too.
ReplyDeleteI pity that your ikpu. The thing ga abosachago. Oga eye go oye ka tunnel.
ReplyDeleteLeft for me, they should eliminate sex from this world.
Sex is a thing of the mind, I was like that some years back, but now for many years I don't think, don't remember ,don't even want to have sex. I want a man I will just interact with without sex, they are very difficult to find.
ReplyDeleteI think its hormone disorder. See a doctor fast b4 ur husband runs away
ReplyDeleteI remember your story. Been praying for you sef. Are you sure your gave pcos? Cos most people with pcos have low libido or none at all
ReplyDeleteMoney over sex biko
ReplyDeleteSee how people are asking her to get a job, fast and pray but were quick to tell the other woman to always satisfy her husband,what suddenly happened now? Why not use same energy for this poster? Why ain't you people telling her that she's normal and that her husband should always satisfy her at all times. That he should take drug enhancement and buy lubricants for a good job, as her property. So much double standard
ReplyDeleteHmmm
ReplyDeleteTake advice from this people on your own peril.
ReplyDeleteSome people here are just confused, double standard, two faced low self esteem hypocrites.
Take advice from this people on your own peril.
ReplyDeleteSome people here are just confused, double standard, two faced low self esteem hypocrites.
Hmmmm
ReplyDeleteHmmmm
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