What would Snooping Ladies do if the tables are turned?If the men started snooping when you are in the bathroom or when you are sleeping......
A woman's full is full of ISH and I am sure there would be hell let loose in some homes if the men actually snoop....
What would you do if the tables are turned and you catch your man snooping in on your phone the way you did on his without being caught?
i go through my husband phone cause we both share password.
ReplyDeleteSome friends are guilty of this! You give them your phone and the next minute they are snooping in your WhatsApp or text or even contacts! It starts from there
DeleteMy dear, my sister-in-law (co-wife) is like that. Give her phone to look at picture, she goes through it all including messages. When she comes into your home first thing she holds is your phone. And she can gossip for Africa.
DeleteI had to password my phone cos of her. But since they don't come like they used to I have removed the password cos of my little daughter.
Whenever she comes to my office and borrows my phone to make call, I stand there wait for her to finish and collect my phone immediately.
Some people don't know what privacy means.
Me and hubby don't snoop cos our phones are not passworded and we are almost always together, I don't have any reason to snoop shall cos my intuition has not been provoked lol...
Is 10yrs of marriage we dated only 2months. I'm grateful to God na Grace.
Oh my God. Someone I knew in 2017 Tied a new phone and new Nos to his wife’s Whatsapp chats. The chats were mind blowing with his wife’s nudes she sends out not to just one lover but like 3, I snooped on d phone , he caught me but had b4 then told me about his damaged marriage. He showed me d chats , I must say I lost interest in the whole thing. Married women I hail una o
DeleteOn the same whatsaapp group with u 😂😂😂😂😂😂10 years of marriage dated only 1month 💃💃💃💃💃
Delete@anon 16:43...How can your sister in-law be your co-wife?
DeleteI password my phone,but everybody including hubby knows it. I eont snoop,but he dose on my phone. Down to my bank app to see transactions i do. My hands are clean so no wahala. But his phone hmmmm,guy man holds it close to his chest.
DeleteI have nothing to hide, he is very free to snoop
ReplyDeleteI have his passwords and he has mine. Though I don’t snoop cos I trust him
Good sisi Omah, na so marriage suppose dey. 😊😊
DeleteBut I hope say no be Pharisee yarns?
Ajuju n'ese okwu? 😊😊😊😊
I know of one 65 years old man who still check his wife phone each time she is bathing or sleeping. Accusing her of so many things.d woman don bear tire.d man no dy try at all and funny enough d woman hand clean.sum men sha
DeleteObsession has no age limit
DeleteI don't have skeleton in my cupboard. He checks my phone. But hides his phone with the excuse that i get angry when i see any incriminating thing in his phone. He is an unrepentant cheat. He even bring his side chicks home when i m not around. Useless Edo man. I regret marrying him. He is a bv.
ReplyDeletewow calling your husband useless. then divorce him. I hate people like u. u talk trash about your husband but yet u are still with him
DeleteShatap anon 15:11, do u know what she has gone thru in his hands? Do you think divorce is as easy as most people talk it? If you are not wearing the shoe you don't know where it hurts, so just keep your opinion to yourself!
DeleteStella many women are comfortable with their husbands snooping, except of course the man has messed up and she decides to pay him back in his own coin. For me, I locked my phone so that he keeps imagining that I have things to hide......
Please leave her alone, if she leaves the marriage, you will be the first to shame her for being a divorcee,and remind her that her daughters will find it difficult to marry because they are from a broken home.Just let her be
DeleteSorry for your pain. Make sure you protect yourself against deceases.
DeleteAnon 14:41 same with my ex, he hides his phone like his life depends on it, when he was at home, he puts his 2 phones in his boxers pocket🤣🤣he was always afraid to charge his phone, he sleeps with them under his pillow at night, he goes to the shower with his phones. But the day he forgot his phones in the bathroom and fell asleep, I saw what I have never seen before in my life. Chats with multiple dirty girls, prostitutes and married women that he was dating.... I nearly fainted that day.
DeleteNeedless to say the union was dead on arrival. Better snoop and find what you have to find out and leave than stay to catch HIV or rather let a shaku shaku side-chick plot your death.
Your husband just replied you, he is anonymous 15:11
DeleteAnon 14:41 Sis u just hit d nail on d head.I almost married a Lagos man-whore if not for phone snooping.God saved me oh.I used to belong to the group of women who say "Mind ur business and don't Snoop" until I met one innocent devil of a man.I took note of his fone pattern and just out of curiosity checked his fone when he was asleep.Omo wetin I see for him fone ehn.Dude patronizes all those popular Instagram skanks;very very dirty chats;pix and he even had two girls accusing him of being responsible for their pregnancies.(that means he doesn't even use protection);I ran as far as my legs could carry me..
DeleteWomen are very smart..
ReplyDeleteeven gossip sef they delete.
Women are smart ooo Stella
Please come and snoop.
ReplyDeleteNo incriminating evidence.
#doanddelete
They know how to use my phone. Password or not, nothing to hide. If there is any incriminating thing I delete especially messages.
ReplyDeletehahahahhahahhaaaa my man decided to plug my mobile right after i took a call.
ReplyDeleteI didn't know he went straight to my settings and disabled my password so he could access my mobile ....Mesef no wan know!
Ogbu mma anaghi ekwe onye bu nma bia ya nso!
You cant disable password without the PIN. If he has the PIN, then why did he want to disable? MUST YOU LIE ABOUT EVERYTHING
DeleteIDIOT LIE DETECTOR
DeleteIf you took your time to read you would have seen that right after a call a phone maybe open and files accessed
NSI EFI
Anon18:36 kandan why call the other anon an idiot, he or she is actually right, before you disable a password you must firstly provide it.
DeleteNo big deal, if I can snoop on him then why can't he? At the end of the day, we won't be bothered if we have nothing to hide.
ReplyDeleteI snoop my wifes phone, i cant be taken unawares... i trust her sha, but not 100%.
ReplyDeleteSome times "hes just a friend, hes just a colleague".... na them!
I hope you are also comfortable with your wife snooping on yours, so that she is not taken unawares.
DeleteMy darling husband knows the password to my phone, email and vice versa. We don't hide anything from ourselves and it dates back to dating days. There is
ReplyDeletereally nothing to hide.
But make I yarn about my friends; Naija girls. They guard that phone
more than their tohtoh o. But why?
Ajuju ajua. Fork video, naked pictures, small god number, phone fork snapshots etc. all full am. 😯😯
You doubt am.
Just watch Naija girl if she dey sitting room and her phone ring for
bedroom, she go dive am like say cat
see mouse for breakfast.
😜😜😜😜😜
Snooping has been causing a lot of heartbreak since 90s. Please if you don't have the mind to withstand what comes out of snooping pls don't try it ooooh....snooping is for the strong mind, not for fragile souls before you die before your God given time.
ReplyDeleteI'm telling you@ Kristy.
DeleteSnooping should be avoided if Possible. I wished I Learnt,known this wen I was Younger,My Marriage would ve bn PERFECT
@Anon 15:42
DeleteLiving in ignorance is not perfection. Shielding yourself from the truth is not perfection. No man would do this, so why do women do this nonsense?
Hmmm!
ReplyDeleteI don't Snoop when I was still with my ex husband but this man actually bugged my line, I don't know how he did it, all I know was that he came home one day and told me I will be using etisalat as against the Airtel I uses before I met him. Got to know about it when we separated,and all in all he is still the one that fucked up.but any relationship I am going into now, we will know each other's password but I am not going to snoop
ReplyDeleteSame happened to my friend. His ex-bugged her phone. But that my friend na serial cheat. She sleeps with sugar daddies. The guy was shocked to see all these and called off the relationship.
DeleteHe probably works with etisalat or has a friend who does. He can only have access to your text. So don't send text. With calls he can only view the call log but not have access to ur conversation recordings...unless he b oga oh lol
DeleteMadam, he didnt bug your line ,he did multi-sim and enable calls,messages for the multi- sim line
DeleteAnd also, telecommunications networks cannot view ur msgs, that i know for sure.
DeleteNay to snooping. Me and my man don't hide anything from each other. If my phone rang and i'm busy, I 'd ask him to answer it. If his phone rang, i answer it.
ReplyDeleteWe use each other's phones to text other people, call, surf the internet, anything. We are kind of obsessed with each other. 🙈🙈
Exactly!
DeleteI know is password and my phone doesn't have.
I'm free to pick his calls although he doesn't like picking mine.
No big deal.
Nice one
DeleteHubby's password is his fingerprint and my fingerprint...I have access to the phone...but I dont snoop there is just no need or reason to. Whilst my phone doesn't even have a password...my phone uses face recognition and I cant risk not being able to open my phone if I put on make up too
DeleteYou guys are lucky I wish mine is like this,God do this for me Amen
DeleteMy phone lays around anywhere in the house, I don't have anything to hide. Same as bae's.
ReplyDeleteI hate this snooping thing eh!
ReplyDeleteYour hand no clean na.
Delete😂🤣 Same here wallahi!!!
DeleteMy husband is a super cheat so he doesn't play around with his phone and i myself is a mighty multi award winner cheat!! My phone is unlock but I have 2 additional numbers I used for my runs, my husband can never in his imagination think I mess around not only with family friends but also our Pastor
DeleteJust negodu!
Delete@ Anon: 18:26, you have no shame or dignity and i pray that God in heaven exposes you soon and very soon. You are a disgrace to women. If you can't be faithful to your husband, why not seek a divorce. Must you sleep around?????
Delete@ 117:46 The hubby that's a cheat nko... Just pray for her to have a change of heart as well as her hubby, so they can enjoy their beautiful union together.
DeleteAnon 17:46
DeleteYou are a hypocrite and a two faced one at that. They both cheat but it is only the woman who is a disgrace and who God will expose??? Yeye dey smell"!
Meanwhile, before you come for me, i am not the anonymous, neither am i cheat nor is my husband a cheat. Just stating facts!
Been so long i commented on Stella's blog! Feels damn good. Stella, I am a loyal anonymous!
I will never snoop as that will only build up imaginations even when you find no incriminating stuff while snooping,your mind starts to trick you that they are being smart
ReplyDeleteI allow you all the freeedom and privacy in the world how you react and act will tell me how much you value the relationship and I will act accordingly 🤧
I have nothing to hide. He can snoop. We women don't even need to snoop. Our instincts are good enough. Just don't overeact without thinking it over first. I still take my hubby's phone and look through once in a while. Not to snoop, just to see the latest. But if I find anything, then, I'm glad I 'snooped'.
ReplyDeleteWe know that Snooping saves lives. I learnt that from people's stories on this blog.
the 'instinct good enough' got me laughing. Its true though. women instincts are imbued with staunched sensory raders that can never be deluded
DeleteLOL
DeleteI swear! I just know when my husband is up to something.
Female instincts are top notch!
I trust my husband and even if I don't there is no reason for me to infringe on his privacy...
ReplyDeleteThis topic just reminded me of a friend who had skills in decoding her husband's password and her hubby was good at changing passwords, the guy man kept changing passwords until one day he couldn't remember his password...lol..he had to flash his fone...
ReplyDeleteLol
Delete🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteMy ex[Father of my babies] tried this some weeks ago,I guess he didn't like what he saw
ReplyDeleteThe fool still went as far as question my youngest daughter[7yrs old],"which man\men comes to see mummy in the house"
my innocent daughter will just spill out all she knows ans still come back to tell me the interview her daddy conducted on her.I told him frankly to be ready for the answers he'll get when he ask such questions and he should stop questioning the little girl if he's looking for proofs or fact against me.And to be free to come to me if he needs any information.
This is a man that has refused to take up THE responsibilities of his daughters.
Its been 7 years now since i left him.Had to run away with my baby of 4months when I realized that he never had the intention of settling down\having a family with me after all the physical and emotional abusive.Stupid me was so comfortable with his empty promises of "I WILL MARRY YOU.OUR PLANS ARE UNDERWAY"I had already birthed 4 pretty daughters,lost one of my pretty girl at the age of 10 months 9 yrs ago.
Now I keep wondering what this man is trying to do .
I keep a smiling face bcos of my children and from the things I learn everyday abt forgiveness.
What i would've done to him would be worse than death itself.
Thank God for the skill I acquired during my teens{hairdressing which I groomed as a hobby},Little did I know that it would be my means of livelihood many years to come.
#myexperience# mystory#
You are a strong woman. Weldon!!
DeleteTell your daughters not to answer his questions concerning who visits or not.
DeleteBe careful of him too. Goodluck
You are really a fool , a man promised you marriage and you open yansh born 4 kids,I'm sure your yoruba .Na Dem
DeleteSo sorry for your lost. It's well. It will surely end in praise
DeleteHoe,how,how is your name . Yourba hoe.
DeleteCharity bino, that's a wrong advise. Please tell your daughter nothing, allow children be the innocents that they are... The issue here should only be between U and the man biko.
Delete15:38 Shame on you.
DeleteAnon 15:38 and 15:47 you are a disgrace to your race, future and the world at large, how perfect are you, it's your type that has no beginning, now and future, who raised you and made you judge? You think you are better off anyone? Eranko
Delete@ Hurpe: see, let's be realistic and very honest here. This woman in question brought her problems upon herself. A man promised to marry you, so what? She didn't wait for him to marry her first, she don open leg. Worst part of it is she has 4 kids with the same man. Isn't she daft??? Let's learn to say the truth no matter what and if that's what you call being judgemental, then so be it.
Delete@Anon 17:53 nobody is saying the other anon can't say the truth, why call her a hoe? Why insult her? Is she helping her pay her kid's fees or feeding them, she made mistakes and it's not everyone that is smart, some are slow, while some are very smart. All in all nobody holy pass abeg
DeleteMaking a mistake is once or twice not 3 or 4.ok
DeleteI dont encourage snooping, though if ur phone is on silent mode/switched off when we re together or U refuse to answer calls in my presence, i'm done sleeping with U raw, protection all the way until U prove beyond reasonable doubts that my fears re not real... I respect people's privacy & also hate to keep grudges of any kind. I'm a woman who values her peace of mind, my man said i'm addicted to the truth which he admires alot.. This truth entails Living, behaving, acting and speaking right... If it seems or appears funny, then its indeed funny..
ReplyDeleteThere was this day i was dressing up to work, i was in a hurry and by the side stool were his wristwatch and phone, didnt notice in time before i asked...''darl what's the time...oh here's your phone, lemme check'', he quickly stood up and said ''U can check the watch''.. That reaction alone was very strange. The next time he touched me, i offered him a condom, U can imagine the shock on his face.. We continued that way until he submitted himself to series of tests to gimme peace of mind as he prefers it raw.lol... Cant forget this incident, cracks me up each time i remember...
Stop fornicating. Stop fornicating. Catherine I know you are the one. Stop fornicating. Be there forming addicted to truth.
DeleteWell done anonymous, that's the truth.
DeleteHahahahahaha
DeleteA woman has the natural spiritual gift of intuition, when she snoops she already knows in her gut that something is wrong, by that time time she is simply looking for physical evidence. Sometimes they are not snooping because of the relationship, they may be snooping to locate hidden assets. Not every snooping is about cheating. All snooping is legitimate if you know your partner is a liar and untrustworthy. The only way to get the truth from a known liar is to go searching for it, never let anyone guilt you into not snooping as a woman, men are natural liars.
ReplyDeleteIts vice versa Anon,
Deletesome unappreciative shameless women are not left of this.
Snooping is rude.Who will cheat will cheat,are you aware that some people have other phones for cheating?What is wrong is wrong,most people that snoop don't even like it when it's done to them!I really hate it for both sexes.
ReplyDeleteShatap"! Snooping doesn't stop cheating (actually it does sometimes, because when confront them, they might turn a leaf) but it's good to know what you are getting into as unmarried people or what you are already into as married people and chose your options.
DeleteSnooping is rude but cheating is not! You head needs examining.
DeleteBoth of us know each other's passwords.We have always had this trust. Its the foundation of our relationship. But we don't snoop.(or at least i did'nt.I have never been one to snoop. Recently tho i did. I had heard so many stories recently, i guess i just wanted to see...saying it now cracks me up and sort of makes me feel guilty. There was nothing tho.. I won't be doing it anytime soon.
ReplyDeleteMY HUSBAND GOT AN INFORMATION THAT MY BEST FRIEND SLEEPS AROUND, THIS MY FRIEND IS MARRIED OO WITH THREE KIDS. MY HUSBAND STARTED SUSPECTING BY SNOOPING ON MY PHONE PER SECOND PER SECOND ALSO GIVING ME PARABLE THAT SAYS SHOW ME YOUR AND I WILL TELL YOU WHOM YOU ARE. SOME TIME I WILL SEE HIM AND PRETEND AS IF I DID NOT SEE HIM. HE WHO CARRIES NOTHING BRAKES NOTHING
ReplyDeleteIs that why youre shouting?
Delete🤣😂😂😂😂
DeleteKikikikiki
DeleteU snoop, u cry..😁😁
ReplyDeleteSerious tears lol
DeleteMy hubby snoops on my phone and we always quarrel. I have alot of guy friends from school and work . Plus we are living apart for most of the time. I once snooped on his phone and got the shock of my life while we were dating. He borrowed money from me and around the time he did, he was chatting with a girl who asked him to buy her a phone. He swore nothing happened between them. I almost moved on with a Yoruba demon. 5 months later we eloped and got married in a registry.
ReplyDeletehe snoops, I snoop. I don't really care anymore if he does. Somehow him snooping is proof that he sees I'm still desirable by other men. I hope my desirability lasts for years
You eloped with a man. Okay o. We will be here waiting for your chronicle in the nearest future.
DeleteMy husband can snoop for Africa especially at night when I might be gone to bed but I dare not touch his phone.
ReplyDeletetufiakwa to than kind of marriage.
DeleteThat is manage and not.marriage
DeleteEnter your comment...who gave women authacity to snoop?men can never be Compare to women.
ReplyDeleteI can check my woman's fone but she dare not.
we are in men's World.
You are mad
DeleteYou need to get back to class .
Deletelol.....@ 16:33
Deletee be like say make you give am resounding slap abi?
I FEEL THAT WAY TOO
LOL........
There's someone dating you with this your bad English? Tufiakwa.
DeleteAre you a man too?😂😂😂
We are all humans,u cant say it's a men's world. You v not right 2 check ur woman's fone,privacy is essential at anon 15:50
DeleteOga Eze Onye Agwalam, it is ‘AUDACITY’.
DeleteWith this your English, we can only imagine the side of your brain is in use. No wonder you misinterpret everything. 😏😒
That is in*
DeleteU can snoop if u want to but if he is cheating on u, wat will u do? Do u have a plan B?
ReplyDeleteIt's better you know before hand than to be taken unawares. Some ladies will leave as cheating is a deal breaker, some will stay put but use protection during intimate contact to avoid transfer of diseases, and some mumu ones will stay, like they always say, I'm staying because of my kids, and still fuck their partner naked. They don't worry about diseases at all.
DeleteAt anon 27.50 Lol you just described pinklady @the last paragraph. She is the third woman 😁.
DeleteThat one can even help her man wash and pick his underwear and tell him the right time to use each of them when he is on his way to cheat😅as long as he "takes care of her and the kids" that's her only concern. Hmmm,
I don't think she has a job nor can she take care of herself😩.
pink lady come and carry your shade As the third lady you are
Advocate of cheating men 😂😂.
Hubby and I were virgins till marriage after dating for a year, we did the do😊.
So we have developed the trust though we have passwords on our phone, we know each other's passwords. Email, phone and baccount passwords.
You can't even telly he difference between our phones except we tell you because we use each other's phone how we like.
Pink lady confirmed on another post that she was a side chick before marriage so she knows what she's sowed in the past and must now reap in the present
DeleteMy boss says he snoops and actually bugs the wife's handbags. The woman will dress up to leave and he will go and fetch another bag claiming it suits the outfit better. All through the day he listens in on her conversations with colleagues. This same my boss is a womanizer oh! He's even doing one in the office. Any man that snoops is a big cheat.
ReplyDeleteI have Snoop and Snoop and given up.he does not snoop.we have no pass words.
ReplyDeleteI won't snoop, no time but i make myself available to be snooped on. I dont password my phones.
ReplyDelete👍
Deleteeven if I change my pattern 101 times my son will show his father the new one. I don't have anything on my phone though, not involved in any secret stuff, my husband goes through my phone as he likes but his chest beats each time take his own. He will come close n quickly says he wants to make a call, piam, he collects back his phone. I forgot my phone one time with him while leaving for work, just told him to answer any call that comes in and read messages in case of emergency. If it is the other way round, he must come for his phone.
ReplyDeleteI don't snoop cos I don't keep one man so what's the essence of snopping besides I use condoms 24\7
ReplyDeleteHaha. Hmmmm
DeleteWait until you get married Amacastel
Delete😎😎😎
DeleteMY HUSBAND GOT AN INFORMATION THAT MY BEST FRIEND SLEEPS AROUND, THIS MY FRIEND IS MARRIED OO WITH THREE KIDS. MY HUSBAND STARTED SUSPECTING BY SNOOPING ON MY PHONE PER SECOND PER SECOND ALSO GIVING ME PARABLE THAT SAYS SHOW ME YOUR AND I WILL TELL YOU WHOM YOU ARE. SOME TIME I WILL SEE HIM AND PRETEND AS IF I DID NOT SEE HIM. HE WHO CARRIES NOTHING BRAKES NOTHING
ReplyDeleteYou snoop when your intuition tells you to depending on what is going on around you
ReplyDeleteSnooping means you have trust issues with your spouse
I have my husband's phone password, online banking password, atm card password. No big deal. why are you married if you can't share your passwords? You can fuck and see each others private parts but you can't see mere passwords.
ReplyDeleteThank you ooo. Help me tell them.
Delete👍👍
DeleteAsk me o
DeleteThe first time I tried snooping on my husband, I held the phone but I couldn’t bring my self to open it. My hands were shaking, d phone fell and d screen almost got broken. I used his phone on a normal day but this day, I woke up very early like a thief... na wa
ReplyDeleteI later asked myself, if u didnt trust this man then why did u marry him?
Plus I’ve not made plans on ground then that can make me walk away if I find anything incriminating. What’s the essence of giving ur self heart aches when u know u won’t walk away after getting d evidence u want?
To save yourself from disease
DeleteMy husband knows my fone pattern and I know his.I don't normally search through his fone cos I have always had no reason to doubt his loyalty but recently I got the shock of my life when I went through his Facebook chats and discovered that he keeps in contact with many female friends and sometimes dirty chats with them;I don't know how far he has gone with some.Even went as far as razzling one of his town lady who recently tragically lost her husband ;as in no respect for the dead man who's barely cold in his grave.I was sooo disappointed.This is someone that has my pix as his profile pix oo.Im glad I did it;& Im just observing & keeping it low key for now.
ReplyDeleteScreen shot and KEEP
DeleteMy husband didn't pick his phone till someone stole at Burbank. The guy started using phone and everything stored one there. She he got a new phone I advised him to put a password to it, at least if loses it, the person has to flash the phone before using it. That was how he started using passwords for his phone. I know his password and uses his phone. No big deal. I don't understand why couple hide their password. What if Sth happens, how do you access your partners vital info on the phone or his banks. I have all the passwords to my husband's everything.
ReplyDeleteYou and ur husband are definitely not Nigerians
DeleteEven if i password my phone,my kids will tell their father the password so no need.
ReplyDeleteAnonymous 18:26. Pls give your life to Christ and your Pastor too. Your body is the temple of God!
ReplyDeleteMy hubby protects his phone like his life depends on it.He doesnt like me touching his phone,most times when we are together he will face it down even when charging. Now me sef don password my phone,no touching,guiding my phone too like my life depends on it.just doing that to pepper him.One day he said he want to use my phone to play game in d bathroom cos hes charging his ,sharply I replied him Naa,u cant use my phone abeg,wait till ur phone charged then go use for bathroom..d thing pain him,I laugh for my mind...Rubbish
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